Muhylonaire007:


With the rising number of Snapchat girls and immorality at large, I can't lose this one bro, na when you need wife material you go know say true true women plenty but wetin you need no dey among them.
Don't let the numbers deceive you, wife material scarce

I feel ya on this one

You already answered your question

Guy,,,,no be swear o, you may never get the kind of job you desire in another extra 2 years, makes 4years POST NYSC. or sincerely, you may never get a good job paying job at all, meaning you may need to create a business, hence, why not start that business right away?, start small. why waste 2 years of your life expecting a good job? when your dad is not very connected abi you no be Nigerian ni?. I pity that girl that is desperate to have you, because you seem more like a "BOMB" waiting to explode. the average young man in Nigeria knows better, NO JOB ANYWHERE.

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Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

@op abeg no reason am at all..... Even if you get job today try save atleast for 1yr -2yr before you reason any marriage. Or just look for 100k and start selling phone accessories or pos. Love is sweet oo but when money enters love is sweeter....abeg look for money first and save a huge amount b4 u reason any marriage.

bigpicture001:
Wish it was me and my ex.... Would have gladly obliged... But d gal is still in a fantasy world

I think say na only me jam this kind "fantasy gal"

She stil want to slay..
I called dem d slay queen... Utoil now she de slay even at 32..
May God help us ooo

Go and listen to lost ones by Jcole. I will support any decision you decide to take after listening to the song.

Papertrails:


God forbid and I forbid it too.

can't stop laughing

She is in love, you never can't tell what will happen

What I can see there, is that behind her demands,there is a strong pressure from her family to marry someone else if you are not ready now and she doesn’t want to loose you or she said so because she doesn’t want to loose you to another lady later in future.

O'l boy no daran o, tell your babe to calm down men like to 'fire" but e suppose make sense. By God's grace youwill be ok economically very soon then nobody will tell you the next step. It is well with you bro

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

Run away from that girl bro she's trying to scatter your life

Drsnives:


I foresee your prophecy backfiring to your household because nothing concern you


This I have seen. Fool

I foresee your prophecy backfiring to your household because nothing concern you.


This I have seen. Fool

Do u reallly mean, U finished NYSC since U are still looking for Job.....? where u keep the Job? haven't u being in Nigeria or or social medial to know that Job is not what u have to wait for?

Meh.... Stand up... go and start business of your choice... if along the line you get your long dreamed Job, Fine and good... if not u prosper in your bz.

about the Girl... Is she working or bz? dependent or not? liability or not?
Note, U as a man u can't depend on woman's income, else there will be exchange gender. Do not listen to her, it would have being better she pushes u to work and make money rather than getting her pregnant. by this alone she seems irresponsible: how on earth will u feed her and baby... Hope U are not talking about secondary sch girls u caught during service? Guy be wise..... Get something doing fast.. then go for marriage if she is still avaible and yours...

Thus is what lazy females do, get pregnant to trap the man. They just don’t know, babies can’t keep a man. Just like having an ass & titty can’t keep a man

playapayaski:


Except u are lazy, totally helpless and not motivated.. and except she's totally dependent on u too then don't. 9 fuckingggg months is a long time to fix up at least 120k. Thing is we worry too much about what we can't get while neglecting what's right in front of us.
Non of those fuckstards rulling us now went to private uni, d president don't even have a degree. But nowadays we kill ourselves to send our children to 500k schools which don't guarantee intelligence and smartness to that child.. do as ur hand reach while working for better, love yours and take risks. That's what makes u human, try or fail but don't stay stagnant. Ur choice bro

Bro. the president actually has an NDA degree

With all these many advice now, na which one oga go come choose

how old is she?

Don't Bro... It's a F**king Trap.

samwillyco1:


Good advice but risky.

I am in similar situation but just trying to set up a small business and guys that have made it are disturbing my girl too much for marriage, and I don't want to loose her

Lol..but why would you wanna rush into marriage coz some other guys are pressuring your babe? To me thats senseless and unwise.if i were u,I would tell her to either wait till am ready or go with whom ever is pressuring her into marriage.you would easily know if she loves u truely through her response...Never marry a lady who doesn't love u as much as u do

Happy2020:
Thus is what lazy females do, get pregnant to trap the man. They just don’t know, babies can’t keep a man. Just like having an ass & titty can’t keep a man

Lol..well said thats why there are increasing numbers of single mothers out there.

Mcslize:
Papertrails, you've been dating her for 3yrs, been wanting you to get her pregnant or come and see her people. Seems like a girl I know and once dated last year.

She still disturbed me to get her pregnant. But as the real man that I am, I knew it's the thing that is sweeting her that is making her say all those bullshits. Give you belle. I dey craze?

She has been dating her boyfriend for 3yrs. She is been desperate to have a baby. She is between 24 to 27yrs.

Op who knows whether she is the same girl I once dated.

She might be the one. I won't disclose other info. But if she is the one I once dated then you are on long thing.

Bro seems like your A game is top notch! I have been following you and observing your comments about relationship issues. Can you be able to give boys some tutorials on how you make them fingerlings fall for you?

javaRookie:

Bro seems like your A game is top notch! I have been following you and observing your comments about relationship issues. Can you be able to give boys some tutorials on how you make them fingerlings fall for you?

lol! It's not a rocket science though. It's just the way I relate with them. From the get go, I don't act all official. Thus, I playfully flirt with them, calling them sweet names. It makes them open up and come out of their shells.

I make them feel free and comfortable to discuss deeper things to the extent of discussing even things they won't ordinarily discuss with their close friends or family members. I immediately start acting like a potential boyfriend from the get go.

Yes, you don't need to ask a girl out before being your girl. From the way you relate with her, calling her pet names and flowing with her, using future projection telling her how many babies she will born for you and all those sorts of playful things make them like you and get addicted to you as a guy. When you do all of that, she is already dating you in her mind. Use chat to your advantage.

When they notice this open mindedness, they adapt instantly.

Currently, I have one that is already in love. She is already asking me mutual questions. But I am still yet to invite her over.

Mcslize:


lol! It's not a rocket science though. It's just the way I relate with them. From the get go, I don't act all official. Thus, I playfully flirt with them, calling them sweet names. It makes them open up and come out of their shells.

I make them feel free and comfortable to discuss deeper things to the extent of discussing even things they won't ordinarily discuss with their close friends or family members. I immediately start acting like a potential boyfriend from the get go.

Yes, you don't need to ask a girl out before being your girl. From the way you relate with her, calling her pet names and flowing with her, using future projection telling her how many babies she will born for you and all those sorts of playful things make them like you and get addicted to you as a guy. When you do all of that, she is already dating you in her mind. Use chat to your advantage.

When they notice this open mindedness, they adapt instantly.

Currently, I have one that is already in love. She is already asking me mutual questions. But I am still yet to invite her over.

Ma nigga....

Mcslize:


lol! It's not a rocket science though. It's just the way I relate with them. From the get go, I don't act all official. Thus, I playfully flirt with them, calling them sweet names. It makes them open up and come out of their shells.

I make them feel free and comfortable to discuss deeper things to the extent of discussing even things they won't ordinarily discuss with their close friends or family members. I immediately start acting like a potential boyfriend from the get go.

Yes, you don't need to ask a girl out before being your girl. From the way you relate with her, calling her pet names and flowing with her, using future projection telling her how many babies she will born for you and all those sorts of playful things make them like you and get addicted to you as a guy. When you do all of that, she is already dating you in her mind. Use chat to your advantage.

When they notice this open mindedness, they adapt instantly.

Currently, I have one that is already in love. She is already asking me mutual questions. But I am still yet to invite her over.

Okay, so the key is just act like the boyfriend.
Nice tip.

javaRookie:


Okay, so the key is just act like the boyfriend.
Nice tip.

Exactly. Act like her boyfriend and flirt with her a couple of times here and there. Get to know her by asking petty questions about family, her interests, best foods while looking for loophole to throw some flirty gestures here and there. Before you know it, she is already getting addicted to you.

Here is an example of where I was flirting with one of my female friends.

Papertrails:


Ma nigga....

I greet you.

Mcslize:


I greet you.

No be small thing o, babe want to tie me down....

Papertrails:


No be small thing o, babe want to tie me down....

That's serious. What's she telling you?

Mcslize:


That's serious. What's she telling you?

I am the op na, she is saying I should come Nd see her people or get her pregnant

Mcslize:


Exactly. Act like her boyfriend and flirt with her a couple of times here and there. Get to know her by asking petty questions about family, her interests, best foods while looking for loophole to throw some flirty gestures here and there. Before you know it, she is already getting addicted to you.

Here is an example of where I was flirting with one of my female friends.

Oshey!!! Bad guy.

Papertrails:


I am the op na, she is saying I should come Nd see her people or get her pregnant

If you are not ready, just tell her she should be patient till you are financially buoyant and well convinced to settle down.