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lokito: Those days wives cook well like their mom. These days they drink and smoke like their pop..... But that's none of my business tho

ireneidiva: Why are you bring up this topic again? Did you not get enough replies the last time?

This.....




#following

Accepting when ones mindset is flawed under superior logic and improving on the errors within is a show of wisdom

cococandy: You're right. I won't accept that.

And no the men don't sleep alone. They sleep with the women. That's why they need to cater for the baby with the women too.
That's all
That's all
That's all

This is the best post ever on our resident femmes who like cherry picking

https://www.nairaland.com/1800152/should-men-forced-pay-kids/6#24476021

BABE3: You know a system/movement/doctrine is becoming a joke when it starts to get too many branches.

-feminists that hate abortion
-feminists that agree that men should be the head in homes
-feminists that are against the "free the nïpple" movement.
-feminists that constantly cook for their husbands because they have to.




I never said I wasn't a Christian. I just implied that you shouldn't assume everyone cares about God.

Agree to disagree.

coogar: you mean feminism is very wrong? cococandy, which is which? are you aware these draconian laws against men are drafted by feminists?

She will never accept that....

Nonso23: So the naija men sleep with themselves isn't it.
Honestly, the intellectual capacity of certain personalities on here is really questionable.
A woman was taught to be chaste, to keep her virginity until she gets hitched to a respectable man.

Since feminism lauds sexual promiscuity on the part of the woman, isn't it only fair they bear the brunt of the outcome alone

Unless a woman is räped she reserves the sole right to mate or not
These are not my words. It is one of your numerous man-hating rules.

Naija men sleep alone.. didnt u know
Women are angels...
Men are bad except their family members

coogar: i agree with this!
if he states he doesn't want the baby, the woman should drag him to court to relinquish his rights towards that child. he wants no part of him and he should never ever return to claim what he is not his.

one can always count on tatiana to be reasonable.

@pickabeau, if you ever need to discuss feminism/female rights, tatiana009 is about the only one that will discuss without emotions or sentiments. the debate i had with her months ago is the best i have had in the history of this forum.

Its nice to know we have a logical female to discuss

BABE! too is

Nonso23: Some stuffs are not even worth debating.

If the man wants a child and the woman doesn't, she insists on condom, takes pills, installs IUDs and in extreme cases aborts the child 'blob of tissue'
Man-haters chant: Good decision! It's her body.

Man doesn't want child, woman does. She leaves all defenses open. No IUDs, no pills, mines used condoms for sperm for personal insemination and after falling pregnant, abortion of the child blob of tissue suddenly becomes a traumatic experience, one so harrowing and dangerous it can't/shouldn't be considered.

Man-haters chant:
it's her body, she should not risk her life, it is psychological torture to live the rest of your life knowing you killed a 'blob of tissue'.

What on earth is more unreasonable than the above ideology.
You go to sperm banks and get inseminated because you want the baby. Why don't you go and seek child support from the person whose donated sperm fertilized your egg He doesn't know you nor want the child too or does he?.
But you want to get child support from a man who expressly stated that he doesn't want your 'child'.
Wonderfully PATHETIC!

Excellent summary of a misguided people

Preboy: say what?

* gigantic korra.... lyk seriously?

* supernatural spirit powers by a young airbender..... hw come?

* reappearing of a just destroyed spirit in less than 10,000 years..... is that even possible?

i enjoyed the book, bt the end was full of unnecessary azzpulls

Look at it from this angle.. darkness and Light can never destroy each other

Korra tapped into a power that existed even before the spirits.. the cosmos

The cosmic korra was a result of this and she had a good fight with the bad dude

i enjoyed d fight


[quote author=nani.666]You're Welcome sir ✔[/quote]Oga mi I hail oo

Frankly i dont know whether u are being sarcastic?

lindee: tnx, ihv learnt from you. keep teaching me more things u feel I should know.

Tosyn007: Please rephrase

Just for comedic effect/...



[quote author=nani.666]There's something that got me thinking tho.... Throughout the series the Hyuuga have been saying they're the strongest in Konoha.... That may just be possible.... Maybe there's a power none of them have awakened yet.... If someone like Kaguya Who's basically the mother of all Chakra had the Byakugan in both eyes, maybe the Byakugan actually has more to offer than we think... Maybe even on par with the Rinnegan ? Just a thought......[/quote]You have a point.. been thinking same too

eaxtly

Adetayo100: They are simply overrated abeg

5 nations cup attempt - No win
3 world cup attempt - first round exit in all
Thought they were unlucky with their previous draws in the world cup group stages but what about the 2014 edition?

..... oh boy

crash.. restart in 10 minutes

Tosyn007: Oh really, well then, lemme ask you: is Kaguya's case a scenario of someone that lost control?

Lost control.. when naruto did sexy jutsu?

I think its more of a laugh thing

Dont bother
I've been following it n ur point wasn't clear ..thatswhy I asked u directly

Enjoy

Tosyn007: Go read up from where I and Kimco started..don't take on arguments when its half way, you can never understand any story that's taken half way.

cococandy: I watch all of them.
Miami
Los angeles

OK...

cococandy: That's the wrong opinion. But yea it's yours

CSI:new york

Cool series

I prefer Miami

Enjoy

Subscribing...

Preboy
I didn't see much azzpulls in s2

cococandy: So I support it just because?
Well you still don't get it.
But yea let's leave it at that.

It's a cool sunday here and my favorite show is on

Yes u do....just because...but wat the heck..its only an opinion..

Which show is that...

cococandy: I don't need schooling.


Feminism is a collection of movements and ideologies aimed at defining, establishing, and defending a state of equal political, economic, cultural, and social rights for women. This includes seeking to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment. A feminist advocates or supports the rights and equality of women.


Is it a western ideology? Maybe because it was specifically given a name in the west. But world over women in developing countries have been fighting to be heard. Is that any different from the definition of feminism above? No.
So should we give our own another name because we don't want to identify with the west? Help me out with a suitable name.
Are there such gender inequalities in my society? YES!
So do I have a legitimate reason to support the cause? Of course


The things is that all these merry go round just seeks to distract from the real issues of oppressive inequality issues rampant here.

I'm sorry if men are oppressed in the west but it won't stop me from sticking to my guns about female emancipation here.

OK..
You do need it...

What you r saying is you identify by an ideology that u know little about but heck.. In going to do it anyway

Similar to someone who just wants to go to a party for no reason than just wanting to be in d part

Lol

OK..let's leave it at that

You don't know much about western laws yet carry a western ideology

On the bright side you are amenable to discourse unlike many
I agree with review

However I still put it to u u don't know much about this ideology u profess

ask damiso who studied it academically

cococandy: I confront issues as they affect me, that's why you see me not talk too much about the west and their gender equality laws. I can't argue with someone who lives there and experiences it first hand.

The thing is instead of complaining that one gender has a movement dedicated to it's betterment,you should be very glad that you don't need one such movement in this part of the world where men are kings and the women are struggling to breathe.
(well unless you're now living in the west where one is being made to believe that men are oppressed)
If that's case pls accept my sympathy.



Here's what I think. Women's right activists made it possible for the law to take care of kids abandoned with their mothers by their fathers.
Maybe there are loopholes in the law which allows individual judges to manipulate it at will.

What's the solution?
Instead of scrapping it and making innocent kids suffer alike,it should be reviewed and made to apply to only the men who the kids are theirs biologically.
If some of these judges are men,it begs the question why?
Is this about caring for the kids or more about the money?

carefreewannabe: Why not?

ok......
Just wanted to confirm you actually said so

carefreewannabe: What a rubbish story. Thank God the women in my family respect each other more and the men do not mind do the shopping if their wives work late.

You call a fortune500 CEO's words rubbish?
Interesting....

[quote author=BABE!]You? Feminist?

You're one of those clueless females I mentioned yesterday. Nothing more.[/quote]Damn. . u evil....

I think its a double suicide

cococandy: There's some merit to this POV
But what about the demerits?

Me I believe in fairness and if the whole scheme is scrapped,some innocent kids will suffer.

I can't pretend to know the law in the west,but isn't there somewhere it states explicitly that the fathers should pay for their kids only? Or is their a big loophole that allows the judges to manipulate cases as they wish.

If that's so,my advice will be for the young men to be very careful and if possible fight that aspect of the law. Where are the legislators?
It's not only women that get to fight for their rights.

Like the case of that young man I just read now,if I was him I'll appeal that ruling.
If more young men paying for kids that aren't theirs stood up to fight it,it'll surely become unpopular and on it's way out.
Dating someone and being nice to her kids doesn't make you responsible for them.

The part in bolded is funny....that the law made for women could be open to abuse? LOL

What?!...a self professed feminist asking men to fight for rights

What will I not see on NL ;

Coogar..u see what I'm seeing

cococandy: I know where you're driving at.
I won't indulge you.


If it's any consolation,it's your fellow men treating yous thus unfair. What won't human do for money while pretending to care about little children?

Hahahaa..
nay... You are the one being indulged with your unwillingness to confront the issues and keep your head in the sand

So now u see that society should be better off and not one gender.

Humanism...

Pedro JP: I no trust u at all. Blike u no want make person see u for ur own like business.

.


Na u know....
Who need u to trust me
I don talk my own

cococandy: I don't know any reasonable person who would either.

Maybe like someone on this thread said,it's a racket that earns the govt money.
I don't know how true that statement is but if critically examined,there may be some truth to it.
Because it definitely beats reasons. Why should that man pay for kids that are not his? Poor guy

There's more to that story. And maybe someone somewhere is benefiting from all that.

BTW I don't think judged should be above sanction. That one needs his license(or whatever) suspended for awhile.

Reasonable?..u make me laff

Find out how the racket was born and those who pushed this legislation through

You are missing the forest for the trees

That man is one of millions...

The judge is also working within the system

Who made the system.

Enlighten yourself

cococandy:
Yes of course I praise unbridled irresponsibility.
And I support men paying for kids that are not theirs.
Do you want add anything else?

Keep making your assumptions.

Not you...

cococandy:
Did this really Happen?

Unfair doesn't begin to describe it

So he was made to pay for his kindness. Wow.
Did he appeal the ruling?

Why u dey open eye.....

That's the consequences of praising unbridled irresponsibility

They have destroyed marriage

They have deified abortion

They have ruined men's financially

They stopped men from seeing their own child

Now u r saying its unfair?... Very rich from u

Mondisweets: but it still has psychological, mental and physical implications that may be very difficult or impossible to recover from.

Prochoicers n abortion advocates call that sentiments