pocohantas:
The death of a woman is a loss to her family and her kids. Those are the people that will eternally feel her exit.

Forget men. 97.86% of them will move on before your casket sinks, this includes some of them castigating OP. They will say “IT IS FOR THE KIDS”. I bet if you check OP’s posts, you will find that phrase somewhere.

For a gender that claims not to benefit from marriage, they are always too eager to get a replacement or take on extra wives. Make I dey go abeg, una done talk everything finish.

97.86%? How did you arrive at the stat? LMAO!

Sanchez01:

97.86%? How did you arrive at the stat? LMAO!

NBS and malicious observation.

pocohantas:



NBS and malicious observation.

LMAO

pocohantas:
The death of a woman is a loss to her family and her kids. Those are the people that will eternally feel her exit.

Forget men. 97.86% of them will move on before your casket sinks, this includes some of them castigating OP. They will say “IT IS FOR THE KIDS”. I bet if you check OP’s posts, you will find that phrase somewhere.

For a gender that claims not to benefit from marriage, they are always too eager to get a replacement or take on extra wives. Make I dey go abeg, una done talk everything finish.

Exactly. I know why I said what I said.
As much as we love our spouses and they love us too, men can’t live without women. If a woman stresses herself to death for a man, he will replace her. The ones that really love you will wait a few years. But a few (very few of them) will stay unmarried for life like most widows do

@sanchez01, this is my observation nothing to do with Misandry or feminism.

cococandy:


Exactly. I know why I said what I said.
As much as we love our spouses and they love us too, men can’t live without women. If a woman stresses herself to death for a man, he will replace her. The ones that really love you will wait a few years. But a few (very few of them) will stay unmarried for life like most widows do

@sanchez01, this is my observation nothing to do with Misandry or feminism.

I guess I understand you now. I actually get triggered when I see discourses leaning towards gender wars. It is almost like we have stopped living as humans and only remind ourselves that we are enemies to the other gender.

Peace.

Sanchez01:

You are married and prolly love your husband. Stop generalising what the OP did. It would have been a different ball game if every male on the thread supported his action.

I know at least two men who refused to remarry after they lost their wife. One eventually remarried after nearly 16 years because the kids asked him to and the other never did to date. Just because the OP chose to dishonour his late wife does not mean every male is that way.

You shouldn't be eager to show your subtle misandry/feminism.

Na Accuser of brethen she be, waiting for every man to slip up, so she can slit their throat

But make we talk true, 3 months get as e be sha. Habba that's barely 100 days

truthsayer009:


Na Accuser of brethen she be, waiting for every man to slip up, so she can slit their throat

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I wish you’re this vocal when your brethren sit on women’s matter morning and night.

Just 3 months after the death of a Dear wife and you are already planning another marriage. This is giving me goosebumps all over my body. You really got over her quickly.

cococandy:

I wish you’re this vocal when your brethren sit on women’s matter morning and night.

What you don't realise is that scum is not gender based, anyone can be a scum. What I find amusing is that black women always seem to stick out their necks for each other even when the women are wrong. At the end i realise men and women have conflict of interest in relationship/marriage and women are just simply fighting for their own. It is never about fairness.

In my final year, a female friend newly wed husband died and this my friend couldn't even wait, after one month she already dating this tall handsome dude she had always had a crush on and they had sex immediately. I was so dissapointed when i found out. Her other female friends were giving excuses on why it's not that bad.

Honestly this isn't a cooked up story, it happened 7 years ago and i still even have her contact.

What kind of weak man is this?..op you've really disappointed men..haaa!!!. how can you allow a desperate woman into your home?. your wife will be so unhappy with this bad decision you've made.even your kids have seen the mistake...soon that woman will turn you against your own kids and your children will never forgive you for it.

Get that woman out

pocohantas:
The death of a woman is a loss to her family and her kids. Those are the people that will eternally feel her exit.

Forget men. 97.86% of them will move on before your casket sinks, this includes some of them castigating OP. They will say “IT IS FOR THE KIDS”. I bet if you check OP’s posts, you will find that phrase somewhere.

For a gender that claims not to benefit from marriage, they are always too eager to get a replacement or take on extra wives. Make I dey go abeg, una done talk everything finish.

What kind of shallow reasoning is these, you just postulate your dillusions like reality don't matter, how can any sensible human postulate a man won't feel the death of his wife or feel it less. even ordinary neibor die person go feel am how much more life partner, love or no love as human person go feel am.
Stella damascus moved on so fast, maybe the painment tinz is more of personality than gender.

@bold, you would do well to remember that and say it to your brethren when they decide to yap about black/Nigerian women. That’s all I’m saying

truthsayer009:


What you don't realise is that scum is not gender based, anyone can be a scum. What I find amusing is that black women always seem to stick out their necks for each other even when the women are wrong. At the end i realise men and women have conflict of interest in relationship/marriage and women are just simply fighting for their own. It is never about fairness.

In my final year, a female friend newly wed husband died and this my friend couldn't even wait, after one month she already dating this tall handsome dude she had always had a crush on and they had sex immediately. I was so dissapointed when i found out. Her other female friends were giving excuses on why it's not that bad.

Honestly this isn't a cooked up story, it happened 7 years ago and i still even have her contact.

Klass99:


Lol, pls what is NBS?

Family6, where are you at on this matter?

It's a public holiday, your date and her kids should be packing up to return to their own house, come and give us update.

Did you adults in this matter even realize you were setting a bad example for the kids involved, by moving in together?

National Bureau of Statistics. Na them dey dish out figures for we Nigerians.

Hahahaha. See as you wan pursue the woman? With time his kids would start withdrawing from him because it would seem like he isn’t standing up for them. Kids are sensitive. She has to leave and whatever it is they were building, has to leave with her. Cement done finish.

cococandy:


Exactly. I know why I said what I said.
As much as we love our spouses and they love us too, men can’t live without women. If a woman stresses herself to death for a man, he will replace her. The ones that really love you will wait a few years. But a few (very few of them) will stay unmarried for life like most widows do

@, this is my observation nothing to do with Misandry or feminism.

You are correct. Not to say women don’t do it too, but there are more widows doing their thing, than widowers.

Give a widow money and she would focus on her kids. Give a widower all the money in CBN, he won’t have rest till he finds another woman that will submit to him.

They like marriage ehn. Especially when they have tasted it.

cococandy:


Exactly. I know why I said what I said.
As much as we love our spouses and they love us too, men can’t live without women. If a woman stresses herself to death for a man, he will replace her. The ones that really love you will wait a few years. But a few (very few of them) will stay unmarried for life like most widows do

@sanchez01, this is my observation nothing to do with Misandry or feminism.

Men can't live without women, aww aww !! sounds touching you forget methusa lived without a woman, father mbaka is living without a woman and una president buhari is ruling without a woman.
Men find replacement cos its convenient irrespective of baggages a man's attractive value slopes upward with time, while a woman's attractive value drops like naira with time. bin married or bin a widow with kids is enough baggage to put men off, most widows are single because of lack of interest not because of commitment.
Even if a widow desires to remarry whats her chances In a society single gurls are wasting no one to marry them aside intense banging

100

pocohantas:


You are correct. Not to say women don’t do it too, but there are more widows doing their thing, than widowers.

Give a widow money and she would focus on her kids. Give a widower all the money in CBN, he won’t have rest till he finds another woman that will submit to him.

They like marriage ehn. Especially when they have tasted it.

Even you know that’s untrue but continue. It’s the incel talking points y’all memorize and recite thinking that if you say it enough times, it will become true

larryjonze:

Men can't live without women, aww aww !! sounds touching you forget methusa lived without a woman, father mbaka is living without a woman and una president buhari is ruling without a woman.
Men find replacement cos its convenient irrespective of baggages a man's attractive value slopes upward with time, while a woman's attractive value drops like naira with time. bin married or bin a widow with kids is enough baggage to put men off, most widows are single because of lack of interest not because of commitment.
Even if a widow desires to remarry whats her chances In a society single gurls are wasting no one to marry them aside intense banging

cococandy:
@bold, you would do well to remember that and say it to your brethren when they decide to yap about black/Nigerian women. That’s all I’m saying

I never saw you also calling black/Nigerian women out as well. It's always the men, which is why I am doubling down on my comment that it is never about fairness. You are simply just fighting for your own.

family6644:



You have made a lot of sense, you have made me even more weak. More like she has refused to leave, I have discussed it amicably, she has pleaded that she will change, I should give her more time. Her apt is till there but she doesn't want to go back claiming she's in love with me and she can't stay away from me. I think I am in trouble, I don't feel right about this anymore

Pls let her go back to her apartment for now. Kilode? Tell her you want to do things the right way. Three months is too soon for her to move in na. Tell her it makes you guys look suspicious to family and friends. If she is sensible , she would move out but if she is desperate, she won't. Anyway, let them move out abeg. By wisdom, by peaceful pleading or by force. And while you are at it, be watchful and prayerful so she doesn't go diabolical on you.

truthsayer009:


I never saw you also calling black/Nigerian women out as well. It's always the men, which is why I am doubling down on my comment that it is never about fairness. You are simply just fighting for your own.

So in all the ways that women are maliciously targeted on this forum. Relentlessly. Day and night . Violence and rape against them justified by any means necessary. Double standards applied to us when it comes basically everything. I’m supposed to join in on the attack or kiki with y’all while you denigrate me. So that what will happen? For y’all to pick me? To like me? To call me a good woman who is nOt LikE tHe OthErs?

Very much the typical male is what you are. You don’t have a problem with those who vilify women. Anyone can say basically anything they want against women in here and you will be blind, dead and dumb. But You only have a problem when someone stands up for women. And that’s on your subtle misogyny. Excuse you!

cococandy:


So in all the ways that women are maliciously targeted on this forum. Relentlessly. Day and night . Violence and rape against them justified by any means necessary. Double standards applied to us when it comes basically everything. I’m supposed to join in on the attack or kiki with y’all while you denigrate me. So that what will happen? For y’all to pick me? To like me? To call me a good woman who is nOt LikE tHe OthErs?

Very much the typical male is what you are. You don’t have a problem with those who vilify women. Anyone can say basically anything they want against women in here and you will be blind, dead and dumb. But You only have a problem when someone stands up for women. And that’s on your subtle misogyny. Excuse you!

Madame, no one is picking you, you are already married. What exactly does anyone stand to gain by you being a pick me? I mean we would have argued so many men would send you PMs.

You are just looking for sympathy where it's not necessary.

A Hiny Umoren that was killed recently attracted a lot of attention, nobody is happy these things are happening.

1. Did you go to the crime section and see people saying she is deserved to be raped or killed?
2. The journalist that exposed him, is he not a man?
3. The people on Twitter that helped with the case, aren't they both men and women?

The people talking shit about Women are even in the Romance section, some of them already claim to be Red-Pillers, we already know what they stand for right?

My point was that you are simply fighting for your own, stop hiding under the umbrella of fairness and equity.

Just own it with your chest, that's all.

Haaaa . Op, you are a very wicked man

truthsayer009:


Madame, no one is picking you, you are already married. What exactly does anyone stand to gain by you being a pick me? I mean we would have argued so many men would send you PMs.

tell me you don’t understand urban lingo without telling me you don’t understand urban lingo

You are just looking for sympathy where it's not necessary.

A Hiny Umoren that was killed recently attracted a lot of attention, nobody is happy these things are happening.

1. Did you go to the crime section and see people saying she is deserved to be raped or killed?
2. The journalist that exposed him, is he not a man?
3. The people on Twitter that helped with the case, aren't they both men and women?

The people talking shit about Women are even in the Romance section, some of them already claim to be Red-Pillers, we already know what they stand for right?

My point was that you are simply fighting for your own, stop hiding under the umbrella of fairness and equity.

Just own it with your chest, that's all.

Well actually yes there were people saying she deserved it. And she’s not even the only recent victim where you guys have been foul and wicked. You just jump and pass because e no concern you. But it concerns you when I have an opinion against those type of people. You know what redpillers stand for. Yet you’re silent towards them. But you have no issues heckling me. Why? Is it maybe because they say what you wish to say but do not have the face to?
Hence you have issues with me calling them out?

Yes I’m fighting for my own. When did I say otherwise? Am I supposed to fight for you?
Please move along.

cococandy:
tell me you don’t understand urban lingo without telling me you don’t understand urban lingo



Well actually yes there were people saying she deserved it. And she’s not even the only recent victim where you guys have been foul and wicked. You just jump and pass because e no concern you. But it concerns you when I have an opinion against those type of people. You know what redpillers stand for. Yet you’re silent towards them. But you have no issues heckling me. Why? Is it maybe because they say what you wish to say but do not have the face to?
Hence you have issues with me calling them out?

Yes I’m fighting for my own. When did I say otherwise? Am I supposed to fight for you?
Please move along.

Your concluding passive aggressive tone is just obvious that you are all over the place trying to twist and turn.

If we are both going to agree on the point that you are just fighting for your own, then why debate me unnecessarily back and forth.

She even made a clear statement, turned back and called it Urban Lingo lmao!

Good night abeg, Happy Eid al-Fitr

Sorry, “pick me” doesn’t have anything to do with relationship. Are you living under a rock? Sigh

Anyway quit heckling me and we won’t have a problem. Or....direct same energy to your brethren misogynists and women haters who you conveniently ignore but turn around to call me brethren accuser when I call them out.

Your misogyny is showing

truthsayer009:


Your concluding passive aggressive tone is just obvious that you are all over the place trying to twist and turn.

If we are both going to agree on the point that you are just fighting for your own, then why debate me unnecessarily back and forth.

She even made a clear statement, turned back and called it Urban Lingo lmao!

Good night abeg, Happy Eid al-Fitr

cococandy:
Sorry, “pick me” doesn’t have anything to do with relationship. Are you living under a rock? Sigh

Anyway quit heckling me and we won’t have a problem. Or....direct same energy to your brethren misogynists and women haters who you conveniently ignore but turn around to call me brethren accuser when I call them out.

Your misogyny is showing

Madame I never quoted you remember? I was on my own jejely, I quoted someone else. God! Omo I have entered once chance today oh!

Oya sorry no vex, can I go in peace now?

pocohantas:


You are correct. Not to say women don’t do it too, but there are more widows doing their thing, than widowers.

Give a widow money and she would focus on her kids. Give a widower all the money in CBN, he won’t have rest till he finds another woman that will submit to him.

They like marriage ehn. Especially when they have tasted it.

chuchuchu !! aunty wey *** men like marriage yet women are the ones flooding shiloh annually ... for what lexus GS abi iphone 12 pro man. you think we don't know ur mom as bin representing yu @ shiloh with ur pics
what does a man taste in marriage that he can't taste outside marriage, food or sex .. the best sex men have is outside marriage.

Richy4:
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I swear If my spouse does this kind of Nonsense you were doing on the event of my demise, I will rise..I will expect her to mourn me for atleast 3 and a half years.. and I will mourn her for 4 should reverse be the case... I wish I could just see your not so serious face and tell you what I thought of u... Imagine negotiating with a stranger in my house? what nonsense..

Lmao @ I will rise.

On the third day or when?

pocohantas:


Lmao @ I will rise.

On the third day or when?

I'm simply pissed @ what OP was not doing.....
As for rising, I don't know how it will work out because I haven't died before .. but I will do something to register my displeasure should my wife attempt such.. It's way too early for that man to move on

What is the essence of mourning for a long time? Oga,being a single parent is not easy. I will expect myself to mourn a little and move on. I expect her to do the same but I don't wish to die early. Lol

Richy4:
@ family6644.. Learn how to control your children and be firm about it....Learn how to draw a line. The thing is that you sound too modern...You gave your kids free hands to manipulate you into agreeing to what you did not bargain for.. Yes you will want them to be happy and all that but let them know that there's a limit. You allowed a total stranger into your home to redecorate and redesign your lives after 93day of your wife demise, Haba!!! Is your late wife that bad?...

I swear If my spouse does this kind of Nonsense you were doing on the event of my demise, I will rise..I will expect her to mourn me for atleast 3 and a half years.. and I will mourn her for 4 should reverse be the case... I wish I could just see your not so serious face and tell you what I thought of u... Imagine negotiating with a stranger in my house? what nonsense..