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Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by benqo01(m): 10:07am On Jul 09, 2021

When I say that a boyfriend in Nigeria, has more responsibility than a father of 4 in the United State,these broke ass ladies will start insulting me....the truth is all these ladies are just they to drain you till the very end.

Be Wise!!!!

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by LordErrk: 10:07am On Jul 09, 2021

In fact you are mad

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by iamtardey: 10:07am On Jul 09, 2021

Tony isn't this ridiculous? grin

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by Bryan88(m): 10:07am On Jul 09, 2021

zoeA:
E sure say na advise you need or na slap?

i think he needs a better slap for his brains to reset

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Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by Ingredient88(m): 10:08am On Jul 09, 2021

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

my brother, that is not the kind of lady that you can marry, pls let her go, so that you can have plan for yourself, and be ready to wait and look for another one who can help in keeping the little one you have with you, a good woman will not be damanding money from you always, she will not be after materials things now that you are not yet stable financially, she after your money and noting more, I want to ask you, what development and value as she added to your life since you know her huh

? If noting buy Dan asking you money always my brother pls move she not the one.....God bless you.

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by tradepunter: 10:08am On Jul 09, 2021

Trustedpronet:
All of you guys abusing the op are hippocrit.

Our girl friends or wives get our mumu button handy anytime they need something.

Some of us can sell our belonging just please our lover yet forming adviser on Nairaland.

Op back to your matter:
If you beg that girl again na Ogun go kill you I swear. Wen dem say red flag no mean sey na dog dem dey sell there o na to run for your life.

Speak for yourself

I hate this general talk of mumu button

Na only broke men will talk about mumu button.

Someone who's pushing and progressing would lay out a foundation on how the relationship would go, because he know what journey he's taken.

Make una keep to dy give excuse for weakness

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Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by tylesh(f): 10:08am On Jul 09, 2021

Face your career and forget about women for now. Any woman you are dating now should add to you and not subtract

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by ntrukpum(m): 10:09am On Jul 09, 2021

u r a dumb ass fello

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by Basicend: 10:09am On Jul 09, 2021

She is not your lover, but your contractor.

Pele.

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by Trustedpronet: 10:09am On Jul 09, 2021

tradepunter:
Speak for yourself

I hate this general talk of mumu button

Na only broke men will talk about mumu button.

Someone who's pushing and progressing would lay out a foundation on how the relationship would go, because he know what journey he's taken.

Make una keep to dy give excuse for weakness

One pretender spotted.

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Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by Vulcan24(m): 10:09am On Jul 09, 2021

Fleee!!! fleee!!!
if u love your life and please dont eat the food she cooks for u and if u been sleeping with her or any of her things are in your house, dispose them

discuss with ur mother and get this shit out of ur life

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by gbengaadeleye12: 10:09am On Jul 09, 2021

You know what to do and stop being mumu around

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by FamTomx2(m): 10:10am On Jul 09, 2021

Savedday:
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.
In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

So true oh jare !

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by Oppavii(m): 10:10am On Jul 09, 2021

Chaiii ...
Relationship has now turned to poverty alleviation scheme ...
Na you give her d chance, i just hope say your mumu go end for this 2nd half of 2021 if not ...

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by dustydee: 10:10am On Jul 09, 2021

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

You mean you renew youe subscription by giving her money to continue the relationship? Weh done.

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by Ngozioma(m): 10:11am On Jul 09, 2021

[color=orange]Inukwa!
Some people mumu never do! Many people need deliverance oo![/color]

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Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by Sweeetheart(m): 10:12am On Jul 09, 2021

you're 36years but your IQ is not fit enough to handle relationship, try and upgrade your IQ and self esteem first

you're a mere maga but unfortunately you're seeing yourself in a relationship

next time sell your parents properties or use your parents for ritual to renew your monthly payment a very stupid old fool

you better run from that satan of financial destruction assigned to destroy you

I've never date poor lady in my life, I don't demand from them but they should be able to take care of themselves. even my wife at home have her role to play, why should I do everything?

even married men that take responsibilities in the house are only killing themselves, how can you grow/developed and build your wealth if you take responsibilities of the house alone? you think taking responsibilities of house without your wife contributing is a sign of love? that's marital slavery

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by Highlyrespected(m): 10:12am On Jul 09, 2021

Well
Majority of them are leeches. And
I don't think she is a good girlfriend to you
All she wants is to siphon money from and later abandon or leave you.
Guy...... Change yourself from all this rubbish
Let her block you.
The only advice I will give you is that
Leave anything call women for now and hustle hard to get substantial amounts of money, later in life I can boldy say you shall soon meet the woman of your dream.
I pen down.

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by leochinonso(m): 10:12am On Jul 09, 2021

Bro,
Do you even love yourself at all. You are in your early thirties, are you not even thinking of having a life savings. You are clearly in a toxic relationship and you need to let her go ASAP.
How can you bear such burden on a salary of 45k? Do you even know how much she's earning per month? I bet she earns more than you.

Wake up from your slumber and put your head in its right place. Focus on YOU and YOUR FUTURE, and don't get it twisted, your future is not with her.

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by emmnprince(m): 10:13am On Jul 09, 2021*

You don't need advice. Na correct 10-hour non-stop panelbeating you need from MC Oluomo boys so that your brain can return to factory settings and become normal as a sensible guy own!

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by FamTomx2(m): 10:13am On Jul 09, 2021

GAZZUZZ:
Hustle o! Go and hustle , when you get money, then you can be blocking who you don't like, you are not in a relationship at the moment, nah pay as you go, subscription don expire

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by LightUpWithKemi: 10:13am On Jul 09, 2021

Dear bro, my best advice for you is to 'japa' from that relationship.

In other news, check my siggy for interesting videos and subscribe to my YouTube channel. Merci!

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by Kingstanding: 10:15am On Jul 09, 2021

zoeA:
E sure say na advise you need or na slap?

. You're 100% right. Earning 45k in Lagos and still spending your money on Nigeria's girl's of nowadays? Even without having girlfriend and doing a job of 45k in Lagos I'm not sure whether he can say 5k in a month. And this guy might be someone who doesn't help his parents o. He should continue with the girl.

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Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by ayanfeeledumare(m): 10:16am On Jul 09, 2021

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

You be mumu. You no fit wise again. Am sure that you have not even taken care of your parents as much as you have taken care of this girl using u as maga.
You go soon wise.

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by Jeffy1206(m): 10:16am On Jul 09, 2021

Op to slap you de hungry me angry

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by Daddymiracle: 10:17am On Jul 09, 2021

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

The lady go sabi blocking job,

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by AgentGoat: 10:17am On Jul 09, 2021

At your age. You are earning such a low salary and what you should be thinking is getting a woman?
And na inconsiderate one you come see grin

You are not serious enough to actualise that your ambition.

It's like you are not paying rent and other bills from that salary. Stay away from women and work on yourself modafuvka!!

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Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by cardoctor(m): 10:18am On Jul 09, 2021

Give her money na

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by oladapoayo(m): 10:19am On Jul 09, 2021

That girl na parasite guy,stay away from her or it will end in premium tears grin

Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by Earthstorms(m): 10:19am On Jul 09, 2021

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

It is very obvious that you love this girl. Just keep sacrificing for her.

If you don't have money just borrow from friends and relatives to meet up with her demands. It is not everyday one meets a lady he truly loves. Just put in more effort to make the relationship work.

If you finish borrowing from all your friends and colleagues and they stop loaning you money, then try and be taking salary advance from your employer, if your employer can not meet up, then tell people in church that you need money to complete one special project that God has given to you, that they should loan you money to complete the project. Remember he who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favour from the lord.

God will guide and give you strength as you sink yourself into debt and poverty to win the heart of this your girlfriend. But first meet your dad or a senior elder in your family and discuss this my sound advice with him first before taking this advice.
Meet him physically for the discussion so that the resounding slap you will receive from him will reset your brain.

Wish you luck brother on your journey in the path that have destroyed both strong and weak men for ages.

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Re: Am I Not In A Toxic Relationship Like This? by NEZON(m): 10:19am On Jul 09, 2021

slimman007:
How I wish I can see you face to face so that I can slap you..Op you must be simp how can you allow this leech and entitled bitch who has nothing to offer expect her pucci to manipulate you to the extent you lose focus on your dream.I pity you if like go ahead and marry her.las las na frustration from her that lead you to your grave....Nonsense,some men I don't understand

The baby can't marry dis guy self, she is on a winning side,this kind mumu till dey exist

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