Mooreleak247:
Egbami what is this one saying. How do u leave her? Do u av her in the first place? She's not even in naija that. Will u keep quiet and and find something more serious to do with ur life.

But wait she's a Canadian and ready to do anything for u. Hmmm... And u still want to leave her? Issokay! U must be enjoying all the problems and wahalas here. Next.....

Did it cross your mind that the guy is also in Canada?

The thing is love happens. Single mom or not. You didn't tell us if you feel the same way for her, as in do you like the gist vibes. What does she do and do you think if you give her a chance you'll be happy. Do you guys engage in productive discussion or is just "can I come over". You haven't asked her out yet, but have you had something do with her?

Are you currently in a relationship, which to be is the most difficult part. If you are not yet, you can give it a trial. Don't you ever succumb to love based on the promise of taking your family member abroad. If love wants to happen, let it happen on a neutral grounds. You've got yourself a rare friend don't lose her in a hurry. I wish you can contact me personally so we talk

HappyCanadian:
Hey guys,

I met this Canadian girl online we started talking, all was casual till we vibed well and she developed massive love for me. Each day she confesses how she liked me, think about me and all that. The thing is that she is taking it too far thinking we are dating or maybe I will marry her but I never asked her out we have just been friends.

The girl respects me, does anything I asked her and even promised to assist bring any member of my family to Canada don't know if she is serious though.

But the thing is that I have my own spec when it comes to girls and don't intend marrying her..

Please how do I leave her without her getting hurt, as it seems am trapped

Note: I never asked her out.. attached is a message she just sent now and I laughed..

What is your reason for wanting out?

Guy, marriage should be done out of love not out of pity. U marry somebody you can be with for the rest of your life.... Pls make no mistake. Tell her how you feel and I hope she will be mature enough to understand. Wish you well.

HappyCanadian:

It's not a laughing matter.. I need help bro

Whatever you do, don't break the girl's heart.

There are people who are begging God for her type of physique, love and devotion.

Your response (s) to her chat keeps leading her on. The screenshot you added to your post is a good example. She said she missed and thought of you all day instead of you to just say thanks or something formal you dropped a love emoji. Again, you mentioned that she always oblige your request, please mind the kind of favour you request for.

Uncle since you are not interested just mind the way you response to her chat. There is no where it's written you must woo a lady who is already a friend.

SavageResponse:



Just go ahead and ghost her!

Advice from a lily livered coward!

May you be ghosted by someone you really care about when you least expect, then you'll learn never to give such a wicked advice again!

Op!

U LIAR TOO MUCH. JUST DEY COMPOSE STORY FOR NAIRALAND.

HappyCanadian:
Hey guys,

I met this Canadian girl online we started talking, all was casual till we vibed well and she developed massive love for me. Each day she confesses how she liked me, think about me and all that. The thing is that she is taking it too far thinking we are dating or maybe I will marry her but I never asked her out we have just been friends.

The girl respects me, does anything I asked her and even promised to assist bring any member of my family to Canada don't know if she is serious though.

But the thing is that I have my own spec when it comes to girls and don't intend marrying her..

Please how do I leave her without her getting hurt, as it seems am trapped

Note: I never asked her out.. attached is a message she just sent now and I laughed..

Are you sure that your Canadian single mom is not in kwara state or Edo?

HappyCanadian:
Hey guys,

I met this Canadian girl online we started talking, all was casual till we vibed well and she developed massive love for me. Each day she confesses how she liked me, think about me and all that. The thing is that she is taking it too far thinking we are dating or maybe I will marry her but I never asked her out we have just been friends.

The girl respects me, does anything I asked her and even promised to assist bring any member of my family to Canada don't know if she is serious though.

But the thing is that I have my own spec when it comes to girls and don't intend marrying her..

Please how do I leave her without her getting hurt, as it seems am trapped

Note: I never asked her out.. attached is a message she just sent now and I laughed..

Make it known to her that, you like her and don't intend to go into love affairs with her

Meaning, don't demand from her and don't expect any favors from her

A food you will not eat, do t taste it

HappyCanadian:

If I start ghosting her she begins to complain that am trying to avoid her

Don't ghost her.
Just tell her the truth. Truth will always be the best option.

acesboy:
why am I finding this your respond hilarious

acesboy:
why am I finding this your respond hilarious

Paulpaulpaul:


If you're truly in Canada, you are in a deep shit if you're not careful. Since you have been enjoying her company and she is equally enjoying yours, she can sue you. Girlfriends can sue their boyfriends in Canada for "time wasting". You will be forced to care for her for life, . You better be tactical before your village people win you in away match.

Don't be aggressive in putting her away, all you need now is tact. Feminist Coven are the heads of Canadian Judiciary; D

why am I finding this your respond hilarious

Guy hear me well.

If you do not intend to be serious with her let her know now. She accepts a non comittted friendship or she waka. If you string her on, telling her you love her when you dont...Lord help you. Women can act really crazy when they feel they have been used and dumped

Uganda!!!!

send her info, I will help you get someone to distract her, and you can be free of that burden.

HappyCanadian:
Hey guys,

I met this Canadian girl online we started talking, all was casual till we vibed well and she developed massive love for me. Each day she confesses how she liked me, think about me and all that. The thing is that she is taking it too far thinking we are dating or maybe I will marry her but I never asked her out we have just been friends.

The girl respects me, does anything I asked her and even promised to assist bring any member of my family to Canada don't know if she is serious though.

But the thing is that I have my own spec when it comes to girls and don't intend marrying her..

Please how do I leave her without her getting hurt, as it seems am trapped

Note: I never asked her out.. attached is a message she just sent now and I laughed..

If she’s not ur spec what are u doing with her?

If u just want frnds or benefits u might be in for another ride as she seems to be the stuck up and clingy type. She won’t let u get away easily unless ure a bad boy who can handle such situations bt Ure clearly not a bad boy she will eat u up. Lolz

My advice find away to act uninterested and slow her down she’s coming on to fast. When she slows down u can both go normal. Unless she’s crazy.

HappyCanadian:
Hey guys,

I met this Canadian girl online we started talking, all was casual till we vibed well and she developed massive love for me. Each day she confesses how she liked me, think about me and all that. The thing is that she is taking it too far thinking we are dating or maybe I will marry her but I never asked her out we have just been friends.

The girl respects me, does anything I asked her and even promised to assist bring any member of my family to Canada don't know if she is serious though.

But the thing is that I have my own spec when it comes to girls and don't intend marrying her..

Please how do I leave her without her getting hurt, as it seems am trapped

Note: I never asked her out.. attached is a message she just sent now and I laughed..

Have you slept with her?

Mariangeles:


Advice from a lily livered coward!

May you be ghosted by someone you really care about when you least expect, then you'll learn never to give such a wicked advice again!

You take things too serious, he has dropped his own opinion, it is now left for the Op to either accept or reject it... No need for the insult and swear words.

quentin06:
[s]Always willing to give Nigerians a bad name, you re dating this woman because you want to use her to perfect your citizenship.

You re the reason why many single mothers are wicked, you suck.

Hope she discovers your true intention and rips out your guts[/s][s][/s].

Your are yarning dust.. nothing about perfecting citizenship here she is the one crushing and wants marriage not me.. I am comfortable so reason before you talk pls

Tabletuner:


Have you slept with her?

We really get close so well but she is taking things like marriage end which I don't want

Ladylite:


What site did you meet her

On a dating site

[quote author=Beckham14 post=100215291]God has literally prepared a table for you in the presence of your enemies (Village people) but you say you wan prepare the table for yourself..


Look here bro, a single mom in Canada is better more preferable than most Nigeria girls.

Link me up abeg.

I tell you Bro, some people no just get sense and is like he's enjoying the suffering here, can u imagine big opportunity and he's doing simeh simeh oya dey here na and continue ur suffering.. I tell you Bro who get head no get cap and who get cap no get head truly life no balance.....

Mtcheew. I don't even know what to say.

This opinion does not apply to professional chef, bros

frozen70:

A food you will not eat, do t taste it

realray:

Bros am not suffering at all..

Tell her you live with your Nigerian girlfriend who is an introvert and that you're taking her (Nigerian girlfriend of course) to Miyakis dojo. Where she's receiving her black belt in taekwondo award. �

Mariangeles:


Advice from a lily livered coward!

May you be ghosted by someone you really care about when you least expect, then you'll learn never to give such a wicked advice again!

shut up ode!.


The best way is to ghost her or to tell her straight forward. If una one dumb a man, una no Dey look uche face but if the table is turned, una go Dey bring emotions to table ..




In as much as The op never asked her out , he can go ahead and dumb her.. even if he asked her out , sometimes one can get tired of love .. it’s better to say the truth and get hurt than to Dey lie and wasting time ...

The choice is urs

realray:
. I tell you Bro, some people no just get sense and is like he's enjoying the suffering here, can u imagine big opportunity and he's doing simeh simeh oya dey here na and continue ur suffering.. I tell you Bro who get head no get cap and who get cap no get head truly life no balance.....

Bro no be every body Dey suffer for naija here o .. and why would a man with working brain see marrying a foreign woman as an escape route from poverty

Marriage should be based on who u desire.. dem no Dey marry outta pity.. and u see those foreign women are smarter coupled with the fact that the law protects them . U can’t use and dumb them anyhow .. it’s better not to start wetin u no fit finish