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Sorry people, i had a very busy and hectic schedule today, so i was not around to answer your questions. But am here for you now and i shall try to answer your questions to the best of my ability. I remain Phate, your NL Love Doctor. |
@poster, FB does not work like NL. On FB, you are meant to share pics and stuff with close associates, friends and family and not total strangers. It marvels me that you decided to paste you Facebook profile in a public forum like Nairaland. Or are you looking for beautiful ladies to stalk on FB? ![]() |
[b] Love 201 Topic: Lust, Attraction and Attachment Lust is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes mating, and involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone and estrogen . These effects rarely last more than a few weeks or months. Attraction is the more individualized and romantic desire for a specific candidate for mating, which develops out of lust as commitment to an individual mate. As people fall in love, the brain consistently releases a certain set of chemicals which stimulates the brain's pleasure center, leading to side effects such as increased heart rate, loss of appetite and sleep, and an intense feeling of excitement. Since the lust and attraction stages are both considered temporary, a third stage is needed to account for long-term relationships. Attachment is the bonding that promotes relationships lasting for many years and even decades. Attachment is generally based on commitments such as marriage and children, or on mutual friendship based on things like shared interests. It has been linked to higher levels of the brain than short-term relationships. [/b] |
@specialist, why are trying to put two love-birds asunder? You want to use divide and conquer, abi? Why not go straight ahead and tell Omolola what you have in mind for her, since its obvious 190 is no longer intrested. |
Bricklayer? |
Am angry wit u pig-headed he-diot! |
Tatto. |
Is he too dumb to understand the joke? |
Incorrigible Wanksta? |
Wont say what to who? |
Why do you give money to your girlfriends? ![]() Cos she's your girlfriend and thats a big commitement! |
Who am i? ![]() |
wendybaby: It depends on what causes the fight and how long the fight lasts. It's because the person has tasted what it is like to live without the special someone and the experience was not good. So after ending the quarrel/fight, their love for him/her tends to increase. Or it's just respect for the Significant Other that has increased. COS LOVE IS THE OFFSPRING OF DIFFERENT FACTORS LIKE RESPECT, TRUST AND MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING. |
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^^^ Dont mind him, he is just pulling your legs. Its only you that can tell yourself you are out of love, cos its your own life. |
Hello, Welcome. Am Phate, and I will be your host as we journey through the fantastic world of Windows Apps and Softwares from the great reams of the Internet. Lets make this thread a very addictive and lively thread for the outsourcing of cool and awesome applications and softwares for Windows. Free software (or freemium) is preferable, and try to include the direct download link. First of all, let me introduce you to ObjectDock, a customisation app. ObjectDock. Available as either a free or paid version (with additional features, of course), this software adds an animated dock to the Windows desktop which contains all your taskbar applications as well as any open ones. You can also customize the dock by adding icons to it, repositioning it, changing size, style and color,animation effect and accessibility options. Download it here: www.stardock.com/products/objectdock/downloads.asp |
Why is the thread stilll surviving till now? This argument is void and cant stand stand the test of time. On what basis are you rating yourself Nairaland Most Handsome? ![]() |
Good Morning Nairaland. Its a bright new day, filled with beautiful options and beautiful people. What do want to know about love? Ask and it shall be answered, seek and you shall find! I remain Phate, your Nairaland Love Doctor. |
^^^ What have i said that is making you label Nigerians as jesters? ![]() |
evil666: If you mean that stupid Naija governor/senator that 'married' a 13yr old Egyptian girl, then yes! But that aint no justification for you to be finking of the same thing. It is too horrible! Wake up or at best, see a psychologist! |
@poster, Paedophilia is criminal offense in many countries. And also, child abuse and child porn are punishable offences. So, be warned! Find your mate(one above 18yrs)! Find a willing partner. |
Omolola1: Yes, love can cause insanity. It can happen when one party demands and/or drains too much attention/resources from the other party. Or maybe the love is not returned, causing the person to go to great lengths to prove the love. In some cases, the 'victims' of love suppression have been known to fall into long term depression/insanity. You know you are out of love when you are no longer getting/receiving or giving/releasing the same amount of love as before. Find the reason(s) why and try to correct/neutralize them. |
@xhosachoc, lets drop all this sweet talk bull-shit. I dont know you and you dont know me. But mate, we are on a public forum and you are on my thread. I demand full respect from you, even if it's only cos am trying to be civil in trying to answer your questions. Am a gentleman, i dont beat ladies, but pls do not try to provoke me by trying to derail this thread again!! I hope we understand each other. |
pweetychic: Every person (as far as he/she has a full set of human DNA) has the capacity for love(ie to love and be loved). It is one of the unwritten fundamental human rights. He/she just need to be told/awakened to the reality of it all! Now, how do you awaken love in someone that professes to be anti-love? It is simple. Shower the person with love! But in this case you should not focus on what you are gaining from the relationship, but focus on letting him/her know what he/she stands to gain if he/she opens up to the powers of love(from you!). Also try to find out the reasons why he/she is locking up and not freeing his/her emotions. |
xhosachoc:I think i found it xhosachoc: First of all, love(ie the state of loving someone or being in love) does not necessarily mean or translate into happiness. Sometimes, love can make you suffer in utmost anguish esp when the object/subject of your love does not return your love. And no, no one person is greater than the society/community in which he/she dwells. You might bend the social rules as far as they would go, but don't blatantly disregard them. They are they for a reason, to keep us in check. Cos, as a human you need certain barriers/boundaries that should not be crossed. Am not only talking about morals here, am also talking about decorum(ie polite dignified behavoir). |
Idowuogbo: You are welcome, Comrade Secretary, but there aint any pay o. ![]() |
xhosachoc: Pls, no hating or dissing or hating is allowed on this thread. Am just trying to be of help here. Only love and questions(and constructive criticisms) are allowed. What was your question(s) again? |
190: Hey man, on no account whatsoever should you raise hand against a lady(esp your lady). It just doesn't help the situation. As for the sex part, it is a good idea. But dont be aggressive. Be gentle with her and treat her with the required petting(not just because you miss her but because you cherish her). And always remember to remind her of your love with endearing words. |
Course: Love 101 Topic: Interpersonal Love Interpersonal love refers to love between human beings. It is a more potent sentiment than a simple liking for another. Unrequited love refers to those feelings of love that are not reciprocated. Interpersonal love is most closely associated with interpersonal relationships. Such love might exist between family members, friends, and couples. There are also a number of psychological disorders related to love, such as erotomania, which is a type of delusion in which the affected person believes that another person, usually a stranger or famous person, is in love with him or her. |
Idowuogbo: Glad to hear that and know i was of some help. Play Safe. |
REALITY101: Dont be a spoil-sport. Am just trying to be helpful, or am i charging any fee for services rendered? |
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Too late been hyperventilating and palpating for hours,desperate for your input and this is how you respond?Oh doctor,i give up 
Hey doc!Is my happiness 'love' more important than social rules?