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RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 12:12am On Oct 23, 2010


^^Permission granted. I would soon be closing the office for the night.
Nairaland GeneralRe: A Problem About Some Nlanders. by Phate07(m): 12:08am On Oct 23, 2010

He had better run. I dont know his problems, but i know he's scaring all the ladies with his tiny chicken.
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 12:02am On Oct 23, 2010

Specialist is angry. You shouldn't be, have you not heard of 'ladies first'? grin And am a gentleman. cheesy

Where are all our patients? huh Where did those two love birds, 190 and Omolola go to. They case is critical.
Nairaland GeneralRe: A Problem About Some Nlanders. by Phate07(m): 11:55pm On Oct 22, 2010

~*comes in with fully loaded Ak47~*
Where's that Mr cock? huh
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 11:47pm On Oct 22, 2010

Ok, what's on the agenda? Am thinking of upgrading the class to level 2: types of love.
You too shouldn't quarrel, this is about love. Dont worry, you two can represent me, though comrade secretary is no 1. grin
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 11:21pm On Oct 22, 2010

@Idowuogbo and specialist, thanks for keeping the fort while i was away. What did i miss?
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 11:15pm On Oct 22, 2010

It seems the two love birds are now back together. 190 is already tired of white chicks, so he is coming back to faithful omolola. #olodo #notfair
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Wolverhampton Wanderers [2 - 0] On Sat. 23rd October 2010 by Phate07(m): 8:22pm On Oct 22, 2010

My life is BLUEinfinity. grin grin
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 1:33pm On Oct 22, 2010
[quote author=Tink_sh link=topic=535025.msg6991664#msg6991664 date=1287743860]190, you say you and omolola dont share your private life herehuh Since when??, maybe this thread will be a 190/omolola drama free zone, Thank God!!!!![/quote]
It seems they are no longer together, maybe 190 refused to send Omolola money through western union. grin . I mean no harm o.
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 1:28pm On Oct 22, 2010
phate07 why would a girl go flirt around (not necessarily have intimacy but do poo) and when she is found out will still be claiming she loves you?

what is the best response if after a year she is still coming back with all the emotional" i still haven't been able to get you off my mind" crap?
[quote][/quote]
She could just be playing around to try and make you jealous and care more. If after a year she comes back and you are still single, take her back. But watch her closely, for she might have another plan.
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 1:18pm On Oct 22, 2010

@specialist, maybe she really is a lost case, why not forget about her and go for physical girls that can be much more accessible.
RomanceRe: What Does It Signify by Phate07(m): 1:12pm On Oct 22, 2010
kokoletz:
she is feeling uncomfortable with it.

I think you just hit the nail on the head! Now the question is: why is she suddenly uncomfortable with the text messages she sent to you? huh
Forum GamesRe: Let's Use Smileys Only! by Phate07(m): 12:56pm On Oct 22, 2010
huh huh
Forum GamesRe: Can You Answer A Question With A Question? (remix) by Phate07(m): 12:54pm On Oct 22, 2010

Is it not obvious?
EducationRe: Your Bizarre Experiences In Boarding School by Phate07(m): 12:45pm On Oct 22, 2010

Who remembers fapping(aka tapping, relocating, transporting etc)? huh
RomanceRe: Let Love Rule Here On Nairaland by Phate07(m): 12:35pm On Oct 22, 2010

@tjskii, pls dont tell me u r now being bought wit jst panties. Me thinks i have got a beta offer.
RomanceRe: solved by Phate07(m): 11:55am On Oct 22, 2010

@poster, maybe you should try and give the guy more time to prove himself. He just might be for real.
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 11:31am On Oct 22, 2010
Specialist900:
thanks man, but flowers in nigeria?
The lady in question is not agreeing to chat, how then can we make it to the movies?

Waiting for your reply.

Does that mean she is a girl you met online, a Nl girl perhaps? Hope she is for real. Try and get her email or phone number and then work from there.
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 11:20am On Oct 22, 2010
Ujujoan:
Hmmn na wa for this love doctor oh, I can see you are giving us some fake diagnosis!

What did i do wrong my dear? I gave you the honest truth and now you are pissed off. Why? huh
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 11:14am On Oct 22, 2010
pinky lady:
thot about that  cheesy

ny ways tx doc  wink wink

Thanks, my dear pinky lady. cheesy. How was your night? huhHope you wont give the guy a hard time, with time he'll perservere.  
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 11:05am On Oct 22, 2010
Specialist900:
Chief love consultant.

I just remembered i have a question, it goes thus:
Prologue: There is this lady i have been wooing for some time now but she is proving adamant.
Question: what do you think doc. should be my next line of action.


Waiting for your response.

If am chief love consultant, grin what will be then? huhChief love specialist? cheesy

For you question, i believe that the lady is playing hard to get. Is she a real stunner, one that can turn heads? Maybe you should change your tactics, try things like flowers and taking her out to the movies for a date and then pour out your heart. If she still continues to play hard to get, then leave her, there are still many girls out there. Its your call mate, but always remember you the man in the relationship and must act as such(ie always be decisive, dont leave the major decisions to her). Play safe bro.
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 10:41am On Oct 22, 2010
bodsibobo:
Dear Doctor,

A colleague of mine is married for 10 years. Two lovely kids and he has suddenly fallen in love with an Ivorian girl. Is this explainable?

Yeah, it is perfectly explainable. I believe that the love that he had for the mother of his kids does not exist anymore, and now he loves another. Or it could just be blind lust here that is working.
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 10:08am On Oct 22, 2010
@ Love Secretary, i have gotten enough aboki to take care of evrything grin
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 10:02am On Oct 22, 2010
Markenny:
@poster i wanna kwn if love have some thing to
do with trusthuhhuh
do u trust your girlhuh??
huh huh huh huh

Yes, love and trust do go hand in hand. i trust my girl, if i didn't trust her then she wouldn't be my girl.
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 10:52pm On Oct 21, 2010
chines4:
And where the h--l is this Doc. Well I can Understand no motivation(Pay). If you will[b] pay for consultation then Love doctor will come[/b] back now.
cheesy cheesy

Idowuogbo:
^thanks wen i talk now , dem go sey she na me dey service doctor , common he can b salvation army 4 life mehn
pay d bros pips
No mind them. But public service is a thankless service(you are not paying for the use of this forum, are you?) grin
Forum GamesRe: +what Are You Wearing Now?+ by Phate07(m): 10:32pm On Oct 21, 2010

Am wearing my space suit, on the moon. grin grin
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 10:12pm On Oct 21, 2010
Aproko:
Love doctor,

can you please explain why men leave the relationship and then want to come back? should their come-back attempt be encouraged?

thx

They might have seen some faults in their current woman and decides to go and look for one without blemishes. But after roaming, they might find none to their taste and then decide to come back to the old known love. To accept them back should be a matter of personal opinion, but i believe that they should be accepted back(ie, after much scrutiny and tests).
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 9:56pm On Oct 21, 2010
Idowuogbo:
^oga good evening your clients were disturbing me today oo , but i can see u have picked up d notes i left on your table

u surely deliver , my Oga grin grin grin grin

Thanks my dear, you are a good secretary/deputy, hope they didn't bother you much. I can see we made the front page grin grin. How was your day? Hope it was filled with much sunshine & beautiful thoughts and not as hectic as mine was.
RomanceRe: What Does It Signify by Phate07(m): 9:52pm On Oct 21, 2010

It could mean she is angry with you about something and that happened to be her best way of showing. Or maybe she is just tired of the relationship. What did you do wrong? huh
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 9:23pm On Oct 21, 2010
Quote from: Ujujoan on Today
at 11:59:11 AM

Love Doctor I have some
questions!
1. Can you truly LOVE someone
you've never met in person

2. Can you love someone and yet
love another person

3. Can Love still exist, even when
you are not happy with your
partner? In other words, can you
truly love someone who doesn't
treat you right

4. What they say about having
only one great love in a
lifetime . . . is it true
.


1. No, you cant really love someone you have never met. Cos love's borne out of different things like attraction, mutual trust and understanding. For someone you have never met, it might just be lust/infactuation(or even material things like money fooling you into thinking it is 'love').

2. Yes, it is possible in women with very complicated life. They can 'love someone' and yet 'still be in love with another'. The technicalities of it i dont have time to explain.

3. No, love cannot and would not exist when one or both parties do not feel happy or comfortable with the other's habits. What will then result will be just mere tolerance for the sake of the children or public opinion.

4. This is debatable and varies from person to person(cos humans are quite infinitesimally different in physiology and psychology). As for me, i do not believe or have faith in the hype about 'one great love'.
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 8:43pm On Oct 21, 2010
pinky lady:
love Doctor, here are my question?

1. why is it that some guys find it difficult to pour out their feelings in the presence of the girl they claim to love? they rather resort to using

   text messages.

2. and also when talking on phone with the said guy, you can never trace any feeling of love from the convoy

answer ASAP
[b]
It is a very simple irritant in everyday life called SHYNESS/INFERIORITY COMPLEX(aka low self-confidence). Though there are variations in the levels of shyness, every human being on earth can fall victim to this ill(depending on the time, place or person). Now, some people do find it difficult to address a room full of people(resulting in a stammer and even sweat), while some might find it difficult talking to a beautiful lady.

My advice to you is to give the person time to pour out his emotions and feelings through the medium he is most comfortable(in this case, sms texts). And also do try to find out the cause of the shyness(cos there's always a reason) and help him/her to overcome that feeling of low self-confidence. Do it in a way that the person will not feel slighted/insulted.

To the guys that feel shy/uncomfortable approaching a girl and telling her what's on your mind, i have this tidbit for you: THE FEAR IS NOT WORTH IT! TALK TO HER, SHE WONT KILL YOU! THE ONLY THING THAT WILL HAPPEN IS THAT SHE WILL SAY NO. And that is not the end of the world, there will always be other girls. And also try to keep the company of guys 'that are in the know' with girls. And to the ladies, pls, do not always difficult. Do give the guy a chance to say what's on his mind(ie if he looks responsible).
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