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That's worrisome...... However, this same girl has been having sex at age 14, ask her what her issue is she would say that she is too young to marry when in actual fact she has been "married for years"

Forced17:
Good morning Nairalanders

This has been eating me up for days. Me and this girl have been together for 3 years now, she's 17 and I'm 19.

I accept all bashings for being in a relationship at this age, she's the last born though and we perfectly understand each other.

Now her father is forcing her to marry a man in Kaduna, she refused and the father threatened to throw her and her siblings including the mum out into the streets or send them to the village if she doesn't marry the man.

Now she hasn't even for days now and she's contemplating on taking her life and she just told me about this yesterday and this has brought me down so much. I don't know what to do, I need help. This is about her future, I don't want her to be forced to become a mother at 17 and living under a man she doesn't know.

She has only three weeks before the man comes to take her away.
My girlfriend is being sold into marriage and I don't know what to do.

I need help, I'm heartbroken��
I don't know who can help me push this to front page

Those guys were busy sentencing English language to death in the name of fault finding ,.....In Obiagbon's voice...."this is a monumental fiasco"

AgbariOjukwu1:
See you

Just deny that you are not from the Waste ..... Miserable lots

Prompto:
Is that because I told you the truth n nothing but the truth ?! Child you can hate the truth but the truth no de commot here go anywhere because of you O instead you simply perish at the mercy of the truth you failed to accept.

Yoloba Zombie ..... ask him where Anambra is and he would retrace into his miserable shell

Prompto:
Peter Obi the lying squirrel who divide Christians in Anambra n looted the state resources to further his private biz is worthy of nowhere else by eternal dungeon never to return among humans again.

The others are OK.

Miserable Yoloba man

Prompto:
So long it is initiated by your governor who is constitutionally allowed to n not some vagabond like Kanu or lunatics like Abaribe whose state of Abia is a complete failure. There is nothing any soul from that failed state can offer Nigeria.

Peter Obi, Donald Duke , Sullivan Chime, Osibanjo ...Maybe Fashola....

I have realized that most of them are irredeemable..... My experience with some of them in PH shows that the ones that grew up here think differently, they are more sensible......The rest? ...they are always crying over matters that concern south south and south east.

BiafraforTrump:
Yoruba fools carry Nnamdi KANU matter for head pass even their Hausa/Fulsni masters. If you ask them now they will claim its because Nnamdi KANU made hate speech towards the Yorubas, but if you really look into their actions and utterances you'd understand that these people are just using the excuse as a cover for their fear of losing the Igbos, but that FEAR is what they cant own up to.
If you tell them to mind their business they will tell you they don't care about Biafra and don't care if Biafra comes or not, but just mention the name IPOB or Nnamdi KANU their dicks will rise automatically lol..

They don't want Igbos to be in power neither do they want Igbos out of Nigeria, you can see the level of wickedness these people called the Yoruba have inside them, no wonder they are the only tribe who's ancestor fell from the sky like Satan did, their ancestor is a fallen demon...

I am yet to read where they mentioned that Army can't stop Nnamdi Kanu.....what I read was that Army can't stop the burial....
Yoloba media and their hate... ..... causing confusion everywhere......useless set of homo sapiens

nairalandankrah:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2020/02/army-cant-prevent-nnamdi-kanu-members-from-attending-parents-burial-ipob/amp/

CNN wan kill themselves on top the impeachment matter...... I literally stopped watching CNN as I knew what topic would be on the front burner

Yoloba boy .....always whining like a cockroach sprayed with a concentrated insecticide

Simplyleo:
Ipob miscreants will support one and insult the other down to her forefathers.

Ask them why, they insult you down to your forefathers as well.

That's the way forward. In as much as I am fully in support of true federalism / restructuring, it would be pertinent to have option B.

Igbos and their allies must come together.......a dangerous path is better threaded in group

Any write up on Igbo people that spells Igbo as "Ibo" is largely meant for the dust bin. Why? Because obviously, it must have been written a h an incompetent, lazy and lousy fellow who doesn't want to take the pains to spell it correctly....then what else do you think that he/she got correctly??...

kayfra:
Journal of The Anthropological Institute Of Great Britain And Ireland Vol.47 1917

Some Ibo Burial Customs by N. W. Thomas

The Ibo-speaking peoples, with a portion of whom this paper deals, occupy a small area on the west bank of the lower Niger, and a much larger area on the east bank, extending as far as the Cross River from the Ibibio boundary northwards, and, at their most easterly point, beyond the northernmost point of the bight of the Cross River.

The Ibo speak a great variety of dialects, and the Eastern branches are almost unintelligible to the Western groups.

Even such close neighbours as Asaba and Onitsha, only three miles apart on the banks of the Niger, differed, until recently, somewhat widely in language.

The main Ibo area is, especially on the south and east, more or less surrounded by a fringe of aberrant dialects, which seem to have resulted from an incomplete assimilation of an alien population by Ibo-speaking conquerors, or, at any rate, a very imperfect acquisition of what might be called standard Ibo ; or we may, on the other hand, regard these dialects (e.g., Okugba, Biko, Ezza as allied to the older wave of immigration that resulted in Efik, Ibibio, Kana and Ebiobolo.

Generally speaking the main Ibo dialects east of the Niger seem to run strip-wise from north to south, and this, no less than the aberrant character of the southern or south-eastern dialects, suggests that the Ibo migration came from the north.

In this connection it is noteworthy that Abua and Akunakuna, two closely related dialects, have clearly been cleft asunder by the Ibo stream and now lie, one north-west of Degema, the other east of the Cross River.

It is worthy of notice that the word Ibo (Ibo) means slave ; this suggests that there was no migration in mass, driving alien populations before it ; but that a conquering people imposed its language on subject populations.

This would afford a sufficient explanation of the character of the language of outlying areas, as well as of the great number of dialects which form a strong contrast to the homogeneity of the Yoruba area.

It is not without interest that the town of Nri, or Aguku, which claims the right of inducting Chiefs and doing other ceremonial work as far as Asaba, at least, on the west, and, probably, over an equally wide area in other directions, also speaks of the people of the surrounding area as Ibo, and themselves claim the name of Nri.

This fits in well with the supposition that they are an island of the original Ibo-speaking conquering race, which is now swallowed up in the mass of the population everywhere else.

As regards the areas with which this paper deals, the districts of Awka and Asaba, the former includes the town of Aguku, just mentioned ; generally speaking, there are few traditions of origin among them.

In Asaba, on the other hand, each town has its tradition of a founder or a record of migration, so that the diversity of custom is easier to understand.

Generally speaking, Asaba, Ibuzo and Okpanam form a closely associated group, as far as general customs go.

Some data for the other towns and for the Awka district will be found elsewhere, together with maps showing the localities, which are enumerated below, for each district.

Asaba was founded by Nevise, according to tradition, who came from Nteje on the east of the Niger perhaps some four hundred years ago.


http://jstor.org/stable/2843415

Afonja >:.....it's in you people's DNA(

Adefemi404:
You are a coward. Why didn't you stand and fight? You only make noise online. Any day you step your feet in Nigeria will be your end. Coward Biafra

Even a fool can easily spot a comment from the WASTE

solmus:



Emeka !!! why she sef trust an "Emeka" shameless Emeka promised 100k but gave out 30k, evil Emeka promised not to release the video within Jos metropolice yet he did just the exact oposite.. and you would never see an "Emeka" take responsibility for their stupid greed they would rather blame Buhari or an imaginary Afonja

This is why Nigerians can never trust an "Emeka" to govern us or smell Aso Rock, "Emekas" are better marginalised cos of their greed





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That's a good one by this administration. It seems it's only ministry of transport that gets allocation.

Then you didn't need to quote me ....except if you have the proclivity of commingling with the aforementioned set of people

Techdra:
You should know that not everyone on this forum is Yoruba or Igbo...

The way Yorubas gloat over Igbo matter is just so disgusting. And who are you to say that it's impossible to have an Igbo president??

And who from the East needs your sorry trust anyways.....go shove your trust up your ass

Godons1:
Na you Sabi.
I still don't trust anyone from the East, even Pastors from the East.

Poor soul

Godons1:
Since the Allen Onyeama saga started, I don't trust any Igbo rich man. I now believe that, over 90% of them made their wealth through Crimes.

Go to hell. You cares where you are from?

sanusi44z:
Una too mumu.

Any small thing, "Igbo amaka" "igbo girls are the finest" Una too dey divisive and tribalistic in everything.

Na only una dey this forum?

People that support this government are classified into four.
1.People that are currently benefiting from the status quo.
2. People who hope to benefit when this administration concludes its tenure
3. People who HATE Igbo's
4. Illiterates who lack any knowledge of economics
5. Lastly, people who just wish to punish some Nigerians for being so myopic and gullible to have allowed the most incompetent set of Nigerians to be at the helm of affairs.

What an irredeemable geographical area called Nigeria....

You people should stop this nonsense ....21st century and people still reason with their anus. How was he supposed to sit to please ass lickers.

Oshigun:
Funny our brothers from the SE and SS won't note what is relevant from this the next time they jump down Tinubu's throat. Can we imagine any of those Tinubu helped to power sit like this before two former Presidents? Fashola, Aregbe, Ajimobi, Amosun, Sanwo Olu or even Ambode? Jonathan empowered an area boy and lout just to retain control. He should deal with the consequences of his flawed kingmaking and learn from Jagaban.

Retain control all you want but at least work with refined tools and omoluabis not omo ita and agberos who will turn round to disgrace you because such characters respect no one's authority, age, wisdom or accomplishment in life. OBJ too got his with Fayose who thoroughly disgraced baba despite OBJ helping him to power first time round.

In terms of data gathering, this country has non....not even our population figure is known let alone peoples HIV status. I agree with you 101%

priceaction:
Nonsense. there is no data to support this. many dont know their status and many dont patronize hospitals especially government own for treatments. We re not in techy country where everything is documented.

Now, you seem not to be in touch with reality anymore.

Back to the matter, obviously most people who commented above were so emotional and filled with mere hatred for the governor. There was the need to decentralize the city. Here in Rivers State, remove the Port Harcourt city and we have almost no city left. All development are sequestered here in the city, this is not right, there should be opportunities for nearby cities to develop as well. Building secretariats, in as much as it won't bring much revenue to the government, would at least make people think of building houses for rent around the area, among other things. The people that hate this governor are poverty stricken fellows who decide to spite whatever effort the man makes.

I TASK YOU TO TAKE NOTE OF THE PEOPLE THAT SPEWED ALL HATEFUL COMMENTS AGAINST THE GOVERNOR, THEY ARE CONSISTENTLY DOING IT. INFACT SOME OF THEM HIDE BEHIND SEVERAL MONIKERS SPEWING THE SAME SHIT THEY ARE MADE OF. Finally, let me state that people who are alwsy hatefilled against another can never be objective and they never achieve anything in life. Check their background, their entire lineage would always have minimal or nothing to offer.

fowlyansh181:
i was in Nsukka before leaving the country, you mean the ogige main market hold up that’s already back? Or the nonsense from barracks to total , or the other nonsense at odenigbo? Visit enugu town too and weep, this foolish man is the worst in Enugu history and I wish Sullivan got a third term..

This guy should not commit suicide oo

Awol1:
This man has left the things he should do to build Secretariat in Nsukka.

For what exactly?

Tell this fool to work on the road from New Market flyover to Abakpa junction.

Tell him to stop doing patch patch on roads and reconstruct the roads.

Tell him to call his fellow fools from Nsukka that he parked into VIO to order to stop harassing people.

Your surname is "Shame". Useless people. Always looking for who to rubbish their image. People like that never go far in life

ZombieTERROR:
Blah blah blah
Onu otule
If chime was a great Governor
What prevents this Enugu acclaimed dunce from surpassing his achievements..

Stop defending rogues and incompetency...
It brings shame on your doorstep

Shut your useless mouth. The governor has tried and he is still trying. Chime was a great governor but you can't keep looking back all your life. People, who as individuals never amounted to anything are always the first to tarnish other people's image.

ZombieTERROR:
Propagandists everywhere

They have really collected their share from the buffoon of Enugu..

This governor is doing nothing in the state...
You can't compare him with his predecessor chime..

This guy is a big disgrace to Enugu people

Thank.you. Same thing I told him but he was shown some documents of people who have been booked for biometrics. So he was convinced that they company was legit..Since the debit is going to be on me, I needed to be sure because 2m isn't easy to come by in the Nigeria of today.

chukzyfcbb:
Better run away....before your bro gets there and gets stranded!

Thank you bro

Joan011:
Never pay anyone money to get you a job.... Common use your head... These are scammers. What kind of job do they want to get him? The Prime Minister of Australia position?

Please don't pay anyone money for a job.

Same empty skull I responded to re- quoting me

Kennyswagz1:
typical empty bragging and chestbeating

Some fellows don't even have chest to beat....they are low lives, they have nothing to brag about not even "empty", " half-filled" or "full" bragging... They are full of hate that will eventually consume them

Kennyswagz1:
typical empty bragging and chestbeating