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Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Oracleforce: 1:31pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Before you enter a contract with someone, you could have viewed the terms and conditions of the contract....you that enter a contract agreement with a baby mama...you brain suppose to tell you to say, you go carry all the responsibility of her irresponsible husband...because of yansh, you don enter another wahala...probably, thee babymama is not working...nah double wahala for you be that oh... So, Nah your burden oh....enjoy her breast and her cunt while you keep on carrying the load of another man's property... |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Munzy14(m): 1:34pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Andrew87:How did your people allowed you marry such? In this 2021...I'm curious..... Well each Aboki with his kettle... To the matter, They are not your kids...You are just wasting time...When it is time, the man will come for his flesh and blood. Why not you advise your wife to let go and restart a new life with you...Her kids will still ask of her when they grow...Kids will never forget their father and mother no mata how bad they were painted by the other partners. If you complain, you just want to suffer yourself...Life is cool when you thread with caution. |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Lostchild(m): 1:35pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Andrew87 The ex hubby is very wise, he didnt want his ex wife to use his money for your benefit.. Shame on you 3 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Tzar(m): 1:38pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
My brother, Yorubas say you can take the wife of a coward but not his kids. You know what you got involved in from the onset, so why are you complaining. If you & your wife cannot afford to take care of your step kids, please let them go to who can afford to take care of them! You either double your hustles & take care of those kids or shut the Bleep up! So you want to eat your cake & have it abi?! |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by johhnnie(m): 1:46pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
torqque7: You may be right. However, sometimes, once kids are involved, there are sacrifices to be made. The case is no more about the couple at loggerheads. But more about the kids that are products of the union. My philosophy has always been that, whatever social strata your ex spouse belongs to will always affect the upbringing of your children. Even though, we don't live together, I still want the best for them. Whatever the story that is told to them, once they are of age, I believe they will be matured enough to put things in the right perspectives. The story is better told and understood by people with first hand experiences. Personally, I think the court wedding is over rated. I will sincerely advise young folks never to sign that document. You can do traditional wedding. And, if there is true love, I see no reason for court wedding ( I.M.O). See, I went through Hell. I will not like to make public the details. Anyone who needs counseling can send me an e.mail. It's high time men were there for men. Let there be a movement whereby men ( real/responsible men) will stand up for men and not against men ( I mean men who were/are truly abused and violated). I suspect my 3rd child is not mine. But for peace of the mind, I have decided out of my own free will to be responsible for all of them. I still have my life before me. We might have gone our separate ways. However, the kids were not asked to be borne. As such, as much as possible we must take up those responsibilities as real men as much as we can and as long as we have the means. I do not condone domestic violence and abuse against women but the stories must always be set straight. I have seen the following happen: 1. A woman took her wedding invitation to her ex boyfriend. They ended up having s3x. 2. A woman on her wedding night had s3x with her bestie colleague at work in thesame hotel she booked for the wedding. 3. A housewife paid for a hotel where she had romps with her lover. 4. A married woman while in a hotel for s3x romps with her lover picked her husband's call and spoke calmly as if nothing was amiss 5. Etc and etc, etc, etc 6. Don't get me wrong, there are good marriages out there. And, God bless those couples. 7. If it's not working, it is not working...... 6 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by johhnnie(m): 1:48pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Munzy14: This story is not complete. My guess is that this man married the woman hoping to feed off the woman's wealthy husband. I also want to believe that he contributed immensely to breaking that home. 4 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by mamato(f): 1:56pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
This sounds familiar to me, the man stopped paying child support and school fees because the woman denied him access to the kids, (two boy). The woman left Lagos to her village during the covid-19 period because she could not pay her house rent. Op, send those boys back to their father as we don dash you their mother. 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Hathor5(f): 2:01pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
CHoccolaTE: But why would a woman sacrifice her career? There is no reason to. Secure your future first, then have children. A woman's biological clock does not start ticking before 40. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Lostchild(m): 2:02pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Sugardick: You are a wise dude |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Hathor5(f): 2:03pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Andrew87: What would you do if they were your children? Would you wait for someone else to support you? You married your wife and by doing so you decided to become one so help her raise these boys. 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Areola14(m): 2:07pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Andrew87: In the first place, why did you marry a single mother with two children? Knowing fully well her husband is still alive .. I don't really know how to advice you because your story is not complete... What made the woman to live her husband? Was she caught cheating on her husband with you? Upon all the single lady's without children around, you decided to go for single mother.... She entice you with food, money and free pussy... ... now she had trapped you.! business is not as usual,.. you are now complaining.. what qualities did you see in her?.. na ifa won finish u so oo! ..The man is tired of sending money to your wife, maybe someone have hints the man that the children are not doing fine and the best thing is for him to collect the children.. no matter how you love the woman, you cannot love those children like yours... I support the man, it's just a matter of time, you will want them to leave... Let the man go with his children! I cannot imagine fighting for another man children when the father is not dead! Watch the woman also ooo! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Roseey0(f): 2:10pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
If you like double your hustle till tomorrow, let that man take up his responsibility. Your wife should only make sure she is in their life no matter where she takes them to 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by DarkCaesar(m): 2:16pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Hammyaladin:Your father is to be blamed and you should drag him, I can only blame the OP for going into the relationship……some people esteem has really been dealt with in this life. Imagine settling for someone remnant |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by chosenange(m): 2:24pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Hello, Just return them to their original dad, as a matter of African Culture and others,The man you left is still their dad, PLEASE RETURN THEM IMMEDIATELY. THANK YOU FROM MAGNUS |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by DarkCaesar(m): 2:29pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff:Are you under a spell? |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Unrated900(m): 2:30pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Am very sure you be single guy Wey go marry after 2 Very soon now Your wife go go back to the man Dey Bleep aside Then your topic will be back on nairaland Saying Mother of 2 went back to his first husband after finding the present husband not suitable You be real grade 1 MUGU |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by bobokeshington: 2:35pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Andrew87: Chief of SIMPs! You want to raise another man's sperm products? Ain't you ashame of yourself? Respect yourself by sending those children back to the man who sired them. |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by kelmicheal: 2:35pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Sho you marry another person wife and you wan still collect his two kids too 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by SomeRandomWeeb(m): 2:36pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Dafuq is wrong with you? |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Unrated900(m): 2:44pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
@op Wait ooo Hope no be one Girl wey I Dey Bleep recently you go marry so If your location na Ikorodu then you don enter one Chance ooooo 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by VEHINTOLAR: 2:49pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
You saw the stormy river before you dived into it ,so enjoy your swim ! Love kor,lust ni ! |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Incandescent(m): 2:50pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
BePrepared: I don see this situation twice. Young single men wey go marry divorced women with two kids. They say it is love .. what do you call it? |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by detectivejones: 2:51pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Suffering and smiling, In your heart you know what to do if you're not financially capable enough to take care of them return them to their father, even if your wife cries you a river every night. Your unborn children need their father alive. |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by friendl: 2:59pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
I no understand you ,na you get the kids?,allow him to take his kids |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by AfroKnight: 3:00pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
You cannot tell me nobody warned you against this marriage. You are letting your wife pressure you into carrying a load that is too heavy for you. When you have sense, you will know what to do. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by CHoccolaTE: 3:03pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Hathor5: In Nigeria after a certain age unmarried women are mocked and insulted for being old spinsters. Unfortunately. And the high rate of unemployment does not even help the chances of people getting jobs when they are still young. Some people are still job hunting 6/7 years after University 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Myself2(m): 3:03pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
@ OP You're on your own |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Slurity(m): 3:11pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Andrew87:to slap you dye hungry me. Are you blind that she has two kids before? Return the children or carried your cross. |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by angrykids(m): 3:12pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
The best the lady would do is to file custody and maintenance of 150k per month, from the runaway husband, if he only got her pregnant without taking her to the registry, but if she is formally married she should file for dissolution of marriages on the the ground that they have lived apart and the marriage has broken down inretrieviably and also ask for custody and maintenance, before u officially marry her otherwise u r committing adultery with someones wife. Reach me on barrister_esonwune@yahoo.com if u want to do the needful 1 Like |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by newdawn2017(f): 3:17pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Carchoice:how can the former husband take d children completely, is he d sole owner of d children?? Their mother which is a part owner must be put into consideration did she suffer 9 months each for nothing?? 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by Hathor5(f): 3:18pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
CHoccolaTE: I know but I would much rather be mocked than ruin my life. The people mocking these ladies won't feed their babies. 2 Likes |
Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by vickydevoka(m): 3:24pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff:Same thing happens to de man in de future. She will come visiting every month. She could visit them in school. If de should go to Court de woman might bcus she's remarried. |
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