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Mature stand.. which is what ive been saying since
Nothing like taking responsibility




[quote author=fresh_dude]Taking my own case for example, the moment she told me she was pregnant for x amount of months, I told her "no probs, we'll have the child, I'll father and daddy that child". So, we did. I took responsibility for my part in that situation and I was 25. That is not the sam as saying I would have liked to be forced to do that, or that forcing me would be any form of justice.
I'm a proud father today not because I planned to but because I chose to do what I felt was the right thing under the circumstances. It doesn't make it fair to forcefully saddle me with fathering a son if I didn't want to. That is true "pro-choicism". [/quote]

[quote author=BABE!]You know a system/movement/doctrine is becoming a joke when it's starts to get too many branches.

-feminists that hate abortion
-feminists that agree that men should be the head in homes
-feminists that are against the "free the nïpple" movement.
-feminists that constantly cook for their husbands because they have to.

I never said I wasn't a Christian. I just implied that you shouldn't assume everyone cares about God.

Agree to disagree.[/quote]LOL.. i really will like to hear from her anyway
Earlier i mentioned cherrypicking

Let me call EnlightenedSoul maybe she has some thing to say about a feminist that finds abortion akin to murder

coogar: feminists have always been known to want to eat their cake & still have it. i am not surprised. they can be weak & strong at the sane time - it depends on which circumstance.

LOL,,...are u calling them situational

Situational Feminism.. nice ring to it too

i saw this guy perform once on TV and it was cool

Sophyrocks: You are damn right!! Thats why he calls a female with a different view from his a Feminist!!

U r wrong.... I dont call any female with a differing view from mine names

You identified yourself as one.. hence i put the question to you

And i ask u again... Abortion is a cornerstone of feminist ideology,, how come you feel it is immoral and murder

You cant murder what is not alive..

What did i do again oooooo

Im here to learn.. i dont dream of them ooo.. i never get all the money finish... na that one i go dey dream of

alutacontinua: Pick-a-boo-boo and feminists
I bet he dreams about them at night

[quote author=Okiki_Oluwa]marijuana & pastis[/quote]Go on sounnn

Chop Lyf

[quote author=Okiki_Oluwa]Drugs. You are also on drugs.
I don't know where Messi got his strength if not from ephedrine[/quote]
Drugs make d world go round
One mans drugs is another mans poison

Women, Money,Alcohol etc.. whats your poison

naijababe: ^ Oh boy, uns wan turn this place to serious zone ni? My mind is close to bending a spoon from reading the Coco and Pbeau's posts

We will soon b thru... up Messi!

Ok.. then

in that case if there is no original sin why did Christ come to die for humanity's sins

Then why would u identify as christain

cococandy: O that doomed?

Well if I believed that,it means that I believe every other human even those who lived before the time of christ and those who haven't heard about him and those who were born into other religions are all doomed to hell even if they lived good upright lives?
Even good muslims and good traditionalists?

That's not the image of God I like to have.


My thoughts about man's creation is that anyone is yet to understand it.
Even those with the so called 'proven' theories of evolution. There's only so far everyone can come without running out of answers..
But we keep trying
Maybe we are reaching far above our station trying to explain God and his works with our small brains which occupy an infinitessimal space in the grand scheme of things.

Hehehhehehe

This is an interesting angle but is contradictory to the principles of choice which female activists hold dear

Is it possible for a feminist to be aversive to abortion

Sophyrocks: I still stand by my views on risks and the moral angle of abortion. Its Murder. Its not right. But childbirth as a whole is right and a gift from God even when it comes with its risks. Its a thing of joy for humans. The risks can be minimised if the woman takes precautions and is prevents factors that contribute to the risks! Its what families look up to have in their homes!! Is abortion is thing of joy? Can the risks be minimised? It takes only a person with no regard for human life to try to compare the two. They are not the same. The risk of abortion and childbirth CANNOT be compared!!! Find something else to compare.

imo 5 9 is a very good lanky height

Which one be drugs
no be una dey jerk off ontop ronaldo

It took an injured messi for ronnie to win ballon dor

Ronnie is d best player on this planet... the universe is Messi's


Messi over d bar!

[quote author=Okiki_Oluwa]Messi is taking drugs.
Dazz all![/quote]

no vex.... i don prepare am///dey chat forget say i never post am

Messi to score

halmeyd: lolz,bt y e kum tey b4 u shout na,,

Ewuro1: I'm not blaming him.. He's forcing his convictions over mine.

Pro choices are least of my worries.. I do my part in the campaign and hope for the best.

Ok... good for clarifying ur position

But the pro choicers are powerful... they even give teens birth control without the consent of parents, i wonder what the next gen will be like

Hey kasali.... wetin dey sama for ya head
if na visafone ba.. i dey celebrate my goal.......

halmeyd: guy sharap! Dats too late, D gol was scored 8 mins ago,,na visafone u tak dey browse? Abi na 4 radio-lagos tiwa 'n' tiwa u dey hear d comentary?

O doomed
Let me explain... Christians believe we are descended from adam who had the original sin and thus we are born into sin
That is the premise on which christ came to redeem us back to the father
I believe this

Do u get?

I feel that passage of the bible has deeper meaning than we interpret it to be,given that most other religions have a similar explanation for man's existence.

What are your thoughts on mans creation

cococandy: To me religion is a man made system which seeks to understand and explain God. Each with their own set of man-made rules and each believing that their own God is the supreme one.

Wouldn't it be so awesome if everyone realized soon enough that they are not God's favorite and are on the same quest with everyone else.? Which is to see the face of God.


By adamic nature do you mean if I believe that man was made from dust? Like literally molded like a figurine out of dust?
Nope.
I feel that passage of the bible has deeper meaning than we interpret it to be,given that most other religions have a similar explanation for man's existence.
Sadly I realize it's probably one of the things in life that we may never truly be able to explain in a way that makes sense to the ordinary mind.but then whoever must tow the line of religion must go with faith and take some things as they are told.


Doomed? Be clearer there so I don't misunderstand you.

coogar: and what happens to the men who have stepped a foot on this landmine? they should continue to pay hundreds of thousands to the kid they don't even see, can't bond with, etc?

Also there should be a reform of child custody and these women leeches should be made to give account of what they use child support payment for

It will take time

njokusboy: . The female warriors are against a number of feminist views... They are only feminists when it suits their argument..... Lolzzz, they even claim to be the real feminists.....

coogar abeg give this guy a nice gif

LOL....

some Ladies... Logic... the two words start with L.. but thats where the similarity ends.. alas

To advocate abortion in exceptional circumstances seems reasonable but that is not politically correct in this age

I get where u are coming from..

They cant choose what they want

You wanted free sex without conseqences yet want to lump the effects on the men however i believe society suffers overall

lots of illegitimate kids, overburdened single parents etc

we need a better way

Close your legs until you are in a committed relationship
That has been my stance

coogar: some women can't cope with statistics cos statistics are facts!

http://healthland.time.com/2012/01/25/why-abortion-is-less-risky-than-childbirth/



i support abortion - there's no reason any couple should give birth to children they cannot cater for. it's that simple. when all precautions fail, abortion is the last line of defence.



and this is exactly why i am against men paying child support for the kids they didn't want. if a feminist has the right to abort, why give birth to a baby the man wants no part of & then use the courts to force him to pay for her own selfish desires?

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adexsimply: Nope it's not. Explain the first sentence of your first post

I dont get ur point

coogar: they are correct - the fetus isn't human. personhood starts after the birth, not before.

Getting dodgy research to support abortion was the greatest mistake ever made
But thats not the point of this thread

Im suprised our feminist warriors are anti abortion...abortion was touted by them as the magic bullet

Why are dey against it now

Have sex with no consequences.. if it fails abort it.. that was their mantra...

adexsimply: so a 5,9 can't be thin ?

Thin is not sickly n weak.. dude

Ewuro

U r blaming the wrong person.. njoku is just statin d facts

It is your fellow female activists whpo campaigned for this issue

They say a foetu is not a human

face the pro choicers... make dem no chop u raw ooo

https://thumbs.dreamstime.com/z/pro-choice-rally-26271054.jpg

https://static.guim.co.uk/sys-images/Guardian/Pix/pictures/2012/3/14/1331751700247/A-pro-choice-rally-in-Geo-007.jpg

https://media.winnipegfreepress.com/images/5321584.jpg


https://www.dcpages.com/gallery/d/102214-2/DSC03196_001.jpg

Ewuro1: Njokusboy , again go and sit your crusty bottom down.

I've been preggy numerous times and I know what I'm talking about. All that theory are just Bio 101 jargons.

The fertility clinics analogy didn't align with your brain as I've envisaged tsk! dang, maybe next time, I'll elaborate further. Right now I'm starved.

[quote author=fresh_dude]What's your question bruv?[/quote]It was a continuation of our earlier discussion

So lets take your line of thought

You said u dont want the child
The woman is not ready to take the risk of abortion
What next?

[quote author=fresh_dude]This isn't about you, it's about the millions of other unwilling fathers who are forced to dole out cash regularly for kids they didn't want.


Wimbledon ke, I'm out o. Money making tins.[/quote]Ok.... aje a wa oooo

Im about to watch Messi vs Kompany

Its not today

Roe v Wade was hailed as a victory for womens rights back then
Foetuses are aliens...u can get rid of them..snip snip

That is the consequence today

Ewuro1: Oh I know it's not a prevailing philosophy alright and doesn't change the "legal Facts" about Life, I'm just championing my own personal conviction that's all

21st century Evolution has made almost every righteous path Tragic IMO (ETT)

but it is what it is as I guess.

Very Sad.

Make I go chop bf jare.

Fair enough.... though paternity fraud is not the issue here

however there are merits in your argument

coogar: i agree - the government's intrusion in marriage caused all these nonsense. they have paved the way for all kinda fraud - there are men in america paying child support for kids that aren't biologically theirs even after they found out the truth. it's a clusterfück!

the government should become tougher - make the mothers receiving child support produce the receipts of what they are buying for the child. more often than not, these selfish women use that money on themselves to get spa treatment, pedicure, etc it's called child support, not mother support! every penny she gets should be going towards that child & nothing else.

[quote author=BABE!]Pickabeau, when I told you France will knock Nigeria out, you called me a hater/pessimist. **clears throat** [/quote]No ma'am... i never did such... i just said u were being unfair on them. You claimed u had no expectations for them which is fair enough

I said they have gone beyond expectations as a second round berth is a reasonable expectation

Anything after that is a bonus

Meanwhile my favorite player is about to star but why do i find this image annoying


https://news.bbcimg.co.uk/media/images/76015000/jpg/_76015393_4fd51609-2b8d-4f54-988e-f9596fd8864a.jpg

Nonso23: It beats me and it beats logic.
How can something 'be' and not 'be' at the same time??
The 'radicals' are just as feminist as the word sounds.
It's just like saying the eggwhite is rotten and the yolk fresh.
Very reasonable ..... Or Not

LOL...

Ewuro1: Tell them.

Not equal atall.

i agree 100 pc..

on ur points on life.. u also know while admirable, ,that is not the prevailing philosophy as it causes big political issues

lifers vs choicers.... tragic in my opinion

It does not change the legal facts, those clump of cells are just not a person until they are past a certain date..

Nonso23... cool post

I wonder why radical feminism will now be seen as the outside group.