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Lucky man, if he hand done this same thing in Aluu, he would have been roasted.

It really depends on my own relationship with her, if she's also my friend then I can pass, but if she isn't she has to change position asap, or I ain't going nowhere.

20 guys in one night?! poor soul.

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OP here's my 2cents; employ the services of a domestic help if necessary. You didn't mention how old your children are, but from your post I can place your first child from five upwards(correct?). Start teaching your kids little chores, so that when they grow a bit older there can be helpful. As for your wife, I don't have anything to say.

OP, what's your motive? Anyway as a dog lover I think your dog is cute, but come on, it's not even worth half the offer.

I think therre is more to this story, maybe the woman has been into this business for years, she may have seasonal contract to supply roasted corn to some clients, she has other sources of income(mentioned). Misleading titles like this can make someone live with false expectations, how easy is it to build a four bedroom flat from roasting corn? OP it would have been nice if you had mentioned the sacrifices she had to go through to get to this stage. I don't know why entrepreneurs will keep hiding the fact that most times, you work even harder running your own business than you would working for someone else(nothing bad in this). Kudos to the lady.

fireforfire:
I think its easier to walk into a coffin.
its women like u dat encourage violent husbands.
Listen,.i dnt support divirce but when violence comes in, d woman shuld do d needful, WALK OUT!!!
Once shes dead, dats it .d man remarries n na d kids wey una dey gree die for inside d marruage na drm go suffer am under d era of a new step mom.
A word is enuf for d wise

Women like wu, me?! U've got to be kidding, i was only expressing empathy. Don't pretend you don't know how society views divorce or even separation, that said, it takes willpower to remove the scales of love from ones eyes, every other person can see that she's being abused except her. It also depends on upbringing, because I have personally heard some ladies say the man cares that's why he becomes physically abusive(she probably watched her mum endure it). Besides abusers are manipulative, they beat you one minute and cry bitterly the next, it's a vicious circle. He keeps playing on the woman's feelings for him until she begins to make constant excuses for his actions. She may want to leave but because of his acting, she changes her mind and stays back. It's not as easy as you think,

Rape is mostly prevalent in societies where there is an existing male superiority complex amongst its citizens e.g. India, Nigeria, South-Africa.

RaeMystix:
Try reading my comment again.

Yea I did, over and over again, but it still didn't make sence.

This country is full of wicked people. RIP

RaeMystix:
Perhaps it might be as a result of him not getting any on regular basis?.
We might call him a paedophile if he were to be someone from the western countries, but with the rate of which most Nigerian men lament and complain about how Nigerian women aren't putting up to satisfy their needs, one would think all this rape crap occurring in Nigeria, is as a result of them not having the means to attract a full grown women, cos it means they also has to pay bug bucks inorder to get some on regular basis.

What's your point?

At some point in school, water was scarce so we used to get up early to get it. One morning, i went wiith a few friends as usual. We were gisting and I was carried away, but I felt something cold and slippery moving on my feet, I impulsively kicked it off, just in time to see that it was a big light brown snake. I was shocked, the snake was big! I was so relived after checking that I wasn't bitten.

What a loss RIP

oshaosha2014:
That is not complete without adding these; men shaa! Let's go!

Olosho=women
Ashawo=women
Runs gal=women
Aristocracy=women
Escort=women
Prostitute=women
Call girl=women
LovePeddler=women

Beastiality=men
Peadophile=men
Pornography=men
Pimps=men
LovePeddler customers=men
Brothel owners=men
Aristos=_men

Pavore9:
It is painful that women go scot free before the law for verbally abusing men (it does not attract a jail term), that is why a man owes himself restraint. He should think beyond the woman and think of
children and his extended family. It takes wisdom to dodge the devil's bullet. Physically hitting out on someone, does not make us stronger.

Stop acting as if men don't verbally and mentally abuse their wives too, besides all the verbal abuse in this world, will not make someone go blind, permanently disfigured or kill the person. You need to get this into your thick skull IT'S NOT THE SAME THING

fireforfire:
some women r d architects of dia own misfortunes.
dis wasnt d first time d man was violent towards her, yet she remained.

Like it's so easy to just get up and walk out of your matrimonial home

Tribalism at its peak!

Haven read all your responses, it appears you do not understand the magnitude of the situation you are in. Hope you have a safe delivery.

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You son shall be found IJN. I shall do my part by sending this sad news to my contacts on SM.

Toks2008:
THE MAID FACTOR...A must read for every lady

I just got a disturbing news from my neighborhood about a man who just got their house maid pregnant and this is why i decided to write this article for everyone to read but before i continue i will like to quote this scripture not to justify the act but to lay emphases on how strange it is:

"There are three things that are too amazing for me, four that I do not understand:The way of an eagle in the sky, The way of a serpent on a rock, The way of a ship in the middle of the sea, And the way of a man with a maid" Proverbs 30:18-19.

I get so surprised when a woman finds out that her hubby is making out with a maid and she uses words like "How could you? a COMMON MAID"

Now ladies open your eyes and widen your reasoning faculty and get this straight.

Men are visual,we think about sex way more than you do as women and we are very polygamous by nature meaning we naturally love to be with as many ladies as possible but if you find a man who is decent and disciplined then such a man is a rare breed.

The Nigerian mentality that your level in life is determined by how much money you make or your educational background is quite honestly annoying; every occupation should be accorded it's dignity, housemaids offer an essential service to the society and should be respected as such.

That stated, when a woman fails to realize that part of the seduction process involves the respect and care she offers her husband I.e in the little things she does, like making him food, paying attention to his attire, etc if she totally reneges on these duties and leaves it to the housemaid, she effectively sets up her husband to be seduced by the housemaid; besides, a housemaid is so awestruck by the attention she receives from the master of the house, she is willing to submit to a lot of things madam no longer deems necessary and if you're a man, you know there's nothing more flattering nor seductive than a willing woman....

In short, it is my opinion that when a man begins to cast a lustful glance at the housemaid,in most cases it's a symptom that madam is neglecting her duties somewhere.

Wait guys, i am not promoting randy lifestyle or justifying the shameless act of sleeping with a maid not because SHE IS A MAID but how can you have your wife in the same house and yet sleeping with a maid? This is arrant nonsense i must say

But then to the women, please if you must get a house maid, do not go for the type with conspicous sexual body features.

Lets leave hypocrisy, if my wife brings home a maid that has sweet curves, i will call her to order and ask her to send the maid back. Prevention is better than fighting temptation.

A maid is human, a maid was born the same way you were born, a maid has the same feminine sexual features just as you have and even usually younger,Stop employing matured maids if you have a man at home to prevent unpleasant situation.

If you like ,start saying you trust your husband, he can not do this or that but by the time it happens, don't say i have not warned you.

Be wise

Hmmmmm typical of a male living in the comfort of a society that glorifies the male gender. OP imagine it was the other way around, and madam employs a young eloquent driver, who is always there to drive her wherever she wants to go as her husband can't possibly go everywhere with her. Wouldn't he expert her to exercise self-control regardless? Although your post was written with good intentions, the content is filled with excuses for men shortcomings. We have heard your advice, thanks.

safarigirl:
leave your village and come and see them. Total packages at that, tall, dark and handsome countries in horn of Africa have pretty boys, I'm not into men who look gay so understandably men of West African origin are more of my thing

Village?! Lol ur funny

safarigirl:
go ask judges of Mr. World competitions

Look @all those guys, av not seen a Nigerian bloke as handsome.

What are Nigerian men doing on that list?!Ha Ethiopia

emamos:
http://dailyindependentnig.com/2015/08/buhari-now-different-man-knew-soyinka/

All these old men should be in retirement homes.

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He was probably loosing the scuffle when he decided the only way out was to use a weapon. I hope he rots in jail.

Later rapist apologists will say it is the victim's fault. God go punish all of una wey dey support rape, regardless.

This looks like a crime committed by people within the vicinity. It looks like something personal, it was obviously done to punish her.