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Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by nextstep(m): 10:40pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Belafonte: Funny But seriously, are we saying that responsibility to a woman is dependent on who deflowered her? What's this, 1896? Did she "meet him at home" too? What's good for the goose, etc. All I know is, nobody (especially women) should mention "free sex", as if she's doesn't enjoy the financial benefits that come with having a boyfriend/husband. That money spent over 6-years on outings and urgent 2k, can buy property in some parts. Don't say he had "free" sex... there was an opportunity cost of being with her. |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Ladycewhy(f): 10:41pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Belafonte:I didn't mean it in a derogatory manner. Since you asked what's special about Nigerian women that any man would want to wife them ,I simply directed you to the person who can give you the best answer ,your father. |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Sixfeetbelle: 10:44pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Obaseki500: The entitlement mentality that reeks off of you is suffocating. She denies you sex, as per, it's your right now? She was born to spread leg for you whenever you want it irrespective of her feelings concerning the matter. Okay ooh 1 Like |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by GreaterFuture(m): 10:45pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Ayemileto:Ehen? !! |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by nextstep(m): 10:46pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Belafonte: If that were true, OP won't be disturbing us with this yarn. Obviously what she's doing is working on him... enough to write this tale instead of sleeping. Let's be fair to her: she's likely a nice lady, a good girlfriend for 6 good years. We don't know if OP has even proposed. I mean, a lady approaching 30 is going to start fearing for her future. OP can find another lady today, spend 6 years with her, before deciding to marry. A woman does not have the luxury of time, and who knows, her next boyfriend can also take his time (3-6 years) "getting his finances ready". Not saying one should rush into marriage, but both sides should sit and talk this thing through, though her clock is running out. |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by KanuSE: 10:47pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Nigerians, sex and relationship matters....nawaaa! |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Tzar(m): 10:48pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Guy, what exactly is your problem? God just exposed a wolf in sheep clothing to you and you are still asking questions. She simply wants to entrap you to speed up the marriage. That is too sleezy and manipulative for my liking. From experience, that girl will deny you sex at every flimsy excuse she has. She is of the manipulative type and if you love your sanity...RUN!!! |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Sixfeetbelle: 10:49pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Bola146: Abeg, the mumu that some girls mumu all in the name of relationship pains me greatly. When will they learn? When will they start treating relationships like time bombs, especially for those that wish to get married? Can you imagine this one? Six years later and he's not sure he wants to marry her, but he's busying sexing her and probably running abortions through her yet in his mind, she hasn't attained wifely position. In fact, he's more concerned about her withholding her phone from him than the issue on ground. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Yusufisraelj(m): 10:52pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Ladycewhy: This lady I no go like quarrel with you, your mouth get raw acid OP @Obaseki500 My take on this matter is that from your depositions you sound like Christian and yet you wan fvck. It is well with your soul. However I don't appreciate that fact that she's hiding things from you, my woman use to have access to my phone likewise me, I don't have jack to hide, and I don't do side chick. More so, your lady should get her own space to live, which one una day live under one roof. E no gel, for me that kind arrangement self no go work na she go beg me make I come work. But pls define things and seek the will of God, but not being free with you is red flag, investigate it. |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Zitodaillegal(m): 10:52pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
A well composed, fabricated nd imagined big lie..aniwayz continue dir iz GOD |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Royaldave200(m): 10:52pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
If i had a dollar for every smart thing you say. I’ll be poor. |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by johnnychuks(m): 10:54pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Xenry:don't worry my brother, the 8-digit per annum we keep come as you said and ur marriage we be the best at that time with ur kids, but by paraventure the 8 digit per annum stop coming to you, what will be ur next plan? you will kill all the kids and ur wife and go back to ur single hood and start waiting for 8- digit per annum b4 you move ahead again? don't worry you will see what other See's on the highway before you know that a man dose not decides his future! then you will now go back to ur drawing board to correct ur comment here. I have spoken well for the reasonable ones to comprehend. |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 10:56pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
If she's denying you sex now it means she wants you keep herself till after wedding and I don't see anything wrong with that. as for the locking of phone and the other stuff she does, I kuku no understand that one o |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by jrusky(m): 10:56pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
AlphaLover: Bro thank you. That is why I don't waste my time on post like this. Its like when a primary 3 kid chatting or talking. |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Belafonte(m): 10:56pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
nextstep: op is here because he's a good guy that wants to the right thing but can't because of financial constraints. his woman is behaving strangely and he finds it both weird and unsettling and he's considering continuing the relationship because her behaviour is out of form. his head is telling him to move on, buy his heart(the good guy that he is) is considering the six years he has spent with the babe and he's wondering if he's overreacting, hence this thread. I do not care if she's approaching 969. if she does not know his financial standing or knows but is not understanding enough to be patient till a good enough time, she will make a bad wife and will blackmail this man till his last days on earth. if she has not, after six years, known how to effectively communicate with the man she wants to browbeat into paying her bride price, she does not deserve to get married to him if a woman tries this with me, she's gone. let her carry her punna to another man. she's mad |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Ladycewhy(f): 10:57pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj:Bros ,me ke,I nor like quarrel o. It's like someone asking for directions and I stop and give them directions. Quarrel dey for that one?. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by kapelvej: 10:57pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
cant people simply run away from trouble. Just look at it carefully. what you can not control, you can not control after marriage. |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Mairice125: 10:57pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
See vibes Ayemileto: |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by gaventa: 10:59pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
SEX is not a sin.... that’s what’s the Bible said and the Bible was written according to Jewish and Greek culture. We are Africans!! Stop viewing yourself through the lens of your slave masters. Go and read about Africans provision on ore marital sex. WAKEUP! Your pastors engage in it Cos they know thy truth. Righteousness2: |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by nextstep(m): 10:59pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Belafonte: You've made good points, my brother. Let me go and sleep. |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Mairice125: 10:59pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Man up? SMH is already a Man why tell him otherwise.You opinion is just too useless.is yours anyway dawnomike: |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Belafonte(m): 11:00pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
nextstep: püssy that others had for free is what I will be blackmailed into paying for? . if access to the püssy suddenly becomes dependent on dowry/bride price, I will make it a point of duty NOT to pay for it. the next guy that wants to enter is free to pay before entry and no, this isn't about being in 1986. this is about blackmail. pay a terrorist once and you lay them forever |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by mrkels(m): 11:02pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
1- you have been with her for 6 years and you are still the one initiating sex ? Wow she must be sexy . If you have ever cohabited with a lady you would know that after 3 months you would hardy want to just bang her . If she’s faithful she would always be the one asking for it , if she’s not , then I guess she would be locking her phone and getting it elsewhere . 2 - she just wants you to wife her in my opinion. Don’t fall for that stupid trick . If she’s the real one you want to spend your life with forsaken all others and putting her first and your life at hold , then go for her . If not , lock up and enjoy your life till you are ready to start having children |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Xenry: 11:02pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
johnnychuks:When the money comes, we will invest it in Assets, not Liabilities (like some women). When you do this, the money will never run out and you would always be happy. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Yusufisraelj(m): 11:04pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Ladycewhy: The way you clear my guy doubts no be here, the guy self reason am, come apologize I dobale |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Ladycewhy(f): 11:08pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj:Na one of those "penis people" ,I know his type. If you follow his comments ,you will understand. E get why. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Muhylonaire007: 11:09pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Jodha: When you can type "YOU" erroneously as "YHU" what will it take you to type the correct spelling? Are they not 3 letter words? It's annoying you even spelt YOU'RE as YHURE.... O ya weere gan o |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by johnnychuks(m): 11:12pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Xenry:yes, you are right bro, but it's God that decide. |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by WeRblessed(f): 11:13pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Say what?? Did I hear you say 6 years of dating? My brother she is done. In fact, she is thinking about inviting you for her wedding already. If she was your wife, I would have known what to say, but bro, how could she deny you something that is never yours. To avoid such, marry her next week. How gutsy are you, to say, 'she deny me sex'. Please stop it already. You are not her husband! 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
You are a mumu man somebody dey shine her congo you come nairaland come dey speak big grammar chase her away |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Xenry: 11:17pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
johnnychuks:Exactly! It's all in God's hands. I saw one video today that made me realize that our plans for the future won't stop or prevent what God has written about us to come true. God is still in control! 1 Like
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Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Zenithpeak(m): 11:21pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Obaseki500: Tell her to move out of your house and relocate to her father's house until you are able to perfect the wedding plans and officially have her as your legitimate wife.... Lobatan! What is the needless confusion and headache all about. To hell with her and her useless phone. 2 Likes |
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