₦airaland Forum

Another day of great expectations before we seal this deal.

A neighbour down the street put up her Obama/Biden lawn poster ,the first one I saw on our street, 3 days later 5 neighbours around her put up their McCain/Palin posters. My  dear husband forbids me from putting up an Obama poster since these McCain disciples are now as vicious Michael Vick's pitbulls.
No problems.

let's see what happens tonight in the state of New York.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOhtn0SreV8 Part 1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9BtcQIq-acY Part 2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UAEofgJfkI4 Part 3

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VswkUaaAXuM Part 4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AQfkZF20YwQ Part 5

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zk3nkaGXcFw Part 6

SimiBrasil:
No, a lot of men lost the sexual desire after watch the deliverance. His small sweety pot will increase in a crazy way, a lot of blood , etc ,  definitely not !

Their memory are super.

It might affect sexual life AFTER

Not my experience.
It actually made us closer after he saw what I went through to bring him  heirs into our little "Osisi Kingdom"
And he said a big thank you! and also added that he was extremely proud of me.
and all the cards that came with the beautiful bouquet of flowers he brought always read
"baby, thank you. You are one brave woman,I love you"

Outstrip:
He was there with both. The first one he actually held one leg and the nurse held the other. The second one he sat behind the doctor and watched the whole show.

Thank you.
Mine also held leg and even cut the umbilical cord of all 11 kids

thanks josh aka jjyou.
I try not to take things to heart.
Most of the time it's all fun.
Nothing here gets to me at all.
Thanks for your concern and prayers

It is just after noon, and inside, in a steamy square room no larger than a prison cell, Aisha Camara is covered in a pink-and-white striped blanket. She briefly lifts a veil that hides her angular features. The griots and her neighbors are celebrating her wedding day, but she is not smiling.

She is 14 years old, and in this town in northern Ivory Coast, and throughout sub-Saharan Africa, such ceremonies are common. It does not matter that in numerous countries on this continent, such early marriages have been illegal for years.

Aisha's family will not publicly discuss this tradition, but people in her community eagerly defend it. People such as Boubacar Maiga, a neighbor who did not attend Aisha's wedding, say forcing girls to marry at such ages protects them from immorality, strengthens clan relationships and honors Islam.

"If a girl doesn't marry at an early age, she'll sleep with many men. Nobody would want to marry her later," said Maiga, 55. Such marriages, he said, keep girls from "adventures."

He married his first wife when she was 11. He forced his oldest daughter to marry last year when she was 12. His next daughter, age 7, is scheduled to wed next year.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/inatl/longterm/africanlives/ivory/ivory.htm

On the day she witnessed the engagement party of 11-year-old Ghulam Haider to 40-year-old Faiz Mohammed, Sinclair discreetly took the girl aside. "What are you feeling today?" the photographer asked. "Nothing," the bewildered girl answered. "I do not know this man. What am I supposed to feel?"

http://www.nytimes.com/2006/07/09/magazine/09BRI.html

Saudi 'Infant-Bride' Files For Divorce

A court in Saudi Arabia is reported to be preparing to hear a plea for divorce from an eight-year-old girl who has been married off to a man in his 50s.

The Saudi newspaper al-Watan said the girl had been married off to the man by her father without her knowledge.
The child's mother is thought to be pushing for the marriage to be annulled - though the father opposes the move.

In April, a court in neighbouring Yemen annulled the arranged marriage of another eight-year-old girl.

She had been married to a 28-year-old man.

Child-protection groups say children are often given away in return for hefty dowries, or as a result of old customs in which a father promises his infant daughters and sons to cousins out of a belief that marriage will protect them from illicit relationships.

Activists have called for an end to the practice.

Story from BBC NEWS:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/7579616.stm

(CNN) -- "When I got married I was scared," remembers 10-year-old Nujood Ali. "I didn't want to leave my family and siblings."
Yemeni lawyer Shada Nasser helped 10-year-old Nujood Ali divorce her 30-year-old husband. At an age when girls in the West still play with dolls, Nujood found herself married to a man three times her age. But in her home country of Yemen -- a deeply conservative Middle East Muslim nation -- this situation isn't uncommon.

Yemeni lawyer Shada Nasser had long opposed the practice of early marriage when, in April 2008, she got a chance to do something about it.

Arriving at the courthouse for her usual casework one day, Nasser was told about a young girl who had come to court alone. She met Nujood, who told her that she was desperate; she wanted a divorce.

Nasser says she was appalled by Nujood's story, particularly her claims that her 30-year-old husband regularly beat and raped her. It was unheard of for such a young girl to get a divorce, but Nasser didn't hesitate to take the case.

"When I spoke with her, I [felt] like she [was] my daughter," Nasser recalls. "I hugged her and said, 'Don't be afraid. I will help you and you will take the divorce.'"

Since then, Nasser has volunteered to help other young brides, and is working to raise the legal age for marriage in Yemen.http://www.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/meast/09/26/heroes.shada.nasser/

Pastor Marries School Girl
Tuesday, September 23, 2008 - By Lois Okereke

Head pastor of the Glory of God and Miracle Church, Pastor Emmanuel Chisaokwu Michael, has wedded a school girl, Juliet Uzoamaka Uzoeghelu, in his church.

Despite the disapproval of neighbours and friends, the couple went ahead to sign the dotted lines in front of family members and the congregation in the church, located at 1, Alabi Williams Crescent, Olusesi Bus Stop, Agbado Road.

During the wedding, the pastor gave orders that no one, except the photographer he contracted, must take photographs. When our reporter tried to take a photograph of the couple with his camera phone, he was bundled out of the hall and locked up in a room.

The River state born pastor showed up a few minutes later, collected his phone and demanded that all the photographs be deleted, after which he was allowed back into the hall.

The pastor later gave orders that the reporter should be monitored so that he does not take any more photographs.

Another reporter, who sought the reaction of close neighbours of the church on the same day, found out that most of them were against the marriage, as they stood outside the church, insulting those in attendance.

One of the neighbours, who pleaded anonymity, condemned the pastor, saying that he should be arrested for marrying an underage school girl.

“I have known this girl even before her father died. She is too young to get married. I can tell you categorically that she isn’t more than 14 years of age. This pastor should be arrested for destroying this girl’s life,” he said.

“You can see for yourself how everyone is abusing him and people attending the wedding. I am sure God will never forgive this so-called pastor,” he added.

Another neighbour told P.M.News that the pastor and the bride’s stepmother should be made to face the law.

P.M.News investigations revealed that Juliet (the bride) and two of her siblings, whose parents are deceased, had been living with their stepmother since the demise of their father.

P.M.News also learnt that Juliet, who ought to be in SS 2, was a scholarship student at Rehoboth Secondary School before she dropped out because of the marriage.

To use God or allah,Shango, Amadioha or the long juju of Aro to justify this gross sexual molestation of the helpless members of our society that we ought to protect ,makes it even more despicable in my books and in the eyes of any decent human being.
Underaged kids do not belong naked on a bed.

The first time I had sex with my husband, I felt serious pains and was bleeding. I had to tell my auntie and she gave me some medicine. Then I told her that I will never allow him to do that to me again. My auntie told me that if I stop after the first time, the wound will never heal. At that time my husband was a stubborn man and anytime he came to have sex with me, I just started crying. He would tell me that Allah is blessing and rewarding me so I should not be crying. (14-year-old girl, married at age 13)

http://www.popcouncil.org/projects/TA_NigeriaChildMarriage.html

who knows?
the official civil age is 18 (I mispoke) but customary laws and shariah can also do whatever they want outside of the civil laws.
Nigeria is just a messed up place.
How can a man who calls himself a pastor marry a 14 year old teenager?
are there no grown women in his town?
he needs to be castrated.
Idiot!

A report by the Nigerian organization BAOBAB for Women's Human Rights (BAOBAB), entitled Women's Access to Justice and Personal Security in Nigeria: A Synthesis Report states that young girls are "frequently" married to "much" older men because customary laws permit marriage by the time they reach puberty, which is considered to be 12 years of age for girls (2002, . The report also notes that there is no minimum age for marriage under Muslim law (BAOBAB 2002, . However, in the predominately Muslim states of northern Nigeria, the Penal Code stipulates that children under the age of 14 cannot consent to sexual acts, while in the south, sexual intercourse with a girl under the age of 13 is a crime (ibid.). The United Nations Children's Fund (UNICEF) claims that in the northern state of Kebbi, the average age of marriage for girls is approximately 11 years (2001, 4).

In eastern Nigeria, statutory law sets 16 years as the minimum age for marriage, and the punishment for marrying girls that are younger is a fine or six months imprisonment (BAOBAB 2002, 14). The BAOBAB report also notes that under statutory law parental consent for marriage is required for individuals under the age of 21 (ibid., .

http://www.irb-cisr.gc.ca/en/research/rir/?action=record.viewrec&gotorec=434088

IT's true the legal marriage age in that our sorry nation is around 13 or so.
But of course most educated girls marry in their twenties and village girls perhaps around 17 or 18.
In Northern Nigeria it's around 6 years old

lastly nollywood news

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-182998.0.html

Joseph6:
as someone would say some foolish girls would still close eyes and marry a man with big eyeballs like this byemi blaq,segun arinze its ridiculous

big eyes=aggression

big eye balls are not that bad as long as he can keep them firmly closely while sleeping
It may scare the children

For deep conversation amongst mature minds.
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-182215.0.html

This fun religious one
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-177969.0.html

this one with good news.
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-178854.0.html

KarmaMod:
she said they were in her group of friends yet you are mentioning facebook?

very immature of her.
The ex has a Fiancee so I figure the ex must be at least in his late twenties if they are Nigerians.
So this tatafo must be in her twenties too.
let's say 25 average.
Are we sure she didn't plan this with her slutty friends.
To go sleep with her ex in order to get back at him and his fiancee
for having the nerve to leave her
some people are  that pathetic

Outstrip:
Thanks Savanaha for pointing out that he threatened her physically before she raised her voice. You can tell that he beats at least one woman a day. He was even feeling cool with himself. Ignorance they say is bliss

One day he'll jam a woman that has agbero brothers.
That day he'll know that  there's a difference between ordinary rat and grass cutter
Stupid man!

or he he'll jam a man woman that'll beat him silly.
women like that do exist.
women that'll challenge him to a fight.
he'll meet his match someday

DeepZone:
Some people here in Nairaland are nice people but they are not that cute. Imagine those people in their 70's, will you claim that it's wickedness that disfigured their face? Obasanjo may not be a beauty pageant but he is somewhere in between considering his age. Why not post a picture of Namdi Zik at Obasanjo's age and not Amadi ikwechegh whom we can agree is a very handsome man from the get go.

here you go.

NaijaBarbi:
No, in all seriousness u guys. i only told her based on fact. both women that he was sleeping with were in my group of friends. They only slept with him casual like (booty call), but they didnt know that i knew. (They didnt want to tell me because i was once his girl) And i was going to keep my mouth shut when i was told by my best friend, even when i saw the post that he was engaged. Its only her attitude and cockiness later towards all my long time friends, and his continuous lying that made me decide to do that. it was to set him straight, what he thought she would never find out, since she didnt live in our area.

You need a therapist!
If you had a life the last thing on your list would be stalking an ex and following up on his fiancee and list of bedmates.
Tufiakwa!

StephenP:
So you only told her because of her "attitude and cockiness"? Maybe the cockiness you're reading is just her being proud in her man. By the way, was he dating her while he slept with them? If yes, you should change your friends because they knew he was cheating and plus he is your ex, if not, why would tell her? Like I said, I'm beginning to suspect you were envious of the fact that he was getting married to her and you went on to hurt her instead of dude.

People have serious issues.
why would someone care what an ex did after her.
na so jealousy reach?
the girl needs to get a life
seriously!

Pataki:
Why did you get married so soon sef? You are the woman I have been searching for. . . . . . . .   Not all this jargon of DeepZone who is confused about his/her sexual orientation.

God will give you your very own Queenisha.
Your miracle is on the way
he who finds a Queenisha findeth a good thing

~Sauron~:
The pics i have are too  

Too what?
post am
If I didn't faint seeing Obasanjo picking his nose on PBS,I can handle anything

~Sauron~:
Nahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Deepy is a babe!!! I can confirm that!
All her rants on the net is just a facade.
She is as timid as a lost kitten.

Confuzzled again?

Deepzone, oya post that your pic in black lingerie.

The site is about to crash final!
deepzone in lingerie
when did victoria come out with such secrets?

Pataki:
I am a MAN. Beauty does not qualify me! Stop all this your silent gay movement.

Thank you jare!
There's more to  man than a pretty face.
I would choose an intelligent man anyday over an airheaded pretty boy

o ya Hannibal show us foto!
Infact 2 foto

Pataki:
Beyond all reasonable doubts, DeepZone is a man. Why he keeps on bashing Nigerian men is beyond my explanation. The way he goes around fighting for women rights is downright annoying to feminist that I know that have read her posts here on nairaland.

DeepZone claims never to have been dealt with harshly by any man, yet delights in bashing men here and there? Does that not sound spooky? That thing needs flogging seriously.

Now I'm confused again

Deepzone I'm just kidding o
I believe Hannibal
He may be arrogant and all  but I don't know him to be a liar

Pataki:
If she ever steps into the UK, walai! I will flog sense into her.

N gwa nu!
if you can flog your fellow man and get away with it

Pataki:
I suspected that thing to be a MALE. No wonder transgendered will never want to communicate outside of the forum. No wonder the transgendered was proficient in milking the cows of Nebraska. The only resident female aboki of nairaland.

The transgendered is so disgusting that she pisses and fart simultaneously.  The transgendered knows how to mix a soap and get full orgy with it. I had been suspecting all along. MAY GOD DELIVER US.

My dear there were some details she's given that only males would give.

I have been here in the USA a while,I don't know one single female Nigerian that was a truck driver
I don't know any that worked  in farms milking cows
She's the only female Nigerian I know who has a gun and was on shooting branges learning how to use it.
She knows so many details of "things" only males would know and discuss.
I seriously suspect deepzone is a man