Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.

You be man...grooming sometimes requires being firm! You are the groom sir. Groom your wife thoroughly.

Techguy96:
First of all im sure u dated her b4 marrying her, u knew she liked short dress while dating her u did not complain, u went ahead with the marriage. If u don't like women wearing short gown than u shouldn't have married one that likes wearing short gown it's that simple.

Secondly, if she insisted on going to the service u could easily postpone ur discussion to after the service.


Finally making her sleep outside for minor issue like this is totally wrong.

ARE YOU MARRIED AM SURE NOT. DO YOU KNOW WHAT IT MEANS WHEN YOU TELL YOU WIFE NOT TO DO SOMETHING AND SHE GOES AHEAD TO DISOBEY; THAT IS WITCHCRAFT

Romanoff:


Yoruba rere o mean anything. Omo yooba na nimi.

But I found your first reply of my comment insulting. Not every woman associates with feminism. On this platform, I match energy for energy.

Shut up. You talk too much

Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.

Mr you did good, I doubt she'll have d guts to disrespect you like that again. Na this kinda husband women need ,not d softy weak ones.

Techguy96:
First of all im sure u dated her b4 marrying her, u knew she liked short dress while dating her u did not complain, u went ahead with the marriage. If u don't like women wearing short gown than u shouldn't have married one that likes wearing short gown it's that simple.

Secondly, if she insisted on going to the service u could easily postpone ur discussion to after the service.


Finally making her sleep outside for minor issue like this is totally wrong.

See better learn to stamp your authority as the man if not your talk no go carry weight. The op overdo sha by spending d night outside. D guy heartless

Nisiw365:

Shut up. You talk too much

You shut that latrine you call a mouth.

HRMK:
UR SO DUMB!WAS HE THE ONLY BFRD SHE HAD WHEN SHE GOT MARRIED?HOW MANY LADIES SPEND THEIR WEDDING NIGHTS WITH A DFFT MAN FROM THE FIANCE?NOTHING IS NEW UNDER THE SUN!RATHER THAN ATTACK OTHERS,SIMPLY SAY URS...LOBATAN....CHIKENAN!!

Seems yov have an over-stretched damaged brain. You lack courtesy and your stupidy is so glaring. How dare you called me dumb? because adultery is a norm among your sisters and maybe your wife is an adultrer does implies every married women out there indulge in it.

Romanoff:


You shut that latrine you call a mouth.

Ugly bitch I said shut up. You don't talk to a man anyhow

Nisiw365:

Ugly bitch I said shut up. You don't talk to a man anyhow

See this born throway wey them spos use do menstruation. Who told you you're a man?

Rotfl.

If they'll call man, so you too will come out?

Rotfl.

Abeg comot from where real men dey talk jor.
Odenson.

Romanoff:


See this born throway wey them spos use do menstruation. Who told you you're a man?

Rotfl.

If they'll call man, so you too will come out?

Rotfl.

Abeg comot from where real men dey talk jor.
Odenson.

Arindin omo. You have no home training for you to talk to someone like me like that (real man). Ori e bi opon ifa

Nisiw365:

Arindin omo. You have no home training for you to talk to someone like me like that (real man). Ori e bi opon ifa

You that have home training that mentioned me with insult, where did you keep it?

Mention me again and get it hot hot. Awon were omo, awon asigbe ward.

Romanoff:


You that have home training that mentioned me with insult, where did you keep it?

Mention me again and get it hot hot. Awon were omo, awon asigbe ward.

Omo pao bi ibon. Elenu shipoti. Oloju bi ina beetle.
Make noise again and I'll trace you to abuja

Nisiw365:

Omo pao bi ibon. Elenu shipoti. Oloju bi ina beetle.
Make noise again and I'll trace you to abuja

I dey wait you. Ode, oniranu, alai lanfani.

K'oshi kuro jor.

Bobbyjay001:


Seems yov have an over-stretched damaged brain. You lack courtesy and your stupidy is so glaring. How dare you called me dumb? because adultery is a norm among your sisters and maybe your wife is an adultrer does implies every married women out there indulge in it.

one thing that is certain abt u is that ur parents made sure u went to school but had no time to give u the necessary moral upbringing.u think its only those buhari called #lazyyouths that use the social media!while septuagenarians like me in ur fml rot away in the village,am active on all social media!u dont blame a bastard that abuses u when same has become a recurring decimal with the parents!no time to waste on nonentities!good day!!

Romanoff:


I dey wait you. Ode, oniranu, alai lanfani.

K'oshi kuro jor.

E pain am. I have your location already .
Don't make me trace you

Nisiw365:

E pain am. I have your location already .
Don't make me trace you

Shior. Na you e pain pass. Me sef done get your location. You think say na only you dey tech savvy.

We dey wait. I fit send you tfare gan.

FreeSpirited:
Though it's a bit Harsh but u have sent a strong message and that's fine. Next time she won't try it as she knows if she's does it will come with dire consequences. That's how to handle a woman..
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If u allow bad behavior, they will disrespect you and do worse.

I love when men assert themselves not some pvssy as men whose wives turn to doormat, who will beg when their wives is wrong.
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The point is punish a woman if she shows bad behavior, or else..she will do worse tomorrow and get bolder ....

Is his wife his child? Next time his wife will be wiser with a back up plan. Uche will be on standby.

Romanoff:


Shior. Na you e pain pass. Me sef done get your location. You think say na only you dey tech savvy.

We dey wait. I fit send you tfare gan.

Lol big head scared already. elenu ageh. Olori efolo

Some people get mind ooo....!!! Imagine someone saying He locked his wife outside over the night without having any remorse of her Safety, What is something bad happen to her... Maybe by now you will be saying is The Devil work, and you will b mourning, sometime we take some wrongful decision, and start regretting when its goes sour, My Brother don't in your life try such actions or any of its resembles, because you meant not b lucky next time, Please b guided there are many way to correct mis-understanding in marriage

Nisiw365:

Lol big head scared already. elenu ageh. Olori efolo

E no pain you, naa him you dey trace location?

Sha don't dare me again. I'm not one of those timid females that cave when you spew rubbish.

I come legit.

Sho'gbo.

Adios.

khia:


Is his wife his child? Next time his wife will be wiser with a back up plan. Uche will be on standby.

Women should be treated like children at best. ..
I don't expect you to understand. And I have no time to explain

Romanoff:


E no pain you, naa him you dey trace location?

Sha don't dare me again. I'm not one of those timid females that cave when you spew rubbish.

I come legit.

Sho'gbo.

Adios.

You're timid female. Making mouth because you don't know who I am

Nisiw365:

You're timid female. Making mouth because you don't know who I am

Yinmu.

Rotfl.

Boy bye.

Romanoff:


Yinmu.

Rotfl.

Boy bye.

Go and make love to your husband girl and stop disturbing me

FreeSpirited:

Women should be treated like children at best. ..
I don't expect you to understand. And I have no time to explain

He left his wife alone, in the dark, with no security. In a marriage there will always be disagreements, but he has now proven to her that her safety means nothing to him, she can not trust him like a wife supposed to trust her husband,

This act of his will always linger on her mind and she will now protect herself from future harm. She will never forget what he did and will always have somewhere else to go when he throws her out or locks her out of the house.

Ladies if you have an immature, uncaring husband like this wife, please put yourself first and make provisions for your safety.

You will always need a back up plan if you are married to a boy in a man's body.

HRMK:
one thing that is certain abt u is that ur parents made sure u went to school but had no time to give u the necessary moral upbringing.u think its only those buhari called #lazyyouths that use the social media!while septuagenarians like me in ur fml rot away in the village,am active on all social media!u dont blame a bastard that abuses u when same has become a recurring decimal with the parents!no time to waste on nonentities!good day!!

You are a disgruntled old fool. Septuagenarian my foot! You came online to rain insults and expected me to keep mute and and applaud you abi? You want to score cheap goal abi? I wonder how you trained your children. Baba, try and be cautious in your dealings. This is a faceless forum.

FreeSpirited:

Women should be treated like children at best. ..
I don't expect you to understand. And I have no time to explain

You are wise

khia:


He left his wife alone, in the dark, with no security. In a marriage there will always be disagreements, but he has now proven to her that her safety means nothing to him, she can not trust him like a wife supposed to trust her husband,

This act of his will always linger on her mind and she will now protect herself from future harm. She will never forget what he did and will always have somewhere else to go when he throws her out or locks her out of the house.

Ladies if you have an immature, uncaring husband like this wife, please put yourself first and make provisions for your safety.

The problem is you assume women think like men. Think about what I wrote deeply.

khia:


He left his wife alone, in the dark, with no security. In a marriage there will always be disagreements, but he has now proven to her that her safety means nothing to him, she can not trust him like a wife supposed to trust her husband,

This act of his will always linger on her mind and she will now protect herself from future harm. She will never forget what he did and will always have somewhere else to go when he throws her out or locks her out of the house.

Ladies if you have an immature, uncaring husband like this wife, please put yourself first and make provisions for your safety.

All this mean nothing... The most important is that she won't try that same shit with him again.....

If it's me I'll see it as an opportunity to go visit my loving parents and would not even be angry sef

FreeSpirited:

All this mean nothing... The most important is that she won't try that same shit with him again.....

It doesn't have to be the same scenario, her husband has an immature mind and will continue this behavior until one day he kicks her out and Uche is waiting there with open loving arms and wipes all the pain away.

She will believe Uche cares more about her than her abusive husband does, more than likely he really does. It's hard to go back to an uncaring man especially when you're in the arms of someone who shows you so much respect and concern.

khia:


It doesn't have to be the same scenario, her husband has an immature mind and will continue this behavior until one day he kicks her out and Uche is waiting there with open loving arms and wipes all the pain away.

She can go and meet Uche no wahala...from meeting Uche, one day luck will run out for her and she will end up on the street like others like her by the time she's divorced.
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