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Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by aribisala0(m): 11:51am On Jul 16, 2021 |
How old are the kids? Funny how people reason The kids belong to BOTH the Father and the mother . Not one. In Nigerian tradition that I know . They are even more of the mother's in this case if he never paid a bride price and in some places has no right to the children What indeed is the purpose of marriage if a man can do this? There would be no need to marry And young children should be with their mother. Also if you have kids with the woman they will be half-siblings with yours. half-sibling bonds are stronger when kids share a mother than when they share a father. We live in a male dominated society but that should not make us animals without sense or feelings. Children are not property. Can a woman be asked to give up two children just like that ; "because of money" ? Do you have any thought on the future relationship those children will have with their mother? The narrative when they grow up would be that she left them because of a man. Guy man up and support the woman. Even in Nigeria the man can still be taken to court whether , Native Sharia or mainstream to support his children. If indeed he is rich as you say . The court will make a ruling and if he has shame he will comply. Even if that does not work at least it would be on record when the kids get older. Certainly if you force your wife to give them up because of money . There will be bitterness stored up for the future. This is the school of life and what it takes to be called a man. If you do not see your wife's children as your own maybe you should never have married her/ If the kids go to live with their father will they not meet a woman there? If she has the same attitude will she see the children as her own? Marrying a woman with children is a no go area for many men. Once you get it you have to see them as yours which is what you would expect if roles were reversed 3 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by chris51(f): 11:51am On Jul 16, 2021 |
In the first place What are you doing getting married to a mother of two? The children's father is willing to take care of the children. Why do you want to suffer yourself to take care of someone else's children? At the end of the day the children will still identify with their biological father while you suffer for nothing. You and your wife should allow the man collect his children. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by chris51(f): 11:51am On Jul 16, 2021 |
chris51: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:52am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Vireani79: Child support doesn't have to go to the woman na. He can pay fees to their schools, pay for health care, buy heir clothes and let the woman and her husband handle accomodation and feeding. She doesn't need to get a dime na. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by revolt(m): 11:53am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Oga if you haven't had kids with her you better run for your life... before she born for you. When she born you no dey go anywhere again. The entrapment will be complete. I understand you thought you were bat (simp) man... like most of us have thought at one point but marrying a single mother is a very bad deal. The drama will never end...wait till the kids become teenagers...moreover what do u expect the man to do? Be funding you and your wife in the excise of child support. These women are weird. Let's turn the table around all these women talking trash can you fund your ex husband who's newly married with your kids? Everybody would rather care for the kids directly. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by ChopAndGo: 11:53am On Jul 16, 2021 |
[s] Romanoff:[/s]Just shut! Your ignorant of the situation. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Sugardick: 11:53am On Jul 16, 2021 |
dapadawee:she's the G.O.A.T of idiots 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:56am On Jul 16, 2021 |
ChopAndGo: Why not just ignore. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Styluss: 11:56am On Jul 16, 2021 |
IamAsiri:lol... Never to see them again?.. nope since he's wealthy and their care is guaranteed there is no reason haboring them. Everyone needs to move on. Btwn I presume the kids are old and will someday ask for their mother. It's a huge burden on the innocent man who knew nothing about when they were fucking eachother |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by pocohantas(f): 11:56am On Jul 16, 2021 |
I don’t know when women would learn that their motherly love is second to what is best for the kids in event of separation. I said it the other day and I will say it again. You are not the only one that loves your kids! Some men love their kids, way more than they love the mother. A man can be an irresponsible husband, but remain a very responsible father. If he is capable of taking care of his kids, let him have them! They can visit you during the holidays or some weekends. How do you feel holding on to kids that you can’t give a good life all because you are their mother and convinced yourself that you are what they need? Jeez!! 16 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by ChopAndGo: 11:58am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff:Cause your type is out to mislead people and lead them to self destruction! 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Vireani79: 11:58am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: Madam leave story This man and the woman want regular cash Monthly payments Leave all this stories u are painting They will say am I the one to feed his kids So that means send us money to feed them Let us handle their school Until u agree this gold digger and gold digging wife should hand the kids over..u will keep sounding fuñny Even in America If a wife is incapable of taking care of the kids The kids are given to the man Why do u guys love to drag kids with men 9 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Originalsly: 11:58am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Ha!... married your wife and her kids out of love? ... or the opportunity to enjoy the wealthy children father money? 4 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by chris51(f): 11:59am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Bola146: I am sure our op was benefitting from the so called wife when her ex husband was financing her. The source is cut, let him face reality and cater for the children or return them to their biological father 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by chris51(f): 11:59am On Jul 16, 2021 |
chris51: 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by 99thEnemy(m): 11:59am On Jul 16, 2021 |
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Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Juicewrld27: 12:02pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
99thEnemy:people just like wahala. Person wey get pikin talk say make you give am back im pikin. Nothing there to advise 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by chris51(f): 12:02pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Originalsly: Don't mind the man, planned to live on the woman and money from her ex husband. 4 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by chris51(f): 12:02pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
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Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by MadeMan01(m): 12:03pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Katier00:what of the mother who chose and had two kids got an irresponsible man? I blame the weak man simp who married a woman past her prime, sagging breast, stretched tummy etc. Not as if there are no single childless girls. Even though decent ones are scarce these days 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by ayodejisure: 12:03pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Andrew87:Give him his children, or you continue to care for them, after all you said you love your wife with her children. |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Nobody: 12:03pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Freelane33: Nnaa to find good wife hard oo. Especially in lagos. How do ppl keep relationships in this state with traffic etc 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by chris51(f): 12:03pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Bola146: Their father is responsible, that's why he wants his children 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by chris51(f): 12:03pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
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Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Juicewrld27: 12:04pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
pocohantas:i wish all women can reason from this angle. Why subject the children to suffering all on the alter of motherly love. If the biological father is capable,let him have them. They can get shared custody 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Parizz: 12:05pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff:In the first place, is it the man's responsibility to fend for another man's kids. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by hpk(m): 12:07pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
This man has chosen to be a SIMP, let him perish. 9 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Nobody: 12:08pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: who has taken who away? presumably husband and wife lived in the same house with the children. Wife left with the children (an assumption that she wasnt kicked out) if thats the case she took the children away. If he kicked her out it is safe to say he didnt kick his children out. So you women need to be careful the way you women use words. if you leave with the children of your own accord, then they are your responsibility. 4 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 12:08pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Parizz: He knew what he was getting into before he married a woman with two kids. |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Legalservices: 12:09pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: This argument is very flawed ....are you saying because of the natural desire for either party to exercise their parental rights over their kids.. they should have married regardless if they were not compatible? What if such marriage was a nesting ground for domestic violence? This is a very parochial and sentiments informed argument. Marriage isn’t a solution to exercise any parental rights and no one should be blackmailed to live with an intolerable co-parent because of kids. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 12:11pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
perambulator: That's why I am sayings they should opt for shared custody. They both need to come together and figure out a way to be in the lives of the children. If the woman want broke, his threats won't go anywhere and she'd still keep the kids. So her brokeness is what he is leveraging on. There is room for dialogue but I hope they can reach and arrangement cause I still sense resentment in the old couple. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 12:11pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Legalservices: What about the option of co parenting? 1 Like |
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