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RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 8:02pm On Oct 21, 2010

Sorry people, i had a very busy and hectic schedule today, so i was not around to answer your questions. But am here for you now and i shall try to answer your questions to the best of my ability. I remain Phate, your NL Love Doctor.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Hey People. I Need Friends On Fb: Pls Drop Ur Fb Profile If Interested Pls: by Phate07(m): 11:28am On Oct 21, 2010

@poster, FB does not work like NL. On FB, you are meant to share pics and stuff with close associates, friends and family and not total strangers. It marvels me that you decided to paste you Facebook profile in a public forum like Nairaland. Or are you looking for beautiful ladies to stalk on FB? grin grin
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 7:55am On Oct 21, 2010
[b]
Love 201
Topic: Lust, Attraction and Attachment

Lust is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes mating, and involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone and estrogen . These effects rarely last more than a few weeks or months.

Attraction is the more
individualized and romantic
desire for a specific candidate for mating, which develops out of lust as commitment to an
individual mate. As people fall in love, the brain consistently releases a certain set of chemicals which stimulates the brain's pleasure center, leading to side effects such as
increased heart rate, loss of
appetite and sleep, and an
intense feeling of excitement.
Since the lust and attraction
stages are both considered
temporary, a third stage is
needed to account for long-term relationships.

Attachment is the
bonding that promotes
relationships lasting for many years and even decades. Attachment is generally based on commitments such as marriage and children, or on mutual friendship based on things like shared interests. It has been linked to higher levels of the brain than short-term relationships.
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RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 7:15am On Oct 21, 2010

@specialist, why are trying to put two love-birds asunder? You want to use divide and conquer, abi? Why not go straight ahead and tell Omolola what you have in mind for her, since its obvious 190 is no longer intrested. grin
Forum GamesRe: Guess The Job Of The Person Above You. by Phate07(m): 5:19pm On Oct 20, 2010

Bricklayer? huh huh
Forum GamesRe: What Pissed You Off Today? by Phate07(m): 5:16pm On Oct 20, 2010

Am angry wit u pig-headed he-diot!
Forum GamesRe: The Game Starts With The Last Letter by Phate07(m): 5:12pm On Oct 20, 2010

Tatto.
Forum GamesRe: Can You Answer A Question With A Question? (remix) by Phate07(m): 5:07pm On Oct 20, 2010

Is he too dumb to understand the joke? huh huh
Forum GamesRe: Guess The Bad Habit Of The Person Above You. by Phate07(m): 5:04pm On Oct 20, 2010

Incorrigible Wanksta? huh huh grin grin
Forum GamesRe: Anonymous Message by Phate07(m): 4:51pm On Oct 20, 2010

Wont say what to who? huh huh
RomanceRe: Guys, Why Do You Give Money To Your Gf's All The Time? by Phate07(m): 4:48pm On Oct 20, 2010

Why do you give money to your girlfriends? huh huh
Cos she's your girlfriend and thats a big commitement! grin grin
Forum GamesRe: Random Facts About Yourself (part 2) by Phate07(m): 4:38pm On Oct 20, 2010

Who am i? huh
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 3:59pm On Oct 20, 2010
wendybaby:
@190, hmmm, na wah to u o!

Abeg Witch Dr. sorry our Love Dr.,

why is is that whn u fight with some1 u love, u wld feel like killing dt person,
but whn u make-up with him/her, your love for dt person develops into another level.

It depends on what causes the fight and how long the fight lasts. It's because the person has tasted what it is like to live without the special someone and the experience was not good. So after ending the quarrel/fight, their love for him/her tends to increase. Or it's just respect for the Significant Other that has increased. COS LOVE IS THE OFFSPRING OF DIFFERENT FACTORS LIKE RESPECT, TRUST AND MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING.
ComputersRe: Very Addictive Downloads And Apps For Windows by Phate07(op): 1:03pm On Oct 20, 2010

Privacy Cleaner

Square Privacy Cleaner is a
portable system cleaning and privacy protection utility which is developed to remove Windows search traces, Application ’s MRU lists, Prefetch files, Web browsers histories, Temp Folders data files, and Registry keys, with a single click.
According to the developer it is designed to make your system faster, stable and smooth to work on, at the same time protecting your privacy.  The application also caters to third-party tools, you can remove history of WinRAR, WinZip, Java
specific files (Cache, Logs & Temp folders), Media Player Classic, MS Office, and lot more.


Download it here:
www.novirusthanks.org/products/square-privacy-cleaner/
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 12:42pm On Oct 20, 2010

^^^
Dont mind him, he is just pulling your legs. Its only you that can tell yourself you are out of love, cos its your own life.
ComputersVery Addictive Downloads And Apps For Windows by Phate07(op): 11:24am On Oct 20, 2010

Hello, Welcome. Am Phate, and I will be your host as we journey through the fantastic world of Windows Apps and Softwares from the great reams of the Internet.
Lets make this thread a very addictive and lively thread for the outsourcing of cool and awesome applications and softwares for Windows. Free software (or freemium) is preferable, and try to include the direct download link.

First of all, let me introduce you to ObjectDock, a customisation app.

ObjectDock.
Available as either a free or paid version (with additional features, of course), this software adds an animated dock to the Windows desktop which contains all your taskbar applications as well as any open ones. You can also
customize the dock by adding icons to it, repositioning it,
changing size, style and color,animation effect and
accessibility options.

Download it here: www.stardock.com/products/objectdock/downloads.asp
RomanceRe: I Am The Most Handsome Guy In Nairaland by Phate07(m): 9:35am On Oct 20, 2010

Why is the thread stilll surviving till now? huh This argument is void and cant stand stand the test of time. On what basis are you rating yourself Nairaland Most Handsome? huh huh
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 6:39am On Oct 20, 2010

Good Morning Nairaland. Its a bright new day, filled with beautiful options and beautiful people. What do want to know about love? huh Ask and it shall be answered, seek and you shall find! I remain Phate, your Nairaland Love Doctor.
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 6:28am On Oct 20, 2010

^^^
What have i said that is making you label Nigerians as jesters? huh
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: I Need A 12 To 16 Yrs Fresh Meat! by Phate07(m): 12:39am On Oct 20, 2010
evil666:
Do you know Yerima? I guess not.

If you mean that stupid Naija governor/senator that 'married' a 13yr old Egyptian girl, then yes! But that aint no justification for you to be finking of the same thing. It is too horrible! Wake up or at best, see a psychologist!
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: I Need A 12 To 16 Yrs Fresh Meat! by Phate07(m): 12:13am On Oct 20, 2010
@poster,
Paedophilia is criminal offense in many countries. And also, child abuse and child porn are punishable offences.
So, be warned! Find your mate(one above 18yrs)! Find a willing partner.
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 11:49pm On Oct 19, 2010
Omolola1:
Love doctor, is it true that love is temporary insanity. Also, how do u know when u are outta loff

Yes, love can cause insanity. It can happen when one party demands and/or drains too much attention/resources from the other party. Or maybe the love is not returned, causing the person to go to great lengths to prove the love. In some cases, the 'victims' of love suppression have been known to fall into long term depression/insanity.

You know you are out of love when you are no longer getting/receiving or giving/releasing the same amount of love as before. Find the reason(s) why and try to correct/neutralize them.
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 11:27pm On Oct 19, 2010

@xhosachoc, lets drop all this sweet talk bull-shit.
I dont know you and you dont know me. But mate, we are on a public forum and you are on my thread. I demand full respect from you, even if it's only cos am trying to be civil in trying to answer your questions.
Am a gentleman, i dont beat ladies, but pls do not try to provoke me by trying to derail this thread again!! I hope we understand each other.
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 11:09pm On Oct 19, 2010
pweetychic:
Luv doctor, is it a crime to keep lurving the person that says lurv ain't existing in his dicohuh

Every person (as far as he/she has a full set of human DNA) has the capacity for love(ie to love and be loved). It is one of the unwritten fundamental human rights. He/she just need to be told/awakened to the reality of it all!
Now, how do you awaken love in someone that professes to be anti-love? It is simple. Shower the person with love! But in this case you should not focus on what you are gaining from the relationship, but focus on letting him/her know what he/she stands to gain if he/she opens up to the powers of love(from you!). Also try to find out the reasons why he/she is locking up and not freeing his/her emotions.
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 10:38pm On Oct 19, 2010
xhosachoc:
angry Too late been hyperventilating and palpating for hours,desperate for your input and this is how you respond?Oh doctor,i give up lipsrsealed
I think i found it
xhosachoc:
cool Hey doc!Is my happiness 'love' more important than social rules?

First of all, love(ie the state of loving someone or being in love) does not necessarily mean or translate into happiness. Sometimes, love can make you suffer in utmost anguish esp when the object/subject of your love does not return your love.
And no, no one person is greater than the society/community in which he/she dwells. You might bend the social rules as far as they would go, but don't blatantly disregard them. They are they for a reason, to keep us in check. Cos, as a human you need certain barriers/boundaries that should not be crossed. Am not only talking about morals here, am also talking about decorum(ie polite dignified behavoir).
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 10:20pm On Oct 19, 2010
Idowuogbo:
hehehe na u talk am o
wey dokita sef im patient nid prescription oo

madam na fight abeg go meet dem 4 iraq
am jus seyin he wud b wiv u shortly , abi na crime
inshort am his secretary  cool cool cool

You are welcome, Comrade Secretary, but there aint any pay o. grin
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 10:13pm On Oct 19, 2010
xhosachoc:
shocked you are a pointless doc!i knew it!Why have you evaded my question?'doctor'?

Pls, no hating or dissing or hating is allowed on this thread. Am just trying to be of help here. Only love and questions(and constructive criticisms) are allowed.
What was your question(s) again?
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 9:32pm On Oct 19, 2010
190:
love doctor pls can i beat lola i mean beat her black and blue and give her a blackeye or i should rather i should kiss and av agresive sex wit her cos shes makin me miss her unnecessrily

Hey man, on no account whatsoever should you raise hand against a lady(esp your lady). It just doesn't help the situation.
As for the sex part, it is a good idea. But dont be aggressive. Be gentle with her and treat her with the required petting(not just because you miss her but because you cherish her). And always remember to remind her of your love with endearing words.
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 9:16pm On Oct 19, 2010

Course: Love 101
Topic: Interpersonal Love

Interpersonal love refers to love
between human beings. It is a
more potent sentiment than a
simple liking for another.
Unrequited love refers to those
feelings of love that are not
reciprocated. Interpersonal love
is most closely associated with
interpersonal relationships. Such
love might exist between family
members, friends, and couples.
There are also a number of
psychological disorders related
to love, such as erotomania, which is a type of delusion
in which the affected person
believes that another person,
usually a stranger or famous
person, is in love with him or
her.
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 9:04pm On Oct 19, 2010
Idowuogbo:
hehhe , love doctor
afraid ke never , who no me
i jus dint wanna write paragraph dat al but hey u delivered Doc

i was tracing some past step  wink wink wink grin

@reality
i wonder oo grin grin grin grin

Glad to hear that and know i was of some help. Play Safe. cheesy
RomanceRe: Love Doctor- What Do You Want To Know About Love? by Phate07(op): 8:38pm On Oct 19, 2010
REALITY101:
Love dockitor, how do i know you ain't on some cheap expire love crack

Dont be a spoil-sport. grin Am just trying to be helpful, or am i charging any fee for services rendered? huh

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