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Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:01am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Vireani79: Let the man pay fees and basic health care while she takes care of feeding and housing. Like I said, they should get lawyers and work on co parenting and child support. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:02am On Jul 16, 2021 |
johhnnie: Ahn ahn. Isn't that what the court is for? He can be the one paying the fees of the kids directly to their schools, he can shop for their clothes and pay for health insurance for them. She doesn't need to receive a penny from him. Technology has made these things easy. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Vireani79: 11:04am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: He will not pay... is it by force Have u heard his side of the story Or the part of this gold digger and his wife who want to milk a wealthy man They are both incapable of taking care of the kids Give them to the dad For me he should not drop a penny cos from this man's story it is clear it's his wealth they are banking on as a source of income 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by sam564: 11:04am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Nweike190:hahahahhahahah.... burst my head.... things wey dey worry me pass english bros.... u know the stress I undergo to quote the OP? hahahhaha... thanks anyways 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by afamaustin(m): 11:05am On Jul 16, 2021 |
My brother if u can continue,God will provide for u |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Nobody: 11:08am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Dododawa01:what is a good mother, a woman who holds on to her children and deprives them of their birthright (a better life afforded by a wealthy father) The OP hasnt said anything about domestic abuse, so we have to assume thats not the issue. Neither has he said the children will not have access to their mother even if they live with the DAD in the absence of that, to me the woman and the OP are HIGHLY irresponsible!!! which is better, a life of poverty and struggle or a life of priviledge and opportunities just that you dont live with your mother? i would rather luive with opportunity and visit my mother...my mother will always be my mother. 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by INTEGRITYA1(m): 11:09am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: Though we do have different ideas on same issues, base on our experiences and opinions But from the concern you raised in your write up, it show how selfish and self centered you are. How many woman or even you can agreed to suffer the same fate in your recommendations if were to be other way round (That the man have the children and the woman married as single)? If the op is your blood brother will you still give the same advice to him. If the woman so much concern about those points you raised; why did she moved out from that man house in the first place (Who is at fault or what lead to her moving out; we don't know and beyond the scope of the write up). You said the children will not be happy with their mother in years to come if they should return to their father. You should also put their father into consideration. If the man put them away and not ready to take care of them is another case. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:10am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Vireani79: I also said they can double their hustle and not complain or take him to court. It's not fair to call them gold diggers and the story we know is the story that we've been told here, so that's all we have to go with. He doesn't need to pay cash to them. Co-parenting can still be arranged. But to take the kids far from their mother is evil. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by AyeMoJuba: 11:11am On Jul 16, 2021 |
kokaneprodigy: Na him name dey worry am...Every Andrew I have met are always very dull...otherwise, why would a a man with brain marry a mother of 2...as single girls plenty for town reach? |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Agbebakun22: 11:13am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: Na western countries u think dem dey ni, God know if woman no allow me carry my kids, shishi I no go send even if they take me to courts I no go honor the court invitation, the man said he want the kids make kukuma share them 1-1 |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by EdoFirstBorn(m): 11:13am On Jul 16, 2021 |
[s] Romanoff:[/s] Shut up 5 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:13am On Jul 16, 2021 |
INTEGRITYA1: One thing about me, I always look at issues from bother sides. I won't let my brother abandon his kids, if he's worried about then taking advantage of his money, I'll help him arrange side support in ways the ex won't get a dime from him. Pay the fees yourself, choose the school your self, pay for the health insurance, bit their clothes. Let her and her husband handle feeding and accomodation. That's the least they can so. Let them share custody. Arrange to either live close to each other or he gets them on weekends and holidays. I don't give advice that I won't take or give to my loved ones. I am not that way. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by LagbajaTheBEREAN: 11:14am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Oops... You even had another shot at redemption and you're still contemplating when you know you're stuck with the hustle. Baami, you gotta reason matter with your wife clear her as e dey be make she see your reasons. Lass lass, those children go find their papa better free them now before matter change... Happy weekend |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:14am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Agbebakun22: He doesn't need to send money. He can pay for whatever by himself and even in Nigeria, courts can make a man pay child support. I won't suggest it if I haven't seen it happen every well. 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Vireani79: 11:15am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: Ohhh it's not fair to call them gold diggers Based on the story u have here But it's fair to call the father a deadbeat The way u ladies change narratives ehhh Smh 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Olajah81: 11:15am On Jul 16, 2021 |
U no need any advice because, on a normal good day u be fool, U don soak ur hand in wetin u no fit leak Oloriburuku Omo ale jatijati |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by ujezeez(m): 11:16am On Jul 16, 2021 |
lakefist:Lol.you are right.at least let her try her luck particularly if it is pro bono 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by caprini1: 11:16am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Juicewrld27:Dont mind the Ole jati jati. 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:16am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Vireani79: This is the reason I called him a deadbeat. 1. It's not that he's incapable of child support. 2. He's withdrawing child support so he can take the kids away. If man no get, we go gree say e no get. But like I also said, they them double their hustle and take care of the kids. Especially the wife. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by VlamesIffect(f): 11:17am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: Pele o drag queen |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Nobody: 11:18am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: If you cease posting on this issue, it will do you good. So he should provide for their upbringing in another man's house? What will give him the assurance the money sent was judiciously used? Please try to think twice before you write. This act will save you a lot.... 3 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Yuslaw2438: 11:18am On Jul 16, 2021 |
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Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Olajah81: 11:18am On Jul 16, 2021 |
I wish l could advise u... But right now l no get sense because l too high on alcohol yesterday 4 me to back to my sense it will take me up to two days Wen l get sense l go lead u tru |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by AyeMoJuba: 11:21am On Jul 16, 2021 |
perambulator: You are wrong bro....I'm 50+ and searching for a single vibrant lady to marry now. I will NEVER go for a single mother of 1 talk more of 2...only weak men does that. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by tunjilana: 11:21am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: They should attend watered down schools, live in watered down neighborhoods and probably miss out on opportunities to have a good headstart in life just so their mother is not resented. Going by your logic, they will not have the best they should have and still end up resenting their father. Soregardless, one parent will be resented. If truly she has their interest at heart and she is sure the man is just a bad husband but a good father, she should better make the sacrifice and let their father give them the best they deserve 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:22am On Jul 16, 2021 |
oldtruth: I've said in several other posts that he doesn't need to make direct payments to them. He can pay for the fees himself, lay for their health insurance, but their clothes and shared custody. She anf her husband can handle feeding and accomodation. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Dextre(m): 11:22am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Andrew87: Ebelebe, you don wear trouser. Anything wey ur eye see, e see be dat. I nor get strength for una for this country anymore, make everybody getat |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by justiz5(m): 11:23am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: I hope when your precious son finds himself in such a situation. You will advise him to do same (That is to foot the bills of another man's child that is well to do). The trash that come out of Women's mouth amazes me. May God bring this situation in the lives of one of your sons. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by INTEGRITYA1(m): 11:23am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: Very good, can you now see your narrations changes when I challenge your previous write up with quality points. In this case the father is ready to take care of the children and want them in his circle. That's shows he care to an extent but not happy those children were taken away from him. We should put him into considerations as well. If he didn't bother and not ready to care at all, it's another thing. |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Nobody: 11:23am On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: I say it again, the real deadbeat here is the man who marries a woman with children but cannot provide for them. No man worth his salt will willingly pay for another man to raise his children. There is no story of abuse and the OP has not said that the woman will not have acces to the children. We can only go by the facts in front of us it is therefore selfish and irresponsible of the woman herself to pluck her children from an environment of have into an environment of struggle and lack. |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:24am On Jul 16, 2021 |
tunjilana: No. I'm saying they can either have the best life with their father paying for basic things like fees, health care and clothes and still have shared custody. Instead of using the woman's finances to blackmail her into taking the kids away from her. Na we dey make things hard. He doesn't need to send a dime to the ex. Pay for things by yourself and have shared custody. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Romanoff(f): 11:24am On Jul 16, 2021 |
INTEGRITYA1: Child support doesn't need to be in cash na. Just pay for basic things. 2 Likes |
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