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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Nobody: 11:27am On Jun 29, 2021
I can bet with my two hairy balls that you didn't logde in any hotel...

you were just in a friend's place or better still in your mother's house sucking breast ...cus you are still a KID

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by generalcoucou(m): 11:47am On Jun 29, 2021
And you are happy about your act.... u slept comfortably at the hotel and your wife slept outside... baba I think your have anger issues.. u need to work on your ego... Go and apologise to your wife first****

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Nobody: 11:47am On Jun 29, 2021
michael77777:
how old are you?

was she forced into the marriage?

you just immature... you don't know what you want.

you are still a kid...
Same age with ur father

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Nobody: 11:48am On Jun 29, 2021
PlayMaker14:
Dear Nacoss25


You did the right thing my brother....

That audacity she had to say that you can't stop her is really disrespectful and you'll be surprise that she will be kneeling before her pastor saying "Yes Daddy" to his command, while she calls you by your first name and undermine your authority.

Just forgive her and tell her not to repeat such bullshit, else she will be on an early morning bus to her parents house.
Well said brother
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Nobody: 11:51am On Jun 29, 2021
Almajoon:


Didn't you know she likes wearing skimpy dresses b4 u married her?

I'm sure it's her skimpy dressing that attracted you kiss

Meanwhile, locking her out was very FOOLISH of you. You didn't care about her safety.
You exposed her to armed robbers, kidnappers, rapists, ritual killers. You risked her life "because of skimpy dress."

You are NOT fit to be a husband. SHAME ON YOU!!!
I love seeing my wife in skimpy dresses but not wearing them to church whether as a single lady or married woman
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Nobody: 11:53am On Jun 29, 2021
Nacoss25:

Same age with ur father

I doubt it cus my old Pa is more reasonable and responsible than the whole of your slowpoke infected family.and even your next generation to come

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Jeon(f): 11:58am On Jun 29, 2021
michael77777:
I can bet with my two hairy balls that you didn't logde in any hotel...

you were just in a friend's place or better still in your mother's house sucking breast ...cus you are still a KID

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Haywhymido(m): 12:08pm On Jun 29, 2021
Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.
. The punishment don do like that, now treat her with love and care. And calmly tell her where you want her to be wearing the skimpy skirts and blouses, and where not to wear them to. She has already showed she is a good woman

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by mariahAngel(f): 12:12pm On Jun 29, 2021
Nacoss25:

Well said brother

What your wife did was wrong, but you didn't do right either. (Two wrongs do not make right)
Locking her out was extreme and an embarrassment to you. It was shameful of and to you as her husband.
If you had left the house for her and stayed at the hotel for some days(without taking the keys), believe me, she would've learnt a lesson or two.
So unfair she had to sleep outside.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by PlayMaker14: 12:20pm On Jun 29, 2021
Nacoss25:

Well said brother
Enjoy your marriage Bro.
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jun 29, 2021
So why risk her life by locking her out?

Your brain did not tell u that she could have been raped, kidnapped or even killed...

Defending your foolishness, shows you may never have a blissful marriage undecided

Nacoss25:
I love seeing my wife in skimpy dresses but not wearing them to church whether as a single lady or married woman

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Skullano(m): 12:48pm On Jun 29, 2021
webosky:










You are fool young man, you'll ruin your marriage if you continue like this, so you where comfortably in a hotel room while your newly wedded wife slept in the veranda and you have the guts to post it here, always remember that women don't forget.

My friend shut up there, she was comfortable disrespecting him all in the name of going to church but he can't be comfortable to take the decisions.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by karkinase(m): 12:51pm On Jun 29, 2021
Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.
guy, don't be too authoritative on your woman.. that moment your brother called, you should have rescind every atom of disrespectfulness she showed to you. besides your marriage is just two months.. prolly honeymoon stage . just dont be too harsh . women are very complex beings.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by HRMK: 1:18pm On Jun 29, 2021
ur to blame bcs she seems to av bn indulged all along!man has to put his foot down once in a while!i am sure she learns her lesson,though the hard way!u need to be careful here!i blv she culd av a man she uses the skimpy dress to crush on in church!!
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by infogenius(m): 1:32pm On Jun 29, 2021
Op, u've done ur worse, so what else do u want from her?
I can tell u categorically that u're not a husband but possibly... I reserve my comment.

U endangered ur wife that u swore to protect because she a wore a dress u were not cool with.

Apologise to her and learn to behave like a husband and not a boss.

U need to really love and respect your wife no matter what while correcting her shortcomings in love

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by yorubarere: 1:33pm On Jun 29, 2021
Almajoon:


Didn't you know she likes wearing skimpy dresses b4 u married her?

I'm sure it's her skimpy dressing that attracted you kiss

Meanwhile, locking her out was very FOOLISH of you. You didn't care about her safety.
You exposed her to armed robbers, kidnappers, rapists, ritual killers. You risked her life "because of skimpy dress."

You are NOT fit to be a husband. SHAME ON YOU!!!
And the girl is not aware that she is married? She want to remain married while still slaying the streets. Only a foolish man will allow that under his nose. The guy might have gone a little bit far, but I salute him for cautioning her in the strongest ways. She should submit to authority. The church she is dying in teaches submission to your husband.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by yorubarere: 1:36pm On Jun 29, 2021
Romanoff:
I wonder how she disciplines you when you misbehave.

Or only you have a monopoly of being the disciplinarian in the marriage?

I see immaturity all over your post and if you continue like this, you will run out of ways to "discipline" your wife.

What is wrong with waiting till she's in a saner mood to talk? If she had even spoken to you in that mood and it escalated to a quarrel, only God knows what you'd have come here to say.

You knew she loved skimpy dresses before you married her, now you want to force her to change to suit your idea of a "married woman".

Una no go follow una spec, you'll marry a woman and frustrate her into what she's not because you're the "husband".

When that woman begin show you pepper now, you won't tell us how you've forced her to be what she's not.

We dey wait for you for front. Continue o.
Normal feminists jargons. Why should women discipline their husbands? Later Una go enter 30 and single after showing man features in a relationship. Keep dragging the head with ur husband, there is a reason cars don't have 2 drivers... It will crash. Any marriage that the woman is dragging the head status with her man will end up crashing or lack happiness.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by yorubarere: 1:44pm On Jun 29, 2021
michael77777:


I doubt it cus my old Pa is more reasonable and responsible than the whole of your slowpoke infected family.and even your next generation to come
He is handling his home, when you have yours, handle it as u seem fit.
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Romanoff(f): 1:45pm On Jun 29, 2021
yorubarere:

Normal feminists jargons. Why should women discipline their husbands? Later Una go enter 30 and single after showing man features in a relationship. Keep dragging the head with ur husband, there is a reason cars don't have 2 drivers... It will crash. Any marriage that the woman is dragging the head status with her man will end up crashing or lack happiness.

Abeg shut up. I am married. And I am not a slave to my husband.

My husband na man. A real man that is in complete control of his emotion and his mind and I respect him for who he is. I can't disrespect my husband and he can't disrespect me. He is my best friend and we are crazy about each other.

We have something called "Mutual Respect" for each other. You should look up the meaning of the word.

Shior.

If your sister's husband locks her outside for what was written up there, throw a party for her husband, clap for him and call fuji musicians to come and hail him.

"Dragging head" with my husband means I should be treated like a miserable orphan abi? That's what marriage is to you?

Put a dog collar on the neck on your own wife, make we know say na slave she be to you.

Who raised some of you here?

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by yorubarere: 1:47pm On Jun 29, 2021
karkinase:

guy, don't be too authoritative on your woman.. that moment your brother called, you should have rescind every atom of disrespectfulness she showed to you. besides your marriage is just two months.. prolly honeymoon stage . just dont be too harsh . women are very complex beings.
Dude have showed her she can't use people to manipulate him when she is on the wrong side. She shouldn't have left the house when her husband called for talks. I am sure she dropped the keys when her husband asked for it thinking "what will he do?". For every actions, there should be consequences... She just had hers and I am sure she learnt something.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by yorubarere: 1:50pm On Jun 29, 2021
infogenius:
Op, u've done ur worse, so what else do u want from her?
I can tell u categorically that u're not a husband but possibly... I reserve my comment.

U endangered ur wife that u swore to protect because she a wore a dress u were not cool with.

Apologise to her and learn to behave like a husband and not a boss.

U need to really love and respect your wife no matter what while correcting her shortcomings in love
She also disrespected the man she swore to respect and honor. It is a two way street, she done hers and the husband retaliated. Case closed. This is the time they will know each others and draw boundaries.... And also fight for who is incharge.
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by yorubarere: 1:53pm On Jun 29, 2021
Romanoff:


Abeg shut up. I am married. And I am not a slave to my husband.

My husband na man. A real man that is in complete control of his emotion and his mind and I respect him for who he is. I can't disrespect my husband and he can't disrespect me. He is my best friend and we are crazy about each other.

We have something called "Mutual Respect" for each other. You should look up the meaning of the word.

Shior.

If your sister's husband locks her outside for what was written up there, throw a party for her husband, clap for him and call fuji musicians to come and hail him.

"Dragging head" with my husband means I should be treated like a miserable orphan abi? That's what marriage is to you?

Put a dog collar on the neck on your own wife, make we know say na slave she be to you.

Who raised some of you here?
I guess that is how u tell your man to shut up. You will all carry bad attitudes to the public space. I didn't insult you, but you, a married woman did.... So much for bin married. The marriage might as well soon crash with this attitude. There is always a breaking point for every man. That ur husband you think u have cornered with ur bad attitudes might just have his fill one day and leave you with kids.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by escapefromusa(f): 1:54pm On Jun 29, 2021
Romanoff:
I wonder how she disciplines you when you misbehave.

Your type would have praised master Jesus and proceeded to get dunked by your husband's security guard.

Oga .. thank God for your wife. Hopefully she did not sneak to a mans house and return early morning like our madam above would have done.

Be careful women are quite cheap these days.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Yungnaira55: 1:59pm On Jun 29, 2021
Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.

Oga locking her outside was a very wrong move
They r ways u could hv discipline her

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Romanoff(f): 1:59pm On Jun 29, 2021
escapefromusa:


Your type would have praised master Jesus and proceeded to get dunked by your husband's security guard.

Oga .. thank God for your wife. Hopefully she did not sneak to a mans house and return early morning like our madam above would have done.

Be careful women are quite cheap these days.

Well, not all of us are as immoral as your sisters and not all of us were raised in a loveless and abusive home.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by yorubarere: 1:59pm On Jun 29, 2021
escapefromusa:


Your type would have praised master Jesus and proceeded to get dunked by your husband's security guard.

Oga .. thank God for your wife. Hopefully she did not sneak to a mans house and return early morning like our madam above would have done.

Be careful women are quite cheap these days.
Someone that disciplines her husband. The simp will soon grow some sense and leave her as old hag.

There is always a breaking point for every man. Make she continue with her bad attitudes.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by escapefromusa(f): 2:01pm On Jun 29, 2021
DriftOff:
You no dey fùck her well, else she go dey respect you.

Sugar mummies dey respect their toy boys.

Abi pastor wey madam dey kneel down greet .. she dey collect from pastor

No go carry agbo kill yourself ooh. grin
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Romanoff(f): 2:02pm On Jun 29, 2021
yorubarere:

I guess that is how u tell your man to shut up. You will all carry bad attitudes to the public space. I didn't insult you, but you, a married woman did.... So much for bin married. The marriage might as well soon crash with this attitude. There is always a breaking point for every man. That ur husband you think u have cornered with ur bad attitudes might just have his fill one day and leave you with kids.

Shut up. You can't insult me and expect me not to react cause you're a "man".


My marriage Is sweet and my man is happy with who he married. The man that married me knows me well, strength and flaws and he's still happy with who he married. Can you guarantee your wife is happy with you for a husband? Are you sure she won't pack the kids and up and leave you one day? I just hope she has a source of income because omoh.

Respect is reciprocal. If you weren't capable of making your point with any respect, why do you think you deserve to be respected?

Because you have a phallus?

I am not one of those timid ones you can bully online with your machismo.

Ask about me.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by yorubarere: 2:03pm On Jun 29, 2021
Yungnaira55:


Oga locking her outside was a very wrong move
They r ways u could hv discipline her
It was a little bit extreme accepted. But he did right by discipling her nonetheless. Women that can't look their pastors in the eyes will now start disrespecting their men at home. Only foolish men will take that bullshits.
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by yorubarere: 2:06pm On Jun 29, 2021
Romanoff:


Shut up. You can't insult me and expect me not to react cause you're a "man".


My marriage I sweet and my man is happy with who he married. Can you guarantee your wife is happy with you for a husband?

Respect is reciprocal. If you weren't capable of making your point with any respect, why do you think you deserve to be respected?

Because you have a phallus?

I am not one of those timid ones you can bully online with your machismo.

Ask about me.
Point to where I have insulted you so far. You are just looking for ways to show ur bad manners.

Coming from a girl that disciplines her man. Insulting people are the least of things to expect... Especially online.

Keep it up babe, the simp eyes go soon open cheesy

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Romanoff(f): 2:16pm On Jun 29, 2021
yorubarere:

Point to here I have insulted you so far. You are just looking for ways to show ur bad manners.

Coming from a girl that disciplines her man. Insulting people are the least of things to expect... Especially online.

Keep it up babe, the simp eyes go soon open cheesy

Shut up again jor. You people call every woman with an opinion a feminist cause you don't agree with her. Your first mention at me was insulting and the fact that you don't see it makes me wonder why I am even replying you.

Leave my "simp" husband alone. He is more mature, smarter, more intelligent, more loving than you can ever be. And he won't come here to post nonsense like this. He was raised in a proper home with love and respect, not a Master and slave household.

Where he stands, you no reach and I will not tolerate any disrespect of my husband.

Na me and you dey talk, no drag my husband come, if not I ready for you.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by qtguru(m): 2:27pm On Jun 29, 2021
Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.

Wow Security nko. what if something happened to her, this is going too far.

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