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okotv:
wrong...the bible only allows for divorce in case of fornication not adultery....read and understand the scriptures

Can you explain further please
Can a married person fornicate

greatgod2012:
thank you!
Divorce is another good option in case of infidelity and abuse.
Believe me, i will gladly go for divorce(God forbid) if my spouse turns a cheat than suffering from several heartaches and fear from STDs, which means the person involved or affected has chosen to reverse to singlehood.

True...too many STIs these days
Our ancestors had no such problems though...lol

coogar:
this zboyd must love family conflicts....she never gets tired of yeye threads such as this one.

greatgod2012:
is that how you also see it?

See, i'm not talking about sins generally here, i'm taking about keeping to your marital vow if you're married or intend to marry.
We all know that sins is against anything good or of good report, and we also are aware of its consequences, its effect, but that's not the subject matter in this thread, infidelity in marriage is what this thread is about, not whether some sins are good while some are bad.
Thanks.

All sin is sin

According to Christian theology there should be no difference between adultery and fornication

Moreover the bible allows for divorce in the event of infidelity or adultery

More naija people should exercise that option like our counterparts in the West.

Too many cheating threads everywhere

okotv:
in other words, cheating a married partner is wrong but sleeping around can be tolerated as long as you are not married

As you can see only sin in marriage is sin where women r concerned

Pepunis:
got married 2005, and had my first child 2007 sept, may be he pretended that time, after my first child he show whom he is

Woman he is not pretending


U married a man almost 20y your senior

Do u expect his libido will b d same of man in 30s or even 40s

He needs you for companionship in his old age and gave u a child to make u feel secure.

The more u push along dis line the more one wonders what u saw in him
Was it an arranged marriage?
Was it an escape for u?

If ur eyes have opened up now..get a divorce and marry a younger man instead of committing adultery or worse poison him to hasten his exit

If not take responsibility for your decision and stick with a vìbrator

Everyone here is blaming the man while few wants to tell u d truth. Only beevann did

That's the issue if u dont want to accept

El clasico

Suarez is back


It will sizzle

What

Bebe2 toh badt...


Can I drop my account number

Interesting turn of events

bjbonafide:
MSc. Oil & Gas management with specialization in Health & Safety (UK)
25-29
Customer service advisor in Saskatchewan Canada

You have a superb profile n right age n should succeed all things being equal

You need to be of a strong heart n also recognise it may take time before u get a job while preparing your certifications to get into industry


If your wife is the type that will push her frustration on u because u dont have a job yet or its taking a bit of time...then hold on...n go when u have an offer

Companies can interview you via Skype

Also update your LinkedIn profile.

The wife is d key...some oppress their hubbies abroad


This makes sense if u r married

If not...marry first hold d job then move later

^^^dude..... Do u feel better with d crap u posted...

If u do.....the more pity for u

Your qualifications?

Age range?

What does your wife do?

Which city do u guys want to settle in

Monitoring spirits

OK....I was bored at first but this is getting warmer

chrisdstar:
This dude is saying the truth,4get about his intentions of leading the AGN,but there is so much immorality in Nollywood,no wonder when u watch some of our movies,u'll c some people messing up on screen,seriously lacking talent,but made dia way there probably because they "outsmarted" the talented ones by yielding to the demands of the producers.

How come low quality films are still pushing thru
You n I
We still buy d crap

JayKayMaybachz:
He talks alot.... Leh him come up with a solutions for nollywood's recent problems rather blabbing

I tire

This same nollywood
We have NSE etim lovely actress

She knows her craft

Sadly this is true

Danhumprey:
Truth is,Arsene Wenger just doesn't know how to utilise players at his disposal to the best of their abilities.


Give him Messi or Cr7 or Hazard or Bale or any world class players and see how Wenger will misuse them,spoil the game and psyche and roundly frustrate them. Smh.


And yet,the club can't wave the 'sack' hammer on him.

Don't forget Lassa fever which is indigenous to naija

-_-

Na today?


Even Hollywood self..

.instead of focusing on who is sleeping or not seT a proper structure
Get writers
Get better directors

Nosyke:
Just curious, how was SAF able to use such 'crap' team to win the much he did?

Experience of the league
His genius in setting up a blend of youth n experience
Referee relationship management - read Halsey book
Excellent defenders- Rio/vidic / stam

Excellent strikers - rvp Rooney ruud cole Yorke

Most important he got that extra 10 percent consistently because they respected n feared him hair dryer

It called setting the stage

edwife:
Help him ermm where if i may ask?

Who knows

edwife:
Do you know anything about it?

I need to know.

It may help a manopaused man ..who knows

18 years gap.....hmmmmm

Can dry bones rise again

Guguru and carrot

coogar:
sabotaged DM?
he was clueless. there was no clear sight of what he was doing or where he was taking united. the football was horrible to watch for most parts. moyes is small time......he's not cut out for the big stage!

Yet it took upwards of 200m for the team to look a tad decent

Ferguson left a crap team and it just happened to be Moyes who was unfortunately ther

U were lucky against everton...baines waa shyte that day and degea was superb
Rooney out also seemed to help matters though...


He was not yet there BUT the players also sabotaged him

amtheone:
I want it to be in her name cos she is already an heir to some stuff

Your call bro

amtheone:
Hmmmmm. I have to think about this seriously. I was thinking that the land is better because of the fact it will appreciate to a large extent over time.

I need more inputs. Thanks

Yes .. good land appreciates wella

Just buy it in you and your spouse name
Put child as next of kin

A land that will be fallow for so many years.. legal hoops, name change etc, hmmm...well..... what works for you

Pepunis:
What do i do, when my husband has no interest in sex, after several conversation on the issue, he told me point and black that he drive no happines in sex, that sex is not his life style, that if not for children he will remain enuch till death. This sex issue destroyes his first and second marriage, He made me to know that the prevous was caught wit different men to the extend of them getting pregnant, mine is the third marriage, now i know he is the cause of their unfaithfulnes, for me i don't want to sleep with another except my husband, but he is starving the madness out of me, like once in a month, if u ask him either he has prayer or he has major problems not sex, i inquire and was made to understand that, that is his life right from youth, am 33 he is 50, please am dying silently, but i know he is a good man but this sex is the prob i have with him, and i love sex at least 3 times a week,

Choi.. third marriage

When he courted you, did u even bother asking why he had 2 previous marriages

You a young filly married a man in MANopause

As coogar says, better go procure a vibrator cos if u are a caught..its out the window!

marriage no 4!

aluta has said it

people have lands and houses these days just lyingfallow as their pikin no even send because they cant be bothered from their own lives.

Invest in the deposit for now and if possible, some form of educational insurance product

Consistency is the key

It is easier to save 20,000 monthly over a 5 year period than to open a fixed deposit of 1.2m immediately

Same amount