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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by ogawisdom(m): 4:51pm On May 29, 2021
maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.
Probably a married man
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by dboY1123(m): 4:52pm On May 29, 2021
maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.
There are other guys who would respect you more than this..

I'm single anyway
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by LoudLord(m): 4:52pm On May 29, 2021
You're not enjoying the relationship!!!





Omo ode!! I gat nothing to say
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by kachuk(m): 4:52pm On May 29, 2021
follow your instincts
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by pocohantas(f): 4:52pm On May 29, 2021
Travel to where?

Na engineer abi e done marry? Because na only them dey behave possessed like that. cheesy
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by femo86(m): 4:52pm On May 29, 2021
maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.
He is an Armed Robber or a kidnapper
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by BRATISLAVA: 4:53pm On May 29, 2021
Brexxit:
angry

I'm the guy in question.
How dare u bring this matter here on nairaland?
Lol. Your phone would be out of reach were you to be the man in question.
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Mrbenny001: 4:53pm On May 29, 2021
How old is he..? I hope you're not dating another woman's husband
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by dboY1123(m): 4:54pm On May 29, 2021
omolola100:
i agree with your point ma, its possible he has a secret wife elsewhere, men are dangerous.
Such a respectful lady...Hi!!
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Connected1: 4:54pm On May 29, 2021
You sound like you are in a relationship.
It seems you are the one gaining in this hookup else he would want to talk to you everyday.
How strong is your billing?
'' '' your nagging?
If you truly know him, I don't see why you can't ask him the same thing you are asking us.
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by sammirano: 4:55pm On May 29, 2021
omolola100:
You better carry your body and move on with your life.
what kind of love is that?
he is not straight forward, just free him, Basic.
he might put you in trouble, who knows if he is an IPOB.
You don get am. Ipob bastard
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by eldoradoxx: 4:55pm On May 29, 2021
maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.
He is either married and switches off whenever he travels to see his family or doing something illicit. Nothing else explains it and if u cannot find answers, walk away. You no go old say u dey wait for one man when plenty brothers dey available, hook onto one abeg.
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by advanceDNA: 4:55pm On May 29, 2021
OsusTroller:
I think you're just wasting your time as a side-chick.

No reasonable guy will leave someone his dating for 3 months without communication and for no good reasons, and expects to come back and be received with opened hands...
She’s not a side chic....men respect their side chics more than this one...

she’s a bootycall that thinks she’s a girlfriend...
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by AleAirHub(m): 4:55pm On May 29, 2021
That attitude alone is a red flag to move on with your life...



maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Brown2012: 4:56pm On May 29, 2021
maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.
I believe he has a child with another lady some where
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Anaerobi(m): 4:56pm On May 29, 2021
Am in distance relationship, even before I travel within my state, I call my woman to inform her

Talk more of outside the state.


My dear you fit be d number 6 babe.

But he is not your guy ... Move on with someone else.
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Ferdinandu(m): 4:56pm On May 29, 2021
maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.
You are just desperate to be in a relationship. It is only extremely desperate person like you that doesn't know from the signs that you are dating a happily married man with children who will not want anything to disturb the happiness of his family. Continue no go give yourself sense. Is being single abomination in your village
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by NaijaOlosho(f): 4:56pm On May 29, 2021
maxwelltony:
i dont think so
Your eyes go soon clear, dey here dey argue grin
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Yoighaman(m): 4:57pm On May 29, 2021
maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.
Have you confirmed that he is not a married man?...because this attitude is one of their traits....we would continue our discussion from there once we get a confirmation...
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by excel1960(f): 4:57pm On May 29, 2021
maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.
My dear sister, you are dating yourself and there's a possibility that he could even be a married man.
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by nwachi2(m): 4:57pm On May 29, 2021
ESN member dear.... Widow loading. Better move on
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by sammirano: 4:57pm On May 29, 2021
Op. I dont think he has a family somewhere.
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by olaolulazio(m): 4:58pm On May 29, 2021
Dear OP,

Kindly give up.
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Commanderinpips: 4:58pm On May 29, 2021
maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.
Madam what kind of work is he into?
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by AYNL: 4:58pm On May 29, 2021
Why don't you sit him down and ask him gently what's going on
there should be a reason he's doing all this
and if he can't give you any reasonable reason
start giving him attitude if you don't want to walk away
do things that will make him jealous
do things that will force him to talk
and if he no wan change
waka abeg
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by geezynoni: 4:59pm On May 29, 2021
dboY1123:
There are other guys who would respect you more than this..

I'm single anyway
and h o r n y
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by lifenija: 4:59pm On May 29, 2021
maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.
he is married, u are a side chick, in d state u are thats his keeping him warm.


no too think am
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Mandy1414: 4:59pm On May 29, 2021
Nne please the red flags are obvious. Just take a walk cos if u don't you will end up enduring in the marriage eventually. Life is too short to endure what will generate heart pain over time.
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by GorillaApp(m): 5:00pm On May 29, 2021
maxwelltony:
i dont agree with your opinion.
You don't agree? Lol.
Let me spell it out for you. Dude has a wife.
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Bestcreamreview: 5:00pm On May 29, 2021
I strongly believe that your so-called boyfriend is either a married man or in a serious relationship with someone else, he probably has a family elsewhere and he travels to spend time with them, trust me it has happened to someone I know before.

When a man takes long trips without telling his "girlfriend" and doesn't even make any effort to communicate with her while he's away then he definitely has a family somewhere and he doesn't want to be disturbed by the side chick while spending time with his family.

And why on earth have you not ended the relationship by now? Some of you really settle for rubbish. If someone I'm dating ghosts me for even one week, I'm calling off the relationship unless they have a very good excuse for doing that. How can someone ghost you for a whole three months, not once but 5 times, and each time he comes back, you just accept him, na wa o. If someone ghosts me for one month sef, I'll assume that the relationship is over.
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by advanceDNA: 5:00pm On May 29, 2021
maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.
either this story is fake or u are delusional...

how can u be in a relationship with someone that doesn’t call u for 3 months and u are claiming u are dating....

U guys either had casual sex and u are reading meaning to it when he ddnt ask u out

.. u are not his girl friend, u are not even his side chic....u are far from a booty call seff...
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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Acidzie: 5:00pm On May 29, 2021
The reason you are still in that relationship is because he has money. Common sense should tell you already his either married or in a serious relationship and that ship is not with you.
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