zoeA:
E sure say na advise you need or na slap?

Serious slap....brain reset slap

Guy, must you be told that she is using you... Ogbeni God is trying to remove enemy of progress from your life and you are also trying to bring her back.

This is terrible when will sense fall on you in 3030 SMH

I will advise you to go and check your head at the psychiatric hospital ASAP!

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

On your nerves e never enter your bones and blood?
Think straight and come out of duress
You have gotten yourself freedom

Bro... Let me see the breakup message

Omobinrin jhadtijhadti!

She dey use small charm on you

Op your mumuism is out of this world

Use that your 45k go better bar,drink,chop chicken. You go enjoy your money pass that woman

Guy pls Kill your "MODA" and use her parts as ritual to satisfy your Gf..
She is the air you breathe and so have to always make her happy...
Cheers as you take my advice ..

Na your own chidinma u better run for your life. GOD IS SAYING SOMETHING UNKNOWN TO U

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

please drop her, or double your hustle. The glass is either half empty or half full

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

Omo am surprised o, in this generation?

Move on

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

Hahahahaa, you are very stupid human being, so people like you still dey exist, Maga 101!

Na wa for you ,.....

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

Oga pleade quit the relationship…

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

When you are unfortunate as a guy..how do you know when you date a nonsense liability girl who gives you nothing but collects from you, this is your experience. She blackmails you and threatens you with breakup if you don't meet her liability needs...you end up spending your little money on her..and she will still break up with you in the end making you look like an idiot, untill you say no to nonsense rubbish you will continue experiencing this from liability girls that have nothing to offer.

I wonder ooo

merieam16:
Er u sure ure in ur 30s like dis.. cos to slap u dey hungry me

Leaving the girl is not the solution . Will he leave his mind and psychology as well?
He will repeat the same thing with the next girl.

I do not understand this psychology of giving money to so called "girlfriends"

If you are giving her money she is not your girlfriend , you have a customer/client relationship. There is nothing wrong with that but do not deceive yourself. Call it by the correct name.
As a man do you have male friends brothers sisters etc ? Yes? Do you give them money? Is that the basis of the relationship
For me there is nothing wrong in giving money to those close to you when necessary whether neighbour friend
family etc but it must NOT BE CONDITIONAL

In most of southern Nigeria as far as I am aware parents no longer discriminate. They send female children to school all the way to university. So women should get a job and pay their bills. Why should a man give you money.
Olosho too is a job and it is a job I have utmost respect for especially when they are open and honest.

Simple question for the men who have or want to have daughters do you orientate your daughters with this attitude that they cannot pay their own bills and look after themselves?


What usefulness does a man have to a woman who has her own money ? That is the question men need to ask themselves.
What else can you offer a woman besides money

We are not yet in the month of September, you'r already simping. A grown ass man like you on a salary meagre of 45k, yet not purposeful, u carry a low life self-entitled bitch gum body.
If you are high on testosterone, u better visit brothel house and cool off. Because I believe u didn't type this with 100% sanity.
Which kind useless love be that self. Must you be hit hard by life for you to understand Life.
I dey shame for men of this generation

It is God that will punish you for write a message this foolish at 30. May it never be well with u. Oloriburuku somebody.

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

You are foolish and a disgrace of a man.... That's all I can say

My brother the girl hates you with passion, she is a destiny destroyer, you don't need such a devil in your life... I know as a man you should give your woman money but blocking you for not giving her money is wickedness... She knows you love her so much and she is taking advantage of it... She has other men not just you alone, You are just one of bill payer ... Don't die of heart attack Abeg!!! Move on oh. Even if na pepper or onions seller find another hard working girl that can encourage you and help you build your future... This kind fit make you no save for years and still breaks your heart.. Be warned make you no enter headline news say man jumps from third mainland Bridge.

Guy not everyone is destined to av a babe or gt married dere a lot fish in d sea wait for d right one

You are just an ATM to her...she is free to leave you whenever you are unable to dispense cash....is left for you to use your brain

Receive sense in the name of whatsoever God or gods you're serving

zoeA:
E sure say na advise you need or na slap?

#Aswearugad

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

she has used a black veil to cover ur face,nd made you foolishly call it love. And until you take that deceptive veil off ur face, you'll continually keep being amumu.

Even if I date a leech, she would be damn scared of asking me for money unreasonably. With her interaction with me so far, she would know deep down that there are some behaviours she would exhibit, that will earn her an instant, irreversible blocking. Even Allah sef come apologise, I'll block am join.

At age 30, you should not be an idiot. Like a poster said, you need a slap, not an advice. She have seen you that you're daft, hence she treats you like trash and is convinced you'll come begging for her to accept you back, then increase the intensity of the trash treatment she will give you if you fail to give her money again in the future. If any of your male friend treats you as such, will you accept it ? But somehow since it's a woman, your sense got lost, to a point that you're resorting for sympathy online instead of to man up. You need a sledge hammer on your skull, not advice.

Men like you makes women go corrupt. When the average woman experience weak ass men like you, they assume other men should be like that and are genuinely baffled when men expect some certain level of decorum from them. You've set the expectations of what a woman should be below, that you're even suffering from it yourself. Surprisingly the girl you're killing yourself for might be a puppy to a real man out there that puts her in her place.

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