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Family › Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married. by plappville(f): 7:08pm On Nov 22, 2010

[quote author=DAY11. link=topic=555256.msg7195739#msg7195739 date=1290448310]Wetin con bring dat one huh

Guy, u nor understand, I still dey enjoy maself, I dey shine different congo's grin

[/quote]U seem not to be serious with urself, u think that shining different congo is enjoyment? maybe ur parents are ashame that u shine congo like no mans business, so they felt the only way for u to limit shining of congo is to talk to u about marriage. By the way, how old are u?

Family › Re: Is This Not Witchcraft? by plappville(f): 6:42pm On Nov 22, 2010

JOKYTECH:
, u be Waferian?? Thé word (KPIANSE) Côme from waffi, I feel u shall.
Original Wafirian to the core.

For wafi, this kind pikin na heavy WISO
I see, Wafferians and Saferians no dey hard to know wen dem broke this pidgin outside.

Family › Re: Is This Behavior Appropriate To Teach Children?; Please vote by plappville(f): 6:39pm On Nov 22, 2010

chaircover:
@plapville. Yes innocent if the kiss had been spontaneous. In this case it wasn't.

I have 2 kids of the opposite gender and they show each other affection but not with me having to hold one of their heads.

I ve not for the fact that the mum surported the head of the baby, because for me it seems she is forcing the, it dosn't make sense to tell ur kids to kiss themselves or even went so far as helping to bring their mouth together. tis one is wrong. But when kids kiss freely, i still stand that it is for love and affection just like u said above.

Family › Re: Is This Not Witchcraft? by plappville(f): 3:42pm On Nov 22, 2010

OMG thiis girls heart is evil!!!!, how comes she planed this alone? Thé problem is that thé police CAN only keep her for more interview, they CAN imprison hher as she is still a teenage. I think she should return to her mother or else she Will commit more evil.

JOKYTECH:
I feel say the girl get small kpianse (craft)

, u be Waferian?? Thé word (KPIANSE) Côme from waffi, I feel u shall.

Family › Re: Is This Behavior Appropriate To Teach Children?; Please vote by plappville(f): 3:14pm On Nov 22, 2010

chaircover:
Actually I dont feel comfortable with these pictures.

I wasn't there to see what actually happened but from I can see from the pictures;

The first picture shows then both hugging and [/b]kissing (like adults) & It looks more than a quick peck which kids tend to do and the second picture shows mums hand pushing the boys head towards the girl.

There is something unnatural about both pictures . . . . . Anyone notice the positions of the arms of both the kids in picture 1. See how the girl is stretching up to the boys neck? That was definitely staged or the girls arms would be round the boys chest where she can reach.

[b]What mâke u feel unconfortable, that they kiss or because thé mums hand surport? I guess U think too far, thèse kids are innocent, i CAN understand in Nigeria this is a total begining of danger, but thé truth is that this is absolutely nothing,
there is no strange feeling, if u were to be présent during this kissing évent, just after 30 mins asked thé girl what shé had
done with her Brother, she Will not remember. That is why we say kids are innocent.

Family › Re: Brother And Sister by plappville(f): 2:53pm On Nov 22, 2010

NiaLong:
D_sense u can beat your sister but not your wife abi ,imagine this scenario u come back from and u see your wife with a black eye she got from your broda in law i am sure u d pat him on the back and say thank you.

Hmmm! Hé Will be thé first to call thé police.

ifyalways:
Trouble dey sleep,Nyanga go wake am.

U sabi jare!

Family › Re: Brother And Sister by plappville(f): 11:41pm On Nov 21, 2010

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=554765.msg7190427#msg7190427 date=1290378804]Would brutalize her not only slap. . . . .[/quote]U must be joking, u CAN sleep in jail if her Hubby press charges against u!

Family › Re: Brother And Sister by plappville(f): 11:36pm On Nov 21, 2010

She only insulted u, she didn't cut Mark on ur skin, so i suggest u dont évén think of slapping her.
It's wrong to hit women.

And for thé fact that she is married, u might ve urself to be blâméd if u hit her, yes she is ur Younger Sister, but she is some body's wife, thé law protects her, Not évén her Hubby has thé right to hit her even if she insults him. So plz forgive her.

Family › Re: Is This Behavior Appropriate To Teach Children?; Please vote by plappville(f): 11:20pm On Nov 21, 2010

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=554454.msg7190248#msg7190248 date=1290377083]What do those children stand to gain from kissing each other?. Will you encourage your 5 yrl old son to continue kissing assuming you see him kissing a girl of similar age in the neighborhood[the girl is not related to him tho]?.[/quote]They dont gain what adults gain, U should not try to change ur topic: at first My boy Will not kiss another little boy of 2yrs old. Hé does that with his Brother without any sentimental feeling. And i dont think parents encourage kids to kiss, on like hère in France to kiss is a polite way to great, we use thé word kiss (BISOU) for family member and also friends, it doesn't mean that to kiss is to exchange tongue as we see it in Nigeria. Kids hère kiss their mother in thé mouth, but at a certain age, it fades away naturally. Pikin wen go spoil go spoil, nô be kiss siblins wen spoil kids.

Crime › Re: How Far Should A Mothers Love Go? by plappville(f): 11:04pm On Nov 21, 2010

Despite all thèse articles posted hère, i CAN tell u that a mother lové is a mother lové.
Thèse women hère are satanist, they are possèded by thé devil évén if thé Xather in thé house pays all thé attention in thé world, thé act Will still take place because they do it without fear and they are proud. Some father do dsame with their daughters also. Thé world is too dirty only God CAN intervene.

Family › Re: So Much Divorce Today by plappville(f): 10:34pm On Nov 21, 2010

It's common knowledge that today more than half of all married couples will get divorced. It wasn't always like this, it was much less yrs back (why) becos
Putting aside the exceptions of abuse, infidelity and spouses who turn out to be homosexuals .Why so many divorced 2day is
because couples're incompatible, but then why were they together in the first place?
I think it's become way 2 easy for people to just breakaway from each other évén as stressful as thé divorce processe is in most nation. I advice couples should work to be able to get married.
Before a couple get's married dey should really decide whether this person is the one and even go to couples counsling (even if they think dey dont need it) Also to those who are married: sure it's difficult to be married, but just like everything in life it takes work. Wen u marry someone u become his/her family. U don't just leave your family.
To me, marriage reflects d union in Christ He desires from his children. It's a committment. A covenant. & a love relationship that deeply expresses the compassion Christ has on his created beings.
Although dis may nt be everyone's view, it puts into perspective why divorce is just so rampant (even amongst the church).

So often, out of our own desires, we jump the gun and delve into A relationships with the 1st thing that glitters. Then comes hard aches.

Family › Re: What Medical Test Should Intending Couples Undergo? by plappville(f): 9:46pm On Nov 21, 2010

I suposed as a fiance, u guys might ve known each other very well so all thèse hiv, psyco and fertality stuffs are not compulsery. Thé only conpulsery test is go to God in prayer for a successful mariage.

kieryn:
Wish you well on your marriage next year!
Fertility test? So if someone is infertile is that a reason for breakup?
Psychological evaluation? If you really got to know someone well enough anything psychologically wrong should have popped up by now.
If you going to do all this you mights as well add a genetics test too.

U just hit thé point, fertality test before marriage sounds rediculous, marriage is not all about having kids, it's a thing of choice.
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Family › Re: Is This Behavior Appropriate To Teach Children?; Please vote by plappville(f): 9:23pm On Nov 21, 2010

If u are a parent u Will not criticize this, they are kids, they do not ve thé same feeling as adulte.
I ve two kids 2 yrs and 5 yrs they are both boys, they kiss themselves most times, there is nô exchange of tongue as adults.

freecocoa:
@nubianq,haven't you heard of siblings having sexx?this is how it starts.

U shouldnt think like that., most siblins who are involved in having sex may not ve évén shared love while they were younger.
If i may ask, do u think because a father kisses her little daughter, then hé Will now Bégin to develop some sexual act on her as she grows up?

Nigérian should wake up, there is nothing wrong hère, in as long as they are not forced to kiss themselves.
I dont care what thé poll say.

Family › Re: Mature Question For Married Couples by plappville(f): 9:03pm On Nov 21, 2010

Of course i Will do it, as long as hé enjoys it i too Will. Some women are fun of missionary position only in bed this is CRAZY, as long as love flows, we do whatever that pleases us in bed in as long as it's doesn't hurt or has nô negetive health effects.

pslm23:
ROTFLMAO, she was arrested and i think that marriage is over, as dead as her husband's wiwi. He probably watched a dirty movie with his friends and decided "hey i will make my wife do this"

How do u mean dirty movie? U know that Indians respect their culture alot, dont be surprise that they didn't évén meet intimatly before they got married. So it's obvious thé wife refuses him.
Poor man! grin

Family › Re: Not To Marry The One You Love? by plappville(f): 8:15pm On Nov 20, 2010

Ujujoan:
I believe that God speaks to us all, through our consience as well as our instincts! I do not believe in going to any pastor or priest to ask if something/someone is God's wish for me.

My reason is that Pastors and Preists are humans as well and are bound to be influenced by their personal perceptions and belkefs.

If I go to God in search of answers, I just trust him 100 percent to lead me to the right path or person and I always follow my instincts.

As a christian, I believe that God's wish is the best for me and being in love cannot change that!

Ur second name na sabi? I ve nothing to add u ve just said it all GBAM!

Family › Re: Boy Kills Brother Over Ram Skin by plappville(f): 2:29pm On Nov 20, 2010

chaircover:
^^^^^ e tire me o!

4 days ago 3 men were shot dead by the Police after going to the Ojodu Cattle market in Lagos and stealing 3 rams. They had actually loaded the rams into their car when they were caught up.

Why would anyone want to steal Sallah Rams used for a Religious Festival

This is beyound a religions festival, there are several criminal and murder cases each year of this festival.

Business › Re: Help! by plappville(op): 10:15pm On Nov 19, 2010

Nô info for me yet? Or isnt in thé right room?

Family › Re: Boy Kills Brother Over Ram Skin by plappville(f): 10:04pm On Nov 19, 2010

It is thé Egyptian king Pheroans Blood that is still runing in their vains.
Hé Will go and learn how to stab in thé jail, and for his younger brother, Only God knows thé answer.
This Islamic don colonise them take, dém. Nô dey look human to be anything again.

Family › Re: I Am Very Very Disturbed,please Help,my Wife Is Hiv+ by plappville(f): 11:04pm On Nov 18, 2010

I advice u take ur family and go for a fresh test, if ur result still negetive then start using protection with ur wife. But i 'm scared she really wised to share it with u, so be careful, there are other days she CAN mâke u get infected not only through love making.

Family › Re: Ladies Who Hold On To Their Father's Surname In Marriage by plappville(f): 10:41pm On Nov 18, 2010

[quote author=Kenny_G link=topic=13428.msg7171318#msg7171318 date=1290115282]i can now see why a increasing number of women are either single or divorced, the attitude of some of the women posting on here says it all[/quote]This topic has nothing to do with women not yet married or divorced.
60% of divorces are caused by men!

Family › Re: Ladies Who Hold On To Their Father's Surname In Marriage by plappville(f): 10:13pm On Nov 18, 2010

excoba101:
Society demands that you are rather called Mrs. plappville beans and not ms. plappville rice married or divorced. It is your identity. They never questioned this hundred's of years ago. Why now? Is there something wrong in it? I deserve to know.

Society demands that you are rather called Mrs. plappville beans and not ms. plappville rice married or divorced. It is your identity. They never questioned this hundred's of years ago
How do u know it has not been questioned yrs bk? Mrs plappville Beans is an identity given by thé society or whatever, but Mrs Plappville Rice was an identity by birth. It's biological, can't u see!

Family › Re: 14 Year Old Girl Impregnated By Her Father Cries Out "govt Pls Take The Child!" by plappville(f): 9:47pm On Nov 18, 2010

A father defiled his own daugthet OMG, too many strange things in Nigeria, yet we claim to know God more than other counties. This Man. Should be jailed for Life period.

Family › Re: Ladies Who Hold On To Their Father's Surname In Marriage by plappville(f): 9:34pm On Nov 18, 2010

@ poster i see nothing wrong with a woman hanging on her dads name. This is thé name i was known with i cannot just dump it simply because i am married.

if it is for biblical reason, where in thé bible is it stated that once a woman is married she should trow off her fathers name? I kept My pops name, and am so proud of it, in fact, that is My permanent identity.

How do women tha drop their fathers name do in case of divorce? They go back and start bearing it? I duno infact!

Family › Re: My Housemaid Has Been Ordered By My Wife Not To Communicate With Me by plappville(f): 9:44am On Nov 18, 2010

mutter:
I am so glad to read that many are of the view that one does not need a househelp. At most it is better to have a mature woman coming in for some hours a week.
Most families all over the world function that way.
It is simply an abuse of minors and cheap labour. Also it is important for kids to grow up learning to be responsible for some duties. I have a12 Person household and have no househelp.

I think calling for housemaid is a lazy act, If really she doesn't feel safe with thé Ekaetie talking with her Hubby.
Why not buy a robots to Work for her?? Washing maching both for closthes and plates exist in thé market, drying machine also. I dont think i need a maid with all thèse tools. There are few things i do with My hands, like washing My kids, dress them up, cook for My family and Iron thé clothes during thé weekend. i feel very proud to do this. What joy Will a woman get to
havé someone cook for her family and take total care of her kids and yet been scared?? If u feel u ve nô Time to do house Work
etc, buy those above mentioned machine and stop been worried.
@ Poster, plz stop this your head of thé Houde story. That n'a old school system.

Business › Help! by plappville(op): 11:07pm On Nov 17, 2010

Hello everyone, i just need some info on what shopping company is secured and not too expensive to ship a bus from France to Nigeria? Anyone with usefull info should plz help, i need to ship it befor december. Thank you in advance.

Family › Re: A 4-year-old’s Despoil Ordeal by plappville(f): 11:01pm On Nov 17, 2010

Omg!!! But what would a 4 yrs old girl be doing Alone? At least this incident should take about 30 mins or more, where Were her parents? It's crazy!!! Parents are not vigilant enough. I can't stand this story. It hurts My heart to know that there are still wast and useless men out there like Onyedikachi, a long hissssssssss

Family › Re: My Housemaid Has Been Ordered By My Wife Not To Communicate With Me by plappville(f): 10:39pm On Nov 17, 2010

Nigérians Will use their own money to buy wahala for House!!! How Many kids ve u?
How big is ur House that both of u cannot handle thé domestic work? Our women are becoming very lazy thèse day, if u know u are scared of ur housemaid taking ur Hubby, why do u ve to employ one and then treat her like a slave?
@ poster, plz try and stop been worried for this kind of autority, i guess there is fear in thé marriage.
Thé best thing for u is not to ve a maid at all. Or if really u guys can't help it, employ a daily maid, at lease, she Côme to Work some hours par day.

housemaid My foot, when My handS and legs are complete!

Family › Re: Help!i Am Madly In Love With My Wife Best Friend by plappville(f): 10:52am On Nov 17, 2010

Quote from: Divine R. on July 31, 2010, 08:38
AM
The problem started with the wife, she gave her single GF access to her home without limitation even to cook in her kitchen in her absent, I think the girl friend has key to her bed room, now is affecting her marriage unknown to her because she is about to loose the husband to her single girl friend if care is not taken.

Is high time married women come to understand that they should maintain a distance with their single friends, young sisters, mother after marriage because you love them don’t give anybody access to your home.

@OP what you feel for her is not love rather LUST , please RUN if you start it, no going back and it will definitely affect your marriage
This is true, u ve a point, i am very conscience of this. Ignorance is more deadly than HIV aides.
So many homes havé been broken with this kind of situation, yet married women still close their eyes and allow in thier best friend all because of trust.

Well poster, if u lové ur wife and kids, discuss this with ur wife, thé best solution is to limit her friend from seeing u without her knowing thé reason. There is always temptation when a family are living happily.
Use ur tongue to count ur teeth. U ve Heard lots of good advices from forumist i guess enough is enough for a wise.

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