pickabeau1: nice analysis... the Nash (the man who like chelsee but no dey drink chelsee dry gin..)

If i will put a percentage on the groupings.. i will say 10-80-10

The status cheats being the 80%..

It takes grace to be faithful to your wife ten years down the line when all the ups are down, the narrow wide and the plain robust...
Thats why i laff when these internet warriors vouch for their men with such vehemence..

Odenigbo Aroli: All these from you alone ? I pity guys shaa; Especially the ones who will go to any lenght to make a woman feel good or important. Women want a lot of things from men;God fearing,tall and dark,handsome,gentleman,good in bed,not controlling,rich,respectful and the list goes on. My sorry goes to any man that can't tell when he is being taken for granted. A woman has never taken me for a fool, not for a second time. I can look into your eyes and tell what's in your mind. Guys,don't ever let any woman drag your pride through the mud! Stop wooing a chic who doesn't show interest in you. Its better you die with konji than to keep getting embarrassed. Stop chasing women like its a do or die affair....ekenekwaa m' unu.

fresh_dude: I think you underestimate the Natural Cheats brah. If someone has been cheating a long time ut stands to reason that they'd at least have learnt to cover their tracks and leave no room for suspicion/doubt. It's quite easy to cheat you know. You might need to review your data distribution.

fresh_dude: I think you underestimate the Natural Cheats brah. If someone has been cheating a long time ut stands to reason that they'd at least have learnt to cover their tracks and leave no room for suspicion/doubt. It's quite easy to cheat you know. You might need to review your data distribution.

pickabeau1:
Whos been to the Red Light district... interesting place... na lookery ooo

Nashville: The second category of cheats are the Status cheats. Lots of Nigerian guys fall into this category and it is sooo easy to become one. These are guys that become cheats because they have money to throw around and Nigerian girls will do anything for money.
When you become an AGM in a bank or manager in an Oil and you take home 1.5 million naira every month, suddenly you can afford to get plenty girls out there. These unilag girls will do anything for 50 thousand naira so it becomes very cheap and easy to cheat.

Especially if madam is now fat in the wrong places, she is too tired or not just that interested, or wouldn’t try new things. I walked into a GTBank branch recently and as soon as I entered (looking like a million dollars), one of their marketing staff just approached me and started asking if I had an account etc. She was just flirting with me. Took all my details, contacts, opened account for me. I just dey look say if I wan chop this one now, it is sooo easy. And then the stupid banks will give these girls huge targets. Where would these girls get the customers from? They just have to sell themselves to some guys to meet these targets.

I have another friend who is a HR manager in one of the oil companies. This guy don "chop" all the female youth corpers for that company. Any youth corper looking for permanent employment must sleep with this guy o. After sleeping with him, he will now pass them round his team. When you are in position to influence and affect people, then it becomes easy to cheat. Especially when the girls are soooo coorperative. Infact we were hanging out at chocolate royale once and we were leaving for another joint when we bumped into one of his corpers in the company of her boyfriend and some other friends. This guy talked the girl to leave her boyfriend and come join us where we were going. I was surprised to see the girl and her female friends an hour later coming to hang out with us. This girl was with her boyfriend o.

Another one is doctors and nurses. Chai, doctors don finish nurses everywhere in the world. But it is worstest in America. I have lots of friends who are doctors in America and some of them just literarily publicly romance the nurses. And the nurses just love the doctors. Especially those latina nurses. Those girls are sooooo hot. Abeg wives, if your husband na doctor, you better watch it o. One of my doctor friends; that guy is just too bad. Anything goes, chinco, latino, Indian, AA, white, anything goes man.

The worst friend i have is one guy who is a real estate developer Abuja. The guy has lots of money and has slept with 500 girls. Infact he has slept with three of his wife’s friends. One of them was their chief bride’s maid. As in this is his wife’s closest friend and the guy don chop the babe.

But even that boys just like experimenting. If they have a lepa wife they will want to try orobo. If they have orobo, they will want to try lepa. Some want to try Oyinbo, a friend of mine just loves Thai girls. Indian girls are a no go, just like their men. When I see young boys in the University chasing girls, I laugh. I always tell them to concentrate on their books and finish well and get the right jobs. When you establish yourself, these girls will be the ones chasing you.

Ujujoan:

So you are saying it's our fault that men cheat?

Because women as soo readily available, the men can't help it . . the have to cheat

In other words, if women are hard to get, men won't cheat that much?

somehow you found a way to justify cheating for men and exonerate them all at once . . . . good one!

Guys before we talk about what it means to be a good husband let's talk about things you should not do.

First thing first is please; do not ever beat your wives unless in cases of self defence. And I mean self defence like she has a knife and you need to disarm her. No amount of verbal abuse deserves a slap or punch. Guys this is totally unacceptable. When I hear guys beat their wives, my prayer is that the guy will hit soldier’s car, so that the soldiers will come down and deal with him just like he beat his wife.

Secondly, there is no reason to cheat on your wives. Married men please; there is no justification for cheating. Cheating cannot solve any marital problem, rather it creates more problems. There is absolutely no justification to cheat.

Ujujoan:



So you are saying it's our fault that men cheat?

Because women as soo readily available, the men can't help it . . the have to cheat

In other words, if women are hard to get, men won't cheat that much?

somehow you found a way to justify cheating for men and exonerate them all at once . . . . good one!

Nashville: The last category of cheats are the Causal cheats. These are guys that cheat because something fundamental is missing in their marriage. It may be because their relationship with their wives has completely broken down, it may be because their wives cheated first, it may be their wives are completely uncontrollable and don’t care, or it may be that their wives just don’t give them sex. These are the guys their wives may share part of the blame but they are the easiest to get back on track. They truly love their wives but something was just missing. Most of these guys never cheat in the early years of marriage. Infact some dont start cheating until after 15 years of marriage and you will know it is because of something wrong in his marriage.

coogar:

there are "forced to cheat" category of men too. men can sometimes act babyish. it starts from childhood. my toy is bigger than yours. my trainers is more recent than yours, my car is faster than yours, etc. this healthy competition carries on into marriage especially in the bedroom matters - men want to compare housewives & how good the sex is.

a man whose wife doesn't know more than missionary feels cheated when he hears what his friends get to enjoy in their own bedrooms. ladies, when your man comes home & start demanding this style & that style(out of the blue), he must have heard something & he's desperate to get it. if you refuse him based on some weird religious beliefs then he is likely to experiment outside just to level up with his friends.

pickabeau1:
@coogar yep amsterdam, theres one in Haag also..
Quality girls... if u see them half a hour later after shift. you will not even know what went down ,,,
Those forced to cheat can also be classed as status cheats... since to them its expected of me or everyone is doing it

coogar:

i have been there like half a dozen times - nakëd women in the show glass facing the sidewalk. i couldn't keep a straight face throughout, just giggling.

pickabeau1:

Same stuff funny to me.. the alley is always full though of people and u can converse straight up with the chics through the front cubicle door..

You should see the madams in the house giving out cubicle keys

pickabeau1:

Same stuff funny to me.. the alley is always full though of people and u can converse straight up with the chics through the front cubicle door..

You should see the madams in the house giving out cubicle keys

Nashville:

So you sef collect key? Bros you try o!

That is one place I will love to visit!

pickabeau1: ^^^
LOL.... Have you perchance been to the east also...

Asians too are some fricky bunch,,... add the uzbeks, viets and turkish..

Some melting pot

pickabeau1:
the madams give and collect keys to the ladies coming on or off shift
the cubicles have a glassdoor that opens up to the alley...if u want to converse with them.. they will open the door slightly...
Its until you negotiate that they open the door fully n u enter...
caveat: I did not enter.. i was on sightseeing

pickabeau1:
the madams give and collect keys to the ladies coming on or off shift
the cubicles have a glassdoor that opens up to the alley...if u want to converse with them.. they will open the door slightly...
Its until you negotiate that they open the door fully n u enter...
caveat: I did not enter.. i was on sightseeing

pickabeau1: unfortunately, my posts shall have to suffice on this mata...

Asians love the good life and anything expat...just like our SS girls....

at times.. their respect borders on fear

Nashville:

Guy, the truth is that you just need to try. You say you love staying indoors. It is difficult to improve your social life by staying indoors. You need to go out more. Attend office event, friend's birthdays, weddings, etc. From there, you will meet more people and they will invite you to more functins. You start gradually and begin to feel more comfortable.

Most guys conversation center on Sports, Politics and Business. If you are comfortable discussing those three, you should be fine. If you do not already support a team, I will recommend Chelsea FC. They have the best coach in the world and are positioned to win lots of trophy.

Arsenal never wins anything and Liverpool will talk about 25 years ago. Man Utd will never win again and Man City is in transition. So my guy, I recommend Chelsea FC if you are not one of us already.

@First bolded, Yes, I am very ok discussing the bolded, in fact, I do very well in those

@ Second bolded, I beg to disagree, I am, still and will forever be a Manchester United Fan. We are only passing through a phase, and we surely will come out stronger.

I so love your indepth analysis of the categories of Men cheats........very intriguing, omo that your HR manager friend, mehn, would have given King Solomon a good run for his wealth But Like Ujojoan said, somehow, you implied that Its in Men's nature to cheat, what we just need is a little push/shove/justification. I am not married yet, but I dont think its right, some guys out there exist that still have self discipline

pickabeau1: PH has fine gals...
Warri babes,,, down to earth,,,

You should see gems in abraka.....


but for the total package.. beauty and homeliness, our sisters from AkwaIbom and Crossriver edge it... no pretense,..

The closest to them ive seen so far are the SA chics...cool to hang out and cook superbly though i hear ZIM babes are awesome too

A friend just married a cameroonian,,, they seem cool too

xmas in douala,,..

Case closed!!!!!!!

*Starts drafting letter to be sent to Akwa Ibom/Uyo on assignment/transfer

PureOhio: I get the ladies are more hörny. or I was just reading fantasies of the Girls' thread