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If to say swear dey do people anything just like that then our president for run leave office since

Some people get money � but dem no Sabi
People wey Sabi no get money. Dis is the perfect example of treating her well and still getting curved. As a man gotta understand that you are not entitled 2 sex even if you like take her to the moon, buy her a 50k dinner she doesn't have to give you sex but what you are entitled to is your time not being wasted

The funny thing about life and women is that if you ask her she will tell you that she is in a committed relationship.

You post the guy for 3 months for ur mind u think say na because of only you the guy parents circumcise am

Almost cannot kiss a girl

More to your point op most people are of the opinion that a man should wait until after making money before dating but every now and then you see guys who are broke then you married or dating a lady who is beautiful than most chicks that have rejected you in the past. My advice to us men is keep hustling but still be on the lookout for that lady who has the skills, quality and intelligence to advance your goals.

Nowadays so many of us men are overly concerned with working on improving our financial situation that we neglect other important areas of our lives. Like the night watcher Yuren said "People worry so much about their throats, that they forget about what's down low"

Why she ask for money for pad Nigerian girls make una try upgrade now

How are we(men) ever going to build a good relationship and possibly get married if we don't collect ladies numbers to start with.
I believe that as a man you should learn how to filter women so that whenever you see a gold digger or someone who doesn't have genuine feelings for you move on to the next one.

iLegendd:
You can turn the table with few words or behaviors.

1. Don't act too rich — just be naughty, humble, and principled
2. There is something called "Demanding Syndrome" and you can bypass it in few hours.

You met a girl and after a day, do this via chat or a 1-on-1 conversation.

You: Do you know one thing I admire about you?
Her: No, tell me.
You: Are you sure you want to know?
Her: Yes

At this point, you can log out and after some minutes, reply her with...

You: I like how you don't demand for card, say buy me this and that like other girls that act so hungry and demanding.

You: I like how don't belittle yourself by making demands like other girls. I really respect that.

Her: Wow! Thank you. I'm not the demanding type.

Now, switch to pidgin English for fun and humility sake.

You: Anyway, na me go dey demand from you sha. I'll pay back with a kiss and a spank.

Her: Lol (Hahahaha) blah blah blah

You: So, when are you taking me out to lavish on me?

Her: Lol. You're the one to take me out na — blah blah blah.

That's the end.

In the above chat, you've done lots of things in her brain. You've blocked her demanding syndrome, made her know you're fun, confident, and naughty.

When she wants to demand from you, she'll remember those words and won't want to belittle herself. She'll ask another guy.

Even if she manages to demand down the line, it won't be much and if you don't want to comply, you can say, "We've already agreed you'll be the one spending on a brokeass like me."

Just use humor in a way it fits and quench the demand. Humor is powerful, but Nigerian men act too big and when a girl demands, even if they don't have, they look for a way to get and give to her to maintain the impression of being a big boy.

Men should learn to invest their money in businesses and not in relationships. Relationship should only take the remainder, like 1%.

This is why I urge black men to read books so they can be wiser.

As a wise man, there are times you should instinctively know she derseves something and do get it for her if you have. Don't wait for her to request.

Just use your instinct and lead like a boss.

i salute you, your head oil

blackboy:
Your definition of a wiseman is wrong. It seems its a man who gets a LovePeddler out and wants every lady to play the hoe.
Guy, essense of a lady giving a guy a chance to take her out or eat out with her is to see if there is a zing or chemistry or a flow btw thw 2 that can lead to something more.

You are used to ashewo. When your destiny is screwed because of every hole you want to enter you enter no go about blaming Buhari or APC or running from pillar to post. Saying which girl could be the cause of this problem.

Be wise

oga leave levels. Have you seen this girls in action? She is trying to see if there is chemistry by ordering and eating food � like person wey kidnappers just release after 2 months inside bush.
If it's true that within a few minutes of meeting a girl for the first time she already knows if she can date u, fvck u or just use you and waste your time, then my question is why all this eating and checking?
Anyways guys are mostly at fault whenever you Carry girl comot collet coke or Fanta and meat pie for ya sef and her if she no wan drink coke cos of gas collect water for her but no bros go allow her to order the whole eatery thinking say that one go make her like am.

Arya(it's) true

Wetin u give her the 20k for? On top of that another 1k for food. Weda person broke or e hold side women will always look of excuse to give you palava.

Are you sure that something is not wrong somewhere how would somebody want to leave a relationship or because WhatsApp is telling her that boyfriend is on another call. Abi she think say na because of only her ur parents circumcised u?

wasak:
I really appreciate this in no small quantity. It's not as if I don't have girls on my radar, to be honest I know I have what it takes to attract any reasonable lady, but what's the essence of bn with someone you aren't attracted to? I'm still with her because I doubt if i can love any other girl like her. Perhaps this is a final conviction to call this thing off. But I've really given so much, I mean so so much

u get job offers plenty u still dey go work for where dem no dey pay. Oga leave the girl u will learn to love another one

Allow her to go with your favourite t-shirt are you serious? next thing before you know she come carry your plasma move ahead

If chelsea make it to the final. We need that Timo to be at his best, can't be missing chances like you are 5- nil up

So because of ladies are now eloping with men with pot bellies so we should all start having pot bellies? the thing is six-pack shouldn't be all that you have to show(offer) as a guy. we should learn to work on our body, our mind and getting to the money but op remember unless you are everything you are nothing cuz you're not going to be everybody's cup of tea.

Crystalom3:
Well you need a woman to get that year old baby

true talk �

If she's cheap she's cheap. What you should watch out for is, if she's pretending not to be (cheap). Besides if you knack her on the 2nd date or after 6 months all na still fornication.

Crystalom3:
Redpillers are just too empty. Insult before they say anything. Insult when they say what they want to say and then insult when they conclude.

Is that all Redpill is about, browbeat men till they accept your position on a matter?

echoke it's because of people like you that woman think that just showing up is enough to offer in relationship while they expect the man to provide heaven and earth for them.If no be the effects of cheap drugs how can you mention smile as something a woman can offer in relationship, something that a year old baby can also give without breaking a sweat

Op is obviously high on cheap drugs. Every man is not lucky to be in a relationship with a good woman. The issue I have with most guys is when they have a good woman in their lives they will automatically think that whoever is complaining about his own woman doesn't know how to play his cards in the dating game. If you've never met or dated a useless Nigeria girl thank God for your life. We are taking about core values op is mentioning presence, laughter, conversation and smile as values. Anyways a fly will always support the shit.

Are u sure that you really want to address the issue. How can she wear a see through night gown with push up bra and you didn't say anything. Which kind of prayer be dat self? You better caution ⚠ dat girl before you go mess for where you dey eat

She might just be busy with work or something but next time just remember that expressing your feelings to someone doesn't mean that the person would automatically develop feelings for you

The devil is a woman and her name is wicked. Make God help us

Nowadays almost everyone gambles but there should be a moderation to whatever you do in life. Stop playing virtual, don't ever stake more than you can afford to lose, never ever use 400k to bet when no be say you win 40m. Lastly forget about picking 2-5 and staking big that were the bookies rip you off and remember in gambling the house always wins

My brodas marry but no carry woman matter for e no worth am at all. Wetin bring yam tori for the video again

Omo na 2021 we dey ooohh which kind 1990 scope you dey fall out so. If a girl calls you back, reply ur messages asap , agrees to go out on a date with you the moment you sense that there is a chemistry between you guys try to get physical( kiss or so) with her. Asking a girl out dis days will mostly likely ruin your chance of getting her. Remember action speaks louder than voice

Lastlook:
I thought as much. I guess, i caused it when, i asked her to used my charger when my phone was not even full.

maybe true but she might have a crush on you long before you guys started talking

Must you chat with her?Your account balance is below 5k and you are worried about a girl not replying your messages come on later we go say na Buhari and our village people dey do us. A wise man once told me that whenever dem born one man dem go born 10 women beside am #get #sense

She probably likes you,the question now is what do you want from her? if you like her back do your thing remember delay is dangerous plus attraction has expiring date but don't get caught up bro.

And some guys go because of nack dey follow one girl for 6 months do you know that 6 months is enough time to finish short service in the army i could be wrong but guys make we wake up.