How some men get their libidos from even when they're damn broke baffles me. 500k as my account balance makes me loose the urge for sex let alone having nothing at all. Nothing will concern me with sex until I refill to my desired level.
Nigerialabalaba: Mrs Sola Salako, member of the Federal Competition and Consumer Protection Tribunal (FCCPT), berates Peter Obi over the horrible quality of the personal letterhead Peter Obi uses. She said that by Peter's resignation from PDP and its presidential primaries, "Nigerians just dodged a bullet". Many of her follows agreed that the poor quality may just represent the true character of Obi.
Forget wetin they write on motor, just enter. This is just a mere letterhead naa, he probably doesnt use it often.There are better and more serious things to think about not LETTERHEAD. For example the quality of his thinking, how he addresses the public, his speeches are full of civility and humility, hardly criticize his opponents, these are more weightier than mere letterhead abeg.
9jaHustler: Hey guys, it's our first time ever outta Naija. Currently at Heathrow Airport waiting for connecting flight to Manchester which is our final destination.
Update: It was almost 9:30pm when we left Manchester Airport but it was like 5pm in Nigeria. Everywhere was still day. I though my wrist watch was incorrect until I check the dash board clock of the taxi
InsideLife2022: I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.
She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.
They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.
I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.
Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.
Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.
My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.
Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?
Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.
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The problem is complicated given the fact that she is not saying anything at least to give you an idea of what the issue is. Therefore i will advise you play safe (life first). Involve your family members at this stage and take custody of your baby, then begin the process of seeking medical attention for her which may not be easy...she may react violently but there is no harm in trying. While taking all the mentioned steps, pls try and remain calm under any circumstance, don't rush things, don't conclude blindly, remain calm, time will reveal the real culprit. Don't forget that you are dealing with a complicated gender. God bless
Why are some people so glad that Peter Obi has dumped the PDP? Is it that they are happy to continue being ruled by very old and weak (health-wise) leaders? Aint we tired already? Can't we support someone younger with bright ideas and strong health to rule us for once? Why are some people so attached to failure. Kai this is so annoying , no wonder these old guys are using us anyhow they want because the majority of those suffering it don't care, they are so used to being used, so attached to suffering that their brains dont function well any more. If Obi moves to another party i will surely vote for him, my one vote may not be enough, but my conscience will be clear that i did my best to reset this country and if he doesnt join another party, i will cast my vote for a younger person aspiring for President, am tired of these old and wicked fools loitering everywhere around Nigerian politics, using our money to punish us for decades now. Haba.
1) To do system job, u need a phone with power chipset like the Iphone, cox it doesnt lag when transacting; hence the quest for it 2) Using an iphone makes mediocre feel among 3) Wearing shorts shows you belong to a certain class of individuals in the society, that's their signature dress code 4) Taking above serious is a mental programming of some set of individuals in the society.
If you feel intimidated, avoid them and their traits at all costs so that your days may be long.
Xwizard: I will be straight and sharp, I don’t need any bad every response, I’ve done it already, and I want to handle it maturely. Just need advice from any one who had handled such issues peacefully that all.
Yesterday I was caught for bypassing, I wasn’t at home, so before I got back they’ve cut down my wire, my neighbor won’t let them take away the meter and wire. Immediately they called and told me, first thing I did was recharge online on the meter right away, hoping I would have a chance, but I got home now I saw they’ve opened the meter, and I’m sure our people they would have taken enough pictures of the tampered meter, some of them can even pix mix I’m for evidence.
Well they dropped a letter for me, on the letter my last recharge was written at the back stating about 8months ago, and a phone at the back.
I don’t know what to do first, any I’ve not make any move yet, but I’ve corrected the bypass meter. suggestions how best to handle it.
The number written at the back is for a purpose ... for negotiation. Just call them and hear them out. In my area, its a common thing and you simply pay 10k and they will let you off the hook.
Islie: Drama As Namadi Sambo’s Son Asks Delegates To Return His Money After Losing PDP Ticket
Adam Namadi, son of former Vice-President Namadi Sambo, has reportedly asked delegates to refund the N2 million each he doled out before the election....
Wow, Omo the money involved is huge. Imagine collecting 3.5m + 2.5m + 2m = 8million and then cast your vote for one candidate and disappear into oblivion with the cool 8milla.
VictorUSA: This was the message I sent to my uncle who lives in America and he sent me just N30,000.
"Good morning uncle...I first of all appreciate your previous assistance.But I want to tell you that it's not enough.I'm 19 and jobless, but I really need money.I would appreciate anything that comes from you."
Nothing unusual here. You said you will appreciate anything that comes from him and he did just that, so what's your own, or were you expecting him to send dollars in thousands because he is in the US? You are just 19, what do you need plenty money for? You probably are still under your parent's care. 30k is someone's 2months salary ooo. Just calm down.
Kolenda: I just feel so bad for my elder bro who has been underemployed since he finished his service year.
Our joy knew no bounds when he called and informed everyone in the family that he will be going to Lagos for a job interview.
What actually happened was that a friend of his contacted him about an opening in their company.
The friend works with one QI group of companies.
The QI group of companies is supposed to be an international organizations that pays in dollars.
So my elder brother left Owerri to Lagos on a night bus yesterday. He was well received by his friend and according to him, he did the interview with some representatives of the company.
After the interview, he was asked to pay a whopping sum of 480k for the slot.
My questions now are: how and where will an unemployed get money to pay for a job slot?
If someone can be able to make 480k, why will the person be job hunting?
Is QI group of companies even legit or a scam? Why can't the government really regulate all these thing?
This county na man chop man... Now my brother has left Lagos for Owerri this night.
I can't imagine what he's going through. The financial stress, the emotional stress, the psychological stress and what have you. I pray God showers his blessings on him.
With Government jobs, this is a common trend, but for a company, you are employed on the basis of competence not by parting with monetary gratification. The private jobs are not even secured so what's the point. Please tell your brother to activate caution in his job-hunting before he is used for a pie. He shouldnt be too desperate at same time not give up the hunt. The heavens are awake to our problems. Goodluck.
Islandlady: Seriously! Sex is what most men think about everyday of their life! Men think about sex all day long even the so called redpillars
Most times, I'd have different male friends I wish to remain good friends with but all they will be thinking about is how to have sex with me, too bad
Men pls think about something else apart from sex!!! T for thanks
Same way you girls dont think about anything else but how to COLLECT. Just how to enter a man and collect for hair, data, cream, outing, and you are happy. Una go friend-zone person son while one yeye niggar somewhere go dey nack for free. Out of experience men have learnt to thread cautiously, we go collect anything wey u fit give, waka dey go. 1-1
I don't understand how they do these things...this snatching thing. that one woman snatched a full grown man away from another woman, have we men become some sort of objects that can be stolen by anybody? I dont get it maybe because i hav never been snatched before to understand how it works, lol
On Saturday, youths across the country made a strong statement in support of Kogi State Governor Yahaya Bello's candidacy in the 2023 presidential election, causing serious tension over who becomes the next president.
It was a simultaneous gathering of massive crowds of youths in over 36 states across the federation's six geopolitical zones in a show of force dubbed the 'Nationwide Capacity Rally for Yahaya Bello.'
Participants chanted solidarity songs and carried various placards in support of Bello beginning at 9 a.m. in all locations.
The youths, who claimed to have mobilized over 16 million active Permanent Voters Cards in order to achieve a Yahaya Bello presidency in 2023, stated that the nationwide capacity rally was to demonstrate that they meant business and would go all out for their own in the upcoming elections.
Under the platform of the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC), Bello, a presidential aspirant, has been a frontline in the area of massive youth and women mobilization, as well as a strong media presence in the ongoing presidential race.
Abdullahi Shuaibu Damat, the National Coordinator of the groups under the umbrella of Rescue Nigeria Mission, who was present at the Federal Capital Territory rally, said the youths were already thinking beyond the primary elections of the major parties in their quest for Yahaya Bello to succeed President Muhammadu Buhari.
Damat, who spoke at the Unity Fountain venue of the Abuja rally, said the youths had taken control of their future through technology, a determination to avoid money politics, and a heightened determination to participate actively in the upcoming election.
“If you have your colleagues everywhere in the nation – Bauchi, Sokoto, Oyo, Kwara, Anambra, Katsina, Kano, Gombe, Southsouth and all across the country, ask them about the kind of crowd they have seen today, simultaneously, in all the states.
“It has never happened before in Nigeria. This is what we mean by the phrase ‘it is youths o’ clock’. We want to appeal to the stakeholders and leaders to choose the person that can deliver the election at this point in time. In Nigeria today, no politician comes close to the Yahaya Bello structure.”
Speaking from the rally in Awka, Anambra state, Hon. Anthony Edogbo, the national coordinator of Bello Ambassadors Network, said the rally was necessary to keep easterners' morale high in anticipation of a youthful presidency through Gov. Bello.
The meeting point in Nasarawa State was at Kaura Plaza on Jos Road.
The large crowd walked to UBA Junction and congregated at Total.
They gathered at the Three Star Hotel in Jigawa and marched through the streets from there.
The crowd in Oyo State moved from ShopRite to Challenge, among other places, while the Kwara rally began at Kwara State Stadium, Ibrahim Taiwo Road, Ilorin, and moved through the Post Office to other parts of the state.
Sokoto, Kebbi, Gombe, Cross River, Borno, Kogi, Benue, Kaduna, Taraba, Plateau, Niger, Katsina, Bauchi, and Yobe, Akwa Ibom, and Zamfara were among the other states where the capacity rally was held concurrently.
Hello Nairalanders, I just break open my KOLO. It wasn't the spirit of SAPA neither was it the spirit of Dorime or Slay Queens. I have decided to use the Money to Balance up with the ones I have in my Bank account to acquire a small car for Business (BOLT). I was very surprised at how much I've saved so far o. N1000 X 65 PCs = 65,000 N500 X 77 PCs= 38,500 N200 X 23 PCs = 4,600 N100 X 6 PCs = 600
Total savings = 108,700.
My dear Nairalanders, I'll really appreciate if you can suggest a Nigerian Used Toyota Car between the range of 1.5 - 2Million.
Thanks
2004-2006 Toyota Corolla. You may need to up ur budget a little up to 2.5m to get a clean Nigerian used that can still stand the rigour of transport business in Nigeria.
Lame! What is your justification for asking PDP not to make Obi their flag-bearer U dont just condemn someone without giving reasons and even go a step further by proffering solution....tell us what u think he doesnt have and who u think should.
Zadok's face when Progress was declared winner showed he thought he was the anointed winner, he was visibly unhappy, he that usually put up smiling face suddenly went sour, i felt for him but it is what it is. Congrats to Progress.
Hmmm, yeah I have heard about it before. It's about scamming people.
But it's a thing of using common sense to analyze situations before venturing. First, if you sent a message to someone wrongly, when you noticed the error, is it not to resend the .message to the correct intended recipient? why would someone say you should resend back doesn't he have it in his sent messages box?
How would someone call and claim to be a banker and that you should call out your account number, doesn't he have it on his computer?
Or that you have just won yourself something and you know you didn't participate anything requiring an award, do you answer such a person?
Or that the FG has given you Covid 19 parliative you should do something to claim it, all these are regular scams in Nigeria that everyone should be aware of but still many are ignorant and greedy. people who fall for 419 are usually very greedy.
In any situation, grab your common sense and use it, they will flee from you.
I suspect a very deadly virus. I advise u copy your files out into an external drive, then format the system, reinstall relevant apps and return your copied files.
Next avoid wifi networks that you do not trust, especially those ones you OPEN (awoof dey run belle), as some of them are spy network and they could harm your system if they choose to do so without you knowing.
I didn't notice anything jor. He looks more healthier than Joe Biden of the United states of America. I always fear for him (Biden) especially when he is climbing a staircase. Putin is deadly sha.
This guy money no dey finish ni, I have been hearing of the recovery of Abacha loots since my secondary school days and this is still continuing unabated.