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Psalme91:
thank you very much for the words of encouragement, I also have 4 daughters and pregnant with the fifth. this baby supposed to be our last ,cause of financial problems, that's why my husband is not happy

So deep... it all falls to you bro, marriage is very very deep! You guys lack of understanding, once u understand your partner bro 80% problem solve

Prosper82:
I Feel Like My Marriage Is Falling Apart

I would like in advance to apologize for the long post but I think some background information is needed so you can assess the situation.

My wife and I have two kids. The oldest is turning 8 soon and the youngest is 7 months old.

Since our first child was born she has been co-sleeping with us. And ever since our sex life has been going down hill.

Now since our youngest child was born he has also been sleeping with us in a queen sized bed. But after two months of very poor sleep, I decided I couldn't follow that arrangement anymore so I went to sleep in the next room.

So since our kids were born my wife has been sleeping with them and now I sleep alone.

As you could imagine, you can't really have sex with two kids on the bed. We have gone weeks and even months without having any sex.
So my wife says that we should have sex in the room where I sleep after she puts the children to sleep.

This to me sounds like making an appointment to have sex. It isn't something you can have if you have to set up a time in advanced. I also miss cuddling with her and sleeping in our bed.


I feel like us sleeping in different rooms and beds has been the biggest hurdle to get back to the point we were before having kids.

We have a crib for the baby and a bed for our oldest daughter where each of the children could sleep separately but she's into attachment parenting so if the children cry (which I suppose they will when adapting to a new sleeping arrangement) is something that she wouldn't tolerate.

I also I understand the 7 month old might need to be breastfed in the middle of the night so she says it's more convenient just to have him nearby in bed than having to get up to breastfeed him but I feel that my daughter should be learning to sleep independently.

Anyway, it's been quite a while without sex and I don't know what to tell her or do.
We have a lot of fights because of this.

I feel that attachment parenting might feel like you're doing the best for the kids, but if it also ends up destroying the marriage and we separate what good would that do for them?

What do you guys think?

Inside life

Better let go... is d future dat mattas not the present. Shoulda woulda coulda are the last words of a fool .

In short, spanking a child may seem helpful in the short term, but is ineffective and probably harmful in the long term. The child who is often spanked learns that physical force is an acceptable method of problem solving.

There are different kind of Children. Study your child and know the mode of discipline that he/she adheres to most. Some children does not like to be beaten, but the moment you talk sense into their brain,they llisten and change their ways, some listen more to instruction through punishment, while some r through beating. All these are various forms of discipline

AwkaetitiBabe:
Lonely life. You know that's not true.

guy how old are you? Wake up from the slumber

I tie the knot at the age of 29years that was 2013 no time to check time

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A landlord on the mainland 'marryland' is far better than a tenant on the island' lekki ' argue with your phone

Life in imprisonment

There is always a blessing in marriage...

Micholawoye:
Good morning Nairaland family. I have noticed that some pastors will tell unemployed single men to marry and that when they get married and start having kids, that things will begin to get easier for them in life.

Sometimes they say things Luke when you get married, the star of the woman and yours work together to make things easier and give you better things in life.

I used to laugh at this until about a month ago and a pastor I know told me the same thing.
Please how true is this? I need advice from people with such experiences. Pardon my English please.

Thank you and God bless.

Abeg taste weyti you they buy.... if not you might end up divorcing her. Inside life

Riversides2003:
I seriously doubt this story, 279 house seekers?

Very true I'm a living witness..

debetmx:
Just write a formal letter to CBN and copy GTB.

I bet you, na dem go dey beg u.

I done write taya they are yet to resolve it cbn not sayi g anythi g have been copying them on my mail when sending it to gtb

JayEntaur:
Sorry to hear that.

Can you get the guy to write a letter, or do an email, to your bank's hqtrs, stating that it was all a big misunderstanding which you have both amicably resolved, & so they should unfreeze your account?

he has done that no positive response from them. have been writing g to gtb and cbn. what I was told that they will get back to me up til now i can't transact for pass 3months now nigeria Gtb has failed me nigeria is bleeped

thank you so much, I have done that and the bank are still insisting that they have nail my account and nothing can be done. I'm seriously confused. nigeria is dead

JayEntaur:
I wonder what allegation he must have made against you, for the bank to place a PND on your account, without recourse to you.

What did your Lawyer advice you on the bank having the right (or not) to restrict your account without pre-informing you?

You might just have to let this one go, by giving him a full refund. See it as losing the battle (N30,000) but not the war (your sanity and peace of mind).

what is this one saying?

lastdon5:
Sorry Op, for your predicament... that's if you're really innocent. As we've all known in Nairaland that there's always 3 perspective to a story: Yours, His and the very truth.

But on the flip side, this is a very good development. A good tool against all these scammers and frauds. They really need to be shown a big lesson.
They have derided us of trust and affection, thereby making us lose our integrity both in Nigeria and beyond.

pls, someone in the know should help us with template of how to report and block frauds bank account and keep then in checks.

This is a REVOLUTION... an economic revolution, for ourselves and our children.

Kingosytex:
Yeye de smell. She think say na America be dis?


If you spare the rod, you spoil the child.

God tells us that if we neglect to discipline our child, we actually hate them. Why? Discipline is the only hope to correct bad behavior. It prevents the child from turning into a total rebel. God hates rebellion and compares it to witchcraft in First Samuel 15:23. Therefore, we show more love when we take the time to discipline a child, even if they become upset with us:

My name is Ubuane Peter, I am a web Developer.

I had a client in the name Adeniyi Olayemi. He has been my client for over 6 years,he contact me for jobs had even travel for a meeting/presentation to meetp some of his clients.
Earlier this year, he sent me a job profile and was agreed @ N130,000. An advanced payment of N30,000 was credited to my GTB account and the bal payment to be made at completion of Job. On receiving the credit, i commenced work. After 3 days of commencement, he called to cancel the contract sending another project for me to review and also requested for full refund of the initial payment which i told him was not possible but part will be paid due to relationship as i have already gone far with the project.

In April I made payment of N15,000 to him and also did some other transactions. I informed him that refund has been done. The beneficiaries of all transactions done confirmed receipt but he said he hasn't. Thinking it was network,i asked him to give it some time as it will still drop. After then,he never got back to me on it.

On 22 May I attempted to use the ATM machine for withdrawal but found that i couldn't but instead a display that my accounts have been restricted to visit the nearest bank.
I went to a branch of GTB closest to me but was told they can not work on it nor give reason for the blockage but to visit the Anthony branch where account was opened as restriction was place from there.I went to Anthony branch, customer service said i should reach my account officer as they cannot resolve it. Account officer was called and the branch manager and they said i should go and resolve with one Mr Niyi. Niyi was called and his comment was that the account will be reopened when i make the payment to him. I demanded for the approval for which this was done but bank told me they cannot disclose as it is not a business of mine.
My lawyer wrote to the bank for explanation on why the blockage an also i logged a complaint to GT CONNECT but got no response to my mail from then till date and account was not opened. The bank never contacted me before taking action on my account.
I decided to resolve it, payoff and as i didn't want to make any case cos of the amount involved.
I went to my stanbic bank to reactivate my account but was told my BVN has error but to go to bank where BVN was captured.

I am a law abiding citizen, never been engaged in any unlawful or fraudulent transactions. I have worked for many companies and individuals, never had any issue of fraud with any of my  clients.

Please i beg you to help take this up as my bank could not resolve it and unflag my account. I have done transactions worth millions no fraud will it now be on N30,000?
This guy used his connection with the bank and the bank allowed it.I dont even know the kind of complaint that was logged against me.
Right now i cannot do business with any of my accounts.
Infact all the conversation with the Niyi will be forward for confirmation of my complain and also mail sent to GTB in respect to this.
The bank I will say victimized me and damaged my reputation. I am a Nigeria working hard to fend for myself and family legally.
I need justice on this as no investigation was carried out before this illegal act.

Don’t be in despair, there is still hope.

With a little luck, you might be able to remove the block and get access to your conversations with friends again.

Before you proceed, it is necessary to understand what type of lock has been applied to your account. Maybe you didn’t know, but there are two different types of locks:

Temporary. A warning from WhatsApp, in most cases they themselves unlock the account after a few days.
Permanent. You have violated their ” rules “, the procedure of unlocking is more strenuous.
So, first of all, let’s proceed accordingly and find out why your account has been locked, for how long and how to prevent the problem from recurring in the future.

Once that’s done, we can actually proceed to see how to unlock WhatsApp.

successquotes:
Just Woke Up 2 Days Ago And I Saw That WhatsApp Have Ban My Number, I Dont Know What Happened, And I Sent A Email Message To Them They Said They Wont Open It, Please Is There Anyway I Can Unban It/Open It With The Same Number.

Also I Noticed When I Open/Register WhatsApp With New Number In Few Hours They Will Also Ban It, Please Can Anybody Help Me On How To Solve This Issue, Thanks.

you violate their Terms of Service

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