Christianity Etc › Re: She Aborted A 3month Pregnancy. by Petroking: 4:41pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
[quote author=jen2me post=41679877]Its actually a Godly and a Christian relationship with my fiancee, we have dated for three years now, though a distance relationship, we have never had sex. she came around in this festive period and then she opened up a secret, it hurts me so bad to hear this from her, she told me that while I was away, she attended a compound party and then she had a taste of an alcohol which a guy served her, she became influenced and then it happened between them. she realized she was pregnant after 3month. she was mad at herself and she could only settle for an abortion. Now she's begging me to have a space in my heart to forgive her. I need matured advice please, I am so bittered in heart, what should the innocent me do.[/quote
I am not saying that what she did was right. Please try to put yourself in her shoes.. Everyone has faults because we are humans.. I believe that she loves you and its not like she would not have loved to confess to you but because she would have been scared of loosing you. Although you need to give her a stern warning .. I detest the sight of shit even when i try to understand the situation of things.. Forgive her if you love her truly.. Make her happy by marrying her.. Invite me for the white wedding.. if its outside lagos i might not be able to attend.. Wish you all the Best. |
Christianity Etc › Re: She Aborted A 3month Pregnancy. by Petroking: 4:26pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
jen2me: thanks, i wish i could forgive her, but she betrayed my love and trust for her. You can.. You just think other wise.. Lets look at it like this... She never told you what happened .. would you ever find out ??... The ability to open up makes her one to forgive |
Travel › Re: Schools In The Us That Accepts A Gre Score Of 291 by Petroking: 3:32pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
dAnTiTeMI: I sat for the GRE exam last year and I had a score of 291. I applied for a civil engineering course in one of d universities in the us but they denied me an admission because of the low score. please fellow nairalanders which school in the us can give me an admission with this score of mine. score higher 300 and above |
Politics › Re: How Is Light In Your Area?? by Petroking: 3:07pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
chaxking: So I came back to Nigeria, Benue state(makurdi) to be precise. And I've been in town since the 23rd Dec and the way we have had light for the past few weeks is amazing and up until now the light has been constant, so is it fair to say the CHANGE is actually on its way or is it just in my area, I will be leaving for the US in two days time so I want to know what to tell me friends over there. So the question is how is light in your area?? Superb over here.. |
Christianity Etc › Re: She Aborted A 3month Pregnancy. by Petroking: 3:05pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
forgive her ... Its only right to do so.. She opened up to you for christ sake.. without pressure .. So give her the benefit of doubt |
Nairaland General › Re: Please Help! Am Feeling Funny Around Our House-help. by Petroking: 8:20pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
donaldking10: Lol.. Make u kum do wetin? with the house help of course .. so that you no go get too much issues.. I am just trying to help a friend out here |
Nairaland General › Re: Please Help! Am Feeling Funny Around Our House-help. by Petroking: 7:27pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
donaldking10: Last year September, My mum searched severally for a new house-help that would suit us. We got a few, and they always leave after a week, claiming that our house was boring, and there was no one on the streets or around to relate with, etc... (B'cos we live in an Estate and i'm the only one in my compound. Everything required in the house is bought in bulk in stores, so no one has any reason to go out except school, church, work, etc)... I knew their problem was that they couldn't do 'runs' with anyone, and i no de give them face. All the house-helps we got were all matured in their early 20's and very sumptuous. Finally in December 2015, we got a young 20 year old girl. The first time i saw her, i was furious because she was stinking. I walked into the sitting room and everywhere was stinking and i got really pissed. Over the weeks, my mum noticed it too & cleaned her up, made her shave, bought medicated soap, roll-on, cologne, cream, etc for her and ensures she bathes at least twice a day. One day, i walked into the kitchen and i saw her in a Bum-Short, fitted with a nice top and washing plates. I was amazed at the transformation that had happened over a few weeks. I began to notice her around the house. She has a figure-8 shape, has a nice ass, hips and firm breasts. She doesn't wear bra at night after taking her bath, (Yes, i noticed, b'cos i've peeped into her dress/blouse severally). Now when she walks around the house, i have to hold myself. Am trying to avoid making advances at her. As randy as i am, i've never made passes at any of our house-helps.. (Am sure we've had like 10 of them, beautiful and young). But now this girl, she's scarred of me and respects me because i don't talk to her at all in the house. But each time i see her hips, butt, bust or cute face, (her breasts are still very firm), I get confused. Please What Do I Do?? Am hoping i won't finally come and give testimony of what happens here on Naira-Land Oooo! Give me your location and phone number let me help you out ... |
Celebrities › Re: Olamide Vs Donjazy: The Headies Drama (Video) by Petroking: 1:23pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Bin3: I just watch it finish now n bcs of the drama the show didnt end well.am a big fan of olamide but the way he behave at the headies just made me to dislike him,what is he feeling like? Is he d only person in the industry or what?.d most annoying part was when he threw d mic on the floor.a car that he can afford to buy why did he behave that way,he just draw the line btw the Mavins n Ybln(n i notice that adekunle gold n dija are in good term).Don jazzy proved mature(greetings to him) he showed that the award shouldnt be d 1 to destroy d industry,he was calm but olamide brought up the anger in him (but he didnt throw d mic away like olamide to show how mature he is).i notice something was wrong btw them when olamide did his concert n non of d Mavins was there.something tells me that either olamide or someone close to him is a nairalander if am right pls pass this msg to olamide"olamide u really fall my hand i will advice u to go n apologies to the mavins bcs they dont deserve what u did on stage n dont forget don jazzy is ur senior in the industry n a very calm guy which u know.i watch the video u feature don jazzy in n its one of my best so far n both of u were good there,pls olamide put things back in order, bcs u hv blow doesnt mean u hv made it even the lil kesh u are supporting might turn his back on u 2mao if things gets bad 4 u n am 100% sure don jaz wouldnt hv behave that way if it was lil kesh that won".assuming am d leader of d headies this drama is enough to put a stop to the award program. Oya pass backyard... You be Lai Mohammed pikin... ?? |
Celebrities › Re: Olamide Vs Donjazy: The Headies Drama (Video) by Petroking: 1:19pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
cao: Wait a sec, this was a public voted award (basically Viewers' Choice)? Olamide, my dear boy, you mess up-o...big time. It's not the organiser's fault, you didn't rally enough fans and/or votes with the corporate begging or street teams. So in reality, he's blaming the fans for not voting for his guy. Don Jazzy was not exactly better - two wrongs don't make a right, but I'll not lie, Don Jazzy's response had me hollering. It was a precision strike with minimal effort. If Olamide has no fans and they use lyrics and meaning.. Please who voted Olamide for Album of the Year  .. Please help me out because he be like say 4 awards go to YBNL and he be like say make Mavin for no go home empty handed.. They decided to help them out.. It happens |
Celebrities › Re: Olamide Vs Donjazy: The Headies Drama (Video) by Petroking: 1:12pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
koastar: Olamide over reacted, Rekado Banks deserves the award. He got better & meaningful lyrics than Lil Kesh. Guy.. Nigeria songs are not poetry they don't have meaningful lyrics... If they want to do awards on Lyrics ... Kiss daniel would be first... He had two popular songs. Woju and Laye .. all with wonderful lyrics.. The only one i see with Reekado is Katapult.. and that was his only song.. Now back to Nigerian Industry and Factor... Even in the university.. A 1st class applies for a teaching job and a 2-1 does the same, the 2-1 gets the job because he is an indigene of the state.. or because of powers that be.. Now ... To the Music industry... How many songs did Mavin Records produced for Reekado in 2015.. That made waves... I think its just Katapult and Corner which was recently released.. Also how many times did the supposed released songs make the top ten countdown .. It only made the Top 10 countdown for two weeks..#FACTS.. Now to the YBNL Record.. Lil Kesh released.. Lyrically,Shoki,efejoku,Is it because i love you.. And made the countdown for 4 months. Now I will let you know that better and meaningful lyrics was not a criteria to give such award.. Who was given Album of the Year... Olamide... So are you trying to tell me that Olamide sings better and meaningful lyrics than everyone on that list.  Another point of reasoning .. Last Year Reekado was giving the Rookie for the Year in the Headies and he never released any single as at that time, he was giving the Rookie of the year owing to his contribution in the Doro bucci song... Haba.. Pure Foul Play... When you see truth you say it. He no even suppose be nominated. Na back to what happened at the Headies.. Olamide was wrong to have dropped the mic and use Swear words. but he is not the type that hide his feelings.. which made it awfully bad. Now to Person papa wey still dey form say him be young man wey no wan gree marry.. (Don Jazzy).. I hear say him senior olamide by far. Next time he should learn to play the senior and not act foolishly.. I no say make he no talk but he can talk but not to mention a person's name... Mentioning the name means you were clearly drawing a line.. That you are ready for battle... In my own Opinion : Both team bleeped up... When messi won world best in 2010 Mourinho shout say which kind ojoro be this and why Wesley Sneijder or another person was not giving... Ojoro na ojoro.. that one no mean say messi no still be world best or ronaldo no still be world best. Please lets stop being sentimental and look from a Neutral aspect. God Bless #OneNigeria |
Business › Re: I Need Help. I Want To Buy From Usa-walmart And Ship It Down To Nigeria by Petroking: 12:55am On Jan 03, 2016 |
benz33: Please i need a genuine hand that can help me buy a video camera from USA and help me ship it down to Nigeria. It's on Walmart anyway.
Whatssap - 08037224118 Look for a way to get a USA address first, Use shoptomydoor.com, get a free us address while buying on walmart send it to the address. once it is delivered. ask them to ship it down to Nigeria and you pay for shipping.. I hope that helps |
Romance › Re: I'm Still A Virgin Bt The Urge To Fvck Is Very High. by Petroking: 12:16am On Jan 03, 2016 |
YourMain: But I didn't chat shīt ? Never said you did pretty... Just checked your profile and wrote what i saw.. Pardon me.. Is there a way of getting to know you better? |
Romance › Re: Ladies: Would U Like To Marry A Guy Who Is Still A Virgin? by Petroking: 12:13am On Jan 03, 2016 |
myfantasies: Definitely NO
I don't have d patient or strength to coach any one I like you.... Is there a way i can get in touch??.. |
Romance › Re: I'm Still A Virgin Bt The Urge To Fvck Is Very High. by Petroking: 11:14pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
YourMain: Just do it - Nike  Chat sh*t get banged |
Romance › Re: I Think Am Loosing It........ by Petroking: 10:41pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
bbel: aiit...was chatting with my bf earlier this evening, den he went offline...later on I decided to call him...his nos where off...few mins later he came bck online I den asked him...he said he was using his sisters sim, and he does nt av card, so I told him to send me callme bck, he said I should nt call...that if I do his data will disconnect...after asking severely he sent d call me bck, some mins later he went offline again, I decided to call d number with my mums fone, another guy picked up d fone, I went bck online nd asked him...cus he said it was his sis fone, he then said d fone is for his friend...a guy, and am like was it nt ur sis fone u were using to browse...we started arguing and all...he den blocked me, I den sent him a msg never to unblock me in his life again...he called severely I did nt pick, wen I picked he started askin wat he did wrong dat he was sorry...but seriously I was really confused...later he said he was coming over..I stay with my mum....nd it was really late around to 10...I told him nt to...but he refused...he came...we could nt talk much cus my mum called nd asked where I was..wat exactly should I do.....am really confused...less I forget he said it was his friend that blocked me... You mean nothing to that guy.. be advice: Stay clear from him ... On a long thing |
Phone/Internet Market › In Dire Need Of An Iphone 6 Or 6s by Petroking(op): 2:52pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
I am in need of an Iphone 6 or 6s, 64/128gb preferably but if you have got a 16gb no problem. I want to buy from an end user (Private/or Personal use seller) preferably .. I stay on the mainland... Preferred Point of Meeting The Seller... KFC Eatery Ikeja Under Bridge. My name is Mike 08164346469
NOTE: Please if you are the type that is not sincere or is trying to play smart. Please don't contact me.. I recently encountered someone of such tricks who wanted to sell a china phone to me. so please i will be sincere with any one ... If its a fake phone don't bother contacting me please i beg of you.. to save yourself the embarrassment |
Family › Re: My Wife Is More Sexually Responsive After I Beat Her Up by Petroking: 1:08am On Dec 31, 2015 |
dovelike:
 Put on a smile... I do not mean it the way you are taking it... Just can't hit a lady .. i believe guys who do that are Animals in Human Skin... But i am also aware that some girls just like guys beating them .... I have seen one like that before though .. but she was not married to the guy... after much persuasion she left the guy and is married to some one else .... |
Crime › Re: Graduate Posts Girl’s Nude Pictures Online, Teenager Alleges Rape (pictured) by Petroking: 1:05am On Dec 31, 2015 |
Mikollon1: What does yinmu mean? You come across as a local individual. A Yoruba girl thought me that lol... ask another yoruba lady or guy to help you out if you are lost... Not everything is learned using a dictionary lol |
Family › Re: My Wife Is More Sexually Responsive After I Beat Her Up by Petroking: 11:00pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
dovelike: Just four years? After beating me up, you'll then do what?? Start poking me when am sleeping? When my body still hurts?? Lie.
I don't think I will ever let any man touch me after hitting me. Comeon... I just can't help but laugh when i see a Lady say such.. I have seen one of such situation... Still can't help it when i remember okada Drop me Here ... Lai Mohammed just commented |
Family › Re: My Wife Is More Sexually Responsive After I Beat Her Up by Petroking: 10:56pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: What Have I Done To The Mods by Petroking: 10:36pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Ginaz: See eh, I dont care how I sound if you like ban me for 100 years. I created a thread WWW.nairaland.com/family/how do you cope losing a loved one. To my amazement they removed it from the section. This is bullying o, I won't take this crap, they always remove my threads, why na biko? Na wenti I do? Una be bully o, this is wrong at all levels.
I am pissed off right now, seun you better do something about this o. If not ! My head dey quick boil o. I dont care how you see this, free me o jare ! Whatris it?  Your Thread is still available ... I stumbled upon it while checking for your profile... https://www.nairaland.com/2832234/how-cope-losing-loved-one |
Crime › Re: Graduate Posts Girl’s Nude Pictures Online, Teenager Alleges Rape (pictured) by Petroking: 8:16pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Mikollon1: You type a lot but lack reasoning. I believe its your type that sleeps with a girl.. then when you are pissed off you put their nude pictures online #YINMU |
Romance › Re: My Colleague And I Are Sleeping With The Same Girl - Should I Tell Him? by Petroking: 5:47pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
korel9: Straight to the point.
I met this girl sometime ago and we started seeing each other (as in no strings attached just for the benefits). She happens to be a client of ours. It was my colleague who actually told me she's available (as in not attached) so I took my chances . After a while, I started seeing her with my colleague (as in she coming to see him in the office). I confronted her and she said there's nothing between them. All these while my friend never mentioned there was something going on between them. All he kept saying was that the girl would be good on bed. I couldn't tell him about the girl and I cos she's Hausa and a muslim while I'm not Hausa and a Christian. I feel he may lash at her and discourage her from continuing with me which may even endanger her. I was shocked when one day he told me of his escapades with the girl and how the girl got involved in a duel with his other girl who he's planning on getting married to. I have no long-term intention with this girl so also does my colleague. But I feel I should tell him before he finds out or what do you think my fellow nairalanders?
Constructive responses please Give me the girl contact i like cheerful givers ... also lol... abeg na those kind girls dey make sense |
Science/Technology › Re: Iphone 6s by Petroking: 10:09pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
thanks... YOUR PHONE WAS WORTH IT |
Business › Re: Package Delivery Problems: USPS And NIPOST by Petroking: 9:42pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Manic007: USPS (United States Postal Service) And NIPOST Package Delivery Problems
This is apparently the second time i am loosing package sent from USA through USPS to NIPOST i don't know why nipost a national carrier can't bring you package to your doorstep when DHL and others can i regret making her use the cheap stupid USPS package delivery arrangement she sent me the tracking number the package only tracks within US but even when it eventually gets to Nigeria it never gets delivered to your home is it that you have to go to NIPOST to collect it or how first i loosed a Laptop now i am about to loose my Sony PSP console with any idea on what i can do to retrieve all my packages please holla back at me-please call which ever goes through they both my numbers or mail me -i would really like to know if i should go to NIPOST office and which of their office because currently i live in OLODI-APAPA in LAGOS. thanks for your kindly and brotherly support and advice in advance. I never LOST a parcel via USPS ... OR nipost except that parcel never entered into the country... Thanks |
Business › Re: Package Delivery Problems: USPS And NIPOST by Petroking: 9:41pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
tIce: Guys what does this mean? Pls thanks If you have the tracking number check it on nipost.gov.ng do have a great day. I think i helped a soul |
Business › Re: Package Delivery Problems: USPS And NIPOST by Petroking: 9:39pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
Shinor: I have already contributed my piece on a similar topic. Anyway i bought a TV camera in New York (B&H) and asked if they shipped to Nigeria as i was returning to London and so couldn't take the camera with me. The guy said oh Sure and gave me 4 couriers. FedEx, DHL, UPS and GLOBAL MAIL EXPRESS. Nothing suggested that the so called Global Mail Express was another name for USPS. I chose Global Mail Express. The difference between them and FedEx was around $100. I paid and after getting back to london, i tried to track the item. It was then i realised that Global mail Express was another arm of USPS. My people, the moment i realised they delivered through NIPOST, my beards went white from worry. I quickly organised a 40 day fast with a continuation clause to carry on fasting until the item arrived lagos. My phone bill went up as i called USPS every other day. There was no need to check whether my blood pressure went up around the time. Why state the obvious? Finally the same God who saved Daniel from the lion's den came to me inside NIPOST's cage and delivered me and the camera to Lagos.
I have sworn not to go near USPS or NIPOST again. Strangely when i have sent stuff by recorded delivery frm the UK, Its reached Nigeria without probs.
Global Mail Express is through USPS but it actually does not get delivered by NIPOST but by FedEx... I just gave you a clue
PRAISE GOD, HALLELUYAH |
Romance › Re: HELP! How Do I Help Her Overcome This Feeling. (please Come In) by Petroking: 8:45pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
RHEMAA: Good morning nairalanders. I won't say I am new on this forum, but I have been a keen observer of things as a guest. now to the issue.
I have a fiancee who we have been together for 3years now. She is a final year student of a polytechnic in Nigeria while I am also an undergraduate of a university. we don't see for months unless there is a holiday like this current yuletide break. things have been going very well until she had a particular experience that is currently threatening the stability of our relationship. Some months ago, she was ambushed by a group of cultists on her way back from her friend's house (by 9:25pm), They dragged her forcefully to the thick bush where they hold their meetings and remove everything called clothes on her body. in the course of the forceful drag, she sustained bruises and some Injuries that left scars on her skin up till now. According to her, she was begging them to spare her life and let her go. They gave deaf ears to her profuse pleas and tried to take turns and rape her. Luckily for her, she was on her period and that discouraged them. even at that, she said one of the cultist insisted he was going to have sex with her whether she is bleeding or not (as blood could be seen dripping down her thighs). In tears, she continued begging. The group leader then pierced her palm with a sharp object and sucked the blood that dripped out from the cut, he told her never to tell anyone what had happened in school else she will die. they took her undies and only gave her the gown to wear. In the deep of night, she walked home alone in tears and shiver from the bush path. she wasn't raped because she was on her period.
Now, the problem is, we met this break period and I tried to touched her. (not an attempt at sex. she is a virgin, we haven't had sex since we started dating) I tried to kiss her, but she started shivering, I held her close but she was so insensitive. I asked her what the problem was, she said as I held her, her memory went back to that experience she had and that she doesn't feel anything.
Please, this has been going on for sometime now, how do I help her? she says anytime I try to kiss her, the memory plays in her head and she goes cold. I love her so much. help me.
HELP!! Truckpusher, Decker, vixkiz, MrbrownJ, Brackett, Laveda, .. everyone, please help!
Lalasticlala... please, I need help, I would appreciate if it graces front page. Guy... You only need to do the right thing Get to the necessary authority and do the necessary .... Nothing like this happened to my girl sha .... but they already know say army no be talk talk na action.... |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Who Also Receive A Invitation From Lightheight Global Limited by Petroking: 12:16pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
teelord1: please have you attend their interview before. please what do you know about them I did not attend interview with them... I went there while seeking some information to process Masters Abroad. I actually have met with the owner also i guess. Be rest assured it is no scam.. |
Romance › Re: Advice N Opinion Pls by Petroking: 12:09pm On Dec 29, 2015 |
ejugirl: good day to you beautiful people.. pls I need ur advise...I am in a relationship with a guy who works in another state. recently, I chevked his facebook, the 'about' section n then the "life event" section n I noticed dat the "in a relationship with .....:who happens to b his ex is still there..but the section whr there is 'relationship status' is single..I told him about that but hr said he sees nothing. I told him to checkbusin his laptop which he did but he has seen nothing accordin to him..I just wond3r if dat section was made invisible to him by facebook or something..I really dont know.this has made him think I am seeing someone els3 whifh is why I keeep bringing up issues so I find a reason to say its over between us to b with the other.. now I am wondering if he is lying about him not seeing it or telling the truth...I am also thinkin I should forget it n move on with him until I recheck usin his laptop..pls advise needed. opinion pls..thanks..cos it is makin me think he still hopes for her to come back....dunno. she broke wit him with d excuse she has found someone else... Relationship is built on trust... You need me to be sincere with you,.. I dated someone and the first time i saw her fb account it wrote complicated. It still shows the same thing even after we dated over a year and still. So all those things does not mean. except you want to take it into consideration and it will only make you uncomfortable and feel worried. My Opinion |
Gaming › Re: Where Can I Repair My PS3 by Petroking: 11:55am On Dec 29, 2015 |
maballack: Guys please where in Lagos can i get a very good tech to repair my PS3 seems to have a hard sic issue and cant start up .... Go to computer village, Don't patronize anyone on the road oooo, Ask for the POWA market there... downstairs over there they fix games... ranging from Ps2,Xbox 360/one and Ps3 and Ps4... If you want to contact me 08164346469... Good luck |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Who Also Receive A Invitation From Lightheight Global Limited by Petroking: 11:44am On Dec 29, 2015 |
Its a good firm... I know about it.. Located at Allen/Opebi Area... They are into Educational International Services... |