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Cool cat.. Teefee
But some women like projects as they call it... Broken xters they want to reform..

Nosyke..6 cans of henikeni
.. Nash tell you say hin be ' tit-aller'

Wow.. 14 years..

You have some patience

+1

<thumbs up>

bukatyne: Sorry but I don't believe you; waters have passed under the bridge

A lot of women are not feminists; opportunities more like it.

It is common in our society, we try to take advantage of people who respect us or are meek

I still do not grasp the reasoning that a woman should be rude because she sees herself as a man's equal

Infact, sometimes when I do something wrong to my bobo, God would ask me if I would like it if he did such to me

Anyways, whatever rocks each person's boat

The prohibitive cost of the world cup still affects everyone...

Having host cities that will just host 2 matches is outmoded and is still not a pocket friendly to the paying fans

This works well in european cities which have excellent infrastructure but in big countries like the States or developing countries, a NO NO

Lets look at the USA 94 team

Cost of following Nigeria in the group stages

Nigeria 3–0 Bulgaria Cotton Bowl, Dallas
Argentina 2–1 Nigeria Foxboro Stadium, Foxborough, MA
Greece 0–2 Nigeria Foxboro Stadium, Foxborough, MA

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Conservative costs

Costs go up.. a 100 dollar will be like 200 dollars in the summer..

Shelling out at 200 a night for like 8 nights = 1600 usd
A three hour flight from Dallas to MA will be like 350- 500 usd.. some can be as much as 600 usd

This does not include road trip costs.. this is even an exceptional case as we played the last two matches in the same city and even the match with Italy there

Brazil is even worse.. thats why ive decided to stay home and watch it.. the tentative budget is killing...



Meals

Dis Guy: what about fans in the other parts of the coutry, especially as their tax money is also being used!

@roselynbas

are u saying men are dogs

And for those insinuating that it takes provocation before men come after you, you obviously don't have sisters and females in your family. If you like wear a garri bag, they will still come after you. After all, dogs will be dogs!!!

bukatyne: I am not a lady who believes she is equal to men and still have entitlement mentality.

I like to earn my respect and dues because they are not lying around anywhere

Like I said, I do not grasp the concept of divorce settlement

nice one..you have my respect with this...... maybe this your verson of feminism can really work after all....

I dont get the warped universe where the OP is from... u cheat on ur husband and yet she is paid off....?!

sepp is yarning crap

He is in charge of a world cup that forces host countries to develop 10 stadia that will only be marginally utilised post event
Does he think its only stadia that is required in this large country where cities are far flung- airports, trains, roads, hotels and security

They should reduce the number of cities to 4 or 6 so that fans in those citties can have a superb experience

The same thing will happen in Russia n Qatar where the cost of following your team will be prohibitive

^^^^..hmmm.... something dey smell...

paris10: Your husband would have the right to claim compensation from you and share in your assets if you were found to have initiated the divorce.

whats the significance of the initiating party...

What if she initiated the divorce due to spousal abuse or infidelity

Frankly i dont know the kind of gist in this room..

I am of what happens in Vegas stays there type...

Sleekydee: well am particularly more interested in whose name d documents of d house hold....if its d man's name, no lele...if its bth of dier names, good idea...but if its her name, wHala dey b dt

Well i think you should let the man sort this out,..

It should not matter whose names the house is built

Most cases, The woman is reacting to something... which you may not know except you are the man in question

Nashville: No be you I see for Ocean Basket with four babes two weeks ago? Why you come dey form holy here?

hahaha... nice one bro..

feellng you on the feminazi BS manta.... nice line about respect earned at courtship

Theres this thing my boss used to say

Do The Right Thing (initiative); Do The Thing Right (correct process)

Customising here.. Marrying The Right Person the right way reduces most of the unnecessary tensions in the home

On the TV, as na i tv i come get na... I just go to my Lappie to catch up on Movies..na dem go still harass you say u dey ignore them..

Meanwhile do you see the crap on TV these days... na only footie i dey watch now

LOL..

Lvely video....
throwback to Daddy Showkey and the AJ crew

faakay: Yawa Dey! Oh Lord of Mercy! Tell dem no be byforce

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0O0tJQxZeWw

Kunle Ole(khona remix) - Danny Young

nice article... until we have a medicare-model these issues will still bedevil us

choi...... u really dey vex oooo

Two is the magic numbeer ///
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[quote author=I dey Vex!]@ OP: I will tell you my story and you are free to take my advice or not. It is similar to yours. I got married a few months ago and right from the word go, my wife never wanted any of my family members to come close. My mom, dad and siblings stayed in my house for a week during the wedding preparations and she treated them like dirt. Then my bro had an accomodation problem and had to stay in my house for about 2 weeks and she gave him the same treatment.

Eventually, I realized what it was. I was too soft on her and she was taking it for granted. Like every woman, she wanted total control and she felt my family members' presence would prevent that. I come from a family where FAMILY is never taken for granted.

One day, she messed up with my bro and against my principles of never raising my hand against a woman, I gave her a very solid slap. She was shocked. She came to retaliate and I gave her another. I cowed her to submission. Now we have an improved relationship. She now respects me and knows that I can be a beast if I choose to. Deliberately, I ensured I never apologized for slapping her. She has complained that I never apologized and I told her I did not regret it.

Now my advice: Women are different. Some women will respect you when you are soft. Some other women will ride you if they see any signs of softness. Maybe you need to show your wife that you can be beastly if provoked. Do not beat her. Two solid slaps would do. If she is the type you said she is, she would become violent and go crazy. Do not fight with her. Your point is already made. You will see changes I hope. All the best[/quote]

go through this thread,,, u may get some pointers here though no two situations are the same

https://www.nairaland.com/1496529/priest-aids-wife-build-without


The most important thing is the attitude of the people involved... is she the type that will rub his eyes into it later..
is he the insecure type that is worried by all those
Has he made comments to make her doubt her place in the union

She is his wife...ideally what she has is his and his hers.. but this is the real world

nice one Nash....


These hunting girls.. i no dey see them sha .. maybe i never get the kain money like the 1004 guy...

... I agree with you on the treatment of the wife of one's youth

busted!

sensaraj: In my own case, im the bread winners, my husband has little or nothing to offer and he has other children from ex wife too, so is he going to share in my property (like landed property)in case of divorce

It also helped me too

Very apt..

4tunebest: Whao! This msg is sooooooo timely. Permit me to say it is exclusively 4 me. Thank you Jesus for confirming your word

what the... impressive

Excellent post!

bukatyne: @OP:

Your thread would have had the desired impact if it was not too emotional and tilting against logic.

If we go the traditional route that a man provides, he only does so for his wife. Once they are divorced, they become familiar strangers.

Truth is I have never understood the need for divorce settlement except for a stay at home mom due to uncontrolable circumstances or couples who have joint investment. Patrimony? Yes

A man only owes his ex wife if he caused the divorce and the wife has joint investment with him or geninuely cannot survive on her own.

A wife who cheated the hibby and wants to part ways should also do.same

I guess we all should drop this entitlement mentality

i dash you one like

kulyie: lolllzzzzz when its time for home truth,it has to be spilled when a man fvks up,he should be caned,when a woman fvks up too she she should be thrashed.i am not a blind feminist,i believe in equality

lol.. old tinz never pass away

maskuraid: People of God,help me thank Him o. My PER strolled into town this evening...

Finally

Personally

Objectically

Postivically

Financially

Congratulatically

The story is one sided

However the premise that no woman sets out to frustrate her in laws deliberately is not always true

Baby mama: I'm a lover not a fighter

Hmm....good to hear...

salsera: Na so we dey think too
but anytime you come over see the 'storehouse' hmm.

pickabeau
kanye did that song, interesting

idowu
u too like shoes? OYO

His first 4 albums were the iish
These new songs

Lol. Kuly unleashing....

These challenge are not unique to any profession nowadays
Its the country

You have to strive to be marketable, learn skills and be open

There are topics on this board you can view

I will try n get some webpages for you

Jarushub is OK too
http://www.jarushub.com/

kulyie: me no like ishekushe o

Now you have passed
Before Na f9

Ewuro707: You kidding right? Okay :

https://www.nairaland.com/1582452/thread-twins-share-pics

Seen...she's a pretty one