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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Dondominion: 1:04pm On Mar 26, 2021
HappyCanadian:
Hey guys,

I met this Canadian girl online we started talking, all was casual till we vibed well and she developed massive love for me. Each day she confesses how she liked me, think about me and all that. The thing is that she is taking it too far thinking we are dating or maybe I will marry her but I never asked her out we have just been friends.

The girl respects me, does anything I asked her and even promised to assist bring any member of my family to Canada don't know if she is serious though.

But the thing is that I have my own spec when it comes to girls and don't intend marrying her..

Please how do I leave her without her getting hurt, as it seems am trapped cry cry

Note: I never asked her out.. attached is a message she just sent now and I laughed..
.. What is your spec?. Nonsense, you better use her to climb up
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by biggie73(m): 1:08pm On Mar 26, 2021
Don't leave her. If you leave her,you will regret it. If you don't, you will still regret it.
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Mariangeles(f): 1:08pm On Mar 26, 2021
YourMajesty:
You take things too serious, he has dropped his own opinion, it is now left for the Op to either accept or reject it... No need for the insult and swear words.

That advice, as simple as it may seem, could be very detrimental to someone's mental and emotional health.

Oh! ...and those weren't swear words, they were just his words returned back to him.

"Do to others whatever you wish for yourself"
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by valentineuwakwe(m): 1:08pm On Mar 26, 2021
don't start what you can't finish and run to social media to ask for advice....
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Eastcaostboy: 1:09pm On Mar 26, 2021
Xenry:
Always run from those girls that use to act as if you guys are dating even though you haven't asked her out, they usually crave for attention and are always distractive (talking from experience).
Never be taken away by a girl's loyalty at first because most girls are actresses and they retire when they get married. (I've seen it happen.)
You can't leave most girls without making them feel bad. You can't be an ex and still be friends with her (it rarely happens). Just tell her the real deal and avoid her, at first she's gonna make it look like you are hurting her, but don't give a fvck because women have been scattering men's future from the beginning of ages. Na so Eve take scatter Adam's future. So you better RUN!!
straight up talk. You said all my negga! Mafia music is all we dance
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by YourMajesty(m): 1:13pm On Mar 26, 2021
Mariangeles:


That advice, as simple as it may seem, could be very detrimental to someone's mental and emotional health.

Oh! ...and those weren't swear words, they were just his words returned back to him.

"Do to others whatever you wish for yourself"
Was it necessary to call him a coward? Anyway, that's how you guys behave in this section. Take care.

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Eastcaostboy: 1:13pm On Mar 26, 2021
HappyCanadian:

cry It's not a laughing matter.. I need help bro
Go get head dude. You've already said how to leave her all by yourself, you are the one making jokes on yourself
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Mariangeles(f): 1:14pm On Mar 26, 2021
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seanwilliam:
shut up ode!.


The best way is to ghost her or to tell her straight forward. If una one dumb a man, una no Dey look uche face but if the table is turned, una go Dey bring emotions to table ..




In as much as The op never asked her out , he can go ahead and dumb her.. even if he asked her out , sometimes one can get tired of love .. it’s better to say the truth and get hurt than to Dey lie and wasting time ...
[/s]

I don't have your time yet.

Go learn and apply the appropriate words first.
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Chigold101(m): 1:15pm On Mar 26, 2021
HRHQueenPhil:
Since u have never asked her out, continue being friends with her and let's see if with time, u will get to like her..or is there another woman u are online with?
angry
Biko must it online...
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Daytonbale: 1:17pm On Mar 26, 2021
HappyCanadian:
Hey guys,

I met this Canadian girl online we started talking, all was casual till we vibed well and she developed massive love for me. Each day she confesses how she liked me, think about me and all that. The thing is that she is taking it too far thinking we are dating or maybe I will marry her but I never asked her out we have just been friends.

The girl respects me, does anything I asked her and even promised to assist bring any member of my family to Canada don't know if she is serious though.

But the thing is that I have my own spec when it comes to girls and don't intend marrying her..

Please how do I leave her without her getting hurt, as it seems am trapped cry cry

Note: I never asked her out.. attached is a message she just sent now and I laughed..
Bros please which site did you meet her , am interested let me go and find my own woman there , am very serious
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Eastcaostboy: 1:18pm On Mar 26, 2021
[quote author=HappyCanadian post=100215765]
So you mean I shud tell her the real deal shocked I don't want her depressed.. no other way?[/qu] No don't tell her the real deal tell that to yourself. You're a job
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Mariangeles(f): 1:18pm On Mar 26, 2021
YourMajesty:
Was it necessary to call him a coward? Anyway, that's how you guys behave in this section. Take care.

Do you ghost people?

Ghosters are best described as weaklings or cowards.

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by KidDarkness(m): 1:19pm On Mar 26, 2021
aroundtheearth:
Mtcheew. I don't even know what to say.
If you go around the world in 80 days, then you would know what to say
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by YourMajesty(m): 1:20pm On Mar 26, 2021
Mariangeles:


Do you ghost people?

Ghosters are best described as weaklings or cowards.
At one point in your life, you have ghosted someone, so, you're definitely saying that you're a weakling and a coward for doing so. Madam, I am not here to argue abeg, I just pointed out something's in your reply to him. Enjoy your section.
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Xenry: 1:22pm On Mar 26, 2021
Eastcaostboy:
straight up talk. You said all my negga! Mafia music is all we dance
Na so!!! cool

Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Hotice085: 1:26pm On Mar 26, 2021
technicallyrich:
What most guys don't know is that their girlfriend is still with them because they have not found someone better than them.
Even if they see is that person Willing to take them seriously.
I Bleep different girls every week and most beg me to take them seriously,that they will gladly dump their boyfriend's for me.
Of cause why won't they,a cute,rich guy from the richest,bravest and strongest black tribe on Earth

Now imagine if I m interested.
Finally foreign use goods are always better than Nigerian use.these also include girls.
That Canadian baby mama is far more better,sweeter and even tighter with more home training than an average girl in these zoo.
.

From ya grand mother to ya sisters all of them
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Mariangeles(f): 1:31pm On Mar 26, 2021
YourMajesty:
At one point in your life, you have ghosted someone, so, you're definitely saying that you're a weakling and a coward for doing so. Madam, I am not here to argue abeg, I just pointed out something's in your reply to him. Enjoy your section.

If by ghosting you mean not replying someone's messages at least, then no, I'll tell you whatever it is I should tell you.

Cowardice makes me uneasy. Truth puts me at ease. Thanks.

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by frozen70(f): 1:31pm On Mar 26, 2021
Naijaepic:

This opinion does not apply to professional chef, bros
grin grin grin


You are free to give him the best advice not reacting on mine

Op understands what I mean
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by folks4luv(f): 1:32pm On Mar 26, 2021
Have you been sleeping with her?
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by YourMajesty(m): 1:35pm On Mar 26, 2021
Mariangeles:


If by ghosting you mean not replying someone's messages at least, then no, I'll tell you whatever it is I should tell you.

Cowardice makes me uneasy. Truth puts me at ease. Thanks.
You're now twisting everything to suite your narrative.

I said, at one point in your life, you have ghosted someone and here you are shifting goalpost and explaining what you were not asked about replying someone's messages.


Enjoy your fight with him, you just prove that you're also an hypocrite.

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by lolipopandy(f): 1:36pm On Mar 26, 2021
Just tell her and stop leading her on undecided
HappyCanadian:
Hey guys,

I met this Canadian girl online we started talking, all was casual till we vibed well and she developed massive love for me. Each day she confesses how she liked me, think about me and all that. The thing is that she is taking it too far thinking we are dating or maybe I will marry her but I never asked her out we have just been friends.

The girl respects me, does anything I asked her and even promised to assist bring any member of my family to Canada don't know if she is serious though.

But the thing is that I have my own spec when it comes to girls and don't intend marrying her..

Please how do I leave her without her getting hurt, as it seems am trapped cry cry

Note: I never asked her out.. attached is a message she just sent now and I laughed..
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by rita25(f): 1:36pm On Mar 26, 2021
please agree and tell her am your family member let her process for me when i come i will hook her up with my brother she will forget you and then my brother too can enter canada...............pls dont dull
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by victorazy(m): 1:38pm On Mar 26, 2021
HappyCanadian:
Hey guys,

I met this Canadian girl online we started talking, all was casual till we vibed well and she developed massive love for me. Each day she confesses how she liked me, think about me and all that. The thing is that she is taking it too far thinking we are dating or maybe I will marry her but I never asked her out we have just been friends.

The girl respects me, does anything I asked her and even promised to assist bring any member of my family to Canada don't know if she is serious though.

But the thing is that I have my own spec when it comes to girls and don't intend marrying her..

Please how do I leave her without her getting hurt, as it seems am trapped cry cry

Note: I never asked her out.. attached is a message she just sent now and I laughed..

Plz submit my name as family member
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Mariangeles(f): 1:44pm On Mar 26, 2021
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YourMajesty:
You're now twisting everything to suite your narrative.

I said, at one point in your life, you have ghosted someone and here you are shifting goalpost and explaining what you were not asked about replying someone's messages.


Enjoy your fight with him, you just prove that you're also an hypocrite.
[/s]

Stop ghosting people! Simple!

Oh! It's a hypocrite, and not an hypocrite , and no, I'm not one.

Have yourself a good day.
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by YourMajesty(m): 1:49pm On Mar 26, 2021
Mariangeles:
[s][/s]

Stop ghosting people! Simple!

Oh! It's a hypocrite, and not an hypocrite , and no, I'm not one.

Have yourself a good day.
You are one, a bittered hypocrite at that and equally a coward as you have ghosted someone at one point.

No hard feelings.

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Powersurge: 1:50pm On Mar 26, 2021
Xenry:
Always run from those girls that use to act as if you guys are dating even though you haven't asked her out, they usually crave for attention and are always distractive (talking from experience).
Never be taken away by a girl's loyalty at first because most girls are actresses and they retire when they get married. (I've seen it happen.)
You can't leave most girls without making them feel bad. You can't be an ex and still be friends with her (it rarely happens). Just tell her the real deal and avoid her, at first she's gonna make it look like you are hurting her, but don't give a fvck because toxic women have been scattering men's future from the beginning of ages. Na so Eve take scatter Adam's future. So you better RUN!!


bros love dey scarce o. na wetin i fit tell you be dt. dey find spec up and down.
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by deavicky(m): 2:00pm On Mar 26, 2021
HappyCanadian:

cry It's not a laughing matter.. I need help bro
manage her nah, what is ur problem.
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Mariangeles(f): 2:01pm On Mar 26, 2021
YourMajesty:
You are one, a bittered hypocrite at that and equally a coward as you have ghosted someone at one point.

No hard feelings.

Let it go oooo! Hapu okwu a! grin

It'll do your state of mind and conscience some good.

Yeah. Your feelings are definitely hard!
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by adebayo987: 2:06pm On Mar 26, 2021
HappyCanadian:
Hey guys,

I met this Canadian girl online we started talking, all was casual till we vibed well and she developed massive love for me. Each day she confesses how she liked me, think about me and all that. The thing is that she is taking it too far thinking we are dating or maybe I will marry her but I never asked her out we have just been friends.

The girl respects me, does anything I asked her and even promised to assist bring any member of my family to Canada don't know if she is serious though.

But the thing is that I have my own spec when it comes to girls and don't intend marrying her..

Please how do I leave her without her getting hurt, as it seems am trapped cry cry

Note: I never asked her out.. attached is a message she just sent now and I laughed..
give me her contact... I'll take it from here!
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by HRHQueenPhil(f): 2:19pm On Mar 26, 2021
Chigold101:

angry
Biko must it online...
grin grin grin grin grin grin ok, offline lover
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by omoadeleye(m): 2:21pm On Mar 26, 2021
HappyCanadian:
Hey guys,

I met this Canadian girl online we started talking, all was casual till we vibed well and she developed massive love for me. Each day she confesses how she liked me, think about me and all that. The thing is that she is taking it too far thinking we are dating or maybe I will marry her but I never asked her out we have just been friends.

The girl respects me, does anything I asked her and even promised to assist bring any member of my family to Canada don't know if she is serious though.

But the thing is that I have my own spec when it comes to girls and don't intend marrying her..

Please how do I leave her without her getting hurt, as it seems am trapped cry cry

Note: I never asked her out.. attached is a message she just sent now and I laughed..


maybe you should refer her to me.

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