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michelin89:
@ topic

MUST YOU DISGRACE YOURSELF AND LOSE YOUR INTEGRITY JUST TO BE LEFT ALONE?

Chei Mich,that was hard!

dayokanu:
@Plus queen, a Guy who spends more than 1 week on a girl is a loser.

I once asked a girl for her number and she was like hesitant I just told her not to worry that I meant her car plate number. .

She has been chasing me about on facebook for the past 3 weeks now sending me all sorts of comments

You should feel excited that I even wanted to talk to you.

You know what Naija gurls are the worst they form like anything. Thats why Naija guys abroad don't dig them much they would now complain to the Pastor

In church and other youth leaders that Naija guys don't dif them that we prefer Akata's and other races.

You would always see them attending singles seminar when they spent their whole life forming

Maybe if he's not that serious about the girl.
3 weeks is not too much esp for a man looking for a spouse and not just a "good time"
My man chased me more than a week.
He asked me out about 3 or 4 times (I forgot) exactly but I remember the last time he asked,he actually added
"if you say No this time,I wouldn't bother you again "
I guess everyman has a little "Jackal ego" in him
I wouldn't call him a loser.
He gained me

michelin89:
@ topic

I am not the rude type and guess what?
Even though I didn't end up dating thse guys they still respect me a lot because I treated them well and was firm at the same time.

Good girl.
na your mama born you
there's no need being rude to an admirer as long as he's not following you around or calling non stop.

dayokanu:
Persist for 3 weeks that is too much after 3 days get going. There are a zillion sisters waiting for someone to ask them for directions.

ROFL
na how una take describe am now?
chei,woman don suffer

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dayokanu:
Women outnumber men in this world. The rate at which couples are popping females nowadays Atimes I blame myself for not being born like 15 years later

@ the female population,my dear it is so true.
All my friends and family having babies na so so girl girl full everywhere.
Right now na only me get heir for my husband them family
all the other brothers na girls girls girls
One sef don try so tey i come get 4 girls abi na 5 self.
Our friend here in the states has 6 daughters,another one has 6 daughters and one son.

david,if you meet a girl that meets all your criteria for a good wife,you no try your "luck" ?
You have to.
There are many reasons,a girl could say "no" the first time.
Sometimes we say no just because we don't want to appear cheap
we want you to work a little harder and show that you're really interested.
All the obstacles for Ogbono soup no be meat!

~Sauron~:
Don't mind these babes. . . . . . . .
[b]I have seen situations where sheer persistence paid off in the end and i have seen loads of other futile chases.[/b]When a babe says NO to her stalker. . . .It has no effect whatsoever because the stalker has seen many 'NOs' that turned to a 'YES'.

If the guy is an ok guy, persistence does pay off sometimes as long he doesn't come off as perverted or something.
But if she's not attracted to him,forget it.
but then again there's been cases where the girl ended caving in and agreeing to a simple date at "mama Calabar" just to get him off her back and  things blossomed from there.
This thing called love dey one kain

@ poster,first time Mr Osisi asked me out ,I actually said No because I was with someone else.
But the guy was persistent.
He asked a 2nd and 3rd time and actually ended up snatching me away from someone else with his charm and persistence and I have absolutely no regrets.
He was God's will for me
So don't write this man totally off,you never know.
If you must turn him down,do so without "damaging" him
Careful consideration dear.

(_{Have him as back up})

did I say that?

DavidDylan:
Mr. Dauda as a stalker?

ROFL

Ah Morenike,who is this your stalker?
Hope it's not Mr Dauda
seriously be nice but firm in your decision.
I don't believe in being mean to someone just because he's not a match.
The world is a strange and small place.
Don't belittle him either, just tell him in plain language that you're not interested in a relationship with him
I've known women that belittled men they ended up marrying.
hear this story.

Back in college,there was this girl that was being chased by this physician.She hated him terribly especially because of his looks.
He had this  reddish dirty complexion and she called him this ugly nickname which we all called him.She would hide when he came to visit and she treated and spoke so badly of him.
Guess what?
They later got married and the only things i remember was how badly she treated him and the lies she and her room mates told him.

I extrapolated the age from his picture.
And yes,that's his picture.

make una see tumfulu.
The originator of the thread.
a 54 year old spare parts dealer

gamechange:
@poster

If he has ikebe or whatever, if you don't like, move swiftly on. To suggest there is a particular build or structure he has to conform to is being judgemental.

Humans need to move on and accept each other for who we are. There are tougher challenges in our world.

I hope you'll accept your woman if she shows up with a chest full of hair ,or bia bia fuller that Wole Soyinka's
You think it's easy for a woman to see a man that needs a girdle to hold it together

Joe Liberman is an idiot
He must be the main reson why God allowed Bush to win Gore

@ poster how exactly are you related.
Cousin in Nigeria can mean someone from your LGA
like Owerri people

didn't he say his family on her side is ok with it?
His own father may be his uncle

It got to an extent where she asked her Mum how we were related and from the explanations,it looked like it can work.That means we can get married if they allow us,

why would chicken find poop around the house?
do people defecate in the yards?
snails live in dark shady and moist places.
get the picture ?
omoge no make me throw up

yomi123nl:
Go and find another woman. There is nothing you can say to justify your intention.
It is unacceptable.

He may be a Muslim.
This one he's going from one family member to another looking for love
How sickening

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–noun, plural -lons /-ˈlɒnz; Fr. -ˈlɔ̃/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[-lonz; Fr. -lawn] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation. 1. a drawing room or reception room in a large house.
2. an assembly of guests in such a room, esp. an assembly, common during the 17th and 18th centuries, consisting of the leaders in society, art, politics, etc.
3. a hall or place used for the exhibition of works of art.
4. a shop, business, or department of a store offering a specific product or service, esp. one catering to a fashionable clientele: a dress salon; a hair salon.
5. (initial capital letter) (in France) a. the Salon, an annual exhibition of works of art by living artists, originally held at the Salon d'Apollon: it became, during the 19th century, the focal point of artistic controversy and was identified with academicism and official hostility to progress in art.
b. a national exhibition of works of art by living artists: Salon des Refusés; Salon des Indépendants

sa·loon /səˈlun/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[suh-loon] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation
–noun 1. a place for the sale and consumption of alcoholic drinks.
2. a room or place for general use for a specific purpose: a dining saloon on a ship.
3. a large cabin for the common use of passengers on a passenger vessel.
4. British. a. (in a tavern or pub) a section of a bar or barroom separated from the public bar and often having more comfortable furnishings and a quieter atmosphere.
b. saloon car.

5. a drawing room or reception room

It's salon.
Saloon is something else

omoge:
leilah,

osisi, do you like snail?

tufiakwa.
I hate those creepy crawlies.
you know snails feed on feces
It's like eating vultures that feed on rotten dead animals

tope2000:
so when is this dinner sef

with who?
Tumfulu?

make una leave my brother o

it was omo eko that first posted his picture, I had seen a diff one but definitely him,I wonder if he was toasting someone with that picture.
A retired Biafran soldier

lol

Gamine:
ooh

ive seen the Cross and the Switchblade

loong time ago

saw it the same time i saw Joni.


Wow, same guy, good stuff!

I'm watching out for Mexico.
Once they go down I have to withdraw money that'll last us 6 months.
I can't breastfeed the whole family for 6 months

These sharia courts have a lot of time on their hands.
Didn't the father deserve a jail sentence too for failing to train up his child properly.Where is his own responsibility?

omoge:
exactly. i don't trust them. they can spoil show.

i'm hearing that our boo is slipping in the poll? did you hear that osisi

Our man is ok and still as charming as ever.
Do not be afraid.
He's safe in our arms.

TOYOSI20:
I heard some parents threaten their children by saying they'll send then back to Nigeria. . . . . .

Well when we run out of options we have to resort to threats.
Tell them you'll send them to Somalia
Threaten them with strangulation sef.
These kids can get on one's last nerve