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Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by SunTzu123(m): 11:16am On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247: I am 100% certain that you knew this before you married him? But like in all fairy tales, you believed you were the fairy with the magic wand that would change him after marriage! Truth is people don't change except they decide (by themselves) to change. It's called love language (I sincerely wish I knew this before marriage). To the unmarried ones, ensure to understand your partners love language before you say I do. If it doesn't match yours and you don't want to let go, then decide to change to their own love language. The danger with this is that it could be used as a weapon later. Eg. I know you like me to hold your hand while taking walks, and so I decide not to hold your hand just to hurt you. Most important thing for OP now is to stay focused on your marriage. I'm sure you know he loves you. Focus on the good side of him (those things he does to express love) and remind him always of the good side of him and how you look forward to it. And you will see him "dancing his way back to you". Truth is if he loves you, you have his mumu button already. Don't throw it away by insisting on changing the channels everytime. 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by ecomalchemist(m): 11:16am On May 15, 2021 |
love is blind, na for inside marriage eyes dey open korokoro 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by hustla(m): 11:16am On May 15, 2021 |
You can never win with women If he starts complimenting, she will find another thing to complain about Someone that's probably worried about rent, food, dragging from extended family, friends and even his wife Smh 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Daisukee: 11:17am On May 15, 2021 |
Haha, I know one man for outside don Dey burst dis one head with compliment and now she is starting to have feelings for him more than her husband, let me tell you something, leave your husband of 7 years and be with the man that gives you endless compliments, after he don chop you use your back knack ground countless times and see if the compliment will still be coming, compliments are nice but always beware of unecessary compliment, it’s like calling a dog sweet names just to catch him. Studio247: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by hustla(m): 11:18am On May 15, 2021 |
Daisukee: You know as the thing go |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Afodot0022(m): 11:18am On May 15, 2021 |
With serious things and issues in marriage, its compliment that is your own problem. Do you have kids, cos someone that is so preoccupied wont be looking forward to or expecting compliments. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by gannod(m): 11:18am On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247: He doesn't want it to get into your head. I am also like that, I hardly compliment my wife but it doesn't change the fact that I appreciate her. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by cmecproblem(m): 11:19am On May 15, 2021 |
But I'm sure he doesn't cheat or beat you or starve you of funds. Women who get compliments daily may be suffering these things from their husbands. Will you trade places with them? Life no balance. Just manage and be happy for good things you have. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by humilitypays(m): 11:19am On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247: |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by SunTzu123(m): 11:20am On May 15, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642: My first big laugh of the day. Thank you. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by chieni(f): 11:21am On May 15, 2021 |
daddytime:But she just mentioned he flares up when she brings it up. 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by eziemich: 11:21am On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247:I can understand how u feel because I'm having similar issue with my wife. She never show appreciation of any good thing I've done for her or for the family. My wife is good in many qualities of a good wife but my highest problem with her is she's an ingrate. Even her mother and siblings are all the same. But I've decided to be doing only my basic responsibility for her. As for her family, they should come and carry me. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by femi4: 11:22am On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247:If that's your problem, then you don't have problem |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Originalsly: 11:25am On May 15, 2021 |
Before dating... a man will be drowning the woman with compliments .... when dating the compliments reduce to showering .... when she becomes his fiancee there is just a sprinkling of compliments and when married ... the drought is in full effect. If your husband did compliment you in the beginning.... then know the drought is on. If he never did in the beginning.... why on earth will you be expecting him to do so now? |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by RALPHOW(m): 11:25am On May 15, 2021 |
Compliment him and with time he will learn from you, just be patient with him. He must have grew up in such an environment where women were not valued. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by goodvision12(m): 11:26am On May 15, 2021 |
Hanibbal:But a little appreciation will do |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by ogwumgbe: 11:27am On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247: And have you ever complimented him? |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by JooEeL(m): 11:27am On May 15, 2021 |
Truvel: Haha. U no serious. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by goodvision12(m): 11:27am On May 15, 2021 |
Hanibbal:But a little appreciation will do |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by descarado: 11:30am On May 15, 2021 |
eljp:Oh no, men crave compliments more than women. That's why they go the whole nine yards. Just for one compliment. From his performance in bed to grooming. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by arma: 11:31am On May 15, 2021 |
Ritzybeauty:God bless you jare. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by descarado: 11:31am On May 15, 2021 |
eziemich: I thought men don't like compliments? |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by cbrass(m): 11:32am On May 15, 2021 |
Karleb: God bless you, bro. to add to it the woman doesn't know herself at all eg, her love language. All these are necessary for choosing a partner 1 Like |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by PS712: 11:34am On May 15, 2021 |
daddytime:Mature advice. Can't like more. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by SweetCuntess: 11:36am On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247:my dear simply compliment yourself, forget his compliments pls as it's not in his person to do so. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Lifeo3008: 11:40am On May 15, 2021 |
Your husband background matters alot in appreciating your effort. I had similar issue. I tried to measure my wife effort with my mum, sisters and those I grew up wt. For example, my mum will woke up ard 4am, soak beans and went to early morning church service, she will comes back ard 630am and started frying Akara that she will sell, by 7am parents will be bringing there kids as she operate kindergarten school, my mum will take care of those kids till ard 2pm and after that she will go to farm ard 2pm just to get firewood, she will come back and be preparing dinner. We always eat pounded yam for dinner, this are daily routines. She use hand to watche cloth, use hand to grind, melon, ogbono, pepper etc. She uses firewood for cooking. She is a retired teacher. Wen I married, I make everything available for my wife, she uses gas cooker, she has watching machine, blender, we leave in house that has running water compare to the far river we fetches water in the village, Initially, I hate to hear my wife saying shes tired cos I felt she's full house wife, and she do things with ease. I look at her as a lazy woman whenever she complained. Madam, village husband is different from city husband. 2 Likes |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by legacystore: 11:42am On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247: U are only suffering from low self esteem What do you need compliment for? Of all issues in marriage urs is compliment, abegi free that good man joor |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by adonis89(m): 11:43am On May 15, 2021 |
All I can tell u is ur husband loves u very much. My late dad was like that. Whenever my mom ain't around, he'll b like "make GOD give u woman like ur mama". " if not ur mother, I for no get pin for this life". Most of the properties he acquired was because of my mom's coordination of his resources. Madam, ur hubby loves u so forget that compliment ish. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by jesmond3945: 11:45am On May 15, 2021 |
Studio247:husbands compliment by actions which is the most important. The people outside complimenting you don't even care if you have eating but your husband feeds, cares and shelters you that's enough compliment to last for a life time. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Foodqueen(f): 11:46am On May 15, 2021 |
Jinad50: I beggeeee.... She's been complemented outside, so she is ok. She's married to him, there's no big deal praising yourself before your husband. It will all look like a beautiful joke. |
Re: In My 7 Years Of Marriage My Husband Has Never Complimented Me by Goalnaldo(m): 11:46am On May 15, 2021 |
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