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Sad. Such a beautiful woman. From the picture, it seems that she and her lover are a good match; same complexion. Rip. I feel for the innocent kids and the husband (may God give him the strength to handle the shock of finding out about the kids paternity).

And the knuckleheaded Queen Idoko says she doesn't blame the lady because the guy is very cute? That means that she would also bang the guy if she finds herself in same situation, I guess. If we are all sleeping with any cute person we meet, I wonder how the world will be.
Rotten ladies. The groom just dodged a bullet. He should go for thanksgiving ASAP.

Audray:
Well it's a pity that in Nigeria, partnering with a person you deem trustworthy will possibly lead to your doom. Your so called "brother" will suck you dry,then grind the bones you're managing to dust. You'll have nothing. nothing. I fear my people pass the devil.

It is this mindset that leads Nigerians to always want to go it alone. There are few sincere Nigerians out there. You have to seek them out, just like looking for a marriage partner. It's extremely difficult trying to make it alone in business.

Throwback:
The hustle to have a Nigeria where there are no sacred cows is real, and I will keep it up without the need to be paid, because it a patriotic task for which necessity is laid upon me.


One day, you will account for your support of corruption and the desire to have anarchy and rejoice to only negative news.

No scared cows? How come nothing has happened to the Miyetti Allah spokesman that was on national TV to say that the Fulani view Nigeria as a land given to them by Allah; that they are inviting the Fulani from all over West Africa to be coming to Nigeria and to be armed?
Or your IG of Police that has snubbed our Senate?

Throwback:
You all should read about former USA senator Joseph McCarthy, who is popularly known as tail gunner Joe.

He was the one for which the term "McCarthyism" was coined, due to his ability to embellish tales and conjure incredulous propaganda against politicians and fellow Senators, many lousy tales including allegations of communists infiltrating the US government and departments which he could not prove, for which he was eventually censured and his US political career ended in shame.

If you remember that this same FFK who is an ignorant outsider, claimed that Buhari did not shake the hand of Gov. Sam Ortom of Benue because he disparaged the president in his remarks over the Benue Fulani herdsmen massacre, only for the video and pictures of that meeting to surface online showing the president shaking the hands of the very same Gov. Ortom.


Now in the typical McCarthy fashion, he has drawn up an imaginary list in a bid to continue his demonic crave for anarchy in the country.

He is even mentioning Nenadi Usman and Jumoke Akinjide that have been cheerfully returning the monies they withdrew from ATM Dasuki that did not require PIN code.

I think you are the ignorant one. The threat is real. We should not allow your bigot Buhari to destroy the fragile democracy that we all should nurture.

Daeylar:


They will carry you out. Tell you to order what you want. When it's time to pay, they run away. Such pathetic men.

Ladies should act responsibly and be reasonable when on a date. Some ladies will even bring their friends on a date without informing the guy.

Lalas247:
lol abeg which currency be that...
my wig almost shifted

South African Rand.

CaptJeffry:
This issue is too faced. I will elaborate later.

Even though a lot of Nigerian wives are bad and desperadoes, some Nigerian men don't wanna be useful with themselves hoping to bring a Nigerian wife that will work her ass off for him.

This is why they bring the ladies to become nurses and work round the clock while they enjoy themselves in Nigerian owned bars, travel to Naija, brag and carry young ladies around.

I've seen these scenarios a lot. What happens is that these ladies get tired of feeding the men and catering for their families alone. So they sue for divorce at any little provocation which often comes from news of their husbands' infidelity especially when they travel to Nigeria.

Right on point. Goes both ways.

londoner:
I think Sowore is a stand out candidate and knows how to take Nigerians on a new and better path.

I think Sowore is the man to beat. Donald Duke is more of the same and has probably been asked by the present set to contest so he keeps them in power through the back door as they know people are ready to vote them out. Nigeria needs a COMPLETE departure from the old with people that are not connected to the current leaders, but with the people.

What is Sowore's position on restructuring? My candidate must be seriously committed to restructuring.

Iamdmentor1:
If Buhari could do it, anyone can. There can't be a president worse than Buhari

Exactly. Buhari is the worst we have had so far.

Ken4Christ:
Can someone whose voice we have never heard in virtually all national issues be fit for the position of a president? This man is a coward and a joke. Sowore is far more preferred.

You have a point there. We don't want a coward for President. I will like to see people like Tunde Bakare out there. Prof Kingsley Moghalu too. And must be a candidate committed to restructuring.

My question is whether he is strongly committed to restructuring. If yes, then he has my support.
If no, then I will look for another candidate to support.
Without restructuring Nigeria, we will just be wasting our time because Nigeria can never make progress.
In any case, any other candidate but Buhari. Under no circumstances should the bigot (President of the Fulani) be returned for second term.

Twoclans:
You guys get upset too easily ,she said she will contribute when you are down financially. Guy open the business for her ,after five months tell her you are down financially and that you are in a huge debt then allow her take over the finances of the home while you chill.

Cunny man die cunny man burry am

Not good to start out in marriage by playing games on each other. The guy should dump her if she doesn't change her mind set.

ednut1:
hr might be lieng about d 5m sha. Have faced sometin lik dis before. Met one babe at an event , we bcam friends and wanted to date her o. This babe pman get money and foots most of her bills. D sis earns 500k in a bank bt when she bashes d car she uses na pman dey pay . D babe told me if we marry na me go dey foot all bills (her wigs lasan na 60k), say her money is hers mine is ours. Ontop my small salary. I just flee o. One prince don engage am now

One Prince or one fool?

That is the mind set of the average Nigerian lady. That's extremely selfish. You have to get her to change before getting married to her. I would have nothing to do with a lady with such selfish disposition.

Sarkin:
I DON'T REALLY TRUST THIS MAN...
BUT I LOVE HIS SPIRIT...
SIR, YOU CAN WAIT TILL AFTER 2023

But you trust the bigot and incompetent Buhari that is about to lead Nigeria to another civil war, right?

mycare:
Hmmm
I served in Calabar, Cross River for a year.
It happens to be that all we see in the media is different from what is real in the state.
Cross River is such a dilapidated state.
There is great decay in infrastructure; high rate of cultism; inter communal land dispute killing.
Even calabar is over hyped.
Ayade is doing nothing in that state. He travels outside the country more than his stay in the state.
Akwa Ibom that was carved from Cross River is far developed than Cross River.

Sad to hear that. The people need to make use of their PVC in 2019.

Xisnin:
Buhari boys on rampage.

Benue Governor absolved Buhari from blame.

izaray:
Kikikiki i laugh in Greek, Buhari is begining to show the people that brought him into power his true self.

Tinubu and Amaechi don't be too relaxed yet, you may be next on Bubu's list, remember you guys are preparing him for a second term

I'm loving this drama like kilode

He needs Tinubu to help him win 2019. So he will spare him for now. But after 2019, if he wins, Tinubu will get to know the real Buhari.

henrybangs44:
very interesting story... is it a film

Excerpts from the book by the journalist.

DonMekino:
The size of his house.... The writer used d word modest...its open to interpretation on what modest means....as for whether its a proof of not looting.. He never knew he would die...remember he was positioning himself to be d civilian president and that required lots of money....if he didn't loot, who then did??

Abacha and his sons looted big time.

BENEAMATA:
most probably that grade A sycophant and national co-ordinator of the group tagged Y E A A (Youths Earnestly Asked Abacha ) , KANU , can't recall the first name now . Men , those were the days , talk of real MVPs among truly infamous bastards in the corridors of powerrs . Names like kanu , arisekola , alakija (yeah , that one ) , A . Nzeribe to name a few are some of the greed driven demons that will throw their own family members to a burning furnance at the request of Abacha or I .B .B . Time will come when a book will be published to name and shame majority of them that are the enemy of the masses and it will be a bestseller .spit on them !

Or probably the mogul Arthur Eze. Just guessing.

thoth:
we should allow for disabilities and impairments on behalf of our citizens, considering the importance of educating nigerians i can see reasons with his later decisions though i doubt its efficiency.

I made enquiries and i found out that the Abacha truly owns a modest house, i am still waiting for replies for people who are closer to the son. This is the most startling information i have had on this man.
What is most confusing is how people still choose to accept and believe those allegations heaped on Abacha considering the amount of visual facts on the ground.

That he owned a modest house does not absolve him of allegations of embezzling billions of public funds. After his death, I watched a program on tv where the US Senate were drilling some Citibank executives who opened and operated Private Banking account for two of Abacha's sons. $650 million was lodged in that account by Abacha and his two sons. It was a secret account. I think those executives lost their jobs. I don't recollect if they were prosecuted. The accounts were closed and I believe the US government stopped US banks from operating such secret accounts.

idupaul:
Arafat in to deliver the killer payload that killed the General .. But Arafat also got killed after a similar visit where he was poisoned with radioactive matter..

Sha that House on Gidado road small sha ...

Crooked wealthy Nigerians usually maintain a low profile in order to deceive people. Abacha and his children looted Nigeria dry.

ypzilanti:
For a journalist, the author is a really boring writer. Check out the articles in the Economist and forbes...even the back page of Thisday newspaper. Commercial writing is a craft and a talent. Journalists need to be paid more in Nigeria to attract the best hands.

Just your opinion. Unlike you, I found the report very interesting. Not boring at all.

Bidobado:
I disagree with the first statement that nobody hates black people.
Black people hate themselves first, followed by every other race on this planet.
We are hated because of our potential and what we have given this world, yes, black people gave this world a lot.
But I really don't understand the hatred for each other.. Evident here on nairaland with the afonja, Igbo abuses we witness daily.

You correctly stated that black people are hated. But I disagree with the reason you gave for the hatred. It is obviously not because of our potentials or what we have given to the world.
Rather, we are hated because of our underachievement. As the OP pointed out, the rest of the world will start having a positive impression of sub-saharan Africa if the African countries can start developing their countries like the Asians are doing. Respect is earned.
We need to wake up and start making impact on science and technology. If you check out the STEM faculties of the major research universities in North America, the student and faculty make-ups rarely include blacks. Usually predominantly Asians from China, South Korea, Taiwan, India (of course) and the indigenes. Nigeria, with an abundance of natural resources and a large population, remains one of the poorest in the world. How can anyone respect or love us.
We don't even seem to be able to run our country.

deedeedee1:
Nobody hate black people. They are just viewed as inferior. Black people are believed to be closer to Apes. I wonder why I rarely see Asians complain about racism. The whites believe Asians are more intelligent than they are. Japan, China, South Korea, and even North Korea are technologically advanced. Their countries are extremely rich. The Asians have immense love for their culture and language. There is no respect for the black man at all. You want to know why? Because Africa, the origin of the black man is ensnared in famine, poverty, and underdevelopment. Another reason for this is because they created the countries we live in and we rever their language at the expense of ours. We must accept the fact that for black people to regarded and respected by other races, we must build Africa. But how can we build Africa when we have country like Nigeria that is filled with tribalism, hate, religion intolerance and killings? We should split Nigeria so that tribes that are compatible can live and grow together. The only way police brutality against African-Americans will stop is when we begin to have our Japan, China and Singapore in Africa. That is when the 'superior' whites will give Africans and her descendants respect.
This is my take

Good point.

Right on point.

LivingFree:
Looks like a suicide, there's no bruises on him.

It's sad people no longer have respect for the dead. Why show his pictures. May He finally find peace.

Which suicide? He might have been strangled.

HungerBAD:
Murder.

He was murdered.

Of course. Forensics would help Police catch the killers (the in-laws). Their finger prints would be all over his body.

Which suicide? Of course his in-laws murdered him and want to make it look like suicide. I wonder if he went alone.