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Family › Re: Brother In-law! by pickabeau1: 12:31pm On Jan 10, 2014
@if u feel u are at risk,, tell your hubby but do not use that as an excuse to chase your BIL out
Lock your door at night if it makes u feel better
Family › Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by pickabeau1: 12:25pm On Jan 10, 2014
Family › Re: A Princess' Predicament. Your Advice, Pease. by pickabeau1: 12:21pm On Jan 10, 2014
^^^ grab your copy now!
Family › Re: A Princess' Predicament. Your Advice, Pease. by pickabeau1: 11:50am On Jan 10, 2014
super story
Family › Re: Divorced Women In Nigeria by pickabeau1: 11:46am On Jan 10, 2014
so is the rant over grin grin
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 11:43am On Jan 10, 2014
To an extent i always budget extra for year end but some unexpected expenditure came up and so na management ooo


school fees.. chop moni and as per say hausa people never plenty.. prices are still on the high side..


na hold bodi remain,,,,
Christianity Etc › Re: The Chosen Church And The Failed Miracle Ala Lazarus by pickabeau1: 11:40am On Jan 10, 2014
Thanks for your response... however I did not mean to insult you

I meant what is the way of life.. like do you have worship days or rites

If i wanted to see with my own eyes,, how can i observe

Can you clarify what you mean that you are omnipresent (everywhere at the same time?)


As per your posts, I checked them but 317 topics is not easy to navigate.. do u have a specific thread i can read that can provide info for me

[quote author=PAGAN 9JA]No. Im a Pagan offline as well.



you can go through my previous posts.

Most of them are established fact.



like wild animals.

what kind of question is this?




everywhere. Im omnipresent.



well enough. Ive not been much to the South though.



The Gods do not interfere directly in human affairs.

However yes if asked for help and with suitable sacrifice , they can do so in other ways. .


This is a vague question. It depends on the situation, etc.[/quote]
Foreign Affairs › Re: foreigners chillout joint. by pickabeau1: 11:34am On Jan 10, 2014
HumbledbYGrace: hello there, wats izombambo?
Not sure i got the spelling correct though... its grilled lamb ribs with some spinach .. nice
Had it at the butchers in sandton city

izimbabo mzevu
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Sign Fireman Arrested In Ritual Murder Case by pickabeau1: 6:14am On Jan 10, 2014
Baby mama: Actually I just did a search to see any previous threads of him and stumbled unto that
I was active on another site when that news broke by the London dada guy and I was dumbfounded at what our people had become.
The scene I cannot forget wAs the young girl that supposedly was delivered at the church and interviewed only for the reporter to see next day that she was also his personal secretary.
Unbelievable
Everything for the church Na yellow

Hummer yellow
Chair yellow

Na wa.....



God is a game
Fire came to scar my face as a sign ala sign fireman

Wetin man no go see
Christianity Etc › Re: The Chosen Church And The Failed Miracle Ala Lazarus by pickabeau1: 6:08am On Jan 10, 2014
Pagan

You are a character just I wonder if this is not an online persona

I'm interested in some of your theories

How does a pagan or polytheist behave nowadays

Are u based in naija or Afrika

How well travelled in these places are you

If the gods are as powerful can they help us strike down the thieving elite
Crime › Re: Mother Of 18-yr-old Boy Who Killed Virgin For Ritual Speaks by pickabeau1: 5:57am On Jan 10, 2014
Amen!
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 5:53am On Jan 10, 2014
Tuntheycr7: Don't worry I go buy you Alomo to celebrate wen we carry champions carlings cup
Hahaha..... U should go to the united diss thread


https://www.nairaland.com/1585491/best-manchester-united-jokes-pictures

10th.... January is picking up gradually
So guys how you coping...that is financially

Most employees are paid mid December to help with Xmas expenses.
Howver u are paid normally at end Jan so na 6 weeks of management.grin.any stories of borrowers or lenders in January?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Fans Thread: The Red & White Army: 2025/2026 EPL Champions! by pickabeau1: 11:47pm On Jan 09, 2014
Good news


But we need striker
Family › Re: Divorced Women In Nigeria by pickabeau1: 11:25pm On Jan 09, 2014
The pics were lovely..

You should not bother with calotti

She's on her own lane

Its the fanboys n girls I don't get
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 11:14pm On Jan 09, 2014
Hmmm....
@TV..

I'm sure nash can speak for himself
The idea of a boys room is to have a place to unwindulax

Marital infidelity is not to be encouraged or tolerated...that much has been made clear consistently

However understanding the psyche helps in avouding pitfalls

Eg

Marrying someone you are not attracted to
Marrying someone out of pity

Etc


It does not have to be form all the time
Family › Re: Inspired By Tehn.....dutchessss by pickabeau1: 11:06pm On Jan 09, 2014
DutchesSsS: Okay...send my gift then..
Hmm...let's see how it goes
Don't forget to upload pics ooo
Foreign Affairs › Re: foreigners chillout joint. by pickabeau1: 11:00pm On Jan 09, 2014
Hi guys.. Nice idea

Being to the rainbow nation (had some izombambo) n the black star
Hoping to do Tanzania one of these days..

Heard its sublime
Family › Re: Inspired By Tehn.....dutchessss by pickabeau1: 10:55pm On Jan 09, 2014
DutchesSsS: 26th january....Are you coming?
Will not be able to make it
Sorry cry
Family › Re: Do You Want Revenge Or You Want To Stay Married? by pickabeau1: 10:46pm On Jan 09, 2014
bukatyne: LikeI said on one thread last year,

The foreign media sell their men better than blacks. I theyare better is another thing.

It is you NLguys that paint yourselves bad.

Let one female mistakely open a thread that she will not marry, find out whothe bashers will be

Like Sisi will say, you accuse someone of saying to,he denies hotly and says to to to

Make una change your ways cheesy
And the black females have joined in the bastardisation of the black man....

The sense of community is dying
No fathers to raise kids

Not sure I get the to to point

How will men paint themselves bad when all we trying to do is trying to eat n provide for our peeps
Family › Re: Do You Want Revenge Or You Want To Stay Married? by pickabeau1: 10:41pm On Jan 09, 2014
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Family › Re: Do You Want Revenge Or You Want To Stay Married? by pickabeau1: 9:15pm On Jan 09, 2014
bukatyne: I have always had positive words. Funny enough, it is you men that paint yourself black.

If a woman posts that her hubby is wonderful or does not cheat, it is male posters who will say she is deceiving herself;

If a female poster asks if all men cheat, most of NL guys will say yes;

If a guy opens thread to say how much he loves his wife, NL guys will say he is a mumu, gbewudani etc.

Who throws the 'men are polygamous' card all the time?

Infact if we are to believe NL guys, most Nigerian men are rude, brash, unloving, unyielding, disrespectful, polygamous set of people
Surprisingly in my experience the female folk paint the men as bad

Only Very few posters have anything good to say about naija males

Some have even said they will go Caucasian
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 9:10pm On Jan 09, 2014
bukatyne: It is a 1 +1 = 1 matter cheesy

You always come across as endorsing it esp on the part of the hubby
Obviously you did not get my post
It is not as simple as abc if a woman is in that shoe

She makes many considerations...

Even divorce is not simple
Family › Re: Do You Want Revenge Or You Want To Stay Married? by pickabeau1: 8:06pm On Jan 09, 2014
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Sports › Re: FIFA Confirm Qatar World Cup Move by pickabeau1: 8:04pm On Jan 09, 2014
Scam
Family › Re: Inspired By Tehn.....dutchessss by pickabeau1: 8:02pm On Jan 09, 2014
Dates
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 7:58pm On Jan 09, 2014
What's happening here..

Buka name n shame

I have told you countless times

I do not advocate cheating which is a biblical license for divorce n its attendant ills
It is not just a 1 + 1 = 2 matter as some make it seem
Family › Re: Do You Want Revenge Or You Want To Stay Married? by pickabeau1: 7:50pm On Jan 09, 2014
[quote author=Mynd_44]Some things don't have to work for the society as long as it works for you. For the sake of your health and sanity, you take decisions based on your personal opinion.

There is no "one solution" to cheating spouses. There probably will never be even if they make the consequence for adultery death by hanging some people will still cheat.[/quote]LOL..
Family › Re: Do You Want Revenge Or You Want To Stay Married? by pickabeau1: 7:48pm On Jan 09, 2014
Thanks for the positive word on the male folk

At least some....
bukatyne: I am not defeatist: I know men who are upright and I say have not cheated.

It is you NL guys and some NL ladies who insist that all men cheat

All these stories that touch don't even move me anymore; 98% of the women with terrible husbands aka cheats, abusers etc. know who they really were before they married them

It is well
Family › Re: Do You Want Revenge Or You Want To Stay Married? by pickabeau1: 7:48pm On Jan 09, 2014
alutacontinua: Of course,there is no effing way i'm gonna make him feel he'll be forgiven! Heck, any man I'm with knows the day he lifts his finger on me or digs anoda hole is the end of our relationship! At least, dt's what i'll make him bliv. Ain't no way i'm gonna tell him if he does it once and confesses and he's sober, then, it's all good!


However, the truth is if it happens, my heart is large enough to forgive ONCE!

Yes, he's never gonna see this post! cool wink
Cool post
May you get the man you deserve
Family › Re: Do You Want Revenge Or You Want To Stay Married? by pickabeau1: 4:13pm On Jan 09, 2014
LOL.... cheating should never be justified...
As you said earlier in your post, if u happen to commit the sin of infidelity you will expect, nay encourage youe wife to kick your arzze to the curb// cos u will do the same

I support same also...
Ideally that should keep a sane person in check..

My question is HAS IT REALLY WORKED..

is it the silver bullet

The risk of STIs infecting one and causing untold harm to an innocent party should not be allowed to crystallise



[quote author=Mynd_44]I love this argument. You just said that the leaving a cheating a dog thing did not work in the west as it has not changed the men from cheating and has resulted in multiple marriages etc. Cool

Has our method of praying for the man to change, reporting him to the family or pastor and taking everything by the woman changed anything here? What has been the result of that?
More men think it is okay to cheat and disregard their wife's interest everyone. The society displays the husband's cheating with the "Just thank God for your own, at least you have a husband" speech and send the woman home miserable and at risk of catching an infection. This has created depressed mothers who raise kids in a really bad way.

I have seen a lot of women who have never cheated their whole life. Are religiously upright and pray regularly but are infected with one STI or another via their husband[/quote]
Family › Re: Would Be Brides; Come In, Let's Plan Together! by pickabeau1: 4:09pm On Jan 09, 2014
happy married life... brides
Family › Re: Pray For Mysticgals Mother by pickabeau1: 4:07pm On Jan 09, 2014
mysticgal: am not in abj,but she's great,she calls me everyday.
He will perfect it; what He has started....

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