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Ndi church...

Hmmmmmm!
But Hakim wife filled for divorce so how would they remain one when they tend to go separate ways after divorce?

Beze992:
When it's even difficult in this Nigeria to provide one's basic needs, that's the one you're playing the role of a father for a girl...... Easy with the exaggeration abeg.

You are not a man so you wont understand a shit.

muhammaduyusufu:
This man is as sly as a snake. Today, he would insult Obidients, tomorrow, he would insult BATist. The day after tomorrow, he would tell Igbos to go and develop sambisa. Lol

Truth shouldn't be one sided, saying anything in anyone's favor doesn't mean he won't say something against that person tomorrow.

The video is not up to the hype.

Niggars been doing dick enlargement, Bitches been doing p***y tightening...

Confused set of people.

Hmmmmm!
Scientific Maximum Shi-Shi is a behavioral resettling antidote on OAU campus, it's so unfortunate that the victim lost his life though.

Rokiat:
And yet they will be complaining that Nigerian women like money but will be giving it out to other women interesting.

Liking money is never a crime but the insatiable demanding nature of most women is what is killing us. How can you expect a man you just met to start playing the roles of your father by providing basically everything you need?

Ireportlive:





The interview is actually an indictment on Datti and a corroboration to Professor Soyinka's claim of Datti's fascism .... She did a wonderful job defending Datti with a falasy of the pronouncement by INEC not meeting constitutional requirements but she failed to offer an evidence




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If announcing an election winner at 4:00am is not evidence enough then I wonder what else will surpass.

Tochitee:
See the loser party nonetities chestbeating. The same chestbeating that makes ojukwu scamper in safty adorning his wife dress!namdi kanu said nigeria will fall if anything happen to him.All you biafra zombies said buhari dares not arrest him.he has connection with INEC,WAEC FIFA,WORLDBANK.he is a uk citizen bla,bla,where is the monkey now?obi pandora will end up in Kuje prison eating watery beans the way he's going about his lose!

The warning was coming from a yoruba prophet so I wonder why you are dragging igbos and calling them chest beaters.
You think it's all about igbos right?

BrighterThanDay:
As a child from a broken home, I saw marriage as my happy ending of finally having a home filled with love and mutual understanding. After the death of my mom, growing up with my dad and stepmom was hell. I was treated as a stranger in my own home, so I thought starting my own family will be a lot better.

After I completed my education and got a good job. I had a lot of suitors willing to settle down with me. Most of them were rich and accomplished men, but there was no spark, I felt they weren't genuinely in love with me, and since I was never a materialistic person, I turned them down. I get easily content with what I have and I spend prudently. Then I met my husband. It happened that I was his crush back then in school, in fact, he even approached me as a student then, but I turned him down because I knew where I was coming from and I never wanted to gamble with my studies, it was my only hope to leave my father's house and fend for myself.

Fast forward to when I met my husband after school. He didn't even have a good job. But I could tell I meant a great deal to him, we'll speak for hours on the phone. I fell hopelessly in love with him, I could already picture a happy home with him and our kids. Then he proposed, and I accepted. I met his family, they were nice on the first visit.

After the introduction ceremony with my family, I started noticing certain things. I was taking pictures with his phone when I saw a message from his mom telling him I'm a stranger and he shouldn't allow me to come between them. I was surprised and wondered where all this was coming from, I asked him and he reassured me that it was nothing.

Then his father told me that hope I know that a son should love and care for his parents more than his kids. I kept pondering this statement. Then the worse of it all was his married sister, she hasn't even met me, but she rained insults and abuses on me on his phone and why he needs to make money first and allow his family to enjoy his money, before getting married. She said I was old, and just forcing him to marry me. I was just 26 then, but my education was very fast.

I had to speak to her dad about this and he cautioned her. I tried speaking to her myself but she rained insults again on me. I called off the wedding at a point but my then-fiance begged and involved my brother and so we went on with the wedding preparations. The wedding went well and his entire family stayed with us for a week before leaving.

My husband got a good job, I was working, we were fine and money wasn't our problem. A few months later, my father-in-law died. I sent messages and called hubby's siblings to comfort them. I couldn't travel with him immediately due to the nature of my job. I kept calling to check on him and inquire about the traditional rites I might need to be a part of. Hubby said his father was a pastor so he won't need to do anything, while we were yet speaking, his sister who hates me snatched the phone from him and said I have to do this and that or I should pack my things and leave the house and then she shouted at me.

I was so pissed and acted in a way that wasn't right considering that we were all mourning. I sent a message to her, telling her to be nice considering that we are all mourning but if she chooses to continue insulting and humiliating me for no reason, I won't take it. She forwarded the message to the entire family, including uncles, aunts, and grandchildren. On the day of the burial, I was treated as an outcast by the entire family, she told them not to give my birth family food, even though they came bearing gifts and comforting everyone. Hubby had to step in and ask the caterers to serve them.

She kept fighting and shouting at my hubby throughout the burial and tried denying him of things he was supposed to do as the first son and child. I was humiliated and she kept castigating my name and insulting me to hearings of everyone. I wasn't even allowed to eat. I was quiet all through, when family members were asked to sit behind the corpse, she asked me to excuse them.

For fear of my life after the burial, I had to go lodge in a hotel outside. The next morning she and her brother kept shouting and complaining that why did hubby allow me to lodge and that I should have been with their mom. They continued the humiliation, I couldn't take it anymore or hold back my tears so I left.

Hubby later told me that she held a meeting in my absence with the entire family and told them I'm a bad wife and needs to leave her brother. This was when hubby stood up for me and said I wasn't going anywhere.

Our marriage was never the same. Even when we had our daughter, no one called, hubby was ostracized from his own family and he blamed me sometimes. I couldn't concentrate at work, and my job is performance-based. I was scared that I'll be fired, so I resigned.

Hubby's income wasn't enough to sustain us, so we started facing financial difficulties. He had to even go meet the same sister to borrow money, even though I discouraged it. She always mocked him for it and I had to pay off the loan at a point.


When she saw that we are now broke, she stopped fighting with him and they are on talking terms now, of course, she still wants nothing to do with me. I know that they are family by blood and nothing is too hard to forgive, but each time she calls and they are happily discussing, Ican't help but feel angry for all she has caused us. I'm sometimes tempted to leave this marriage because this is not what I envisaged at all.

My brother is also married and I have never felt the need to interfere in his marriage or fight his wife.

I don't know how long I can continue in this union, even my innocent beautiful daughter is hated by them.

Why would you quit your job? You should have married your job and forget about the cursed family. You should have focused more on giving your daughter a good life instead.

Jennyclay:
were you there when the incident happened? Do you really know what transpired?

Nigerian men are so wicked and evil. The man successfully carried out his wicked agenda then ran away, only for him to report to the police himself so that people would think he's innocent.

We already know the ways of you wicked and evil Nigerian men. He's a rapist and a Murderer. God has exposed him.

Evil men everywhere!! Shior!!

You sure do need some mental evaluations.

Generalwoodz:
Nothing will stop his swearing in. Drug or no drug

As long as he is a tribesman everything goes.

Hmmmmmmm!
Naijiria jagajaga.

Ndi church and their palaver.

Nigerians claim to be worshipping God yet the country is in disarray. God is not a God of confusion so I wonder the exact God these people claim to worship.

For the ceiling... 1150000 naira only.

For the screeding... 495000 naira only.

Benwallt:
Where are you? I can't see you anywhere.

Devil is synonymous with black. You can hardly see jagaban and Atiku and even Buhari in dark clothes because they are all children of light. We need no gloom and doom in our fine country.


How is okija shrine?

Putting on white or bright color clothings hasnt stopped all those you mentioned above from been so atrocious, callous, wicked and evil. You think putting on whites is now synonymous to pure hearts?

Nigeria is in perpetual state of mourning is just that people are been pretentious about it. How can so many numbers of people be dying on a daily basis yet we act as if everything is okay. Let us mourn for our dear nation wholeheartedly.

Corn247:
Na perpetual mourning, black always

Do you know that I have also decided to always put on black clothes just to mourn Nigeria...

madridguy:
Do you blame them but our government that allow every tom and jerry to make video and post in online. Useless people always painting Nigeria black and tomorrow such people will be begging the same FG to come and evacuate them in same country to are praising.

There's always room for improvements, he was only asking for improvements.

kings59:
What should I do please?

Should I cash out or wait?

Anybody to win is probable, dont cash out yet but to stay glue to the game for any eventualities.

Goalnaldo:
please bring buyer, i believe you die. I will even sell my elder brother's own also.

You too like family meeting sha, you wan make dem call another family meeting on top your head...

Eat away jare nothing do you.

Dont break up physically with her but break up with her in your mind. She's just a farm tool and you can keep using her while other magas would be the ones to pick up the bills.

Hmmmmmm!
If I talk wetin my eye and neck see for relationship I swear nairaland server go shut down till 2030...

The punch line is heavier than the one style bender used in finishing his opponent...


I'm afraid we would have to wait till eternity for such a debate since the potential co-debater is somewhere in France/UK receiving steroids into his veins.

Billings! Billings!! Billings!!!

If Ekiti can vote for APC and hoping to get money later due to the cashless policy then ashawos should be able to offer pay later service...

Godwin4444:
in Nigeria a certain tribe will condemn Nigeria government n start writing letter to Germany to come n take over Nigeria

Wont it be better for Germany to come take over Nigeria?

Arrewa:
Nothing way I Arewa no go see for nairaland!!

Seee as them Rush push the news go front Page!

Observe this thread and you'll how happy the children of hate are...

Nothing gives them pleasure like seeing disagreement or conflict among northern tribes!!

That's why they've been pushing the middle belt agenda to cause division in the north!!

Let's make this clear, there is no clash between Hausa and Fulani in sokoto and there will never be...

There's only clash farmers and some herdsmen which happens occasionally...

And here, we have our own way of resolving and disescalting such conflict!

When Obedients say “Middle belt” they mean “Christian belt” but what they failed to realize is even in their so called “Christian belts” Muslims have the higher population!!

Niger is 75% Muslims with a Muslim governor Sani Bello

Kogi is 60% Muslims with yahya bello as the governor!

Kwara with 70%. Muslim population with Abdullarazak as their governor!!

Nasarwa is 65% Muslim population with Abdullahi sule as their governor!!

In the north central only plateau and Benue have Christian governors!!

With plateau having 50-50 both faith population while Benue is the only state in the north central with over 90% Christian population yet piter obi lost the state!!

The north remain the most united region in Nigeria with over 300 ethnic groups!!

Children of hate are already celebrating the war between Hausa and Fulani... Una go wait tire!!

These two tribes with time have intertwined into the most powerful Nation in Nigeria!!

Lol...
So there's nothing like middle belt then?

Our educational institutions would have been peaceful if not for the fact that one man deemed it necessary to introduce cultism into a supposed citadel of learning.
The cultism spill over effects on our streets and neighborhoods has become so menacing to the detrimental growth of our youths who if lucky not to die young would eventually grow notoriously into other forms of criminalities.

Agbadocassava:
Buhari supporters in 2011 were not on internet and their madness only limited to the north. And nobody was asking for annulment of election and interim government then.

Annulment or interim government wouldn't cost anybody's life but 2011 madness cut short so many promising life.
Buhari supports in 2011 were not on internet but we were able to read the evils perpetrated on the internet.