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[quote author=Mynd_44]What's wrong in it? Is she not female?[/quote]Who would want to date a creepy chick who pretends to be a dude on the internet?

#you

yup

[size=30pt]@ TOPIC it means shes a slut! Stay clear, don't learn the hard way [/size]

Yet, you have never once denied that are female. Either you are one or you want to be...... either way your kind makes me sick

get your sex change already.

Michky: Polygamy?! If it was a man that did this, you'll be screaming Men are devils! Men are rapists! Men are women killers. But this time, a woman killed a man and you still came back to blame the man for being a polygamist. Dude, i think you need help. Honestly.

Agreed.. but its not just him, its the whole world that thinks like that. Read all the comments on this thread, if a man had done a crime like this to a woman for cheating these commentors would be outraged.

But a man who simply wants to spend time with his first wife gets senselessly killed in the worst way possible and all you see are justifications. These dumbasses act like if the woman didnt know he had another wife when she married him.

[quote author=Mynd_44]^^
Cold hard truth[/quote]mynd 44 you are so obviously a chick... its silly, stop pretending to be male

@ topic, poor jack lol. Hes gunna need his left hand if you know what i mean.

COOLDUN: Are you educated at all? Where in my comment did I say that the incident did not happen? I wouldn’t have responded to you but I find it worthy to advice you to read it from left to right, because i see that you read it from right to left before. Go through it again and read the comment whenever your brain returns to its normal state.

You were justifing it. Since when is a pouring gasoline on a (possibly) sleeping man ridiculus or somehow hard to believe?

The man was horribly murdered... your long epistle of excuses and justifications was unnecessary and unwarranted.

The fact of the matter is 'slut shame' as they call it, is the only thing holding this whole mess together. If they weren't men like me who kept standards on this issue you would be dating women who have had up to 20 and 30 partners. Ill bet many do now, we just don't know about it.

Its the only remaining restriction on over-sexuality, condoms, birth-control abortions have removed all the rest. OP if you think Aids and the other STD's are bad now, wait till more dudes begin to think like you.

Dude, if you want to date sluts be my guest. Who cares? No ones asked you to stop. That girl who slept with 3 men in 1 year actually slept with 10, the girl who claims shes a virgin slept with 3.

Me and the other decent men wont date sluts, no matter what excuses yall make for them.... thats our right too.

sleekch1c: Polygamy is never a good idea......God created a man and a woman initially, that was his marriage model, the best model. But that was never enough....man out of sheer lust and greed wont stop wanting more than he really needs. I pray African men learn someday. Sad, sad story.

What is wrong with you people

Yall are acting like if she had no say in marring him. This was his second wife, she new the deal!

I didn't want to say this because i've decided to be nicer to the ladies online.. but women cause 90% of all difficulties in romance.

Do yall wonder why you sometimes get pursued by men you are not interested in, and you cant get them to leave you alone? Well, because of girls like onila dudes cant tell if you are really not interested or just playing childish games. You cant really blame them for pestering you, they have no way of knowing what you really want. Voila a bug-a-boo

And on top of that, men start to loose respect for your ability to make rational descisions when it appears like you cant even decide if you like someone or not. That impression never really goes away

This goes to show that jelously doesn't have anything to do with love. Why would you kill a person 'you love' like this? Absolutely horrible.

I am happy that the ruling Beasts class are now witnessing what the ignored and rejected Nigerian masses are seeing every day. I wonder how a single woman could pour a gallon of fuel on a young and vibrant man, and turned round and light matches and set him ablaze, while the young man would still be waiting for her to finish him up. Can a single woman tie up a man or over power a man, this story is highly ridiculous?

Ill never understand how whenever a woman does something to a man, dumb men find all kinds of crazy reasons to prove it didn't happen or justify it. Poster are you r.tarded..... how do you know he wasn't asleep when she burned him? The guy was murdered.... Why are you people making excuses?

Flip this the other way around, and the comments would be completely different.

African1.... if you ever comeback. Still think about ya sometimes

Does chasing actually work? because i've never tried it past a day.

Cuz most men are dumb and will gladly "die for love" only so the girl can keep bleeping the guy who killed him.

They estimated that around 40% of the black men in jail and a similar percentage of those murdered where killed or imprisoned on a woman related crime.

dumbasses.

isnt a honda spirit a bike? imma get me one, ironically that makes you more attractive over here

The points on which you guys are fighting this story are so weak that if i didn't know any better i would think you had an ulterior motive.

No, i do not know him. I simply find the way you guys are struggling to fight this story rediculous.

Fist off, we all know the the problem with Nigeria is a lack of jobs.. not a lack of qualified workers. For you people to assert that just because he has a degree from the United States he will 'automatically get a good job in Nigeria' is silly. You are making more a stretch than him and you don't even realize it. Do you even know what degree he has?

Its not like ppl can just move to a different country and get a good job immediatly. You have to send out applications and wait for a reply... it can take months. In the meantime you work at a low-end job. This is common sense.

And like i said earlier, it is obvious that this story is exaggerated, but we should all be mature enough to be able disregard the parts that are exaggerated and evaluate what looks like a probably story. Rather than disregarding everything, like you guys have, simply because the poster has made some exaggerations. There is no way you can only hear one side of a story and not find inaccuracies.. that is perfectly normal, and it doesn't make the story false. I would expect grown a$$ men to be able to understand that.

Why are you studying geology

TheCongo: 1. And you assume we are all Nigerians on this thread.
2. Having a record in the States doesn't explain why OP has to work as a bricklayer in Nigeria ...
3. His record in the States shouldn't affect his life in Nigeria
4. Op has a master degree from the States ...
5. Given all the holes, there is a higher probability that this story is FAKE
6. I am afraid to think that you are the one who are starting to seem re.tarted on this thread.

Sorry... but i fail to see the point in nitpicking this story when similar stuff happens to Africans, and black men in general, all the time. Its not so hard to believe that a degree holder is a bricklayer in Nigeria. Its a third world country remember? most ppl are lucky to have any job The post is not really that far fetched.

Yall are just dumb, wanna learn the hard way be my guest.

TheCongo: You mean that you have relative with Master Degree who voluntarily left their good paying job in the West and returned to Nigeria to work as bricklayers?
I don't buy that ...

I don't know what is wrong with yall... Nigerian males in general are starting to seem really re.tarded to me. The way yall reason is so off. Have you ever stopped to consider that after you get a felony and prison time on your record there is no job that will hire you again? A black man with a criminal history is nothing in america, you have no hope.

The way you men behave is sickening. There is no doubt the OP has exaggerated his story, but that is not an excuse for you guys to disregard it like this. Instead you dumbasses should be trying to learn how to protect yourself from this sort of thing, but you would rather learn the hard way.... then come on Nairaland to whine.

All they have to do is strip you of your citizenship.. then deport you lol.

lols... alright yall. I just dont see much reason for someone to come on here and lie about this. I have relatives who have been in similar situations

lol @ all these dumbass dudes calling this a fairy tale until it happens to them.

Haha, we men are so s.tupid.

Crown Prince: I have no option than to continue this molue conducting work here in Lagos Nigeria, if I save enough I intends travelling back to the united states of America on a revenge mission,possibly purchase a gun and terminate the life of my Ex-wife and her devilish mother for ending my American dream abruptly.

It is exactly two years today I was deported from the shores of America thus ending my America dreams and the feel of greener pastures by my wicked wife and her mentally distorted mother.

I left the shores of this country to the united states in search of greener pasture after roaming the countryside for job placement which was unavailable for about four years after graduation. While in the USA, I engaged myself in all sort of odd jobs to keep body and soul together and it really worked for me since I am physical strong to undertake any kind of job. I soon enrolled into one of the university for my masters programme which I successful completed. As luck may have it, I got a well paying job in the STATES and before you knew it, I have already completed mortgage on a property.
I lived comfortably until the last two years when I decided to get married. I engaged my relatives to shop for a wife for me while I was also on the internet especially nairaland looking since I need a Nigeria wife and more importantly from my tribe. Several referrals I acknowledged but I decided to settle for this chick on nairaland since we have been communicating and equally professed love to each other.

I came down to Nigeria,met her and she was really a dream. My specification in graceful splendour stood before me. I engaged her and we hurriedly got married. I took her afterwards to the States where we continued our lovey dovey. A year later, she took in and got delivered of a pretty bouncing baby girl. Sooner has she put to bed, her attitude changes and she began insulting me to no end. She picks quarrel at the slightest provocative and slaps me unwavering. I soon became a ghost in my home avoiding her because I know the laws of the land. A land where women is supreme and worshipped and this evil wife has come to realise it advantage. Her mother soon joined her for the traditional babysitting and HELL was let loose. I lose my grip in the home and before you knew it, I was kicked out from my home in a makeshift fight and got deported. I lost all I laboured for to a devil and today I mount bus conducting from semes to obalande in Lagos.

I intend going back to the states to kill her and her mother and prolly report my self to the authorities for possibly prison sentences. I prefer going to prison in the united states than facing the harsh conditions in this country. I know she is reading this and I wanna tell her she cannot hide. I am ready
For war since we would all score in evil.
I must realise my American dream either legal or illegally.

Nairaland please I need your advice for a distraught brother to take action.

The bolded pretty much sums up America, the craziest part is they pretend they are oppressed.

Haha 'welcome to my heart'.

^ fulaman why did you post a picture of a bare vagaina on this thread?

I am not 'nice' to girls i am not attracted to, i don't even awknowlege them unless i have to. And must girls are the exact same way, they have no use for men they dont want. Stop playing dumb ppl, thats how the game works.

When you are nice to someone past the level of simply courtesy there is usually a reason.

It means hes a push-over.

what did you want him to buy?

Black Peni5: Some questions sha...soon it'll be if ur mum wants to marry u, what will u do.

Are u a learner? Smh

hahahaha! gbam

@ topic, my mother doesnt even know when valentines day is... not to talk of celebrating it.

I pleep! seriously Purpose, My pa is Fancais at all bein ... is terrible. help me practice lol

Non, le google tranlation est là ^ ......tres terrible haha. Perhaps that is because i didn't use accent marks though.