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As a man gotta be flexible it's not every girl you meet dat will form for ya. Sometimes You meet the ones that will show you high interest immediately and probably they want to get down with you asap just play your cards wisely. Remember life no get manual

increase in the rate of divorce is a major cost of scarcity of husbands. After watching chinedu spend 6m to marry his wife and now they are divorced will ifeanyi want to do the same?Hope say i spell the names well

Lier of the year come collect ur award don't forget to order two Uber for us we dey go different direction

Op abeg no mind all dis people wey dey say she's honest by telling you her past. What if there is more to it? Now let me ask if a restaurant owner confess to using diabolical means to attract consumers.bet you my night food even if TB Joshua has delivered her you won't go back there to eat.

A wise man once said that no hurry in life but bros also remember that delay is dangerous. You waited for 15 months to ask her for sex that's a crucial mistake. When dealing with a woman always remember that attraction has expiring date

The only f up wey i see from you be say you should have touched her bum while she was sitting on ur lap not later. Always remember indecisiveness is worse than making a bad decision

At some point you replied someone that getting her number was a miracle, come on bro a miracle is when opera Winfrey sends u a dm for whatever reason asking you to send ur account details and after that you a 50 million naira bank alert from opera. not when one mumu girl gives you her phone number

Oga run for ur life

people are no longer contented with what they have I bet the op is craving for extramarital action. The grass is always greener on the other side. Lastly all things being equal, I think it's cool to get married to someone who has impulse control because you meet people who are cute, sexier ,rich etc than your spouse and if you don't impulse control before you realise you have slept with everybody

To God who made me i go beat her up she go tell me if na because of only her puna my parents circumcise me

NwaAmaikpe:





This type of well-trained guys are rare.
The type that have been brainwashed to accept the faulty cliché that a real man must never put a lady in her place even when the situation calls for it.

This is the omega-male type that will rather watch a lady stab him than lay a finger on her in self defence.

He should please apologize to her for hiding the knives from her in the heat of her rage.
He should also ask her to forgive him for not giving her his other ear to 'panel-beat'.

He should then take a loan and buy another TV set and IPhone to present to her for destruction as a proof of his repentance.

Every man needs a woman who loves and worships him. One who will never want to share or let them go.
So if an ordinary girlfriend loved him this much to go ballistic just because she found out he was cheating then he needs her in his life as his wife.

She is his wife material and he is our posterboy of a SIMPle mistake of a male.

which kind useless love be dat one day she go tear the document of the life changing contact wey dem give you all because she dey suspect say you dey knack ur new secretary. Any woman dat can smashing ma stuff i no need am

Make God no allow person find himself for that kind of situation.Ameen

Always remember that before a woman is anything to you wife or girlfriend is a woman. Although she may have some virtue but she also have flaws and those flaws would not disappear just because she's now your girlfriend or your wife

whether you're good looking or not, you have money or not, you know how to Spit game or you don't.most important thing to note is that you have to meet and entertain women who are down with your program be it love or just sex. Or else you will end up wasting your time and money.

Girl:abeg you fit help raise 5k Me:raise am carry am go where?

Things hard for everybody(most people) it might be that it's ur mind dat is playing tricks on you but next time even when you are honey you must not sleep with every girl

May his soul rest in peace

Never think that a particular woman is essential in your life. If na her them give the iPhone to sell and invest will she allow him to carry one? To protect and provide does not mean you should become extravagant and spend recklessly on any idiot because she is your girlfriend.

I remember inviting a lady over and all she kept saying is we are both adults when I come you know what will happen and i swear nothing like sex dey mind at least not on that day. Truth be told most of this ladies who are suspicious are not trustworthy themselves.

We are losing our moral values.you can make alot of money she'll still fvck the gate man cos you are always going for business trips. When it comes to woman matter Just hope for the best but be prepared for the worst

Everybody just dey bash the op forgetting dat everybody is starting or at a different level in life. Just because you have a wonderful woman beside you doesn't mean every other guy is that lucky. Anybody wey don through their(women) bad side or hear about am will you u to thread carefully(wisely).

Oil dey ur head

Joker09:
Naija girls don frustrate Naija guys sha . Don't blame them, the poor economic situation is also part of it, girls don't see u for being u now but what u can offer them, especially the hot ones. Romance is dead in this country as a result of hardship, laziness and greed..girls want to meet up with some certain standards, since they have simps to pay for it, they just got to cut u out if u are not willing to pay for being with u, sorry guys, that's d reality of things now. Politicians, Sugar Daddies, yahoo boys and d likes have spoilt show for boys as most girls only date for money now. Your redpill or Alpha techniques will not work on any of these (cute) girls without u being financially comfortable to an extent except u are an unrepentant LIAR. Liars that pretend to be rich get these girls for short term relationship these days tho..
If a girl is not this way in Nigeria, it's either she's from a wealthy home, she's VERY well trained, she's very hardworking, she's already getting OLD after years of slaying or she's not really good looking(which equates to few options)

Talk to an average cute Nigerian girl now and immediately she feels like u owe her, she feels entitled immediately and expect u to lavish on her meanwhile in most cases she might not even agree to date u or av anything to do with u after doing all that she expects, she may still ghost u while she moves to the next guy, SCAM! (same girl could stl be a runs girl) that is why a lot of guys are angry, girls have taken guys for granted over d years and that's why a lot of guys are so toxic to women now.

It's all become games now, it's either play or be played. I understand the angle op is coming from and he needs to calm down and not let these things get to him. Guys should keep their hard earned resources well and don't just throw them on girls, stop loving...Socialize, meet a lot of girls but don't chase. If she's making it hard for u, let her go, try the next one! If u don't invest anything(money, time or emotions), u av nothing to lose. Date the girls that like u back and guide ur heart, you'll sure know the real one as time goes on.

NevetsIbot:
It's just simple.. She might not grow past seeing 1k as big money ever.. So.. For all her troubles.. I got my sanity back and that's all that matters to me now.

She'll be in my dm soon enough. E sure me.

It's just 1k.. I'm unbothered.. She'll be back. Lol

"SHA DO MY SUB" I swear bro u for no do am for her. Now she go think say she be James bond. I know is just 1k but na small small this girls dey take see person finish. If she come around for round 2 just dey sharp, on a opolo eye level.

They want a man who is a 6 foot plus, rich, good looking, behave like dis, talk like that blah blah blah but the only thing they have to offer is sex.

Dis our generation funny sha he is my bestie, she is just a friend, the man is my uncle. I remember my friend(male) had one bestie like that, his girlfriend usually complained about the bestie he called her insecure, drama queen after they broke up guess who immediately became his next gf i bet u know the answer to that. Let's stop deceiving ourselves

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peterangelo:
Thank God the girl tell u.

About the password, u should have told her to tell u her password so that anytime u want to access her phone it won't be a pitfall.

What if they steal her phone that u have been diaturbing her to remove her password n redraw all the money in her bank acct ?

Finally, if u really lurve her what she said won't bother u atall.



Sex is a game!!!
U don't expect a beautiful girl to stay off men or men not to chase a beautiful lady.

sex is what? So in ur words she should fvck everything that moves while she has a boyfriend. Come on man don't support such a behavior.

Abeg any body wey the link of 29 years old man story make e help post am thank you. I don read am(the story). A wise man once said girls(women) protect ya sef cos my sons(men) can't come home with a balle(men can't get pregnant)

First of all you shouldn't have bought her phone at least not within a month of just meeting her. It's not just a lesson for you alone it just shows that you can have and spend money still women will give issues it's not just the broke guys like the society is forcing to believe. WHAT SHOULD YOU DO: up ur game, your dating game i mean. as for collecting the phone if you decide to go down that path do it wisely

Worship the ground she walks on its dat what our fathers did dat they grew old with our mothers? I bet you my afternoon food dat you go all wetin oga fani talk and she go still go sleep with drive.

In her words he needs to buy my ticket, he needs to give me cash. All because of a used p***y

Nothing wey gynecologist no go see for puna