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You started it with her.

And it will only takes the grace of God to realign to the current reality with her.

I really understand what you're passing through.

TALK TO HER ABOUT YOUR SITUATION NOW or YOU DEVISE A STRATEGIC APPROACH SO SHE CAN FOLLOW... You just need to map out how much you want to be spending every month. like buying every foodstuffs needed and be giving her small money only on Saturdays morning.

ALSO TRY TO COMPLAIN TO HER PARENTS ABOUT IT .. If it persist!

N/B: Such type of women will run you down and abandon you when e red.

IT HAPPENED TO MY FRIEND..WHICH I WAS THE FAMILY BEST FRIEND.
They had 3 kids. But today the girl left him in pH and ran to Lagos with the children to be flexing her life.

MANY MAY NOT REALLY UNDERSTAND THIS THING YOU'RE COMPLAINING NOW.

Jennyclay:
If the man can’t forgive her then let him go jare!! . He’s not a saint either!!

I’m sure the man is not really good in bed reason she visited her ex.

So many men are not just good in bed, especially Nigerian men!! and they won’t even care if a lady is satisfied or not!! Very selfish men!!!

Personally, if I’m not getting enough money, sex and true Love from my man then I would definitely look outside.

BY THEIR REACT WE SHALL KNOW THEM..
Street credibility!!!! We know Una, 🤣🤣🤣

The man just saved his money and useful time for future unnecessary DNA 🙏🙏🙏

Until you understand how gifted and good this portable of a guy is... Then you will understand what unstoppable means.

He has special purpose.

And he's a good person!

Forget about that his normal kind of life that keeps him happy.

HE'S DESTINED FOR GREATNESS... And also a GOOD PERSON WITH SELFLESS NATURE.

QUALITY DOESN'T MARKET IT!

Throwback:
Igbos looking to discover the anarchy they have been craving for.

Very soon they would tell us that one of the Judges is a human being.

Finding fault that was defined as a fault by the fault finder.

This is what grasping at straws looks like.

Igbos should make their peace that they lost to the Yorubas and move on with their failure.

Na una keep Nigeria like this.

THIS IS WHY NIGERIA HAS BEEN BACKWARD SINCE YOU and YOUR FAMILY FRIENDS HAVE BEEN RULING RIGHT FROM THE MILITARY REGIME.

Yet your only problem na Igbo.

This people!...

THEIR GOVERNMENT ALREADY MADE A GOLDEN LIFE FOR THEM EVEN BEFORE THEY WERE BORN till WHEN THEY LEAVE THE WORLD. .. With also a bar code in such that any future spouse can benefit same through them irrespective of where they come from.

BUT REVERSE IS THE CASE IN NIGERIA...
The day you were born into Nigeria automatically becomes the day your problem starts. . IT ONLY TAKES GRACE OF GOD and DEPENDING ON THE FAMILY YOU WERE BORN FROM. Luckily Maybe if your parents have done the Sacrifice and already paid the dues to pave way for you.


LADIES, PLEASE IS NOT YOUR FAULT Oo..
It is the country that you came from.

IN SUMMARY,... Being born from Nigeria, life have already started winning you. SO YOU HAVE TO FIGHT YOUR WAY OUT TO REACH DRAW FIRST, BEFORE TALKING ABOUT WINNING.

FreeStuffsNG:
“Usually, many people who sell off their properties in order to relocate abroad do so with the notion of not returning anytime soon or not returning at all. This is due to the perception that the grass is surely greener outside the borders of our nation. On the other hand, Nigerians who have lived their lives for so long abroad would think of at least getting a landed property to serve as proof of their many years of hard work to their friends and family back home, so they would then take advantage of the situation and exploit the opportunities as much as they can.”

This is it. Those selling are ignorant and desperate while those buying are exploiting the ignorance and desperation of the sellers whereas the real estate broker is having a swell time business boon, in same Nigeria he or she condemns, making loads of commissions money from both sides ,giving themselves and the sellers unpatriotic reason to keep running down the country in order to persuade the sellers to selll;they've monetized the misery, ignorance,desperation lack of faith/patriotism of those selling.

Anytime you are desperate, that's when you are most vulnerable.

For most of them selling cheap out of ignorance and desperation, they may just be fulfilling a divine wealth transfer of wealth they or their parents gathered unrighteously, transferred into the hands of others who may eventually still lose those properties if they acquired it with proceeds of crime or corruption.

The only true wealth that lasts is the one you acquire from clean and legitimate sources of income. If it's not clean, you will lose las las.

Clean wealth is achievable here in Nigeria, it takes time to build real legitimate wealth everywhere in the world and it is the only wealth that endures. It is the only kind of wealth you can pass down to your children's children like the biblical righteous man. Check my signature for free stuffs!

NO LOGICAL POINT IN YOUR FULL WRITE UP. Your mentality about life and reality is very far away.

So i should not sell what i have to relocate just because is a property

SO I SHOULD NOW GO AND BE BEGGING PEOPLE MONEY UP and DOWN. Nonsense reason!

is that property better than business, especially when you're still struggling?

I LEFT NIGERIA AROUND AUGUST THIS YEAR, and STARTED HUSTLING AROUND SEPTEMBER.. But i have been able to saved money that i was never able to saved in Nigeria for over 5years.

KEEP TYPING RUBBISH at YOUR COMFORT ZONE!

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Confused People!!!!

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Paying the money to who?

A JOKE! CALLED A COUNTRY...

but me sef would like to marry you. You be my crush already!

Nonexisting1:
One big lesson to learn when you travel abroad is cut communications with everyone for at least 5yrs. Find your feet in your new country and save a lot of money too. After the 5yrs or more, come back home and make amends by throwing some cash around. Take the time and start whatever project you want to start and then hand it over to a known contractor. Your family can only be supervising the project. Travel back and lock up again but this time, keep an open channel to only your immediate family members. Do this and you won't cry like this vaginarian.

Bro, you said it all here. nothing more and nothing less.

Funny people!

If na Borno state now... 😁😁😁🤣🤣🤣

Guess?

Jennyclay:
I put to you that this bolt driver is not innocent .

The police should tortured him and watch him confess all his evil deeds .

As long as I’m alive, I can never trust a man not even a Nigerian man.

Biko!! Torture him!!!

PLEASE, DON'T PUT IT TO ME.

put it to him directly!

LivingSage:
You can NEVER trust man

But you'll EVENTUALLY give the love you're hoarding to one man

Lies

wahala

khalling2008:
It pains you. the Jews called your god, Jesus, a baatard?
Yes or no?

Don't worry,... Jesus will handle that from heaven.

CHRISTIANS DON'T FIGHT FOR JESUS. God will always handle that itself.

Christians are reasonable... They don't fight or kill for Christ. instead they will keep preaching and practising love and tolerance to you every time. As directed by Jesus Christ.

khalling2008:
Don't worry we will soon know the power institution between Nigeria's constitution and barbaric tradition.

That's what happened between the wife of Ojukwu and her husband's family Women can not inherit the property of the deceased in barbaric Biafra tradition and the court ruled in support of the wife.

Women dey suffer injustices from Biafra land. Having women or girls in Biafra land is taboo because they can never inherit their father or husband because of barbaric traditions. No wonder their women do turn to prostitutes because of barbaric tradition

YOU DID NOT MAKE ANY SINGLE POINT HERE. Cos i thought you were typing something meaningful.

Why can't you be reasonable for ones.? ..

ALL THOSE 11, 12, 13, 14, ...YEARS CHILDREN THAT ARE BEING FORCED INTO MARRIAGE TO 90 YEARS OLD MEN AT THE OTHER REGION. Why haven't you complained about the Sh*ri... courts always Justifying that as their tradition.?

Please learn to be more logical and rational before posting on Nairaland. cos MUMU PEOPLE NEVER SURVIVES THIS FORUM.

Same thing they said during Buhari time.

Na so 1year go, 2years go, 3years waka .. and so on... Las las 8 years wasted hoping on idiots.

Same format again!

AmazingELixir:
https://dailytrust.com/thieves-raid-ogun-palace-steal-crown-staff-of-office/

And,
Ogun couldn't kill the thief??😂😂😂😂

TRULY, .. The gods are really crazy 🤣🤣🤣

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
If they're killing Hamas, nobody will complain. But bombing hospital, killing civilians, kids, blocking access to humanitarian & medical aid, that is war crimes & not military victory.

WHO CARES!

WHAT BROUGHT ABOUT THE WAR?

WHAT WAS THEIR AIM?

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This country is really a joke.

I would only blame posted this rubbish here.

visaclick:
Record labels won’t like this. You think don jazzy built a twin mansion in lekki by giving artists their dues. Funny how mohbad streaming increased after his death when everything will eventually to into nairamarleys pucket coz he owns all the royalties.
What else did u think caused the rift bw dbanj and don jazzy. Only a few have survived record label infact tailor swift had to re record all of her songs from scratch which took her years and pains.Even your almighty Ja rule doesn’t own his masters which his label has blantly refused to give him, same as ashanti. 50 cent doesn’t own his masters, even kanye west have no access to his YouTube passwords.
Micheal jackson was killed for this, 2pac was killed for this and same as biggie. When it comes to music there’s alot going on behind the scene and the one i feel for now is post malone coz he’s going through just the exact same thing mobad went thru. Being drugged and intimidated just to name him a mad dog 🐕.
Education still remains the only easy way out.

THIS IS MORE REASON I HAD ALWAYS LOVE Don Jazzy. Even when D.banj thought Don Jazzy's existence would end by his stupid ego and unplanned exit from Mo'Hits Crew, not minding how Don Jazzy had always loved him with all his heart and was doing everything possible to keep that family with, even financing everything about that lovely family selflessly.

He behaved so organised and matured... He never tried to harassed D.banj any day.

TODAY WHERE IS D.banj and WHERE is Don Jazzy.

DON JAZZY! MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU EVERYDAY.🙏🙏🙏

Throwback:
If only Obi did this in Anambra, we would have known that many of you projecting him as the only messiah of Nigeria are not suffering from madness.

Are you listening to yourself?

The politicians have really made you some of you brain useless because 2k every 4years.

They make you remain in avert poverty, so that you will always see their 2k as saving your wretched like.

Thank God you're facing the same suffering that you voted for.

MAD PEOPLE EVERYWHERE.

Throwback:
If only they were smart like Obi who presented only his 2nd chance GCE, but avoided presenting his UNN Bachelor's certificate and NYSC Certificate.

Las las, the cunning fellow no still see mandate win or steal.

Futility of cunningness.

OBI, YOUR NIGHTMARE... Out of sentiment for particular tribe.

SEE HOW FAR A SERIOUS and UNTRIBALISTIC COUNTRY HAVE GONE..

Las Las after them finish messing up the country... THEY WILL COME HERE AND SETTLE DOWN.

And you and you will still facing the smiling and suffering... without pity to your children.

Many of you are really caused. No functioning brain inside the score. but only sentiments.

Throwback:
If only they were smart like Obi who presented only his 2nd chance GCE, but avoided presenting his UNN Bachelor's certificate and NYSC Certificate.

Las las, the cunning fellow no still see mandate win or steal.

Futility of cunningness.

Obi, your nightmare!!!. SEE AS UNA KEEP THE COUNTRY BECAUSE OF SENTIMENT and DEEP HATRED FOR A PARTICULAR TRIBE.

Thank God say no be me and you dey Nigeria dey smile and suffering.

THIS SAME "ENDURE!" WAS WHAT WE ALSO HEARD DURING BUHARI BEGINNING OF TENURE... And we thought they had a good plans ahead.

BUT LITTLE DID WE KNOW THAT WE WERE JUST HOPING ON A MAD MAN'S LEADERSHIP.

Wasted 8years without achieving anything.

Mumu talk!

Igbo and Hausa.

Why did you tied the mouth nah? Since you both love each other. Nonsense.

suppression.

The only thing the Nigerian army have impress me with personally was to use one of his army to steal and marry my betrothed girlfriend from me with his Smart khaki and shinning boat [/i][/b] [/quote]
I really feel your pain bro.

Because they allow you saw the grave sign bah?

Everywhere was a grave during the civil war.

Unfortunate, you just saw this one that the surface or monument were not removed.

[quote author= post=122933186]Take your reply below kiddo....

You even have time for them sef.
Hatred is in them.
Thanks for replying the kid anyways.

We have more for him below....

IPOB/BIAFRA VS TINUBU/YORUBA:
TOLERANCE BECOMING A CRIME.


1. Why do we hate Tinubu?
What for?

2. Tinubu never worked with federal or Eastern Nigeria let alone stealing money from Ndi Igbo.
He never worked as Minister or taken any Federal Appointment!

3. He never joined APGA let alone sabotaging our Party's interest?

4. Tinubu didn't meddle in Igbo internal affairs either!

5. Why do we call him thief?
What did he steal?

6. We call Yoruba "slaves".
We never reflect on what it means to be slaves in the true sense of the word.

7. We are putting mouth in Lagos politics without caution, yet we have a proverb that says it is the foolish housefly that follows the corpse into the grave.

8. Can Yoruba man become an Association or Local Government Chairman in the East? Let us be sincere with ourselves.
Yet, we enjoy all these privileges here including Assembly Membership!

9. Why asking for what we can't give?

10. We are here helping the "slaves" to develop their land. Who then is a slave?
10b. You call their city a no man's land so that we can further be enslaved slaving to develop it, and our generations are wasted gloating over mere privileges.
Who is a slave?
Do we actually think?

11. Can Yoruba tell Okorocha "o to gee" in Owerri?
He doesn't even need it.
He is too intelligent to die for a pot of ofe manu or nothing.

12. After the civil war, for many of us who were old enough to have witnessed it, the Yoruba were the first to open their arms to receive and accept us as we were, crude savages in search for means of survival.
It was regardless of what we equally did to them before and during the civil war. No party to the civil war was innocent!
I also remember not paying any rent among Yoruba guys without a penny for my first 3years in Lagos and another 2 years in Ibadan.

13. Can we survive Yoruba attack in Yoruba land if they actually mean to?
Will an Mbaise man cooperate with the Nsukka or Afikpo, or the Imo with Anambara?

14. If we all decide to relocate at once, Babangida send me home phenomena is still in the memory of some of us who survived the incessant and uncontrollable spate of robbery across the Onitsha bridge.
How many people will want to go in spite of our empty pride?

15. If Yoruba people are as foolish as we foolishly think, why agitating?
How will agitating be to our benefit?

16. Why not "O to gee" in Abia, Enugu or Owerri?

17. Can a man from Aba become a Commissioner or Perm.Sec. in Enugu State Civil Service?
Yet it happened here!
Why not be careful.

18. We adopted APGA and but "wisely" voted PDP.
How was Tinubu our headache.
Was he the cause of our downfall?
Why always blame others for our inabilities and want to take glory for any small thing we think we have done well and even overblow it?

19. We claim we were so creative during the civil war.
Now history.
We also claim every made in Nigeria is from Aba.
But go to Oyo and Osogbo to see what "lazy" mechanics are doing quietly in the automobile industry, yet we make noise that other ethnics are either mumu or lazy except we (alagbara ma mero baba ole; the most hardworking humans who cannot develop their own land unfortunately).

20. Why looking for avoidable problem? Why?

21. It was you in the North being attacked, in Malaysia being killed, in Gabon and Ghana being molested. 99.9% of Nigerians killed in South Africa are of Igbo extraction, and sometimes by fellow 'hardworking' Igbo. Why?

22. We choose Kanu and he dictates to us without consultation with any one of us. They choose Tinubu who becomes a hero among them by bowing to or adopting the choice of their majority.

Why are we angry?
We chose Azikwe and they chose Awolowo.
How are they more mumuish followers than ourselves?
Zik became a President and we gained from it, Awo was only a Premier, but we are only struggling to beat their records in all ramifications including education till today.
How are they mumus?
We chose APGA and they chose APC, why agitating?

Yoruba are yet to say Tinubu is their problem why do we want to die for nothing?
Why working in APGA but planning to collect salaries in APC?

If your Biafra comes, but do we still remember that as Igbo we will automatically become foreigners on the streets of the Lagos we call a no Man's land?

How many of us will actually want to relocate home, should Biafra actualises or if citizenship is on the condition that you relinquish all other citizenship in Africa?

We leave that answer to the individual.
Nwayo nwayo biko unu.
[/quote]Let this this people go kwanu... Is it a problem?

You keep on writing trash, as if there's something meaningful in this your write up.

You keep hating and always secretly conspiring against them... And you're here writing meaningless long episode.

If somebody said he or she doesn't want to mingle or stay with you again... WHY NOT LET THE PEOPLE GO?

You keep working against this particular people secretly everytime... What's really your fear?

Since late 60s only una don dey run the affairs of the country against this particular people... HOW FAR THE COUNTRY Nah?
SEE THE CONDITION OF THE COUNTRY NAH... COS IT IS BUILT ON SENTIMENT AGAINST A PARTICULAR REGION.

Stop deceiving yourselves and free this people and leave them to handle their problem. What is your fear?

PLEASE LET THE PROBLEM PEOPLE GO NAH... Why forcing them to stay??

Hmmmmm