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unfortunately, my posts shall have to suffice on this mata...

Asians love the good life and anything expat...just like our SS girls....

at times.. their respect borders on fear

hmmm....

Nashville: So you sef collect key? Bros you try o!

That is one place I will love to visit!

the madams give and collect keys to the ladies coming on or off shift

the cubicles have a glassdoor that opens up to the alley...if u want to converse with them.. they will open the door slightly...

Its until you negotiate that they open the door fully n u enter...


caveat: I did not enter.. i was on sightseeing

^^^

LOL.... Have you perchance been to the east also...

Asians too are some fricky bunch,,... add the uzbeks, viets and turkish..

Some melting pot

Seems the euphoria of the new year is wearing out ....

coogar: i have been there like half a dozen times - nakëd women in the show glass facing the sidewalk. i couldn't keep a straight face throughout, just giggling.

Same stuff funny to me.. the alley is always full though of people and u can converse straight up with the chics through the front cubicle door..

You should see the madams in the house giving out cubicle keys

There may be,,, sorry about the issues.....

However no knows the 24 NOC codes

I dont think i read that in that statement....
His first post

Guys before we talk about what it means to be a good husband let's talk about things you should not do.

First thing first is please; do not ever beat your wives unless in cases of self defence. And I mean self defence like she has a knife and you need to disarm her. No amount of verbal abuse deserves a slap or punch. Guys this is totally unacceptable. When I hear guys beat their wives, my prayer is that the guy will hit soldier’s car, so that the soldiers will come down and deal with him just like he beat his wife.

Secondly, there is no reason to cheat on your wives. Married men please; there is no justification for cheating. Cheating cannot solve any marital problem, rather it creates more problems. There is absolutely no justification to cheat.

Ujujoan:

So you are saying it's our fault that men cheat?

Because women as soo readily available, the men can't help it . . the have to cheat

In other words, if women are hard to get, men won't cheat that much?

somehow you found a way to justify cheating for men and exonerate them all at once . . . . good one!

@coogar yep amsterdam, theres one in Haag also..
Quality girls... if u see them half a hour later after shift. you will not even know what went down ,,,
Those forced to cheat can also be classed as status cheats... since to them its expected of me or everyone is doing it

[quote author=fresh_dude]I think you underestimate the Natural Cheats brah. If someone has been cheating a long time ut stands to reason that they'd at least have learnt to cover their tracks and leave no room for suspicion/doubt. It's quite easy to cheat you know. You might need to review your data distribution. [/quote]Hmm.....

Lets make it 30-60-10 then

The second category thrive more on variety,, typically are family types but are bored of the same ol same ol routine... grief from their partners
They also use their money for a bit of sex tourism..


Whos been to the Red Light district... interesting place... na lookery ooo

dp

op why are u writing like calotti...

3 months... pretty early but that is not worth youhaving a side dish... it can backfire if she goes off the bend

Try marriage counselling...
A small period of seperation if she does not change... well...

nice analysis... the Nash (the man who like chelsee but no dey drink chelsee dry gin..)

If i will put a percentage on the groupings.. i will say 10-80-10
The status cheats being the 80%..

It takes grace to be faithful to your wife ten years down the line when all the ups are down, the narrow wide and the plain robust...
Thats why i laff when these internet warriors vouch for their men with such vehemence..

a clear conscience need fear no accusation...

finis..

needful: you are right. but what about me, i will apply by February ending and my NOC is 2145(petroleum). the cap is just 4. i have gathered all my docs remaining IELTs which will be taken on the 15th of February.

All the best in your exam then.... Just ensure you make it before April 30th and pray u are within the 5000 cap

yum.. have u tried bbq guinea fowl

however your ceaseless attack on everything naija is baffling

If you have 'escaped'.. you should leave those behind to continue with their lives...

Anyway.. lets focus back on the thread..

Everything that should be said has been said.. ps23.. live your life and be fulfilled therein.. this same life has no duplicate...

Chillisauce: Ma friend, park well dia. Guilty conscience fears no accusation. If my post is not applicable to you, then worka pass Jor. How difficult can it be.

If you tell me mechonu again I go peel those your lips like how they peel that of native fowl

i like your answer... it is not an easy decision to make

Ewuro707: A Question married women avoid like a plaque in avoidance of being judged as insecure and pessimist.

If you ask me last year I'll prob give you a direct NO ( growth spurts ) .But there isn't a direct answer to this as Nobody ( I presume ) want to share their spouse.

I love him soo much it'll be an insult to my integrity and trust will be broken for sure . He better be super remorseful for one thing & willing to do whatever I want to make things better.

So now what?= Children. Do I really want to raise my kids without a father figure in their lives? GOD NO- and that's the sacrifice I am willing to make for my children over my happiness. Ya it's all worth it.

Certainly, I'll reconsider a prenup ASAP

My opinion please.

Gosh I just lost my appetite.

finis........

[quote author=Mynd_44]What revenge? He should walk away and keep walking[/quote]

I tire ooo... the complex is so complex....
+ 1

ypepe: It seems that d norm on nl is once u find urself off d shores of naija, naija now becomes d devil's incarnate.

The way pple that managed either by marriage or what have u especially females tend to mock naija marriage and seggregate themselves from their homeland tend to puzzle and amaze me.

U will start hearing things like 'that's how naija peeps do it in that their country, don't they hv good road in that country,bla bla bla'
WTF!
Why d forming attitude or am I seeing inferiority complex all over?
I will ask d same question I normally ask myself whenever I c such posts.
Pls, r these peeps not naija citizens?
What of their parents? Even one that moved a month ago immediately adopts that mentality.
If we all r failures as claimed by them, so also r their parents. Even in their present country of abode, I'm yet to hear of d impact they r making there except petch on and enjoy another man's labour(is that not part of the so called naija mentality too?)

As per marriage, we r meant to believe that all naija marriages r doomed while any other one especially from d west is always a paradise on earth, really?

I don't wanna go into statistics but u guys should not let me start digging.

I'm a naija gal based in naija and proudly rocking my naija husband. I'm very proud to say some pf us in naija r way better than the host of u guys out there pretending to be happy.
During d time of Clinton's saga, Hillary wasn't suffering and smilling or Obama and d wife? Is it Gearge Bush junior and d wife. I pray u all should go and read his wife's book.
What of the british royal family?
What u get there is a reflection of how their society is in general.
We work and take care of our families, so what's d rationale in always painting us black?
Go to some naija homes, u will go home dreaming, so what's the problem here?

Forming oyinbo more than the oyinbos?
Abegi!
Shyte happens everywhere in diff forms,period.

Topic,
Op, stop generalising. U guys from what I've been reading here knew how we r already so why complaining?
I hv seen a divorced woman that's yet to be treated like a monster. Rather bc of d circumstance sorrounding her divorce, she received a pat on d back and encouraged to move on and she is indeed moving on.
I guess u were born in naija too and ur pple r in naija,hv they crucified u yet?
My point,stop generalising and judging people. U r guilty as well.

mechnonu dia ..

Na only naija marriages wey abuse dey

This ur beef against naija is it not becoming something else

But ur post on the green card wives looking down on divorcees was so funny,, they even know their hubby has foreign wife...

Chillisauce: That's what you get from most Nigerian marriages in Nigeria. See them covering up with sun shades .

Anyway, just against spousal abuse.

Kuly u sef dey go tarkwa bay

Wat happens in Vegas stays in Vegas

ejim blessing: @pickabeau1. No I don't but lately I've been thinking about having my nose pierced. I love the look esp a small nose ring. May still change my mind sha

There are some temporary ones I believe that don't need piercing...

@Donalð Genes


You are far too kind... na night school oooo

Now that is cool.. Send d youtube link oo

love machines are just what they are ....aids..

there are men who buy for their partners

moreover it is better than having illicit relationships..

as a nation we are a sexually repressed lot though we all dream of it a lot

RedBenson: Call it whatever but a woman who cannot stay away from sex in the absence of her husband but rather indulge in application of machines is an unfaithful woman. Sooner or later, when she realises a real dicck is a real dicck and toy is toy, she would do the needful by looking for available diccks in d neighbourhood to solve the matter. Before now, sex wasnt a do or die affair for women, but today, ... may God save us.

RedBenson: Simply put, you are a sex addict. Smh! Continue that way, just hope u wont begin to ra.pe men someday as d machine will fail you.

dude now u are trolling... this is a thread for online married women,... so u shd leave them be

bukatyne: The issue is that everything is seen as man woman here especially when a 'feminist' aka frustrated old spinster is involved!
A guy was happy with Nashville's posts and offered him about 10 bottles of alcohol, 2 plates of peppersoup etc. and I asked him how he considered that to be enjoyment.
Oga Tv on my case as usual said I should 'let men be men'
I am against alcohol as a Christian; what is my own with men or women in this case?
If alcohol makes someone manly, make them carry go.

ok.. no wahala :

Enjoyment... U should try some hot bbq asun with cold drink.. walahi... that is heaven..

the pepper will make u high and the drink bring u down...

Though im not really into alcohol myself

Hold up hold up..

@buka
Do you believe taking alcohol in any quantity makes one less of a man or did i miss a beat

Sleekydee: well she doesnt seem 2 like dem in a way....which appears quit strange because no 1 has anyting against her.....

Maybe she feels threatened somewhat,..

Broadly has there been any cause for the man to doubt some things even previously or in recent times

bee444: THERE ARE ALWAYS TWO PARTIES TO EVERYTHING. Regardless of the reason for divorce, both parties must consent. A judge in almost all the abuse cases waive the consenting part and allow the divorce to go ahead. When this happens, the woman would still pay or compensate the husband if the husband counter-sue for malicious divorce or for what he is accustomed to i.e pu.ssie and the food.

You should direct these comments to paris10
In her world, whoever initiates divorce is the guilty party and should pay

Now you are providing more info


She wants them to sell the house. This is not necessary.. They can complete it and rent or sell

Not inviting the inlaws may mean she is not on good terms with them