₦airaland Forum

@Poster

I don't understand why people cannot come out honestly to answer a simple question. And these people are precisely Nigerians.

Let's start with one's Date of Birth. I suppose everybody has one. So what's the big deal then in saying this if asked. You ask someone for his DOB, he says N/A. You ask someone for his age, he/she comes up with this ambiguous answer: "am over 20, 30, or 40" or it's "am nearer 40 to 30". Is that your age?.

Being evasive would suggest being cold. I doubt it that Nigerians can be seen as such. We are actually very warm and receptive. If on the other hand you mean we are inhibited (some people will say pretend or hypocritical) compared to other Africans you will get a big, big nod from me. East,Central and Southern Africans are by far in my mind much less inhibited.

The example you chose to illustrate with may have been skewed from the point. Age is a very personal thing. I am sure the reason you left it out of your profile has nothing to do with your being Nigerian.

E go contain well well. Infact I will be looking out for you. monkey.

Cadet:
Since I don't have a fiancee, I'll let your little comment pass. .

No no. Fiancees are not for only beautiful girls. Even you can have one. We will look for one for you. But you have to stop complaining about this kissing thing.

You seem to me to be exactly the kind of girl who will see her fiancee banging away and pretend not to see anything only to raise so much public dust over a peck on the cheek. That is the beginning of a life of marital frustration

Which kind cadet be this now? See me see trouble.

I think I just walked into a mine field. Can someone tell me what is going on before I swing my battle axe

How can it be called cheating when there is no consummation. Some people even stretch their imagination to include thoughts. Shooo.I beg O.

She thought it was going to be a smooth sail on account of name recognition. Otherwise how can someone with a personality so bland, so dull, so tasteless aspire to be president of USA. She should concede now and stop being an embarrassment.

The problem with NEPA and the country's unfortunate energy crisis (apart from the current failed or non-existent energy policy) is a problem of lack of law and order in order words it is a Nigerian problem.

Higher electricity tariff whether it is subsidized or not is hardly what is needed. All it means is more money to share-money that could be used by state to render other badly needed services. The question is how many people pay light bills in Nigeria? First of all you have to start by discounting a particular state in the Niger Delta (to whose residents payment for electricity consumed is a strange modern if not alien concept), most serving and retired Nepa staff and their families, the armed forces including the Police (yes), I mean you can go on and on and on. In the end law abiding citizens like pennywise are left to shoulder the burden. If they can get 90% to pay bills they will realize more than what subsidy brings.

Solution to the country's energy problem is no where in sight if law enforcement -that key issue that excites investors remains absent. Nigeria is sooooo under-policed. The federal Government can start by allowing the re-introduction of state police since they don't have the means to pay and equip a truly meaningful policing of the country. No state is breaking away now.Then , the judiciary and all that yada yada , Hopefully/eventually the law makers will know why they are in Abuja.

This Tuface, e be like say e prick sharp well well.

A beg all this na grammar. If babe no gree your own move on to the next one. You know what they say about rolling stone. An apt philosophy for every punter.

Moi. Mr Pennywise Pound foolish.

Which of the 100% do you agree with? This is not a popularity contest between pennywise and almondjoy which she doesnt stand a chance to win anyway considering that all the younger girls are on my side.

almondjoy:
Well, 10 years is too much of a gap. Only psychologically challenged men who look for subservient young girls to subdue and engage in such relationships with. So they can always have the final say ALWAYS! That used to happen in the old days. With some education available in recent years. . .only timid men would marry girls 10 years younger than they are. . . especially dirty old goats, with impotence problems!

5 years max! It takes a real man to handle a real woman. If a man dates or marries a girl or lady 10 years younger than he is. . . that must be some form of a mental illness. This is not 1920!

What in the world would they discuss. . . if not yessir! Even when they are in the bedroom. . . the little girl will feel like her father is making love to her.

May God forbid evil!

AlmondJoy, sometimes it helps to read through opinions on a thread (no matter how boring) before you fire your usual salvo. It really does.

Clearly your comment above wasnt at all thought through. To be sure I have not been engaged by randy old men to initiate a defence on their behalf and it will take many many more years before anybody can call me old whether randy or not. But even you will agree that age doesnt always correlate well with maturity.You can have a 20yr old that can task you mentally in ways that a 35yr old with a chain of degrees cannot.The older one can have more experience (which you can do without) but not necessarily more intelligence.

There are countless examples of very successful unions of this type and you don't need to look far as they are all around you.Money, presents, gifts are not at issue. In some cases the girls are even better off financially like Celine Dion.

Secondly, dirty old goats with potency problem will usually keep their embarrassing problems to themselves as they have nothing to prove.But it will be a serious error of judgement on your part to assume all dirty old goats are impotent and so should be challenged.

OpeLovely:
@ pennywise,

! Anyway, keep looking for those blessed with the almighty ''tightness''

I don't need to worry about them. I already have you. Or don't I?

don jazzie:
Please what's the procedure to change your stockbroker.

I think this information would be useful.

I have had my own share of broker frustration. Sometimes all you want is to bring the roof down on the firm but I have not had to swap brokers in the past. It would seem the most logical thing will be to pick a broker you are comfortable with and then give instruction.They usually know about these things well.

I am looking forward to when it will be possible to issue orders directly after lodging funds with your broker the way it is done in advanced economies.

uspry1:
That is why most men walk away look for matured experienced woman who understand male perspective without criticizing or judging them. NO DRAMA, NO MATERISTIC, NO GOLD DIGGERS!

I agree with you here Uspry. But matured and experienced woman often times have too many issues.

LadyT:
My point is just that some people talk the big talk but when it comes down to it its wham bam thank you mam, over in 10 secs flat!

Yeah but not be una want 20 rounds in 1 hr?

LadyT:
I think sex is enjoyed better if it isnt the number one priority in a relationship!

Ehen. How beautifully said. But try and explain to the thing between your BF legs

Needlelady:
Why? what is commitment? Can't you stay off sex for even 5 years if yur girl/wife is separated from you by either distance or iron gates?

Iron gate? I laugh. Do you think Ibori's conjugal right was taken away from him just because he went to prison? This not be UK or US. We know how we do our things here.

LadyT:
I swear we are all sex mad I bet most arent even very good at it,

Excuse me but if this is not a sex challenge, I dont know what is.

Needlelady:
Guys: Can you hold on without sleeping with her for up to two years if you really love the girl assuming the girl does not want to give it up?

It is not unreasonable to ask a guy to wait for two years but it is unreasonable to ask a guy not to have sex for two years.

nuzo:
revealed that the late commissioner died as a result of severe respiratory tract infection with acute cardio-respiratory failure.

The pathologists should then go ahead and tell the world exactly who goes punting with a severe respiratory tract infection (that is not known to family). Another bungled autospy. Only a good police work can uncover the truth behind this.

Another check-up now now? It appears the possibility of an Ijaw man being president of Nigeria in the very very near future is no longer an unrealistic projection. This man J. Goodluck seem to be just a heart beat away from being president. Well may be that will speed things up a bit in this country where nothing ever seem to change. Oya let every body join me in prayer for Goodluck.