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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by kayClt(f): 5:16pm On May 29, 2021

Guy is married. It is that simple

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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by uthlaw: 5:17pm On May 29, 2021

koolest4christ:
I was once in a relationship and I never stop calling my spouse 24/7. If a guy has stopped calling you, it means someone else has taken over your position. If he can stay off you for months, something is greatly wrong somewhere. Personally, I will advice you to give him some space for now. Your man will come soonest by God's grace. Keep praying and upgrade yourself. Success!

my girlfriend go Dubai for 2years,leave me marry another man,naso she dash me 200k...I wish I had 4 more babes that can do that.... money is important!

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Germi9: 5:19pm On May 29, 2021

Emotionss:
So you're still expecting us to tell you what is overwhelming obvious even to a child ?

Op don't be selfish.
you be number 8 side chick allow the young man to visit other side chick na

Not even number 8 side chick, that Man or boyfriend have a family,ie he is married elsewhere and neither you nor the other woman/women is aware...haha!! did i just wake you up?

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by AfonjaConehead: 5:20pm On May 29, 2021

Bola146:

Haba!!!

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Mvena(f): 5:20pm On May 29, 2021

bigpicture001:
@OP, the truth is that is the best eay to date a girl...a guy needs to be a a little mysterous...

If he come out totally open to u, trust me you will get tired of him and dump him...guyz dont need to be too truthfull to ladies.....

His ways are good and you have to brar it....

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by AfonjaConehead: 5:21pm On May 29, 2021

omolola100:

i agree with your point ma, its possible he has a secret wife elsewhere, men are dangerous.

Shut up and kiss me

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by MediMedi(m): 5:22pm On May 29, 2021

What you start is what you will end. Forget all this bitches saying you should move ahead. That's your cross to carry bae

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by ogbuefi677(m): 5:22pm On May 29, 2021

Emotionss:
So you're still expecting us to tell you what is overwhelming obvious even to a child ?

Op don't be selfish.
you be number 8 side chick allow the young man to visit other side chick na

Married man sef

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by BigCowH0rn: 5:25pm On May 29, 2021

maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

You are dating a married man or one with a life elsewhere.
Those times his phones are off...... he is with that other woman or women. His real family. You are ust a side chick

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by DDayve: 5:25pm On May 29, 2021

He is married. The phone number he gave to you is not his real number. Whenever he joins his family, he puts off the number he gave to you and once he is back, he puts it on again so he can tear your punna. Let him go, except u wanna be just a Bleep mate to him

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by bigandbold: 5:26pm On May 29, 2021

It's obvious the man is married with kids. Please borrow yourself brain and look for another man. I wish the best in your next relationship.

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by gassbee: 5:26pm On May 29, 2021

Babe pls drop dat guy fast, time is going and age is counting

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Ishilove: 5:28pm On May 29, 2021

You're dating a married man

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by dvaliant: 5:29pm On May 29, 2021

Accountability is important in relationship. Please move on.

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by princewarri1985: 5:30pm On May 29, 2021

What advice do you need from us when you already know the awnsers? My sister move on because you are the one forcing yourself on him....go listen to that song living next door to alice "where they said alice is gone but am still here and i have been waiting 25 years" meaning there is one guy at the corner who love you for real and you are giving him attitude. Wake up.

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by pansophist(m): 5:30pm On May 29, 2021

To know if someone cares, cherish, love and wants to be with you is the simplest thing ever. Love doesn't disguise, it's not confusing, it's not chaotic, it's not troublesome and it's the closest thing to perfection.

Youre probably a side chicken, to be slaughtered (ghosted) when the time is right. If you tolerate all these from him, then what you're doing is making his see that you do not value yourself, and no one will treat you better than you treat yourself. Leave him.

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by neonly: 5:30pm On May 29, 2021

See has girls come full dis forum because one of their one is a side chic

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by loko50(m): 5:30pm On May 29, 2021

So out of 24 months he has disappeared for 15 months and you are still contemplating. My dear brace up and disappear from that relationship.

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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by biafranrealson: 5:32pm On May 29, 2021

you presented a case before the elders and wish the whole house to deliberate on your matter?
where is cola nut and alligator pepper?
where is the seamans aromatic schnnapps ?

your matter is on hold , meanwhile your cheating partner is happily married with children and occasionally goes home to see them.
when the summon requirements are completed, i will give you the last advice

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Emotionss: 5:33pm On May 29, 2021

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ogbuefi677:

Married man sef

That is way I said she is no8 side chick.
Because it's obvious the guy is married or worse a criminal.

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Hassanmaye(m): 5:34pm On May 29, 2021

bigpicture001:
@OP, the truth is that is the best eay to date a girl...a guy needs to be a a little mysterous...

If he come out totally open to u, trust me you will get tired of him and dump him...guyz dont need to be too truthfull to ladies.....

His ways are good and you have to brar it....

Good advice thank you sir you really understand that gender

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by mikendie(m): 5:34pm On May 29, 2021

In addition, run a background check on his marital status

Deborah98:
Cut it off joor, which kind relationship be dis if he doesn't tell you where he is going now that you both are in relationship is it in marriage he'll do so, mehn you guys should learn to read warnings before it's too late. You said time is going and judging from what you wrote it looks like you want to settle down with him okay but can I ask you? In as much as he doesn't tell you where he goes to and all that what are those characters/behaviours you put up that annoys him, one thing I've learnt from men, brothers and fellows is that they want a woman who gives them 'peace'. So my dear check yourself if you are the reason he's running away from you all in the name of traveling and even at that he switches off his phone to avoid communication.

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Hassanmaye(m): 5:34pm On May 29, 2021

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Your man has a family somewhere...he is just using your toto to keep himself busy when he's in the same town with you

Haha

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by 2elliot: 5:35pm On May 29, 2021

maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

U sure sey no be this my guy wey dey work for escravos u dey date? the guy fit lost for 3months. Upon DAT no be just one person him dey date. so even if he is off duty, he is still busy.

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Hassanmaye(m): 5:36pm On May 29, 2021

Matheusmartin:
Some persons will be dating themselves thinking they are in a relationship..

HahahHa bad boy

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Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Emotionss: 5:36pm On May 29, 2021

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Germi9:

Not even number 8 side chick, that Man or boyfriend have a family,ie he is married elsewhere and neither you nor the other woman/women is aware...haha!! did i just wake you up?

Of course he has a family the opportunity knows this but chose to live in denial

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Deborah98(f): 5:37pm On May 29, 2021

mikendie:
In addition, run a background check on his marital status

Yeah he could be a married man or maybe preparing for marriage secretly and she's waiting

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Myer(m): 5:38pm On May 29, 2021

maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

Blame Buhari or Desmond Idiot. cheesy

However, there are 2 things involved. You're either the side chic.
Or he is just trying to balance himself and prioritizing that over relationship.

Buhari'a govt ruining relationships and marriages on a daily cos almost everybody dey frustrate, forget what you see on social media.

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Nobody: 5:38pm On May 29, 2021

You are most likely dating a married man or a man who will soon get married to his fiancee!

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by Eze2000(m): 5:41pm On May 29, 2021

maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

Sent you a PM. Kindly respond

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by chi4ik4(m): 5:42pm On May 29, 2021

Brexxit:

I'm the guy in question.
How dare u bring this matter here on nairaland?

Oga, you are simply a married man. Free the girl biko.

You only off your phone because you're with your wife and the number your side chick is your private number. Please free her

Re: Should I Still Continue With This Relationship? I'm really fed up. by frozen70(f): 5:42pm On May 29, 2021

maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

The question is, for how long will you be enduring this kind of attitude

He travels without informing you of his intending trips and the purpose of his trip and he goes as far as putting off his phone

Consider the following as probably the reasons

He could have traced to be with his wife and children and wouldn't want any call from you to affect his privacy

He could be engaged into an illegal job that you don't know about

For the fact that you don't ever know his reasons for frequent traveling shows that he is not open to you

It's now left for you to withdraw from the relationship and replan for yourself because he has no plans for you, he will not let you go and he will not even propose to you

He just wants you to be on ground, that's all

Alternatively, if you think you can endure such behaviour of secret life and movements, its your cross to carry

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