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I met this lady through a friend married though, he told me of her sterling qualities, I decided to get her number. We started chatting and at the end of the day, we decided to meet. Being that I stay in Ph and she in Owerri, I gave her a day and told her where to meet up with her. She got there before me, and waited for few minutes before I arrived. We boarded a taxi, and on getting to our destination(an eatery) she wanted to pay, I told her to keep her money.
In the eatery I asked her what she wanted to take, she said she wants water, I pleaded with her to take something, so I bought meat pie for my self and extra for her. We chatted for less than an hour and where ready to leave. I saw her off and paid her fair. I now told her that since I came all the way from PH that the next time she has to come to PH and she told me she will not sleep with me, but will be staying in her friends place. I accepted.
Three weeks later she was to visit Ph, she called her friend that she is on the way and her friend told her she was on her way to Enugu, she had to come to my place and spent 3days, we did everything but sex.
I still paid her trans and off she went.
Ten years later she is now my wife, with three lovely kids. But it was difficult though because we courted for less than six months and didn't really know much about each other, but she is a lovely person.

donbachi:
Spiritually,someone is sitting on your marriage..how can you take your wife to be to your village to meet with parent.only to return back with the thought of ending it..it is not ordinary..when it comes to marriage,we pay more attentions to the physical,finances and human qualities negleting the spiritual side of marriage.both of you should seek the face of God.and pray.

The best advice, follow it.

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Talking about bride price, some communities does not collect the so called bride price but you have a long list of items to buy, at the end of the day, you are the one who will entertain your visitors on the day of traditional marriage which will take place in the family home of the bride which most time makes the marriage exorbitant.
Looking at the whole arrangement, you will see that, marriage and process of marrying in Africa should be revisited and redefined.
The truth remains that the man will always be the head of the union whether their is price or not. All I will suggest is that the cost of marriage should be brought down to the barest minimum where everyone who wants to marry can do so conveniently. In that case, it will be a win win situation for all.
Even in Europe and America where there is nothing like bride price, the man is still the head of the union but respects his wife. Remember also, that these countries have laws that protects the woman from being cheated or molested.

The truth is, Jesus saw it all and forgave them, all they need is accept the salvation freely given to them. I pray they will.

Ihedioha should be serious, Imo is waiting for roads and other infrastructure to be fixed. Stop delaying. Seems you are more interested in living in comfort in the government house. History will judge everyone. Your time is ticking

It all means you didn't learn from your first experience. Well as per returning the phone, be ready to go there with Army, Air force, Navy and if possible Bakassi Boys for a refund. Good luck.

Sometimes we worry alot about life in general. At thirty I had nothing than a worthless HND certificate, no relationship, no job,squatting with a friend who I became a servant to, but all I did was turn to God and serve him to the best of my knowledge. But at 34, I had my own place, had a good job, married, expecting a baby. So looking back I can't but thank God who is the one who actually plan our lives. In case your case was like mine, never give up on God. Keep hope alive. Your tomorrow is better than today.

Marry anyone you want to marry, a single mother, a virgin, slay queen, just be sure you are happy with the person. That is all about marriage. I see men who married the most beautiful women ever, running around some ugly girls outside, what actually are they looking for if the beauty is all that matters in marriage. I don't know, but all a man should seek for is a woman that makes you happy, who you will love being around all day all the time. I wish them a happy married life.

Marry anyone you want to marry, a single mother, a virgin, slay queen, just be sure you are happy with the person. That is all about marriage. I see men who married the most beautiful women ever, running around some ugly girls outside, what actually are they looking for if the beauty is all that matters in marriage. I dont know, but all a man should seek for is a woman that makes you happy, who you will love being around all day all the time. I wish them a happy married life.

WHAT A STUPID ADVICE. HOW DO YOU STEAL A MAN WHO ALREADY HAD FIVE WIVES BEFORE REGINA. IF THE MAN WANTS MORE PIECE OF ARTS, WHO CAN STOP HIM.

Firstly you have no right to be hurt by her actions since as it is now, she is unfaithful to her husband and obviously she will be unfaithful to any other relationship she goes into.
For you this is actually an opportunity to back of this evil you have been into, since she already has another person she is with moving on without you will be very easy.
Its not going to be easy, I know how difficult such women can be, but stand up to her, make sure you two are never in a secluded place with her, always avoid having too much contact with her, above all, give your life to Christ if truly you have repented. Once you give your life to Christ be very committed to God in the way of being active in church and services. This fight is not going to be easy, so you must go all out to win. May God have mercy on you and grant you wisdom to overcome.
Also try giving your family plenty attention, by the time she sees you giving your wife attention in the way of constant calls and taking her out, she will back-off.

Firstly you have no right to be hurt by her actions since as it is now, she is unfaithful to her husband and obviously she will be unfaithful to any other relationship she goes into.
For you this is actually an opportunity to back of this evil you have been into, since she already has another person she is with moving on without you will be very easy.
Its not going to be easy, I know how difficult such women can be, but stand up and to her, make sure you never in a secluded place with her, always avoid having too much contact with her, above all give your life to Christ if truly you have repented. Once you give your life to Christ be very committed to God in the way of being active in church and services. This fight is not going to be easy, so you must go all out to win. May God have mercy on you and grant you wisdom to overcome.

I read alot of people call Tonto an Igbo girl including Bobrisky her friend. The truth is that Tonto and her Ikwerre brethren does not accept Igbo as their tribe and the hatred they have for Igbo's can actually make her say such thing. But you know how age changes things, now she can deny not saying it.

How cheap things can be in the north. One bridge in the south will cost over 5billion meanwhile what is happening there in Kano is worth 4.5B.

I beg to disagree with that statement. I have been using glo, voice and data. I cant complain about them. I don't stay in Lagos but PH.

The end of petrol car is in sight, if we want, we can flow with a new trend or wait until our crude becomes useless.

Before heeding to any advice from here, VISIT THE DOCTOR.

If Bishop Oyedepo build an airport with clean floor, you will be the first to criticize him. Enjoy

May your union never end in the social media. This union will last forever.

He has quickly sited Kano as example, I guess that is the only place clean money is made. Can he possibly site any other place in the country where people are doing well. NEXT LEVEL

Don't worry the youth voted them in, NEXT LEVEL all the way. Both the killing, depression,no money in circulation are part of the NEXT LEVEL we willingly voted. Not to forget herdsmen and militants/militia attacks on our communities.

No one should celebrate yet, this phone will not be cheaper than Infinix or Tecno, maybe costlier. Quote me.

He deserves whatever reception he gets.

Who cares..................................

Firstly some of the phones are refurbished which is clearly written in the description, also you need to check if the phone has warranty and how long it lasts. Some of those details are very important while making an online purchase.
Also even at the price of 75k, one can deduce its China refurbished iphone even UK use is costlier than that.
Be mindful while buying a phone that is two years and above old because the market is saturated with fake and refurbished.
Jumia has alot of sellers on their platform and as a result, you may not blame them for the lapses of some of these sellers.

Imo sons and daughters have made their choice, if pdp decides to Loot am sure you will not be blamed. Okorocha you can keep your opinion to yourself.

My take on this is that, after INEC deregister them, they will all come back and register with a new name before the next election, so the best thing to do is, make the registration of Parties very stringent, that will keep pretenders away from registering new parties. We don't need more than 5 parties in Nigeria.

The only reason why I may not condemn her is, she always tell you she wants to visit her EX, but my question is, if they where that good, why did she leave them. She really needs to accept her status as a married woman and stop seeing herself otherwise. I think you still need to keep talking to her, but mostly whenever you guys are in a happy mood. Good you told her friend, you can still confide in her brother, that is, if you try to talk to her on your own.
All the quarrels is not a good omen but with prayers, patience and love. You will win.

Why buy a car you can hardly use freely. Waste of resources.

Sometimes there are things we can not explain in life, but they are real. I know of a girl, she was ripe for marriage but each time she enters a serious relationship and have sex with the man, the man's finances goes down, it happened severally and each of these men walk away when it happens. She had to visit a seer and was told that she was the cause of her lack of Marriage.
So its obvious that this thing happens. But once as a lady u see it happen, look for a way and break the curse, give ur life to Christ and live a good life.