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Too Much Information

You specifically requested for no PMs in one of your siggies

The topic is exhaustive
Nothing to add

alutacontinua:
what does that mean (tmi)?
And I've not been getting PMs of late
worrisdat?

back to topic-pickabeau, say something!

dober:
Yes I did. Though my audio wasn't very clear due to poor network. From their presentation, nothing new from what we already know about express entry..

Thats one of the challenges with our network here
Good information

alutacontinua:
Yes!
I love my vaagina

Ow KAY ---- TMI

He gave a detailed break down

In his email to me

He mentioned the school fees was 27,000 with a late fee penalty of 5,000
There is a 4,000 for EDS - Enterpreneurial Development Studies


I guess if there was a delay beyond a certain date, there was an additional penalty

Ikani... do you now see the problem with lies
Everyone doubts you even when you are saying the truth

nannymcphee:
The above quote was the question I asked you & here is the link

https://www.nairaland.com/1129091/nairalander-pay-school-fees/10#30093295

you told me the 35k was just for your fees only(ie it didn't cover course reg fee, faculty due & departmental due) below is ur actual response



Q1. why didnt you mention it here from the start that ur fees was 26k & that there was a delay fine of 5k?

Q2.In your response to me above you said the school fee is 35k & the more delay will lead to additional payment, why didn't you tell the house that because of the delay the 26k has bumped up to 35k & it could still increase?

But u gave the impression that the actual fee is 35k & delay could cause it to increase(another emotional blackmail)

alutacontinua:
Hallelujah somebody!
Finally, a thread that speaks to moi
bless you, aisha

Are u tired of being agender now

did anyone partake in the WES organised Express Entry Information session

NickiRoman:
Hmmmn,That's true being dependant on anybody breeds contempt

Exactly it is independent of gender

LordReed:
Darn right. There is even another side to the abuse and that is some of such woman become so idle they begin to do all the wrong things, drugs, alcohol, gossip mongering, adultery, gluttony and whatnot. I won't support such rubbish.

Yes while more common with ladies
Men too who are dependent on their wives get involved with sleeping around and watch football highlights all day

In my opinion a woman who has to take time off work for family reasons should have a target

Have kids quickly or space well
Keep relevant with trainings, certification or volunteering
Resume to work

The major issue is the economic situation where jobs r scarce

LordReed:
And what if her dream is simply to keep house and have enough time for her family without being distracted by a 9 to 5?

Some have this dream and there are guys who are capable of supporting such

It is however fraught with potential abuse as you are dependent on the man

soonest:
I have no time for joy in my life.I am beyond redemption.

Stalker leaping into what is not your business.
So this is how your life is
Sorry o

babyosisi:
I have not read the story of a single nigerian man in the USA murdered by his wife
Not one
Women are generally good
The few women in Nigeria and here who kill their husbands are usually abused Women who have endured years of physical or sexual and emotional torture until they snapped
Women are not built to kill
We are built to nurture,that's why we have wombs and carry babies and also nurse them

Wat of poisoned
Or those bankrupted by no fault divorces

cococandy:
You will call me when what starts?

Your POV is interesting too.

You will make excuses for a man who actually kills his wife but will scream blue murder at a woman who didn't kill her husband just that she didn't mourn him.

Try to be fair and balanced small. It doesn't cost money.

So your faculty still says I'm making excuses for murder even after countless posts condemning such....

Bloody hell. ....

OK..you win

3cycle:
Where is Pickabeau? Come tell us which of these melts your heart. Want to be really sure you're human.

How far madam
Im.human na

@Thermythorpe



Whats the point of this

zeezahbee:
God forbid, i know how crazy it was to have a stepmother. YOU ARE A REPLICA of my step mom
you will have hypertension if you keep running from pillar to post calling someone else a slut and hating on a kid

have you tested your BP today?

Why do you think any other average woman will act different from what this lady and how your step mom did

Coco


I will call you when it starts


Just saw your rant up ahead

So it is OK for a woman to grieve when her fiancé or boyfriend dies but its forbidden for her to mourn the fada of her kids when he dies because he had An affair at the time

Interesting

coogar:
you are still tending to believe?
there are stacks of empirical evidences everywhere if you bother to check. they can never see anything good about nigerian men cos their own fathers were grossly irresponsible.

before you date any nigerian woman, it's imperative to find out her relationship with her dad. if she grew up in an abusive home, there's a higher risk she would be a man-hater. some of the stories their mothers told them about men is forever etched on their hearts.

Really sad

They lack authority figures in their lives that's why they are just mouthed

It's a sign of strength to them

Fawklicant:
Most Nigerian girls do. Before I date any naija babe, I try to find out about her relationship with her father, because either way she is going to judge me by those standards. If her dad is/was irresponsible, she will watch out for any slightest trait from you. If on the other hand, he is/was a loving and caring father, then you got a lot of work to do.

Makes sense

Cococandy...be direct
Now you r suddenly defending naija men..you?!
When posters call all men ràpists or pedophiles
What do you do..you laugh...

There must be a reason why a lot of females here hate men

coogar:
some of them never had responsible fathers to start with. they still carry the scars of their childhood and they see their deadbeat dads in every nigerian male.

you cannot really blame them.

Actually I am tending to believe this more n more

Some of them call all men ràpists

They see men via the lens of their fathers

bukatyne:
There is bias, all can see

@Rehashing peoples past: there is a difference between mocking people with their pasts and calling them out when they make posts contrary to their initial stance...

If tomorrow I support a working wife getting spousal support, I am sure you will either quote my posts on This thread or never take me as a woman of my words again.

If you quote me to challenge me on my earlier stance, I should be humble enough to acknowledge my stance has changed due to newer experiences.

I don't say A on one thread and say B or advise someone to do C in a similar situation. But again, We are all not the same.

Infact, I like knowing What people stand for, it saves me a lot of roundabout arguments

Continue with your bias hunting then

coogar:
hahahaha
this is another nigerian woman murdered by her husband.



did the coven witches not say only bush african men especially nigerian men cannot cope with the laws of the US?

well, her hubby is an american - he's never stepped foot in africa. if nigerian women are getting killed by nigerians, americans, etc then what's the common factor here?

You dey mine them
See the õrgy of rants that permeated the thread

A particular poster was just screaming in CAPs
I can imagine her vessels throbbing with her glee to just bastardise naija men

bukatyne:
Funny

Open ended statements

My POV s are always clear

Considering the fact you did not answer my questions on This thread, it is strange talking about answering questions.

OwKay

bukatyne:
The root cause analysis

I hope If the cases are reversed, We will be willing to do RCA.

We are on the same page

I'm not on the page of rehashing peoples pasts to mock them

This IS A forum...issues are dissected

I wonder why you think issues of females will not be so

You see bias everywhere...

mutter:
I just understand why this is hard to understand.

As in

bukatyne:
Good to see me commenting How?

I expected you to make one or two open ended statements but u r actually answeing questions
Keep it up

bukatyne:
I hope women who 'snap' and kill their husbands get such understanding from NL

Once again.there is no understanding

Everyone has been unequivocally condemning the act

Its about the root cause yet you persist in your path of ridicule

bukatyne:
Maybe maybe not

OK

Good to see you commenting these days

LostMermaid:
Because I noticed that that thought is not right, and wrote it here with sincere honesty, in hopes of fixing it [/b]with your (comment writers) help.

"Help"

Not judgement or condemnation.

In my opinion, ANYONE, who realizes their fault (even if it's just [b]a thought- and not action! Because I have lovely relations with his kid), and seeks help to fix it, deserves respect.

Since you are honest about ur thoughts

I've said before.. Let the man be if you cant stomach the kid being involved in your life

Simple

If you can love her as your own and not be partial to your own kids honest to God then go ahead

No one here can help u

bukatyne:
I don't think he encouraged laziness either

He used couples with wide range of income

Are those couples representative of the norm?

Marriage subsidy in event of divorce...OK o

carefreewannabe:
Show us the statistics and when doing so, please consider the proportions of women accepting children from other women as compared to men accepting children from other men. I am waiting.

Don't bother waiting

carefreewannabe:
Why should I go and figure it out when you seem to be the expert who knows the numbers?

Ok

bukatyne:
I have stated it na

No SS for a working spouse.

Child support must be paid to the spouse with the child till the child is done with tertiary education

Also a fair position rather than encouraging laziness

carefreewannabe:
You are very wrong.

There have been cases of stepfathers who (sexually) abused their stepchildren so leave gender out of it.

Western fairy tales often deal with wicked stepmothers, it is a reoccurring theme in some of them so leave nationality out of it.

Kids often suffer because some people, such as the OP, are immature and insecure and because others are wicked. It has nothing to do with gender or nationality.

I never mentioned nationality

So how many cases based on ratio do u see evil stepdads to evil step moms

Go figure

bukatyne:
About What?

You interpreted our positions

What is your own position