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nairalandposter:
Not really,


Did you just say churches should put up large photos of single ladies on a wall or something?

Are you serious or joking?

Do you have a problem with it?

mkb1990:
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dhee5:
I had my reservations but I gave it a try and I got paid. I'm not going to say much, results speak louder. It's a small one but the fact that they are legit means I can double my efforts and scale it up.
Comment "info" if you are interested and I'll send you the link.

peacefull:
I'm sorry. I'm not Christian.
But Thank you so much for inform about book.
I appreciate you!

I think problem is me.
My health is not so good and I think my heart was very weak when I joined here.
I was feeling like he dumped me.

I wrote about money is not I want money from him or not I had complain about spend my money for our life.
I wanted him to understand about my situation.

I wrote about gift is not I want gift from him.
I liked gift for him and celebrate with him on special day.
But he was not with me on special day many times.
I was feeling like lonely.
I wanted him to understand my feel.

I wrote about he go to Nigeria is not I don't want him to go.
I just couldn't understand that why he wanna stay in Nigeria 3moth and I was little bit doubt him.

I wrote about separate living is not I didn't want him to get new work from another place.
I wanted him to tell me more before.
I wanted time for ready to separate living.

So problem is me.
I was selfish.
I wanted him to understand me.
I wanted him to stay with me.
I wanted him to always there for me.
I wanted be his special woman.
I didn't want any women will take him away from me etc.
I was very selfish.
I thought I was always trying to understand him and I was always trying to do my best.
But maybe not. I was just selfish and maybe I was not understand him.

If he don't love me anymore, that's not his fault.
My fault.
Who want kind of wife?
I really appreciate him.
He still with me.
He maybe had too much stress with me.
He maybe wanted dump me.
He maybe wanted divorce with me.
I also don't remember how many times I was thinking about divorce with him before.
But We are still together.
Very calm now.
Many times talking about our old days and laughing together.

I really appreciate everybody who gave me advice.
I can't explain well how much everybody helped me.
If he really had wife and kids in Nigeria, I'm ready for allow it.
I maybe will hurt, I maybe will cry, I maybe will get mad etc, I really don't know what will happen to me if he had wife and kids.
But I'm ready for allow everything.

I even told him that if he had kids, I wanna take care of his kid in Japan when we have enough money for kid if mother(his wife) will accept it.
But He denying about everything.
He said he don't have wife and kids in Nigeria.
I have to trust him.
But I wanted him to know I'm ready for everything.
So he don't need worry about or stress about that.
But if he is just playing, I mean cheating, I don't wanna know.
I don't need to know.
I just don't want sick.

Anyway, Thank you so much!
I really appreciate you!!
I'm so sorry for I can't buy your book.
I'm the one who have problem.
Not my husband.

sewed4u:
All is not well with many marriages and family this days. Divorce rate is on the increase, most especially our celeberities, sex denial, marital infidelity mostly the men but some women have join the train, flirting, wife battering, quarelling, abusive speech, indecent dressing mostly the women putting on sloppy, short, tight fitted and revealing clothen and lots more are happening every day. Why all these mess? Because many have forgotten what God said about marriage. He simply said "that is why a man will leave his father and mother and will stick to his wife and they will become one flesh" many today did not take their spouse like that, they view them as different. If a man view his wife as himself, there is no way he will maltreat her, like wise the woman. By the time both party play their part, there will be peace in the house. No marriage is perfect but problems can be resolved by apply scriptural counsel.

peacefull:
Hello everyone.

Thanks for open this topic.
And sorry about my English is very poor.
Coz I'm not English speaker.

I really need advice from who is Nigerian(Igbo) and who is marry with Nigerian(Igbo)guy.

I'm married with Igbo guy more than 10years.
We started relationship totally almost 15years.

But I'm still dont know lots of things about Nigerian culture.

Now we are living separate.
Coz he got new work in far place.
That's why he is only pay for house bill where I living.
I also working.
But my wage is very small.
He always demind me to pay for lots of things more than my wage since when we married.

In suddenly he leaved our house w/o any discuss when after he spoke his friend who is introduced him to new work.

Get new work is ok.
But what I dont understand is always he decided by himself about all of things.

My health is no good.
I suppose to be go to hospital what doctor said when I went to there @ last time.
But I still cant go there more than 4month.
Bcoz of money.

I told him that how much so hard life.
But he always ignoring me.

I know that he has money.
Coz every year he go back to Nigeria.

He can buy air ticket and many gifts for his family but he has no money to take me to hospital.

Is it his culture?

Wife must pay for life more than wage?
Husband salary is more than wife.
But still must pay half and half or more than him?
I know that not everybody same.

If wife have sick,still have to go to work and have to make money to go to hospital by herself?

Is that Nigerian common marriage life style?

He started stay in Nigeria more than 1month when he go back to Nigeria.
He told me 3months by this time.
Now he is in Nigeria.

I can understand that everybody who is stay in abroad want go back to own country and missing family.
But why always w/o wife?

People who is married and living in Nigeria,every year take holiday 1to3month?
No work,no pay,w/o partner.
Is it common?

And my husband dont wanna give me any gift and dont wanna spend time with me on any celebrate day.
So I also stopped gift for him.
I have no experience about dating with him as like common couples.
Is it Igbo culture?

I know that I decided marry with him.
But I didn't know kind of hard and lonely life Iwill get.

I still wanna ask many things.
But already too much writing.

Sorry about my poor English once more time.

I hope many people can understand what I'm trying to tell you.
PLS I NEED HELP.

THANKS.

Isabellah:
I once dated a Femi, he was all I could want in a man, loving, caring, sweet
Always satisfied me all round.. Showered me with praises ..made me feel like the only woman in the world.

But guess what he still cheated..
Femi Aderibigbe, wherever you are God punish you.

Smallbaby:
I dont think you can have them back oo, except those stored via google drive.

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ngadaAwo:
Catholic the only true church of our lord Jesus Christ

NSNA:
What Revolution?

A revolution cannot take place in Nigeria because it is not a nation, but a country of many nations. Revolution often takes place in a nation where the people are united by common descent, history, culture, or language.

Nigeria has many nations, including the Yoruba, Hausa and Fulani, Ibo, Ijaw, Nupe, Tiv, Kanuri, Efik/Ibibio and others. Nigeria, is thus, a multicultural country. The best that can happen is ethnically motivated violence which will finally lead to the dissolution of the country.

Revolution is closely affiliated with a nation and has never happened to a country.

Consider, for instance the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Ireland, was a country of four nations, including England, Scotland, Wales and Ireland. Not once did they ever experience a revolution, but several ethnically motivated rebellion that cumulated in the civil war between Ireland and England in 1922 which led to the Republic of Ireland breaking away from the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Ireland.

After Ireland left the United Kingdom, it was yet another ethnically motivated rebellion in Scotland that led to the introduction of the devolved administrations in England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland with each having total control of its military, police, court, mineral and natural resources as well as revenue from taxation. They still have separate football teams and different currency designs. They had no revolution because the United Kingdom isn't a nation, but a country of many nations.

Once more, it was because the United Kingdom is a country of many nations that led the Northern Ireland to take up arms, another rebellion, against the England, until the intervention of the United States that eventually led to the Good Friday Agreement, which enables Northern Ireland to govern itself as a self governing region, independent of the Federal Government of the United Kingdom.

The United Kingdom has, consequently, never experienced a revolution because it is not a nation, but a country of many nations. The nations therein were always antagonizing one another until they all adopted regionalism.

However, the opposite is the case with the United States of America. A revolution was possible in the United States because seven people, including the English, French, German, Spanish, Portuguese, Italian and Belgian, left their respective nations in Europe and mass migrated to the United States in order to escape religious and political persecutions in their respective countries.

When these seven immigrants got to the United States, they exterminated the native Americans and adopted among other things Christianity as their preferred religion, English as their language and democracy based on Federalism as their guiding principle of governance. They therefore became a nation of immigrants united by common descent (came from Europe), common history (escaped from religious and political persecutions), the common language (adopted the English language), inhabiting a particular territory - the United States of America. In this example, a revolution was possible in the United States and still remains one after the American revolution of 1776.

Also, the revolution in France became possible because France is not a country, but a nation of French-speaking people united by common descent, history, culture and language. Being a nation, the French revolution of 1789 happened, yet the nation did not split up.

American Revolution (1775-1783); French Revolution (1789-1999); Haitian Revolution by the Yoruba descent (1791-1804); Serbian Revolution (1804-1835); all happened because the people were united by common descent, history, culture and language.

Revolution cannot, therefore, happen in Nigeria because the people do not share common descent, history, culture and language. The Yoruba, the Ibo, the Hausa, the Kanuri, the Ijaw, the Fulani and others have no common descent, history, culture and language. Nigeria is a country of many nations. The worst thing that will happen is another civil war, which will finally break up the country or restructure it back to the regional system.

Whilst no revolution will happen in Nigeria, a revolution is, nevertheless, possible in Yorubaland, Iboland and in the Hausa and Fulani land. These are nations within Nigeria.

The Kiriji war in Yorubaland, which took place in 1878 and lasted for about 16 years, was a revolution in Yorubaland against Ibadan. The revolution was possible because Yorubaland is a nation with a large body of people united by common descent, history, culture and language. After the revolution, Yorubaland still remains one indivisible nation.

It is, therefore, unreasonable for the Yoruba Liberals to be screaming for a revolution in Nigeria. They are acting with the Ibo and Sowore, an Ijaw citizen, to distract the Young Yoruba who desires a return to the regional government or the break up of Nigeria.

COPYRIGHT: Adeyinka Grandson.

https://m.facebook.com/permalink.php?id=890285234664845&story_fbid=893746524318716

obembet:
Let trouble catch u

obembet:
True love... U cant find this kind love again among our guys.. They are not ready to setttle with 1 lady. Chop and run

marvelck:
Her name is Adaobi Nwosu... She's beautiful, stylish, a role model to many, and a highly decorated and dedicated Police superintendent

GidifeedNews:
Simi is with the heart of Gold, the Singer promises to attend a Twitter user wedding for free.

The Twitter user with the handle name "thelamzyy" tweeted saying she wants her to attend his wedding because of his wife loved Simi and she replied saying...




Source: https://gidifeed.com/simi-promises-to-attend-a-twitter-user-wedding-for-free-see-what-happened/

GistGoViral:
Comedian Akpororo shut down Eko hotels last week with his comedy show, during the event he brought his beautiful wife, Josephine on stage and they both shared a kiss together. He wrote;



See more photos; http://gistmore.com/comedian-akpororo-and-wife-kiss-on-stage-during-his-comedy-show-in-lagos

madridguy:
See the second comment from Queen Preshiii

Na her type dey send husband family away May God no let us jam kind of woman.

EkunKekere:
Hurray!!

Our people are gradually taking over!

Men and women who are not afraid to speak truth to power in defiance of cowardice and political correctness!

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Made4naijalove:
Nigerian Guy Publicly Proposes To His Girlfriend At A Mall,

She Finally Said Yes After 10mins Of Nontsop Kneeling Down And Begging From Passersby and Well Wishers

Watch video

Source:

https://www.made4naija.com/guy-publicly-proposes-to-his-gf-she-finally-said-yes-after-10mins-of-nontsop-kneeling-down/

RichBoy247:
Igbos had a chance in 1966 through Aguyi Ironsi but they abused that chance. Aguyi Ironsi issued Decree 34 of 1966 which cancelled regional government because Aguyi Ironsi wanted access to all resources of all the regions. How then can we give Igbos another chance to do worse.

IamSoProlific:
FTC for the second time in two consecutive days

I don hammer, this month and the remaining months of this year go good no doubt.

Well I happen to be among those that got gifted 20k from the man that got gifted 3million. So since it's gifting season, I want to gift people too so that the gifting chain would continue.

I'm gifting 10k to 50people here on Nairaland, just send me your account number let me show some love....

No Dm please, paste it here since others are doing it for the gram I also want to do it for raland. (Reigning in my own lane and where my hand reach)