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No problem

Let me know when u do

bukatyne:
I would have to read it up. I will do so and comment later

Thanks

@ theLORDreigns:


most? why not all

appreciate the shout out

bukatyne:
Of late, I just kind of comment and blank out a thread or un-follow

Honestly, I did not even read their conversation.

@Paul: He was one controversial apostle. I am sure it was one of his punishments as a result of his former life . He has been so misinterpreted and twisted to suit all sides of the divide...

LOL.. i get he is controversial especially on the women not to talk in church bit but i dont see how he justified slavery at all
What is your opinion on the debate so far between myself and Shirley

bukatyne:
@pickabeau1,

This was my first comments and thoughts.

Was there something in particular you wanted my thoughts on?

Not on the thread per se

But the points laid out by shirley on Paul endorsing slavery etc

bukatyne:
As I am not a mind reader, I will wait for him to explain what he means. I read the post and had 2 interpretations to it.

I guess I have looked at that thread but let me check again

The party was fun

Ok...no problem

bukatyne:
Can you please type in English?

Thanks in advance

Too much party tinz lol
He wrote in english

He says that women physically responding to male verbal abuse was not seen as abuse unlike the reverse

Case in point...solange n jay z


meanwhile I will like your thoughts on this thread https://www.nairaland.com/1947677/gender-inequality-why-things-wont/2#27170662

Amhappy:
I saw them as a perfect couple and the guy always make up for his absence by spending most of his free time with her. For me the guy wasnt that bad considering his tight schedule. I dont know if he is married yet.

ok..
wish her d best

You have gotten your wish

RoyalRoy:
For The Present

Still on still.... Stephen Keshi must..............

https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/huh-run.gif

Nonso23:
Very short lived spice niyen o. After the spice next thing will be total chaos and disorder like Romance sexsion .

Make I start to dey scout viable sections to port to in case this hostile takeover is really going down

LOL...

Nonso23:
And family section is gradually being infiltrated. Next up:

Who is the most beautiful sugar mummy on NL?

Who is the most 'maga-rated' sugar daddy on NL?

HELP! I want to marry _____ (insert the moniker)

And so on and so forth.

This will spice up the sexsion

booked

I enjoyed it also

May vs Mae

But I wonder how Coulson lasted with Agent 33


The Hydra guy is evil..see fear of God in Raina...lol

48h..I guess we will see a move from Skye's dad

Amhappy

If I may ask why do u wonder why she did it

Has d man also married?

Anyone that imbibes Shirley doctrines has herself to blame

Lol...what is your name

I am Legion for we are many

Following

I hope keshi has silenced his critics..





























...... For the present

moca:
Ok, maybe i didnt digest it well but my anger was how u guys jumped to condemn d act.
Here used to be fun. Lots of people have left bc of this my group their group thing i see here.

Everybody used to hv one voice,even if u r against a post u state it and not attacking d poster.

Sincerely speaking, its no longer fun here. Even people hardly bring up issues here cos of attack.

We need to change. Nobody(except few) knew anybody here and so why cant all be friends and argue constructively most times?

I thought we are all adults.

But i hear u o

Lol....Now u r doing exactly what u are trying to speak against

You self admittedly did not read the post but went on attack mode

The post is about companies helping women freeze their eggs so they can work now and have children later

I feel a better alternative is for companies to support women in balancing family and career.

A lady like you MzMyColi made a comment highlighting the possible discrimination those who juggle career and family will face from those who froze eggs if this practice becomes institutionalised in d career world.
No one condemned the act. A more family suitable option was proposed.

So let's all take time to post on the issue at hand rather than on some perceived notion that people attack people.

I believe we are all adults...don't you

osystein:
She was referring to al4naija...

Oh..just as I was

Shirley07:
You and ok... Ok don bath? Mtcheww.

Lol...why d hiss....

Shirley07:
There was no hierarchy when God created man and woman until man sinned. Even then, Christ's death has liberated us from every curse and sin.
Let look at it this way, in the old testament, men were allowed to have more than one and divorce anyhow without any consequence because they were made the head. However, Christ rejected such notion and went back to the purpose of creation. When he was asked, he said 'In the beginning...'. He didn't say after man sinned and in the beginning, the purpose of female creation for a male was for companionship and not for him to rule over. In the end, Christ death wiped that curse away and I remain a free woman.
Let me also tell you that there's no hierarchy between God, the Son and the Holy Spirit. They shares the same body and same communion, eventhough they are different being. For example, God does whatever Christ tells him and vice versa, same with the Holy Spirit. Nobody commands anyone, they are one body, the way husband and wives should be because they have become one.
As for the Angels and Archangels, they are God's creations.

ok...all is well

^^^^Lol

Very funny way u put it

Shirley07:
Christ chose the 12 disciples signifying the 12 tribes. I don't actually understand what you're implying here but let me tell you what I think. There's absolute no way Christ would have chosen a woman among because the disciples were required to undergo many stress and uncomfortable activities like sleeping in the wilderness/rock, moving from place to place, wadding on boats and not to forget that if one or two women were to be in their midst, they would lose focus. However, Christ had more than 12 followers in the end and these followers includes women such as Mary Madgalene, Lazarus' sister and not to forget his mother, Mary e.t.c.
And what do you mean by answerable to him? If your father sent you an errand, won't you do it? But if you're implying master and slave relationship, my answer is emphatic no.
Lastly, I will say it's not my interpretation. It's what Paul said.

You are the one bringing slavery here

The point is there is a hierarchy in Gods kingdom as he is a God of order

Father Son Spirit Archangel angel

I don't know what u r trying to way that there is no hierarchy in the kingdom

Why MUST white b done

Court is necessary

Shirley07:
The people in that parable are the ministers of God sent out to capture souls for God.
And no, the first person Christ appeared to was Mary Madgalene.
That said, Christ is my Lord but I'm no slave, rather I'm God's child.
And if you don't understand what Paul wrote, let me tell you what he said. According to Paul, African are better off being a submissive trembling slave to their white master than fighting for their freedom.
And whatever you're saying doesn't change the fact that Paul said Eve was the sinner, not Adam and it's by childbearing, a woman can be saved which contradict Christ's. Stop your sugarcoating.

Jesus appeared to Mary?
I guess you r referring to the time after his resurrection

I was referring to when he left the wilderness

He chose 12 disciples who later became his apostles


On the issue of the parables meaning those who are ministers, are the ministers not answerable to who sent them as stewards should be?
It is required that stewards be faithful


On the issue of your intepretation of Paul.. i hear you

Shirley07:
Paul never said such. He said Adam was not deceived but only the woman was and she became a sinner.
You also forgot that we're God's children, not a slave and master relationship Paul was implying. I don't have a master in heaven, I have a father.

ok.. we have different understanding then.. no problem

Yes in the same kingdom there is order.
He appeared to 12 and from there 70
The 12 became the apostles and fed the sheep

On your point on master-servant, there is hierachy whether it sounds palatable to you or not

Even in jesus's parables he spoke of the Good Lord who sent people to the vine

As an employee, your employer is your master
As a follower of Christ, Christ is your master ... or do u not agree

Shirley07:
On slaves, Ephes 6:5 says ''Servants, be obedient to them that are your masters according to the flesh, with fear and trembling, in singleness of your heart, as unto Christ....''. Verse 9 says, 'And ye masters, do the same things unto them, forbearing threatening, knowing that your master also is in heaven, neither is there respect of persons with him'.
Tim 2:11-14 says ''Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach nor to usurp authority over the man but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived but the woman being deceived became a sinner. Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith, love and holiness with sobriety''.

ok.. thanks


So how does the first verse champion slavery

He is advocating social equity, the fact you are a master today, treat those under u with fairness as u have a master above also
Very common theme in Jesus' parables

second verse.. the woman was first deceived
Do u have any theory to the contrary

zboyd

pickabeau1:
At the bolded..interesting thoughts

I have 2 questions if u can answer

- How do u recognise an assertive strong man

- How can a strong personality of a man dwell with a strong woman - can they be compatible

onila:
yoruba women are the meanest

Bad people exist in all tribes
Good people exist in all tribes


PS did a yoruba lady date a man u were interested in

moca

im not sure you understood the OP

He is saying rather than companies freezing eggs for female employees, they should make it easier for women to combine work and family together.

or are you reacting to something else ..

onila:
nop

im sure she is.. check her family tree

This tirade of yours is usually reserved for yoruba women ..lol