Before you criticise him calling him broke, it would have made sense if you and your family helped by looking for a job for him, then if he refuses to perform, then you can have the moral audacity to call him names and assume he is of no good.

If your sister loves him, she would be more happier in his hands than someone that doesn't connect with her soul, and only satisfy her material needs. Topics like these demotivate men and makes women nothing but people who are only with a man for the good times, nothing more.

orohbiro:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.

And what if this new guy ends up loosing his job?
Besides what makes u think the former guy is comfortable with his state of joblessness.

orohbiro:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.

OP is hoping and looking forward to lean on a rich in-law
My friend go find work do

orohbiro:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.

Madam
Go and sit down, your sister ain't a kid not to know what's good for her.


Imagine if someone is telling you the person you love dearly isn't good for you cux the person is facing life challenge.

That guy phase in life isn't permanent and your sister knows that, so let her be.


Have you thought what if that other guy is concealing his real character just to win over all of you.

@Op, this is why humans like yourself are the most folish and inhuman animals on earth. You are a leech, a more wicked specie of parasite, a wicked person. If the new guy loses his job what happens then? If the broke guy according to you lands a fortune tomorrow, will his seriousness show? Gold diggers everywhere. Mind your business man. Her happiness is where her heart is.

You are a fool and an idiot to address some one as broke guy thunder fire you there don't worry u will taste what that guy is going through now. You lack fear of God if not u won't call some one a broke guy.

felixzo1:
if the new guy losses his job, what happens

You don't have to remind them about this, they have got everything perfectly figured out and moreover the future is still female for them..


I look at the post and laugh in Mogadishu

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felixzo1:
if the new guy losses his job, what happens

He becomes a broke guy.

[quote author=orohbiro post=101405710]Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.[/quote

He is broke but naturally endowed.ur sis can confirm.rich guy not endowed.guy grow up]

Op please ignore the stupid advice from bitter poverty stricken males on this thread, Nigeria is just to hard for anyone to marry a broke parasite, nothing like marry him then e go better in future, many people who married for e go better are still struggling to survive years later. Trust me if she marries him now, whatever love she thinks she has for him will wilt and die when she has to constantly carry the stress of providing, and trust Nigerian men, the husband will not humble himself even if she is the one feeding him, she will e playing role of submitter and breadwinner.


Just ignore the frustrated males on this forum, they hate females and will give you advice that will destroy your life. Men are busy looking for hardworking babes with jobs to marry but they will tell women to put up with broke guys.

Nonsense

MufasaLion:


You're just an entitled jobless nut!

Are you also broke like the said guy? Because the way you're taking it so personal

Lol

Karleb:




The OP will marry his sister.

No JOY whatsoever...

Well if you don't get Redpilled by these then i guess. Things like this is expected that's why you own nobody and you put yourself first all the time. Cus ppl are trash, selfish and unappreciative

You better don't put your sister in a bad position that would make her hate you for the rest of her life, when the broke guy had hus job did he or did he not take good care of your sister. Better mind your own business and stay the Bleep out of your sister's. You too better be careful not to fall into yahoo boys trap. All that glitter is not gold

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The guy is a fool

orohbiro:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.

So because he lost his job and is broke you consider him a failure right? Why do i get the feeling you hate him for other reasons and please what responsibility do you offer in your home? Now what matters more is your sister's happiness. Go get a man and stop tatafo. I bet he was nice to your sis while he was working and she appreciates that unlike your kind. Anyway, the new guy should do what he can to win your sister's heart but i think she needs to have a career conversation with the 'jobless guy' to ascertain how serious he is with her. 9ja don cast and e no easy for anyone. Even a beggar has plan but e get k leg.

felixzo1:
if the new guy losses his job, what happens

If the guy lost his job, it is obvious that this guy has some shame on his face, unlike the other guy who has been eating in the lady's house for 2 years because he lost his job. . ..

I can't do that....the guy is indeed a parasite....probably, he may have Jazzed this innocent sister so that she keeps on feeding him till death do her part...it is not ordinary....hardly can you find a lady feeding a guy for that long time except their is Jazz involved...

Your sister is a bad luck ...if she enters the current man now, the man will lost his job and you will still come back to us on nairaland for advise, then the other man (Your own so called parasite now) would have found a well paying job, immediately he leaves your sister.

Take note of this and thank me later !

I had witnessed a similar story like yours, in this case she cooks and jumps their fence at 10pm -1am midnight to give her boyfriend food and this happened for more than 5yrs.
In 2020 the guy became a millionaire, now the family that hated him now sees him like Adenuga. The only difference in both story is that she didn't have a stupid sister like you, moreover she was the only girl.
I will advise you mind your business because she knew what the guy did for her when he had his job. For your information securing a job in Nigeria is like getting an approved U.S Visa.
You should be happy that the guy doesn't see your sister as the cause of his ill fate.

Please are you from Abriba,in Abia State ?
My Igbo friend once told me their girls,parents love money more than their life.
They frustrated my guy after he lost his job.
I advised him it may not be all,but he said it runs in their blood,all of them.
Someone who is not from that place,should tell me more.
I want to know the part of Igbo I will marry,cos I love Igbo girls.

orohbiro:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.

You are but a greedy sister.
The guy lost his job and for two years he could not find another job. The other guy is Rich he has his own house. Bla bla bla.

You said if your sister marries the broke guy she will suffer. Eeehn!
But she won't suffer because the other guy is comfortable.

You think it's money that makes people happy. What if the rich guy is a woman beater? What if he will be the one to end your sister's life in her prime with serious beatings. Abi you don't hear such stories.

What if the broke guy gets a job again and becomes wealthy? Or you think it's not possible?

You are only greedy thinking you look out for your sister. With your selfish concern, I hope you won't ruin your sister's life.

My nephew was jilted by his fiance because he was homeless and struggling and less than two years he became rich to the envy of the lady that left him. He now has a good house and two cars. I heard days ago he just bought another car making three.

What are your reaction when the road was good for the guy?

Women and money are just like Siamese twins.


To my fellow men out there, please stay loyal to the money. It will never leave or forsake you unless you have bad money habits.

It looks like your sister has bad luck. The new guy better be careful and prayerful.

But this one that you are sounding like your sister's manager, hope all is well?

orohbiro:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.

There only area I am not comfortable with is that area where you say the guy come to your house to eat, no human being can say he feeds, only God feeds. So never you say that again, know one knows what will happen in the next few minutes. No one knows tomorrow, don't play God!

felixzo1:
if the new guy losses his job, what happens

That's a good question. Most Nigerian women only care about what you offer at the moment. They don't think about the future.

orohbiro:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.

All these children scattered all over Nairaland. A guy lost his job, he has now turned to someone that doesn't have job, broke and all. This life ehhhhh. Just pray you don't have a fair share of the negative aspect of life then you would know how painful it is tagging someone something else just because of his condition.

If you haven't learnt about life, don't talk down on other people.
I have seen men rise, I have seen men fall. But in conclusion, no condition is permanent.

@OP
You are a gold digger
Wicked
And you are lazy

So because the guy is out of job you now want someone else that you and your family will Milk dry?

Useless Orohbiro

Babafash:
Broke niga spotted

My profile nor be gainsay...
I dey ship like this,but I know how many years it took me to get here