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Dpsychologist:
By: Dpsychologist

Let’s talk, guys:

Have you also started feeling like money is EVERYTHING in today’s world?

Or do you still believe peace > paper?

Drop your thoughts. This one’s personal.

2. Sometimes the way Nigerians reason dey tire person na only men suppose get money for love to be sweet abi? One mumu go say but "Men are providers" thunder kee you there, most of una be providing for a broke ass retarded fellows all because of love. As a sharp man when you meet woman/women wey dey feel you and plus she/them hold side pass your babe dump your broke ass gf follow the cash cow package.

Well said Helsinki standard of coloured water for you

ubunja:
A Player Is Nothing But A Woman With A Dick (And A Nice Guy Is Nothing But A Man With A Pussy)

THE ONLY MAN PUSSY HAS NO POWER OVER.
Men want to fvck women more than women want to fvck men. It has always been. It will always be. This mismatch of values gives women an upper hand. Fortunately there is a mindset that a man can develop that will re-align his values with those of women to help him regain some measure of an upper hand.

Sex begins in the mind. The brain is the biggest sex organ. So power over pussy begins with a mental reset. this epistle will seek to press that reset button and recreate in you the mindset of the only man pussy has no power over: The Player.

Women control sex because men let sex control them. It is a survival strategy of the powerless woman to control the powerful man by becoming a Master of what a man is a Slave to.

RE-ALIGNING VALUES.
Consider the table of values below. It may not apply to every woman, but for the majority of them it's accurate.

As a man whatever you have on High that women have on Low is what you love more than women love and women
will use that to control you. and what women have on High that you have on Low is what women love more than you love and you can use that to control them. what you have on matching values with women cant be used by women against you and chances are you can get it free:

ACT . ---- WOMEN --------- MEN . ----------- PLAYERS

KISSES --- high--------------------high -------------------high
CUDDLES --- high --------------------low---------------------low
SEX --- low---------------------------- high---------------------low
BJs ---- low-----------------------------low----------------------high
LOVE ----- high----------------------------low--------------------high
PUSSY LICK ------high-------------------------high-------------------low
NUDITY -----low----------------------------high--------------------low
phone intimacy ----high-----------------low----------------------low

The first step to freedom is to move from a place where pussy means Everything to a place where it means Nothing. Because unless that value is correct all other values won't be and you'll forever be a slave to anyone with a pussy. Remember the only value pussy has is the value that you give it.

In the Table above, a Player is basically a woman. He matches a woman's values to perfection. to a woman he is a mirror. She's dealing with another woman and sex-wise she has zero leverage. Sex means to a Player exactly what it means to her: NOTHING. ZERO. NADA. ZILCH. NAUGHT. While Sex means so much to the 80% of the male population that they sing about it, pedestalize it, worship it and are willing to buy it, marry for it, fight for it and die for it. Things a woman or a Player will never do.

PUSSY IS PUSSY.
women love money. It doesn't matter whether you make that money cleaning toilets or robbing people or investing on the stock exchange. To them All money is good money. And all money is the same. Likewise to a Player all pussy is good pussy and all pussy is the same. Doesn't matter the woman's looks. Pussy is pussy.

The Player has fvcked so many pussies that they are now the same to him, no matter how beautiful a woman is. Why should hers be special when even the ugliest woman has one? What does her pussy have that 3 billion others don't have? Two clitorises? Or maybe it can talk? pussy is pussy. To the Player that thing it's just a hole between a woman's legs.

But not to the average guy!!!. The average guy "fvcks faces". He only wants Nicki Minaj. He's only interested in those women whose beauty takes his breath away. He is choosy.

Now here is the thing about human sexuality: We all begin as virgins intending to marry the first person we have sex with. Our First Time must be our First Love. That is because we have an internal instinct that Sex=Love. Essentially we attach to the person who takes our virginity. It is only when we keep fvcking more and more people that this instinct switches off and Love is mentally divorced from Sex allowing us to love without sex and have sex without being in love.

Back to the Average Guy...
The average guy only wants beautiful women. But as much as he only has an eye for beautiful women he is also afraid of approaching these beautiful women. beautiful women are hard to get and even harder to fvck, so the average guy goes through life having sex maybe once in a blue moon. At the end he gets to 30 without any real skill in talking to women or fvcking them. Where regular sex with the easy Plain Janes and Ugly Ducklings would have forced his mind to separate Love from Sex he remains uncured of the above instinct. He goes through life emotional with sex. Where he is given sex there he will fall in love.

Men are visual and select for beauty in women, but thats no reason to ignore ugly women. A Player understands this. He ignores faces. And because he ignores faces he also fvcks ugly girls, if only to keep his Dick Game eversharp.
Again because he ignores faces a Player can treat beautiful girls like trash, shocking the princesses accustomed to a never-ending chorus of male compliments and succeeding in presenting himself as High Value with the sex skills to prove it.

DICK IS LIKE MONEY.
To women Dick is like money.100cents make $1 the same way two 50¢ coins make $1. its the total that counts. Not the parts. if her BF is under-performing in the bedroom it makes sense to a woman to ask his best friend "to help the failing BF out" by fvcking her. its not cheating, its
her saving the relationship. hence the popular belief "Women Cheat To Save Relationships"

If a woman values your love enough, but your dick ain't enough she'll cheat rather than lose you. She would be
insane to walk away from an amazing love such as yours just because you are not fvcking her proper. True Love is harder to find than Good Dick. So she'll find Dick elsewhere, but in someone bonded to you so the
sex will have meaning. That someone will be your best friend or your brother. the bond you share with these two men makes it the closest she'll Bleep you without fucking you. they are the closest to you. It makes emotional sense. To seduce these men, your GF will present your sex problems to them in such a way it becomes a temptation .

Always remember:
Women cheat because they care (by choice), While men cheat with no feelings (by chance). That is, a woman cheats because something is missing in the relationship (So she PRE-PLANS and because of this its hard for her to get caught), While a man cheats simply because an opportunity presented itself.

99 PROBLEMS BUT A DICK AIN'T 1.
For a woman Dick is easy, it is Love that is hard. Her life is 99% dick but 1% Love. because of this, you can't really get a girl by promising her sex (she can get it all by herself thank you. Besides, what can you do to her that she hasn't experienced 10X before?) But you get her by promising her Love. Just as she gets you by promising you Sex. Because love is as difficult to get for a woman as sex is difficult for a man to get.

women have 99 problems but a dick ain't 1. while a Virgin has 99 problems and they're all about dick. To many men a virgin has nothing to offer because she is not sexually active. This forces the Virgin to find love among Players And Bad Boys; the men who sleep eat and live pussy, because these men are the only men who can love even
though sex is not promised. while the average man's motto is "If you love me have sex with me".

Men use love to get sex ("If you love me prove it" ) , while women use sex to get love ("if you like it put a ring on it" ) . Men hope love will lead to Sex while women hope Sex will lead to Love. To men sex is the Final Destination, to women sex is the Start of the Journey. A man manipulates until he gets sex (as women always lament "He left me after we had sex!" ), and a woman starts manipulating after giving sex (as men always lament "After sex she has started making demands" )

to the average man love is not love until he's given sex. To a woman sex is not sex until she's in love. Even if she has sex, "it doesn't count". If a woman tells you she has slept with 5 guys in her life she means SHE HAS BEEN IN LOVE with 5 guys in her life. Not that her body count is 5. It can be as high as 50.

HOW A PLAYER PLAYS A VIRGIN.
Players know 1 thing other men don't: A virgin is the only GF you can cheat on with her approval. A Player need only sit his virgin down, hold her hands, look deep into
her eyes and solemnly say "I wanna do everything right by you, that's why I'm saving everything for marriage because you're the only girl i care about and i respect you too much to do to you the things i do to those other girls" ; and the Virgin's eyes fill with wonder and awe. to her this man is a Marvellous Wonder. she's amazed at how easily he can fvck 10 women and not feel anything inside! because to herself Love And Sex are the same thing she's 100% sure she'll marry the first guy who'll fvck her and never cheat on him.....and that is exactly what the Player is counting on, for when the time comes, he will not forsake all others for her, but will bring in a new manipulation and continue his womanizing ways while knowing 99.9% his Woman is his and his alone; while men
fight each other to wife up his hoes..

HOW A PLAYER PLAYS A NON-VIRGIN.
The very excuses men use to avoid fucking virgins ("virgins are too clingy" / "Virgins get too attached" ), the Player uses to Bleep non-virgins. like this: he tells a girl in a belittling tone that sex with him will make her fall in love. Easy. that he's tired of girls becoming clingy and possessive because of sex and that himself he's no longer looking for love because love doesn't love him. love is pain. now, these are words a girl last heard when she was a virgin, and they're an insult to her matured ability to separate Love And Sex. She feels challenged to prove she's now a big girl who can handle Sex Without Emotion.

When the Player tells a girl he no longer believes in love it is a trap he has set for her and she becomes trapped in it the moment she sets out to prove to him that love still exists.
It's a trap because, one: It puts the burden of romance on the Girl since she's the one with a point to prove and, two: It gives a Player a ready excuse for when he'll disappoint her ("but I told you I don't believe in love" ).

A Player presents himself as an innocent love-seeker cruelly wounded in his search for love by saying stuff like "i will never marry for love", coming across as someone who's drowning his sorrows in pussy and fvcking the pain away. This gives a woman hope that a Player can be tamed if he can be proven wrong. And so a woman sets out to prove him wrong and show him that romance is not dead - using the only super power a woman has: Pussy Power.

The woman hopes against hope that out of the dozens of pussies the Player is fvcking her own will be the sweetest most amazing pussy that will reset the Player's heart and make him a romantic.

You have heard many a woman falling into this trap boastfully declare; "He has never been with a woman like me..."

In this regard, Players don't really break hearts. Women break their own hearts. They get their hopes up too high that a Player will change if overdosed with pussy. Which never happens. A Player is nothing but a woman with a Dick. You don't get him by offering sex. what can you do for him that he hasn't experienced 10X before??

You are just being played.

HOW A PLAYER PLAYS A WOMAN BASED ON HER LOOKS AND AGE.
After a lifetime of lying to herself through fakeup (AKA makeup), fake nails, fake eyelashes, fake butts, fake thighs, fake hair, fake skin complexion, fake orgasms. etc, a woman's mind has developed a weakness for lies. An addiction. If women love money, then the one thing they hate with an equal opposite passion is Truth. Truth hurts. Their feelings. If you love truth women don't love you. And if you don't have money then better be a damn good liar.

Tell a beautiful girl she's ugly enough times and she'll believe it. And vice versa. A woman's susceptibility to lies goes back thousands of years, right back to the Garden of Eden and to Eve, the First Woman who believed a lie. This weakness for falsehoods coupled with her incurable insecurity about her looks and age exposes a woman to manipulation.

Like this: A Player knows that you fvck an Ugly Girl by making her feel Beautiful (flattery) but you fvck a Beautiful Girl by making her feel Ugly (negging). A Player knows teenage girls envy grown women for their freedom while grown women envy teenage girls for their fresh bodies. Which tells him that you fvck a Teenager by making her feel Grown Up but you fvck an Older Woman by making her feel Young Again. A Player knows complimenting a woman's Intelligence over her Beauty will unlock her legs. and so on and so forth.

A Player knows.

THE POLARITY RULE.
Everything about men and women concerning love and sex happens on polarities. On opposites. The sexes contradict each other. In their desires, methods and goals.

See the contradiction here: Sex means nothing to a woman yet a man's sexual experience means everything to her (he must blow her mind). Sex means everything to a man yet a woman's sexual experience means nothing to
him (she must be chaste). hence "I'm fucking for experience" coming from a woman is as hilarious as "im saving myself for marriage" coming from a man. There are no such things.

Another contradiction: The weakness of men is the pleasures of the flesh and the weakness of women is the
pleasures of the cash. and so a woman plays hard to get by spending men's money but refusing to Bleep; and a man plays hard to get by fucking many women but refusing to
love. a man fucking a busload of women without falling in love is an insult to the power of pussy the same way a woman spending millions from men without fucking
is an insult to the power of money. a man whom no amount of pussy can buy his love is as priceless as a woman whom no amount of money can buy her pussy. that man is the Player and that woman is the Virgin. both the Player's heart and the Virgin's pussy cant be bought. hence when the Player falls in love it is always with a Virgin and when the Virgin loses her virginity it is to a Player. It is the Virgin who eventually tames the Player in
the same way its the Player that eventually unleashes the Virgin. Because technically the Player and the Virgin are the same thing: they are both virgins. While the female virgin has known love but not sex, the male Virgin (the Player) has known sex but not love.

THE GOOD MAN IS THE VILLAIN OF THE STORY.
The cheap man is not that man who fvcks every pussy that comes his way. No. He's just fulfilling his evolutionary imperative of sowing his seed everywhere like a good farmer. The cheap man is that one who falls in love everytime he has sex. His heart is as cheap as his dick. Not only will he break women's hearts by getting them invested emotionally only to abandon them when the next pussy comes along, but he will turn the said women into cold conniving wh0res.

And that man is the Good Man.

Good Men break hearts. Or more correctly: Good Men create sluts . By being easy. When a woman deals with a good man she lets her guard down and doesn't expect to be stabbed in the back and left for dead - that's more a Player's thing right? Wrong! To a good man Love and Sex are the same thing. From that flawed perspective all manner of šhít will flow. He is a wrecking ball. Every woman he fvcks he falls in love with. Even a pr0stitute will be told "i love you". While this cheap loser walks around feeling morally superior to the Player he's leaving behind a trial of broken hearts that will, in time, heal and from then on consider the Player a Safer Option. After all, with a Player what's on the label is what's on the inside. You know what you are getting. No surprises.

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You No lie at all
you talk well.
In other words shoot your shot

She knows what is wrong with her and she might not want to share it with you. Trying to figure it out, you fit get BP for nothing. My advice is that you should when to show her your inner son of bi#ch before she see you finish

If fit be say she wan leave you, she come use tactics set bait for you. She know say you no get or fit raise the funds build the house asap so once you dey delay to build the house she go use the matter as excuse to serve you breakfast. As for the people wey dey praise the lady it's not every time that a person suggest something excellent to you that they have your best interest at heart

Relationship no dey difficult na we dey put body for where dem no want us. Have you seen a Saturday wey wedding no sup? Who dey always marry na ghost dem be?
Dats the narrative that the society is trying to make us believe. If you believe that relationship is hard when the opposite sex give you small attention you sharply dey think of you and him/her forever

I wonder how some people think
How many married couples Wey una know meet through hook up?
all dis people wey dey tell you to date/marry the girl how many of dem fit marry olosho? Just because most girls now carry runs and hook up for head no mean say make you marry ashawo

She told me that at the age of 13 she was r@ped by her dad's friend. I mumu wishly thought and hoped that she has recovered from the traumatic experience but fast forward a month later she said she has boil inner her v-jay that she poured hand sanitizer in her v-jay just to be hurt the boil for making her go through pains. Na there i borrow leg(japa) which kind werey be dat

U feel so disappointed because u didn't expect that from someone as enlightened as him. Mumu girl because enlightened man prick no dey stand

Omo with dis info, it's safe to say dat women from the western part of the country dey like extra marital activities. It's well

Op sorry, next time learn not to invite a Hyena to discipline a stubborn goat

Suddenly all of us don turn experts in policy making. Person wey study medicine no go gree make prof of economics talk when them dey discuss subsidy matter. Provision for subsidy go end by June, the country is borrowing to pay for subsidy, Tinubu say him inherite liabilities from the past administration, blah blah blah. Dis subsidy removal it's a bitter pill to swallow but there is light at the end of the tunnel

Angelfrost:
Honestly, Tinubu is the one distracting himself from day one!

A leader must learn to communicate and communicate effectively with citizens and those in the area of unions.

This strike would never have been thought of if he had first met with labor and clarified with them before opening his mouth to make that May 29 declaration!

You have to understand how democracy truly works...!

Goodluck tried to remove it we had issues with his decision,now what would have been the right time to make his announcement?

Guys like to complicate things for ourselves
A lady suggested something dat is disheartening, just tell her dat u are can't get involved in such an abominable act.

I have a friend we've been friends for 25 years now

Ronaldo723:
Just say you broke 😂

akamu dey insult custard
brokenaldo like you

Ronaldo723:
The guy probably likes her

abi she dey use kayan mata

Person see her come give her 200k just like that because she say she dey stressed
abeg op i'm curious na gold plated vagina ur girlfriend get?

fombi:
I could feel the sadness all over Nigeria. There are bairly people celebrating. Tinubu will not enjoy this posion, the cap doesn't fit. It won't last.

oga leave dat talk you visit everywhere for Nigeria?

Na wa oo it's 2023 some people no still Sabi vote now invalid don get vote past obedient

God no go let false information spoil or cause palava for this election. Ameen

Ebirra people i hail una

Useless fellow he did dis and dat to me but i still love my ex. Na sufferness dey hungry her
What women want = the opposite of what they say

Leilami:
I am a lady and I am telling him the truth here. A guy tried that with me once. We also spoke on the phone for a few weeks as well and the next thing he was inviting me to his house. I told him I was not comfortable yet coming to his place but he kept insisting ignoring my fears and uneasiness so I did not go and that was the last time I picked up his call. He called me later I ignored him.

It was not that I wanted him to wine and dine me after all I don't even eat outside so he would not need to spend except buy a bottle of water(which I believe is nothing because if I had gone to his house he would have entertained me as a guest)but I wanted a comfortable environment on the first meeting.

I met another one at a party after interacting for a while too the next thing he was suggesting was him coming over to my place. For what? Why would I bring a total stranger inside my home?
The lady does not want to be alone with him in his house neither does she want to be alone with him inside her house. Simple!

A lady I know invited a guy home and he tried raping her inside her house she thought she was safe because she was in her own space thank God she had a black belt.

Any man who invites a lady to his house for a first meeting still has a lot of growing up to do.
You meet someone after a few weeks the next thing is your house. Is that how you bring people anyhow into your sacred space. Why don't you get to know them better for some months before opening the door of your house to them? What if along the line you found out she was a stalker? Get to know people well and vet them properly before bringing them home.

omo no be small thing oh u typed 1 full news paper on top dis matter anyways you are entitled to ur opinion plus you are a woman what do you know about been a man?

Leilami:
You messed up from the get-go.
You met a lady once and the next thing you invited her to come and visit you inside your house. That was rude, immature and unreasonable (you should have suggested a hang-out on the first meet)
Anyways she turned you down and decided to give you a soft landing and asked you to visit her instead as a cop-out not knowing you would truly come over.

A lady who doesn't want to be alone with you in your house would not want to be alone with you in her house either( the two options aren't safe for her) She wasn't keen on having you over at her place(she doesn't know you too well and you were moving too fast.
Had it been you suggested a meeting outside of your house and her house she would have honoured the invitation.

Next time you meet a lady take her out first.

oga leave dat talk you read the tory from beginning so? Him no f up by asking her to come to his place. you don meet person for school, she don show interest, dem dey chat for 2 wiss you still want him to whine and dine her. He didn't do anything wrong the game no just enter. Besides indecisiveness is worse than making a bad decision.

anyilalaz:
In a space or two weeks or so you don the invite baby or later the baby invites you!!! Haba, it was too early for both of you. Next time, first thing, invite a lady to a public space-Cafe, cinema, cool restaurant, any fun environment. Next you invite her to your house. Visiting her house is the last on the process line.

Nevertheless, just ghost her, if she reach out ok but if not ok too. Never you show signs of disappointment over for what happened.

oga leave dat talk perhaps he should have waited until my grand kids have their grand kids before inviting her over to his place. It didn't work out for him shit happens,1 hour, 2 weeks, 1 year it's all depends on the chemistry between the both parties

Next time when a woman is not following your lead cut her off asap
You invited her to ur place she postponed it, later canceled it and told you to come to her place instead. I would have black listed her or told her that if she has a problem with coming to a man's house she shouldn't bother contacting me again.

MenInsight:
Can I ask you something?

What do you think made a girl (Girl B in this case) made a U-turn and started trying to get close to me? Do you think I said anything new? I didn’t initiate anything or even brought up the talks about us dating…

I didn’t say anything bro..

From my experience, I can easily see how women are deceived with just packaging. Men who got this packaging game up tightly will have women drooling.

The truth is I wasn’t really giving much attention to my handsomeness.

2 sundays ago, my girls sister told her that I looked so different and so handsome. She told me this after they got home. Now, that’s one compliment I hadn’t gotten from a lady until recently. How could I when I used to stay in doors more than going out?

So please answer these:

1. What do you think made a girl (Girl B in this case) made a U-turn and started trying to get close to me? I didn’t say anything this time around. I didn’t initiate anything or brought up the topic of asking her out.

You said it isn’t about words and how it’s said… how come I am getting result from Girl B without saying anything to arouse her interest.

2. And can a lady be into a guy that she does not find attractive?

dis ladies like playing silly games it might be because of a thousand reasons

Leave that talk bro women are moved by what they hear. The ladies you are dealing with probably don't like you that's why you are thinking dis way or maybe you lack social and emotional intelligence to notice that you are trying to get with women who are not just into you.Always remember that it not about what you say but how you say it. I Remember back then we were gisting and a guy said " if you say hi/hello to a girl she won't answer you" one good day i come jam baba serious girlfriend only hello na him i tell her, the babe just react with full green light like Saudi Arabia flag.

Omo see buluku wey one person root come out

Op you for no bother to go over to the guy's table in the first place. Plus even if she use jaruma jazz on you you supposed to know say na olosho she be. Lastly as for the yahoo boy you are not supposed to shoot ur shot while a woman is with another man is disrespectful shit could have hit the fan

There are women dat you must have and spend money on before anything will happen between both of you but that is a every small group of women. If it's just about money alot of men will die as virgins but no one fvcks more than a broke man