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He is that romantic guy, and that was the first thing that hocked me down to marry him.

We are both young couple and we are really destined to be together.

I ve always dreamt of him even when i ve not met him yet that is, the very very first day i met him, he told me i am his wife to be,and this came to pass.

He listen to my problems, and show concern for those problems in the best way he can.

I feel like the best woman on earth because of his tenderness towards me.

I love when he tells me (((( i care about u, me and our kids))) she smiles

He don't criticize the way i dresses, cooks meals, and does my shopping.

Of course he doesn't perceive things always the way i do but this has never cause any problem  between us.

Although i still see him as his mum's pet because he is a single child, but he is still doing his best as a kind and loving husband.

he has a fatherly heart and does cherish his kids.

I admire when he play with them in a parc or @ home.

He is a hard working husband that wants the best for his wife.

No matter how angry he is with me, he never reject my meals, i love when he tells me that i am the best cook in the world.

Good communication is what has been keeping us going.

I  will say he is my world and my dream.

My prayer is that God should touch him, because he is a non believer of the gospel of my lord Jesus
that was how he was brought up.

Many ladies are childless today because of too much abortion, a husband should accept and welcome a baby at any given time, his ur hubby God that he thinks that a baby will come when he wants

Anyway i am totally against abortion, my first kid came witout planing for it thank God hubby welcomed him,
i hate when a man decide when a baby should be welcome after all it's a woman that carries the baby in her womb.

What happens if that child is the only child in ur womb?? After aborting it and couldn't ve an other?? u will be surprised that ur hubby will marry another woman to give him a child when .

Use ur tongue to count ur teeths.

In as long as the devil exist, juju exist also, but what i don't agree is the juju catch oyibo stuff, there is nothing like dat, the kind of nigerians that do juju are maybe the once who are not lucky enough to catch an oyibo that love them. so they try to manupulate things to bye oyibo heart.

This is a diabolical act and and it's temporary. My hubby is the most doubting Thomas Oyibo i ve ever seen although my best friend husband it's a n oyibo he doubt too and hate to hear that juju exist.

They will tell u that ppl who believe in juju lack knowlage

As for me no be every 9ja person dey do juju to get oyibo oooo,
as dem dey talk say benin girls dey do juju reach, one benin girl marry oyibo here, the girl dey suffer no be small, no be say her husband no dey work oo
but the oyibo na agbare oyibo, very stingy and self centered. if the girl know juju why the oyibo wicked like dat?? so juju na for 9jas wen sabi.

honeric01:
Me teach them? Uhm, ok, they should line up and go pick up their registration forms from the kitchen

LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

LoveAlways:
My advice is that she should first pray and ask God to send her a suitable mate - a man with a healthy mind.

She should also make a list of characteristics she looks for in a husband. Most times as people, we attract like minds, or people who mirror back to us personal qualities that we need to work on. What she can also start doing, is treating herself very well. She should write herself a love poem and buy herself flowers. She should eat well, and get alot of rest.

After praying for her husband, she should do all things that align with what she wants. She should learn how to cook, if she doesn't know how. She could start reading books on how to rear children. She should act as though God has answered her prayer. Most importantly, she must keep her heart open and stay away from unhealthy minded men. Once she meets a new guy, she should keep her legs closed for AWHILE until he gets to really know her.

Alot of men only think with one head. She could be wearing a button down suit, and a man will still think of sex. So it's important to stall the sexual act for as long as possible. This gives a man a chance to take his time and get to know the woman. If he doesn't want to stick around in an effort to "know her", then that's great for her. She should move on with the quickness.

Deep down, every man really wants a woman to control the situation when sex becomes an issue. She should be in control always. She should also STOP meeting guys from the internet. Maybe someone can introduce her to a decent guy. A friend or family member? I do not trust men from the internet.

THIS COULD WORK FOR HER THANKS

honeric01:
Plappville, I have a question for me, why did u set up this thread? To let us know someone is tired of online dating or to find a man for her? Choose thus

Seek some advice from you, because she told me that all the internet guys were after sex and that she was feld up of continuing with the research stuff.

I felt i could have some good advice from some ppl whom were once victim of her situation that was why i posted this thread,
so be informed it's not to find a guy for her here, after all i no be guy seeking search engine?? na woooah for u self ooo @ honeric01.

did i anwser ur Q

chika98:
lol. . . Plappville is now trying to defend herself.

DEFEND MYSELF  i only said the truth, the thread is for a friend. 

hubby will never accept it even if i give him, i can in as long as he is not a self centered hubby.

honeric01: Thank God that my dad and mom gave everyone of their children the space to learn how to cook, all boys and I have a list of food I can cook for girls and guys to be envy of. White rice, jollof rice, fried rice, concortion rice, beans, yam, yam and beans, plantain and beans, corn and beans, potato and beans, cocoyam and beans, vegetable rice, amala, eba, soyabeans soup with vegetable, okra alone or with vegetable, egusi soup with or without vegetable, ogbono with or without vegetable, tomato stew, vegetable stew, I can pound yam without having to pick stones like yam from it, I can make fufu, I hate semovita so I didn't learn that, I can cook peppersoup too, ewedu soup too, still trying to learn more. anyone of my family member can cook for the whole family, infact, our last child who is 16years old can cook most of this food and is a male just like the rest except our mom. so guys, if you can't cook and you are still young, go and learn,

TEACH THEM JARE.

olaremint:
@poster,i think you are the person, try and give me a chance,you wont regret it.

Sorry ooo, YOU THINK wrong, i am not the person @ all no no no, be informed that i am married with two kids, i have been away for 6 days now to visit hubby's family, i don't need another man plz, was only speaking for a good friend of mine.
Go and view my profil PLZ.

ammape:
I am new in nairaland. i will like to meet the lady you are talking about. Meanwhile i would not know if she is that homely, decent and Godly as you insinuated. My details are 08038010868 ammape@yahoo.com

I am dam serious. Let her mail or text me i will get back to her.

Thank

Are u sure u ve read what i said about her?? she wouldn't want to accept any guy from net right now, as for ur contact i wont give her until she will change her mind.

Be informed that she is very nice, decent and God fearing she is just fine and will be every nice man's dream.
but she is not just been lucky right now.

100 percent yes!!!
God gave memy body and i do with it as i please. If i am happy with an improvement the he should as well!!

@ foumaleka God did made u and he said u are perfect, so why do u not believe u re really perfect??

@ topic i get iritated each time i come across this surgical program on tv, for me((((c'est completement non)))) je ne fait pas, je suis belle comme je suis.

i ve voted her, it was 691 after i voted it counts 692.

she is cute, wish her good luck.

It is true that most ladies who are nice and do have good intention for a long term relationship are not usually lucky.

I ve spoke with her to go and tell her pastor about on how serious she is.
Nothin wen prayer no fit do. at least there are some nice christian brethren in the church.

I feel for her because she is a very nice person, i just hope God will give her a nice person.

Hopefully she knows what she wants,  so i hope she is ready to follow her mind

Yes she does.((( A BIG AMEN.)))

You might have done something that made her go away with the child, as a mother i can feel ur ex woman. i

It is every woman's joy to watch their kids grow up with the both parents so please try and make mends becos ur child needs her both parents.

@ topic: My mama is a caring one i ve loved her since i was a little girl, she returns that love by showing me her affections.
She always put smile on my face expeciallly now that she is old, each time i call her she wont stop been funny,.
She is the mother of mothers, God bless motherhood.

chika98:
Plappville: Your son looks so cute!

Thank u, its the lords making

@ poster a song for you.

Home,  my home, my home(2x)
When shall i see my home oooooo,

when shall i see my native land i shall never forget my home

I live my father i leave my mother, i leave them far away oooo,

when shall i see my native land i shall never forget my home.

May u find ur needs while preparing ur visit to ur home.

It's good to go back home, i was at home in april after 4 years, it was really fun, every body has changed
Mum, younger once, friends, and even the city, i was cherished and welcomed like a queen.
I love my home.

but becareful during ur visit.

brownbonno:
My guy no worry i won direct the order come ur house.If i reach Poloko market by Onofeghara junction i wo give the package to your senior sister for her Ice fish shop.As per say Ugborikoko Rd bridge don spoil(water don carry am) we no wo fit reach reach ur house.

Warri tire u buba wrapper, u bi real waffi guy.

You dont have to generalise it, not all women does that, my hubby do come back from work and do the cooking or even help in clearing the table and washing the dishes volunterily , that doesn't mean i will take that as an advantage by waiting for him to do that every time.
Do u find pleasure helping ur wife at home, ?? because the way u sound here seems u .

kokoye:
I live in Ugborikoko Local govt in Warri. Una go fit come drop am?

lolllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllssssssssssssssss my song for christmas goes like this, ;


Christmas dey come ooo papa buy shoe for me, happy christmas today i no want tomorrow.

Christmas dey sweet for 9ja welwel ooo, i dey miss home shall.

@ poster : Sorry oo, i no fit make order because the thing no dey sweet here.

Huhhhh, it sounds like every1 hates picture hanging on the wall.

As for me, i did hang 1 of my wedding portrait, my family portrait and my two kids pictures on the well, they are beautiful.

I dont see anything wrong or how does it become an old fasion to hang pictures on a wall, at least i have 3 important portraits in my living room my hubby and kids love it, If u want to talk of grandmum, grandpa, sister brother, i won't accept that even me alone i dont like.

I just can't stop watching this beautiful pictures day and night, they are for me and not for my visitors,
I don't care my visitors opinion on how my sitting room should look like.

NA ME BE THIS OOOO.

abujabooks:
If my friend tells me she is committing adultery. I will advise her 2 stop. If she does not, I will "erase" her from my life.

I hate adultery.

Anyway, I choose my friends!

This is more than a friend issue, we are family friends, our kids love themselves, she is like a sister to me, i can't stop talking with her for this reason, all i have decided to do is never to introde, i ve also told her to stop teling me about her boyfriend etc, but will never stop praying for her.

I think there is something behind this act as all members of her family are not happy with her, no amount of talk will change her, except God.

don't worry yourself too much, he will crewl when he is ready, if u try forcing him he will be scared,
I saw this with my 11 months old boy, he is too scared to stand alone, he can hold on objects and work around the home but can't just surport u trying to make him work.

My friend's son crewled at his 13th month, she almost go crazy thinking her boy wont even work, but thanks to God he did walked.

My first boy walked at 10 months old, every child is not thesame, so i didn't want to get border over him not working even befor his first birthday.

It's how God wants it, after all he is medically ok so why worrying.

MrCrackles:
hehe

small small pikin too get wahala

them whip my yansh tire when i be pikin

been there done that!!

Funny u, i am laughingsssssssssssssss at this but just wanna let u know that
Gone are those day when u can whip a baby the way u like, if u are a parent u won't do that, although they can really drive u crazy with this scarttering of home stuff.
It's funny because when u don't see them in few mins around u, u will feel very empty, this is wonderful.

As for the whiping thing, if u try to whip ur baby make em yansh red here, make u know say u go lose that ur pikin to goverment ooo
na small small we dey handle things here wit children.

honeric01:
though not advisable for parents to choose husband for wife, i was only saying that because since she can't seem to do it herself,
yes, 4 brothers still single, 2 are still in school (one reading education, the other reading Business Admin), 1 is a pastor oh i just remembered, he's hooked one finished school last year, working in an insurance company and i think he's still single,
so which one you think she would want?

You are still funny, i asked if ur brothers told you they are in need of a woman yet but u didn't answer instead telling me what they do for their living, nice though.

I am not seeking a man for her, i dont want to be a victim of (((((D MAN WEN U GIVE ME NO BE BETTER PERSON))))

I will only tell her what i did here and what u said also.

Thank u.

donpappyt:
everboby love flower ,its natural but will it be truely accepted as a birth day gift e.t.c

A big yes it should be truely accepted, If everybody love flower as u claim why shouldn't it be accepted as a gift by every1?
Like i said befor, if the girl which to ask for something more she could, but rejecting the flower gift is not nice and that does not show any respect for LOVE.

donpappyt:
How can you buy flowers for naija girl, she will tell u right away that u mess up,

No matter what the gift is, a girl should appreciate a flower gift from her guy or who evere, if she would asked for more it's better than showing the person that u don't appreciate a flower gift, after all a flower is a very soft and tender gift.

i love this one.

i am not one materiallist nigerian female i can't judge others.

yimiton:
I love flowers as part of gifts especially on val and birthdays not as the main gift. I can keep it alive for as long as possible but the bad thing is that our environment is not very friendly to them, so they die easily no matter how hard you try to preserve them.

It's always beautiful though and well appreciated to have a florist deliver flowers to my desk with a note from my sweet heart, just to say 'I love you'

I therefore offer you this flower.

ilurveit:
I think a peck is appropriate anytime anywhere. I think kissing in public is ok but if there is prolonged tongue action and/or groping, I don't care where you are, it's not appropriate and it's disrespectful to the people around. Rent a room!

I agree with u, too much of everything is wrong, some people do it for more than 5 mins expecially in the metro in the train even in the bus.

But these kind of ppl hardly kiss in the private. I do appreciate peck or this kind of maybe in a park but not that church thing. If i want to kiss in church it should be Jesus not hubby.