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RomanceRe: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by poseidon12: 2:20pm On Jun 17, 2018
bulalakoboko:
Please a friend of mine want to devorce his wife. The wife is a confirm prostitute. She even brings men to the house and on two occasion my friend caught them. The problem now is that he dont know how to go about it. They only had court and traditional marriage.
Tell your friend to go talk to a lawyer.
RomanceRe: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by poseidon12: 2:12pm On Jun 17, 2018
tete7000:
I don't plan for failures. I plan and work against them. It has worked for me. I have been strucked down but definitely not defeated. I am a child of God, a Victor in all ramifications. Please join my club.
I like your optimism. However, we should recognize that life has ups and downs and try to be prepared for each.
That is why I buy auto insurance even though I do not pray to get into an accident.
RomanceRe: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by poseidon12: 1:35pm On Jun 17, 2018
Jeferious:
So, from your story, the lady refused exactly because the man is going to benefit? So why shouldn't the man refuse when he sensed that it's to the lady's benefit?

There is no positive moral in this example. You even preached selfishness without knowing it
It was the man that started the selfishness. I guess the lady was paying him back. Most Nigerians still don't understand what marriage is about. To the average Nigerian, it's all about procreation. But it's supposed to be more than that.
RomanceRe: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by poseidon12: 12:11pm On Jun 17, 2018
mistyebby:
Girls, women all the time. Guys are the real golddiggers now. I know about 3guys who hurriedly sealed court wedding with women for their own is selfish interest.

As we speak, these men are yet to bring a cup of palmwine to their in-laws, talk of church wedding. Of course they have had children.

Just yesterday, my friend's boyfriend who has been milking her just suggested same court wedding. Who is the golddigger here??

A woman has "EVERYTHING" to lose from a relationship built on lies and falsehood regardless of who lied or was deceitful.. everything!!! While a man has " NOTHING " to lose.

May God always keep us away from deceitful and deceptive human beings through our life sojourn.. Amen.
Maybe you are talking about an imaginary Nigeria. You may have a few (very few) cases of the guy being the gold digger. But generally, the gold diggers are the Nigerian ladies. Don't you hear of the saying: My money is mine, his money is our money?
RomanceRe: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by poseidon12: 11:54am On Jun 17, 2018
ImaIma1:
Not everyone understands what marriage is.

Many churches will not wed you without involving the court. Except the couple wants to do only traditional marriage.

Me i did trad, court, church. I didn't exactly insist on it. We both agreed to do all.

And he buys everything in my name. Every single thing. He said his dad did the same. So that no family will come and displace me in future.

Don't mind some guys here. It is just mouth.
He buys everything in your name? And his dad did the same? I guess he and his dad have been lucky so far, that they have not met a gold digger. So what is wrong in buying everything in his, and your name?
I hope you will also be happy to have your sons be buying everything in the names of their wives (your daughters-in-law).
I guess you guys are assuming that he would leave this earth first. What if you leave first? Then he would have to go through the process of changing the titles to his name. And it is not an easy process.
RomanceRe: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by poseidon12: 11:17am On Jun 17, 2018
Ellabae:
Sincerely Court marriage is not my thing. Since I know I'm going nowhere. I have to trust my man enough. And I don't need to be so interested in my husband's properties. I jst need to make myself financially stable.
You better open your eyes. Anything can happen after marriage. Nobody is perfect. What if (God forbid) your husband dies and your husband's family decide to kick you out of your husband's house and take over all his properties. How would you challenge them in court if you have no legal paper in the form of marriage certificate?
RomanceRe: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by poseidon12: 10:49am On Jun 17, 2018
Elder001:
Marry a lady that has her own properties so she won't say you wasted her life.
You've your own properties ,I've mine.

we're both rich so there's no need requesting for any property.

If you can't do that I'll advice you not to attempt registry marriage.
Does this apply to the vast majority of us who are not rich and have next to nothing? More than 80% of Nigerians are poor.
RomanceRe: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by poseidon12: 10:42am On Jun 17, 2018
Chi59:
All the more reasons to do a registry marriage.
Exactly.
RomanceRe: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by poseidon12: 10:41am On Jun 17, 2018
OMEGA009:
Who goes into a marriage with an option of divorce on their mind? Ever heard of the words “For Better or Worse”?

These NL children wee not kee me. If you don’t have the balls to go the whole 9 yards, go to Shoprite and buy a carton of Vaseline.

We’ve not gotten over our loss to Croatia and one broke nigguh is shouting “avoid court registry if you want to keep ya property”. Mtcheeew.

P.S: pls remember....
Alice in wonderland. After marriage, anything can happen. You have to have contingency plan, just in case. For better or worse sounds great but we all know it is recited just to fulfil all righteousness.
RomanceRe: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by poseidon12: 10:35am On Jun 17, 2018
Jethrolite:
Are there no prenuptial agreements in Nigeria? I see the church wedding as a waste of time and will only do registry and traditional marriages.
Waste of time and money.
RomanceRe: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by poseidon12: 10:30am On Jun 17, 2018
tete7000:
People go into marriage thinking it won't last. Marriage built on foundation of sand of distrust and mutual suspicion. Na by force to marry if you already from inception thinking it is not going to work? Devil has indeed taken over the hearts of people and enslaved them with his reign of fear.
Stop dreaming. Divorce is real. You have to plan for it, just in case.
RomanceRe: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by poseidon12: 10:27am On Jun 17, 2018
bebe2:
BUT why are u pple so evil?

Why do u always think like zombies?

So u marry a woman for twenty years, she has kids for u, looked after them while u work, cooks for u , cleans for u, wash ur clothes, U have two houses , in the case of divorce u can not give her one? Are u ok?


I wonder too.
Where do u want her to start from?
RomanceRe: Don't Trust Any Woman Who Insists On Registry Wedding by poseidon12: 10:23am On Jun 17, 2018
@Elder001, what happens if it is the woman that is filing for divorce?
I don't see anything wrong with the woman getting a share of the husband's property. However, one has to watch out for gold diggers. Registry wedding provides protection for the woman. The intelligent ladies should opt for registry to avoid stories that touch.
A wealthy man can protect himself from gold diggers by forming a Trust and transferring the bulk of his assets to the Trust.
RomanceRe: Side Chick Attends Her Boyfriends' Church Wedding In Her Wedding Gown(video) by poseidon12: 9:51am On Jun 17, 2018
jy2kbeyond:
That amounts to giving your future out freely to your contender. grin grin grin
Or it might amount to dodging a bullet, not having to contend with a serial cheat for a husband.
RomanceRe: Side Chick Attends Her Boyfriends' Church Wedding In Her Wedding Gown(video) by poseidon12: 9:47am On Jun 17, 2018
Godson84:
Sweet@, why would u do such a thing? Is it the man's fault the other babe appeared on the wedding day? He was actually with the lady he loves. The other one just came there to make a scene.
It's embarrasing though.
I hope you are not a High Court Judge or Magistrate in real life because you will turn justice on its head.
RomanceRe: Side Chick Attends Her Boyfriends' Church Wedding In Her Wedding Gown(video) by poseidon12: 9:44am On Jun 17, 2018
donbachi:
he got served...na so my married friend carry side chick come watch naija vs croatia match,still dey complain sey d referee cheat us...both of dem who b d bigger cheat?.
Your married friend of course.
RomanceRe: Side Chick Attends Her Boyfriends' Church Wedding In Her Wedding Gown(video) by poseidon12: 9:42am On Jun 17, 2018
alen4smith:
she may not be aware she was the side chick dont be surprised the nigga may even be planning wedding with her .
Exactly. I don't know why nobody is blaming the player (groom). Who knows the kind of lies he must have been telling the lady.
RomanceRe: Side Chick Attends Her Boyfriends' Church Wedding In Her Wedding Gown(video) by poseidon12: 9:38am On Jun 17, 2018
tinktanker:
That's y some times men need some crazy friends for grooms men. This girl for Don dey hospital in 2mins from the time she cross the church gate
So you will be beating somebody in the church? Are you sure you are a Christian? The wedding should be postponed to allow the groom to go sort things out. After all, the officiating priest always asks if anyone has an objection to a wedding before pronouncing a couple husband and wife. The side chick obviously has an objection.
PoliticsRe: Senator Buruji Kashamu Shares 500 Naira As Dividends Of Democracy by poseidon12: 9:27am On Jun 17, 2018
I wonder why this guy is still free and not in the US custody to answer the drugs charges against him.
Christianity EtcRe: How To Read Your Bible Without Getting Confused - Paul Ellis by poseidon12: 9:12am On Jun 17, 2018
Enlightening. Thanks for posting.
BusinessRe: Shoprite Ilorin Shut Down After Massive Crowd Stormed Their Store (Photos) by poseidon12: 9:05am On Jun 17, 2018
TMemos:
Does the overcrowding not happen in Lagos?
Not of this magnitude.
BusinessRe: Shoprite Ilorin Shut Down After Massive Crowd Stormed Their Store (Photos) by poseidon12: 9:02am On Jun 17, 2018
inoki247:
most of dem are jus going dere to Take Pictures or BuY Bread... abi no b d same Shoprite wey we get for Lagos... pipul hardly fill it up in Lagos. well let dem go. i know sum pipul too will b shutting down Saraki ouse for free moni..
Because Lagos has several Shoprite malls in Lagos; and there are other big shops too, like Spar, Park and Shop, etc. You also have the movie theatres and the beaches, of course.
Outside Lagos, one Shoprite outlet is usually the only game in town. That is opportunity for investors right there.
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Projected To Overtake South Africa In Air Power By 2020. by poseidon12: 2:09pm On Jun 16, 2018
SSGN:
How is Britain the architect of Nigeria's mess?
It's all about the amalgamation. Nigeria should never have happened. The British forced together disparate ethnic groups that have very little in common; deep cultural differences.
That is why we need to restructure, to correct the mistake made by the British. But the enemies of progress would not allow that. So we remain stagnant. You can go on dreaming about overtaking South Africa, but it will remain a dream until we correct the structural mistake of the past.
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Projected To Overtake South Africa In Air Power By 2020. by poseidon12: 1:45pm On Jun 16, 2018
Yeah right. We have to first provide the basic necessities like electricity, pipe-borne water and food. Nigeria is no match for South Africa. We should stop indulging in delusion.
PoliticsRe: We Pray You Will Continue To Tolerate Us As Your Children - NASS To Buhari by poseidon12: 9:39am On Jun 16, 2018
This is coming from a Senator? Really sad. Glad the fool is not representing me. Shit hole of a country indeed.
PoliticsRe: Gumsu Abacha Slams Wole Soyinka: Your Hate For My Father Shall Kill You, Mad Cow by poseidon12: 7:50pm On Jun 15, 2018
Gumsu Abacha is a fool, feeding fat on the billions her father stole from Nigeria. She should hide her head in shame.
PoliticsRe: Meet Falmata Abubakar, Shekau’s Mother Speaks On Whereabout Of Boko Haram Leader by poseidon12: 1:08am On Jun 15, 2018
Jesusloveyou:
Terrorist Shekau is dead, and
Terrorist nnamdi kanu is dead.
If they are both alive, I challenge both of them to show face before October 1st. this is the first time the terrorist mother is granting interview and condemning his terrorist son.

But the jobless aggressive lazy idiotic pigs of biafra terrorist parents was supporting their terrorist son to bring down the country in 2mins.
And to bring 2m jobless aggressive lazy idiotic pigs of biafra to Abuja to take over ask rock.
slowpoke, you should change your name to Satan loves you.
CrimeRe: Nigerian Man Shoots His Wife And Daughter Dead In US, Then Commits Suicide by poseidon12: 3:31pm On Jun 13, 2018
MartinCorridon:
RIP to the dead.

If you want to die, kill yourself ONLY and don't decide for others.

This might not be unrelated to the average African man's desire to "dominate" his wife.

The West, U.S. especially favours women. Your wife can cheat on you on your matrimonial bed in a house you bought and still collect 50% of your property in a divorce.

If you wanna form Big Boss, better sit your black ass in Africa.
Not really correct about your wife cheating on you and still collecting 50% of your property. In most States, if you have evidence of your spouse cheating, the spouse will lose the right to collect 50% in a divorce. That is why a spouse that is about to divorce may hire a private detective to catch the other spouse cheating.
CrimeRe: Nigerian Man Shoots His Wife And Daughter Dead In US, Then Commits Suicide by poseidon12: 3:23pm On Jun 13, 2018
Unfortunate. The case of Nigerian men in the US killing their wives is getting out of hand. This is a new trend that has to be tackled by the myriad of Nigerian associations in the US. They should not only concern themselves with just throwing parties, where they eat, drink and show off their latest cars. They need to start looking out for each other by seeking out the ones with family issues with a view to helping with counseling and financial assistance.
TravelRe: Abuja Or Lagos: Which Is More Conducive For Living And Business? by poseidon12: 1:15am On Jun 13, 2018
Which is more conducive for living? Lagos is definitely not good for human habitation. It is not a place for sane people.
But I will consider it better than Abuja for business because of the population and its location.
CrimeRe: Naval Officer Molested By Angry Crowd After Slapping Apprentice In Delta. Photos by poseidon12: 1:09am On Jun 13, 2018
Sulemanial:
NO TRY TO DISGRACE NAVAL OFFICER FOR LAGOS ooo
Keep quiet. Are Naval officers in Lagos Gods? Mobs can beat anybody up anywhere.
CelebritiesRe: Ras Kimono Collapsed At Lagos Airport - His Final Moments by poseidon12: 8:19am On Jun 12, 2018
Unfortunate. If he had made it to the US, he probably would have survived. Any serious health issue in Nigeria constitutes a death sentence. Our hospitals (glorified) generally, are only equipped to treat malaria (and the so called typhoid). Sometimes you wonder if typhoid is the only bacterial infection that exists in Nigeria. We are not serious in Nigeria.

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