₦airaland Forum

Mintek:
Where's Buhari fighting corruption? How does witch-hunting and silencing of dissenting opposition voices amount to fighting corruption?

jom28gy:
why didn't she visit the other woman that die, is it because this is from yoruba.tribalism at work.

UjGina:
Nigeria and her many problems as as buhari also lack the intellectual capability to lead a complex country as ours.

crackhaus:
You don't need to leave the house, what I meant by seek your fortunes elsewhere is that you seek other avenues to get the money you need - could be from friends or course mates.

As for your brother, try approaching him again when his wife isn't at home to have a discussion with him regarding the fees you need to pay before the school can let you go.
He is your brother, has always been your brother, and will always be your brother - there's no way he wouldn't want you to go for your NYSC assuming his wife hasn't completely messed up his head.

In the meantime, try as much as possible to avoid anything that will cause direct altercations between you and his wife...do your chores, mind your business, and stay out of her way - you're the one who needs their help and even if you don't like your SIL, false humilty and loyalty always works wonders.

Remember to only have discussions with your brother when you both are alone.

graphiti:
Yeh! **falls off mat**
See gorilla calling someone monkey!

Plz, always read d poo u type b4 posting!

Did u just hear urself?
In ur "church mind" what do u think d guy could've done to warrant d geh casting him and his entire generation b4 her siblings to d extent of revealing a most priced secret (ie d 1 testicle tin) 2 her siblings? If she could stoop so low............. she has metaphorically killed d guy!

This shows dt u yourself can't be entrusted with a vital secret


#2~of~a~kind

2ndly, abeg who is suffering from acute obtuse reflex myopia btw d 2 of u? The fact dt u can't stand another person's contrary opinion show sey ya mind narrow pass needle!


The more u try 2 form sey "na only me sabi" 4 ds thread, d more u dey convince pipo sey na frozen akamu dey in-between ur ears!

uplawal:
I just realised you are a foolish insecure man,shay oibinrin tan laye ni?you playing with oka.cobra,because of 6weeks pregnancy you are jitterring?i have seen couples that endures your rubbish thinking and later divorced after 5kids and ended with sickness and later death,do you want yours to be like that?so in your mind you think bigger problem wont occur through them,you must be joking right,i only pity you.i would advise you to to still divorce her,but let the divorce take effect after the child is fully breastfed for 2yrs,then you can take her from her to your mum, to care,she will get to know her mother when shes grown and of sound mind so her mum and family dnt infect her with their evil virus. dnt

vicchi12:
I'll forgive your ignorance.

canDy4eva:
kudos...

vicchi12:
Please abstain from insulting me! I can give it to you real straight if you want. Maybe just very intelligent for you to handle. Divorce is not a good thing. However, life is too beautiful to force a woman or a man who is not truly iin love with you, to love you. It breeds resentment and not healthy for the children. It's even worse than divorce. It's not healthy. The woman obviously no longer loves him, but how of guilt is with him. And staying with him out of pity. She feels like she has no choice but to be with him, but is using her siblings to do encourage her with the things that she has in her heart. She needs an excuse to execute her plans, to give her a reason to continue to do this man what she's doing. The man on the other hand is clearly in denial. Deep down in his heart, he knows the truth, but really loves her. And hello! I'm in the psychology field for a reason. Okay? So best believe I know what I'm saying!

chronique:
It's funny how you're asking someone to reason with her head,wth all the dumb,fooliish advices you've been giving here. God forbd I have a brother or friend like you.

canDy4eva:
r u a counselor?

agesron:
I disagree with u on this because something like this happen to my brother, n because of the love he has for his wife my bros find it difficult to divorce her. She did a lot of evil things to him like this n they will settle it within themselves and that brought him from GRACE TO GRASS. Pls don't get me wrong but any relationship that involve siblings,friends,mother,father may likely collapse because of evil advice, don't forget that women use to envy themselves including men, (especially from woman side) in this kind of situation DIVORCE is the best option n he must call family meeting so that they will know what happen. If not,only God know where those evil people are heading to.

My opinion sha.

oyetpel:
@op, this person eound like one of your wife elder sister.

vicchi12:
This tops the worst idea I've ever read in myentire life! Like don't you think this people are possessed? Like I'm a lady! But this betrays logic. Sir, one testicle or not, love or not, run!!!!!! Even God will forgive you. This is evil! Divorce is legal even in Christianity on grounds like this.

Totfulguy:
Brother, If you loose your evidence, the messages, you are FINISHED. Save them in your dropbox. I REPEAT IF YOU LOOSE THOSE messages, you are FINISHED. SAVE THEM IN THE CLOUD. This is not to keep account of evil, BUT that level of treachery is dangerous and will not stop if you are not well armed. The messages are your weapons. Your handling of the situation is commendable,epic and legendary. Share the story with two trusted person and LET YOUR WIFE KNOW that someone knows. If you keep this to yourself alone, you could get killed and it would be treated as suicide! You are a great guy!

freecocoa:
I'm sorry but don't talk nonsense next time.

Which one is folly is in the mind of a woman? So all women are f00lish or wetin? You people should stop in o.

Spydamannn:
advices that can help and kill

AntiWailer:
You will make a good boxer.

Nice analysis.

OnlineMercenary:
It's pretty unprofessional to drop this kind of post just in quest for traffic. Work on that.