₦airaland Forum

can some1 talk to me plz, i ned to know the visa requirements for an application, do i have to buy the ticket for her while the visa is not yet out? i saw in their website that the ticket should be provided when coming for the visa interview is it true? what procedure do u know that works ??

no not at all.

na waoo , she told me that she gave 7k to agent to help her for an appointment, the agent gave her appointment more than 3 weeks? is it normal? i am scared ooo.

I sent my sister an invitation letter last months, they gave her an appointment only in may, I don't know how it works so i hope they will not stress me with all these appeal stuff shall.

Oops!! i don't need this link!!!!

you could call his wife and tell him to desist from her cheating habit or else u will tell her husband.

Iranoladun:
Did this happen in Nigeria? What tribe are the parents? Is your friend on an official assignment when the accident happen?

good question, i wont say a word until the poster answer ur question.

scktaggif:
Yes. only the truth can set u free

you are right, be informed that the truth has been told and it went well.

@ Everybody this thread is end i don't need any more advice, thanks to all that contributed positively bye.

JJYOU:
may God's name be praised. He always make all things work for our good. thanks for the update.

@ JJyou? I THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR UR CONCERN ALL THESE WHILE, U ARE A NICE PERSON, MAY GOD BLESS U AMEN;

touchmeder:
hey poster this is good news. i knew it would turn out well. i rejoice with you too. and long live your marriage too.

Thanks for rejoicing with me, u will also fine people that will rejoice with u.
My heart is now free and stressless, may God's name remain blessed.

JJYOU:
haha welcome back. that was quick. hope all are well at home? how was your journey? did you drop the car for me?

God bless and refill that bag you took to benin.

Thank you all for ur concern, @ benincity u are welcome back, hope u had a nice holiday?

The GOOD NEWS IS THAT WHEN I POST THIS THREAD, SOME PEOPLE HERE INSULTED ME AND SAID THAT MY HUBBY WILL DIVORCE ME
bUT I WAS SO CONFIDENT THAT I PUT EVERYTHING IN GODS HAND AND PRAYED THAT GOD SHOULD TAKE CONTROL OF EVERTHING.
TODAY, I AM VERY HAPPY THAT GOD TOOK CONTROL OF MY HUBBY, HE WAS VERY OK WITH ME TELLING HIM THE TRUTH, EVEN PREPARED A SPECIAL MEAL FOR THAT DAY, AND WELCOME EVERY SIBLINGS OF MINE, SO I AM THE HAPIEST WOMAN IN LIFE SINCE THEN, THANK GOD FOR EVERYTHIN MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL THAT GAVE ME WONDERFUL ADVICES HERE, ;LONG LIVE NAIRALAND. [color=#990000][/color]

Fhemmmy:
leave God out of this.
Good nite and when it all burst out, i am sure you will be fine.

Haba!! why u dey wish me bad na?? anyway i proclaim positive result, dont worry i will come and tell the result tu u guys when the time coms, God will never be left in this issue.

Fhemmmy:
If you were in his shoes, will u still trust him like u used to? be honest.

U are right, At first i will distrust him completely, but with time i may decides to rebiuld the trust pending on how he behaves, this is the only lie i ve told him, he knows every other thing i do, we have no secret as par husband and wife, that is the more reason why i wasn't ok keeping this for too long. my hubby is my life gift, i feel ashame for myself that i lied to him.

whatever it may be i still put everything in Gods hands, i believe he will help me out, and things will go well on that faithful day. Thank u all for ur contribution good night bye.

plappville:
Sorry oo, i am not a killer, i am not scared of him leaving me, i just feel petty or myself that he might loss trust in me, i know him well.

Fhemmmy:
I am glad to know u dont mind if he leaves, but the question is do you trust yourself at the moment? cos for someone to trust you, u need to trust yourself.

Sorry i mean to say that i am not scared becos i know he won't leave me for this, i was rushing up cos by battery will soon go off that was why this mistake came up. so beinformed that nothing like home break will occure, only sad if he doesn't trust me as he used to.

davidylan:
God does not condone lies told intentionally meant to decieve and hoodwink someone else. You did not make a mistake like femmy said, you deliberately betrayed your husband, if i were in his shoes i wont take it lightly. For how long have you been refering to your own brothers and sisters as cousins? What if he just made a "mistake" to forget to tell you he had other children by another woman?

Thank God u are not in his shoes, God will handle the situation i believe, stop making me feel heaven will come down the day i will tell him.

Fhemmmy:
have u ever heard of what they said, a lie could take time, but the truth will come out one day, and i pray that when it does, the land will be big enuf to cover you, cos what you have done was total nonesense, how would you feel, if it was you that he lied to like that, if you could do such to someone you said you love and marry, then, you can kill.

God do forgives, however, such lie was not necessary, tell him the truth and give him the choice to decide what he wanna do.

Sorry oo, i am not a killer, i am not scared of him leaving me, i just feel petty or myself that he might loss trust in me, i know him well.

davidylan:
Frankly you're just living in denial. I am not God but from the little i know in the bible He doesnt tolerate lies and deciet. Repent first, pray later.

say it out loud that u have never lied in ur entire life, every1 make mistakes, what is important is when we realise our mistake and correct it, if u know the bible u will know that, i ve asked God to forgive me, he has, now i have to asked my hubby, and i know he will forgive me too.

davidylan:
which "prayer"? you've been living a marriage of deciet and lies for so long and you claim to be praying? Just who is answering that "prayer"?

u are not God, his ways are not our ways, niether his thoughts are our thoughts so u can say what u like with ur mouth.

Fhemmmy:
hahahahahahaha, that is a good one.
Soon, she will be blaming the devil, na devil made her lied.

Say what u know, even if u cretizise me, i don't care, if i know the devil as u said, i wont want to tell my husband, God forgives sin, i did not kill anyone, it sounds like some1 is dead to u.

My dear u took the wrong decision, but what is nice is that u came out telling nairaland, maybe u should also go and tell a pastor ur problem, and let him pray with, this is not an easy matter it's a spiritual fight, U need God to intervene or else, u might find urself in more problems than this, May God direct ur on how to start up good luck.

Treetop20:
did you tell him?

I will tell him, just putting it in prayer first.

Why she no go deny, as her husband is the present president, she will always defend her husband regime, every1 knows the truth about this issue.

There is nothing wrong in operation a joint account, the only thing is one should not abuse it.

tRoOE:
Abeg go hide ur face, yeye woman
ahahah poor you, sorry i don't roll that way
Speak for yourself
So does it look like i give a rattling ass, or how does it affect me
whateva rock ur boat
what a fool, so why did you quote me in the 1st place!!!Oloshi
ahahah mumu, u and ur stupid buddies don't know a thing about me

It is still the amebo olofofo virus runing in ur blood that's why u can't let me be, I spoke for myself u came from no where and said i married my husband for paper, what's the matter with u? how come u just jump into conclution? do u know me? see why i call u amebo olofofo, that's exactly what u are gossip from one door to another, thinking for people, neglecting ur faults. Na bitter belle dey worry u, i can understand why u decided to attack me in this manner. Shameless Girl abi na lady i go call u or even woman.

i am among the 5per ooo.

afam4eva:
May her soul rest in perfect peace, it's unfortunate that women still die when giving birth in Nigeria. Six is not that much when u compare it with The Chukwu Octuplets that were born in Houston, Texas USA.

Did i hear u say Houston Texas USA?? this thing happend in 9ja oo, i think what they lack is good medical material and facilities, don't u see how our goverments rund to the europe for treatments, if the woman's husband could afford it, am sure he would ve send her to deliver the babie in europe.

So sad news, may her gentle soul rest in perfect peace AMEN. nIGER SHOULD TRY MORE IN THESE AREAS AND STOP TEELING US THAT

We can’t say exactly the cause or causes of the death

, IT IS THEIR JOB? IF THEY ARE NOT CAPABLE THEY SHOULD GIVE UP, ENOUGH OF WOMEN DIEING AFTER DELIVERING IN NIGERIA.

tRoOE:
ahahaha and how does that affect my life
oloshi omo
Stupidity is a disease ohhhhh, so i no blame
if a forum wasn't created, wouldn't she find another alternative to resolve her personal issues, or what are family for.
lol fish brain i no blame u

na so you people dey display ur dirty laundry 4 public

So u still dey talk? shame no dey catch u self, i think say u don go Canada to go marry for paper oo!!
the guy no Insult u reach, u be complete amebo, main reading ur replies, it tells who u are. Una think say na all Nigeria girls dey marry oyibo for paper yeye fowl.

I am not a racist, be it 9ja man or white , what IS important in my life is the fact that we love and care for each other, for ur information, I am A Nigerian by origin and a French citizen also.

I will not leave my hubby for a Niger man like most girls do all because of i must marry a nigerian man or else, heaven go come down)

I no even get ur time, thank God say pople wen know u here know how to handle u welwel.

it's not a Nigeria woman abeg, i saw a white woman in the bbc and even yahoo page is also a white woman, she has 6 children already befor her octoplets.

Good ideal @ poster.

Thank u very much, i praying about it.

JustGood:
no wonder what?

You know what i mean, when i said no wonder.

yes it's possible especially when u are not religious, it's also a thing of choice.