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Dbestmax

I will not blame keshi fully for the current debacle

I wonder why u think im not a bro

Dbestmax:
Gbam...pik A BOW....u get sense

How u dey... how u see am

I blame keshi for only one thing


Not leaving when d ovation was loudest

I winder why we don't say anything about the NFF issues, the nonchalance of the players and the fact that the player pipeline is dry.

But its easier to blame keshi than think of that

BluIvy:
Jesus! Could someone take me for SA demon deliverance at SCOAN. HABA! Its really a worry now.

Sorry...

freshdude2:
Fish brain tins, pseudo-relationship expert tins, cluelessness tins, this thread is full of dis tinz. .


Men are telling you what obtains in the real world but you'd prefer the romance novel and theoretical relationship realm? smh

BABE3:
2 years is all they need. After the honeymoon phase; when attention becomes useless.

Buncha Disney girls.

I don't even fault some guys for not giving the attention. A good number of girls have nothing upstairs apart from brazillian hair and telemundo. Why won't they prefer to spend time with their friends, when their gfs can't even hold intelligent conversations?

I was trying to be nice
Lol......don't worry they will start spouting radical manhate then.


Exactly what I said in my summary


This chic is a trophy wife who just happens to earn some money


He does not see her as relevant to Hus hustle n still she hates his pals..
Double whammy

For those typecasting guys based on comments on this thread
I wish y'all the best in your search for attention and emotional security

Come back in 5 years time and tell us how your Odyssey went.

I remember one babe1/2 that had to pretend just to keep a relationship being a fierce woman and all

No worry una still dey in demand....
No be today nyaansh dey back

Amelian:
ortunity to date a BROKE guy or Stingy Guy. ... u wont even ask anybody, whether dis one, u have is a husband material or not...u will grab him and guard him jealously with everything u av... he spends on you, financially without splitting bills with you, u r there having second thots....
let other ladies or some married women tell u what they are going through with their husband... u will shout halleluyah, with your own man.

u still young... 24? .....not much experience with guys... my dear, erase 2nd thots and be grateful he takes care of his responsibility without asking u for a penny.

happy married life in advance.... be wise... marriage is not Mills and Boons

Lol........... I don't think she is ready for that step


She should free d guy
He even bought a car for d babe...

That is if this story is true....

coogar:
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Loool

GoodFaith:
I am sorry

Its OK...bro

philfearon:
Hello My fellow Dominion fans,The long awaited Good news is finally here...Am sorry am posting this info late!!
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Yay

Gabriel vs Michael

BABE3:
Guys, listen to this nonsense at your own peril....
Chris brown don talk am finish

"When a rich nigga want you
and your nigga can't do nothing for you
these hoês ain't loyal"

most women will rather have a rich and cheating husband than a broke and faithful one that showers them with attention.

why did OP say yes knowing "attention" was a major problem? Answer on a big placard pls... anyone

Its all about the money money
We don't need your money
It's not about the price tag

FynBabe:
All I'm saying is that there should be a balance between the two.

Hahhaha...now u r advocating balance I thought u were all about attention not money..


That was an epic fail..Lol



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abeautifulchick:
Hmm.its difficult but i think i am out of options here.i have sat him down couple of time to discuss this matter but instead he bought me my own car so that i dont have to call him to take me around.i have tried breaking up before now but he went on his knees and begged me not to leave him.i truly love him and i know he loves me so much.Is there no other approach other than leaving him?

I will say it again...

Make yourself relevant to him n not be a trophy chic

Learn about his hustle
Warm to his friends

Orr else let someone else have him

FynBabe:
Guys, please do not ignore your wife/girlfriend deliberately o! This is how it starts and madam will begin to eye your male domestic staff in your absence. Pickabeau1, I laugh in swahili . I repeat, no woman loves money more than attention!

My dear..have u dated a broke dude before

abeautifulchick:
Am 24,he is 30

6 year gap

Well from what u said and not said
Here is my deduction


You r a trophy babe.
Hes ambitious and needs to make the stash
He loves his network and it seems u r not into his friends
You don't seem to be interested in his hustle or he does not see your value in his hustle.

Summary

Make yourself valuable to him or ur feelings of non-relevance to him will increase and u will become a nag

Else leave him and move on

FynBabe:
Why do most guys think women value money more than anything else in a relationship? Just like guys can not survive without respect in a relationship, so women can not do without attention money.

Corrected

abeautifulchick:
I am a graduate,do you mean gap in location or age? And yes he consults me before taking decisions though not all only the ones that concerns me

Age

GoodFaith:
Sorry
I am a man
in all families there are good and bad
I know u are the bad seed

Lol....u don't get d humour...

However u r right dat bad pple and good pple exist everywhere just that the spate of threads labelling all men as bad was my point
im no bad seed

GoodFaith:
What program?
Nigerian women cheating on the down low
Sorry NO

The NL women program
All men are bad except their family members

abeautifulchick:
That is the one that hurt me most and he can even abandon me just for a drink with his friends e.g he have abandoned me at the airport once with heavy luggages and said i should pick a cab just because he was busy hanging out with his friends.But he gives me almost anything i asked for financially.

So he abandoned you once and you believe that he does not care about you
He may be a pragmatic fellow that feels it is better to spend 50 dollars than spend 500 dollars in traffic

Time is money

One more question

Are you working or a student

Age gap between u and him

Also has he ever consulted u on anything before and what was that

is that the only character flaw you observed

abeautifulchick:
Hi guys,i just said yes to my boyfriend of 2 years but i still have doubts because there are some of his characters that i dont want in a husband.E.g The fact that he makes business and money a priority over me and so on.Should i go ahead and marry him or i should quit the relationship now that i still can? Will he ever change?

GoodFaith:
Here u go again " customized cheating machines "
Nigerian women don't cheat, please keep that BS in ur pocket
Nigerian women are the biggest cheater out there but they just do it on the down low
U know better

u need to get with the program..

naija women dont even fart

you can never miss all naija on any ZA thread
It seems to be a burden to him

I agree with u but not in naija
Our leaders will borrow to fund their profligacy

I think u meant lower oil prices

netotse:
I've not being following it either but following oil prices are a must o...you can use them to estimate the general direction the country/economy will take.

Higher oil prices will mean a decrease in govt spending, this will mean a general absence of cash and this could lead to unrest in certain places as the boys will be broke.(Lagos is an outlier, there's a substantial amount of private money flowing there).

The fact that elections are around the corner doesn't make things look any better for the Nigerian economy...I tire for our case.




Bros, I will hand my pension over to you(the thing kuku no plenty ) if you can relate the falling oil prices to pipeline vandalism...no jokes!

netotse:
oil is going to $70 per barrel and you guys are still watching grown men chase a rubber sphere up and down...shm

For real though, I'm worried about this continued drop in oil prices...men need to start earning more to survive in this Nigeria.

its a big issue..
ive not really been following the news that much

Dbestmax:
Hmmm
PickAboW
U watch football?

of course!

TV01:
Toto Schillaci...


TV

LOL....

EPL resumes on Saturday

Lewis coasting with the F1 title...

ok

SAMBARRY:
how does your question repair the damage the woman has done. Why don't you ask the beater

I am asking you.. if say your friend came to you that she wants to confront the side chic; what will u advise she does

SAMBARRY:
fighting the other woman will not padlock his pheenese. Are you satisfied now?

Yes.. so what do u recommend the wife does if her hubby is cheating

bigheart2013:
You never marry and you are already planning what you will do with an imaginary wife...haba! What if the woman doesn't want to have joint purse with you, will you force her? Na so fight dey carry start between spiritual wives and spiritual husbands. Please marry first and show us pics on Nairaland to confirm, then ask us this questions. For now I advise you concentrate on your studies and work.

But to help you small, there's nothing wrong if the other partner agrees, but don't force him or her. Simply have a financial plan and budget for your family and let the most frugal person in the house run the budget. Usually women are more financially frugal...u get my verdict.

However joint account works only if a man is making more money, if the woman is making more money, she will never agree to joint account. Ask your dad!

The bolded is so funny...

SAMBARRY:
which one be ya own. Shebi you Don ask kweshon and I don answer am
ewoni eleyi gan todemura kankan kan.abeg dress o jare.ma disturb mi

u neva answer d kweshion

Wetin pesin dey learn for the film